Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 3:07pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 3:05pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
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Properties › Re: How Do I Eject This Tenant? by QuinModah(f): 3:05pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Lightorder: they are not my enemies, so they are just friends I don’t hang out with You don't know what you want |
Properties › Re: How Do I Eject This Tenant? by QuinModah(f): 9:54am On Mar 24, 2022 |
xjiggy: Wetin Nigerians like na fear. Just go to native line in any market. Buy flat clay pot, 7 white chalks, some palm oil and a red candle. Go to a coffin maker. Tell them to make a small 2feet long coffin.... white in color. Then go to those guys that sell dog. Tell them you want the head and the blood. Pour the blood on the coffin and let it dry. Place the dog head in the flat pot, pour the oil in and surround the head with the seven white chalks. Go to the entrance to her flat. Place the coffin there with the clay pot at the foot of the coffin and the red candle at the head of the coffin. Light it and leave it. I bet you if she comes and meet such at her door mouth, she'll leave your house within a month.
NB. I'm a Christian. This is just scare tactics and my imagination running wild. Lol? |
Properties › Re: How Do I Eject This Tenant? by QuinModah(f): 9:51am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Lightorder: are you serious? Paying you is a choice. If you doubt me come and see my friends who count in several millions , big importers . They will never settle their tiny debts but would buy Venzas right there in your presence. They would invite you to every birthday but won’t pay you shi shi. If you take them to court, they will spend far more than what they owe you Why you still friends with them? |
Family › Re: Domestic Violence Is An Accepted Nigerian Epidemic by QuinModah(op): 9:11am On Mar 24, 2022 |
descarado: If you remove the cloak of religion, you will never tolerate domestic violence hmmm |
Romance › Re: There Are Only CLASSMATES, No LIFEMATES by QuinModah(op): 9:08am On Mar 24, 2022 |
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Properties › Re: Updated Cost Of Renting A 2 Bedroom Apartment In Lagos by QuinModah(f): 9:07am On Mar 24, 2022 |
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Annual Rent = N100,000 Agreement and Agency Fees = N50,000
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For details call or whatsapp 07065790724 This damn expensive |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 9:05am On Mar 24, 2022 |
leody: How can i like this hundred times. Op look no further this is the answer to your question ... is that the reason you have refused to get married? |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 9:04am On Mar 24, 2022 |
 Theboy21: One sided piece of shiit, if you like buy her the whole damn world, her Loyalty is not still guaranteed, it's only for the good time (moments) who care if una want divorce go ahead na ..... Mek una no take this op serious till she opens a thread preaching to her gender people to stop paternity fraud in marriage  |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 9:02am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Mazinewmoney: Just took out 17k USD profit. I feel like doing small give away. But I need to give it to people that will appreciate it not jokers like Denreledave I am here boss |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 9:00am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Chikacha: :oThen what happens after that? This is strange, but it feels like you're getting something wrong. W hat am I getting wrong |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 6:15pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
 playapayaski: Yea once a while she should pay the school fees, go to work n sort the extended families both sides, yea pay the rent and feed the family too.. who said it has to be only the man, once a while she should take her husband shopping too and buy him a car.. what do you think op? If you want to be married in order to be taken care of, then go to an orphanage and probably someone adopts you to pamper and care for like a cat or dog.. You're human, not a pet. |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 6:14pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Chikacha: Do you get the Pin for both text and email and are you able to put them in within the 60 seconds window? Yes I do |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 3:47pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Chikacha: Sorry to hear about this. What all does it say when you try to login? Are you able to do the two authentications as quickly as needed all at the same time? Are you able to contact support? it's say inuave logged in to many times and I have been on this for too long |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 3:40pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
 stunnert: After the divorce, what's mine remains mine and what's yours remain your own. I ain't splitting shiii with any fvcking body |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 3:39pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
 realpoacher: So a man will work like a slave to provide money for the house but the woman cannot work like a slave to put the house in other?
I see the double standard... Abi you think it is easy to make money?
