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Slime7:
Hi guys,
I need your advice on this. It is causing issues in my 2 years relationship.
I came to Lagos in 2018 after my NYSC. Prior to that, I had plans for my older sister to come stay with me, considering how difficult things were.
Note that my married eldest brother was in Lagos before then. I understand that maybe he needs his privacy, but he didn't help in any way (he didn't have to).
 
When I got the apartment, I met my girlfriend while she was serving in Lagos. My older sister has yet to move in with me, but I have mentioned to her not once but twice that she will soon come and live with me.
 
I will also like to mention that my elder sister was living with her boyfriend before I came to Lagos. This doesn't seem right to me or to her.
 
She moved in, and we were living together peacefully. Along the way, she broke up with her boyfriend. About 6 months later, she got into another relationship. The man seems interested in marrying her. And they were making plans for settling down. Unfortunately, she got pregnant out of wedlock for the man. She had to move in with the man.
 
Now this is where the issues begin. After a few months (after her childbirth), they always have issues. They go on and off. Two times they had issues; she carried her bag and came to my place. Two times it happened, and she stayed with me for not more than two months put together. This didn't go well with my girlfriend. She complained that my sister is always in the picture, and she doesn't like that.
 
The third time, the man abused my sister, and he beat her up. I went to the man's house with my "married eldest brother." We fought with the man and threatened to arrest him. He pleaded, plus the neighbors and the landlord too. That night, we took my sister away from him. My sister chose to stay at my place until she gets an apartment for herself and her kid.

This really annoyed my girlfriend. She always says things like, "My family does not respect me." That's why my sister can move in to my house knowing that I am in a relationship.
"Why does she like to stay with me and not my brother?" "Why do I have to always be the one to bear the burden?" Note that my sister works, and she can take care of herself and her kid. She just needed a place to stay until she got her own apartment.

She feared that my sister could just move in with her bags when we get married, which I have assured her is not possible.
She claims she likes her space and all. She claims she doesn't like the "on and off" as sometimes she may want to spend a "lone" time with me. Spend weekends... and this won't be possible when my sister is around.
She claims that she has never seen a scenario where an older sister with a kid is leaving with younger brother.
She always give instances where she has never seen guys in relationships allow their older sister to come stay with them.
She claimed that sometimes I should "man up" and say NO to her. 
 
Is she overreacting? What did I do wrong in all of this? Am I being manipulated? Is her anger justified?
 
N.B My sister has gotten a place for herself and has moved out.

Would it be a problem if it were her sister ?

What did this guy see in this woman ?

They could be freelancers.

deraCoder:
Thanks…
Don't have to study all…you can learn the ones that are applicable to what you are doing as a dev

Agreed most might not be needed until you get to that stage.

OlawaleBammie:
Baba good evening sir

Pls I need an advice from u.

I just started learning software development sir, and my aim is this.. By the end of my study I want to move abroad (Canada) on a study route(degree in software engineering as well), pls is it possible for me to get an internship program over there while I study??

I can't say for sure, when I asked someone; their answer was yes, I guess it depends on the province

Devdevdev:
The videos is enough. Thank you so much

You have a nice voice.

Appreciate

@devdevdev how do I send the code, or is the video enough ?

truthCoder2:
Please what OS are you using?

I can see Mac OS-like buttons and a windows-lke tray

KUbuntu KDE Plasma but i downloaded a style called breeze, it has that mac-os feel

Fixed recording video to explain now

I don't understand the logic behind your code,

If you want to add to Cart, why not create an empty array, and only add when a payload matches, I will do it and share a video soon.

truthCoder:
cartItem.amount was undefined because it was not existing at initial state.

It was not existent because cartItems didn’t have an amount parameter in the objects.

You also called {amount} instead of {product.amount}. This was rightly pointed out by GIM above.

Defining amount in your objects would remove the need for ||0

Yeah that's right it's undefined

WIP

@devdevdev

I noticed I made some mistake in my comments, I used combinedReducer, you used createSlice, createSlice handle the type and action on it's on, so the name + reducer function is triggered, look the screenshot your code works.

The payload is logged to the console, so the next part is to experiment with the Cart component and see if it reflects there

Devdevdev:
@qtguru, i took your adviced and pushed the two projects to github. You will find them on my github profile

https://github.com/devdevdev69

Awesome, let me clone

Did you push it to Github ? this can be solved faster if shared.

sqlPAIN:
if you really want to expand your knowledge or study computer science as you said,then take jamb this year,enter school and go get a CS degree. Stop deceiving ya sef oga

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sqlPAIN:
All these just to get a high paying job abi?

No it's about studying Computer Science, if you are interested in expanding your knowledge

truthCoder:
Share the code repository

GitHub was invented for this reason.

Exactly taking too much time to fix a bug like this, we could have ironed it out with github.

Devdevdev:
Sent

This won't work, I don't have the package.json, you were supposed to send the whole project so I can install the modules and run on my end.

Devdevdev:
@GreatIgboMan, do you have an email address? I'll mail the code to you and qtguru now.

OKEOWOADEREMI AT GMAIL DOT COM

Devdevdev:
I tried implementing your instruction. Still didn't work.

Put a debugger and see if you reach the reducer, send the project to my mail, let me run it and fix. coding by looking at image is long thing.

Your code is wrong. Fix those issues I pointed out, A reducer should always return a new state always

2. your dispatch is meant to take an object , you also didn't change that too

Devdevdev:
I already did. Still same issue.

1. You didn't refactor the reducer to return a new state