A man is not an ATM or a job. If a woman wants to marry because she wants to be taken care of, she doesn't need a husband, what she needs is a Job |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 3:38pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Keagen: what happened have forgotten your password? No |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by QuinModah(f): 11:40am On Mar 17, 2022 |
I cannot log into my binance account since over 2 weeks. Please anyone having similar issues and possible solution I have over half million |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 11:30am On Mar 17, 2022 |
stunnert: My own advice to men out there is that y'all should make sure you and her sign a prenup agreement before tying the knot Why? |
Romance › Re: Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 11:29am On Mar 17, 2022 |
 Suspect1: Anybody that read d note up there is a noise maker like the op . i move!. |
Romance › Men And Women Read Carefully!!! by QuinModah(op): 11:19am On Mar 15, 2022 |
MEN AND WOMEN READ CAREFULLY!!!
These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..
The Problems most times why marriage fails are always from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.
Every woman wants to be loved by her man, Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life.
So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always. You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are wicked?
As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes? Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to? Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed? Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner?
Once in a while, and there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.
If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a HOUSEMAID |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 11:18am On Mar 15, 2022 |
leody: Haven't for once think of marriage before why are girls so obsessed with getting married. If we are dayting nd I see your too obsessed on getting married omo I'll slow down o. That's desperation |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 11:17am On Mar 15, 2022 |
 Conner44: It was written in the bible that one day 10 women will be dragging and begging one man saying "we will feed and clothe ourselves, only just give us your name and make us whole", but the man go dey do shakara lol
it is like this generation is the precursor to that prophecy. Women be informed |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 3:55pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
 Favfables1: This is the longest and most interesting post I've read here in a while...
Thanks for sharing... ((Thumbs up)) |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 3:55pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
 Kobojunkiee: 1. None of what you claim has to do with God though, this since His formula as far as marriage is concerned is simple. His Law defines Marriage as an agreement between a man and a woman. Following that, there is absolutely nothing wrong with those gals setting the bar as high as they have it for their potential mate. Instead, you are in the wrong by telling them they need to settle for less and invoking the name of God at that. 
2. Unless you have an algorithm that can clearly predict this destiny of a man you speak of, i suggest you, and others such as yourself, stay the frell away from discussion issues you are clearly ill-equipped to. Look around you at 10 of millions of married Nigerians living in abject poverty, most of whom swallowed the many "Destiny Helper" sermons preached from pulpits across the destiny, and conside the fate that await the many children born in those homes, all of them waiting for magic to take place because that is the reason they got married.. 
It is not the job of these single women to alleviate what you call "husband scarcity" so stop seling them your half-baked attempts at resolving a problem you clearly don't understand yourself. 
3. Again, leave God out of this hogwash abeg!  |
Career › Re: I Am 30, Unmarried And Unhappy At My Job. I Want To have a career change by QuinModah(f): 1:52pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Who Could Be Responsible For My Pregnancy by QuinModah(f): 1:50pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
Mumben: The pregnancy most likely belongs to ur husband to be, but truth be told you no try at all Sha. it's not oooooo |
Family › Re: Who Could Be Responsible For My Pregnancy by QuinModah(f): 1:49pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
 Mendeline: My traditional wedding is in 2 months time but I just discovered I am pregnant. My last period was 19 of January and on 23rd, I had sex with my ex mistakenly and it happened without protection. I didn't allow him release his fluid inside me because I started feeling pains and when he pull out, there was plenty blood on his dick. So yesterday I went for scan and I was told I am 5weeks 5days gone. From the scan gestational sac was seen but fetal pole hasn't formed yet From 25th January my husband to be has been having sex with me almost everyday. Now I don't know who is responsible for my pregnancy. Doctors in the house, please who could be responsible? I don't want any issue in my marriage  |
Romance › Re: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 1:48pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
 Truvelisback: Husband no Scarce, na una make husband Scarce by being too Flashy and materialistic. |
Romance › HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" Has Become One Of The Challenges by QuinModah(op): 12:51pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!
"Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves.
Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small.
The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply startt lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity.
The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth.
For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances.
Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.
Relax and go to God. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be met. May God help us. Good afternoon |
Romance › Re: What's The First Thing You Check When You Visit Your Partner by QuinModah(op): 12:41pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
 Moeman: i check windows, fences and nearest escape routes incase i be d oga or assistant..to avoid stories that touch |