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blayde:
True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

I tell you, this factor defies both culture and religion.

dickhead01:
True talk

A bitter one

tosyne2much:
This is a brilliant write-up Oga Rapmoney... You have never disappointed me

Thank you, Tosin. We shouldn't shy away from facts.

donbenedict:
dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu

Oh! Ah dor dai!

donbenedict:
na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.

Lol! I guess she possesses big things and pretty face

donbenedict:
Damn straight!

I sight you!

I've been a blunt person so if you don't like coming to terms with bluntness and gospel truths, you might consider disengaging yourself from this post.

Our romantic culture in this part of the world is one that's largely based on materialism and expected standards laid down by young women in our cities. There's nothing a typical Nigerian girl is more conscious of nowadays than her beauty, looks or 'natural endownments'. In fact, with these, she feels she holds both the yam and the knife! With this assumed position, she tries to set the standards. There's nothing like mercy or pity here; women hardly exhibit 'pity' when they make choices. Anyway, would you prefer to be pitied on? I still don't understand why some young men do not realize that men are expected to set standards too as it stands now! If you struggle to be successful tomorrow, don't just pick any girl; go for the best; go for a successful woman too because even the one that lives in the ghetto might look down on you if you are nothing.

To be sincere, trying to keep beautiful ladies over here in a relationship is a pain on its own because most of our young women are no longer conscious of anything they could showcase to give themselves value in love other than 'natural endownments' and face. As a guy, focus on your priorities first; don't pretend to be superman, trying to please any girl you consider a must-get when your legs are still financially shaky on the ground because she's beautiful. You might soon lose her to that successful man who meets her standards while trying to be Mr Pleasy-Pleasy!

If you are still an undergraduate on campus, don't judge this post because of the pretty young ladies that you are having strings of affairs with; that's campus for you! There's little or no choice, it's a students' community. Wait till you get out of that fantasy land and see if these girls would still be there when you are expected to take responsibilities now

Struggling to date a pretty woman without the necessary resources to provide her comfort and financial security simply leads to frustration! If you are not up to the task, why subject yourself to emotional torture in order to please anyone?

My guy, your 6-packs, big chest, fine face, humour, etc, put together, cannot meet this standard if finance is not involved.

Stay alive...don't give yourself unnecessary heart-attack

Happy Sunday!

DropShot:
Only pragmatic and analytical minds will agree with you pastor.

Let's do a simple and quick analogy:

1. I earned N100k monthly for five years. After spending on family needs and other things, I should have N20k left for savings.

2. The N20k I should keep on monthly basis in those five years, I didn't keep it but was using it on frivolities.

3. Suddenly my salary got reduced to N40k for some reason.

Will I still be able to provide for all the needs of my family as I used to when salary was N100k? Common sense should tell me and those around me that I will struggle BIG TIME while looking for alternative ways out.

Even if a wife expects her husband to still meet such needs after knowing the facts above, people around her will condemn and criticize her for not showing understanding as well as lacking perseverance.

Nigerians need to give the government reasonable time and put things in perspective of the times we are.

Only quote me if you have evidence-backed argument to offer. Not the usual inanities.

This is one of the MOST SENSELESS analysis I have ever seen on this forum! Next pls! We have heard this countless times!!!

How was the socio-economic condition of the United States before Obama became president? If you don't know, it was a disappointment! Did he rely on the usual blame game with George Bush's administration? NO!!! When you call a technician to fix ur gadget, you don't expect him to start quarreling with the technician that worked on it before because u have paid him to fix it! It's very simple. This government, like the previous ones, is nothing but scam!!!

marvelck:
A lot of girls have found themselves in such situation, but don't usually admit it cos of pride. After leaving her guy cos of another guy, many of them end up regreting it when things start going south (wrong) in her new relationship. Some might try to go back to her ex, while others out of shame or pride would simply decide to move on to other persons rather than go back to an ex she cruelly left...most of the girls you see out there laughing, aint smiling in their hearts. And when you ask them if all is well, they will always tell you they are fine. But deep within them, they know they are not happy. Cos they've made mistakes they keep regreting everyday.

Must all ur topics start with "When"? It's getting boring; u need to make changes, man!

Who gives a hoot?!!!

I don't just know why this old fool will not keep his mouth shut! Obasanjo's administration was a bunch of disappointment!!!

Stories upon stories!!!

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FearGodAndLive:
Nowhere. They are not yet intelligent enough to make up fables.

Seriously, this is kinda funny! Are you just playing with words or you are serious?

HCpaul:
Imagine ....
Animals will just vanish like that while human being will go to hell. It just shows how Christians are ignorant for not acknowledging that we and other animals belongs to the same family. We are lucky and fortunate to be the most intelligent of all.

I am as well going nowhere when I leave this world cuz I am an intelligent animal with some degree of subconsciousness and consciousness that seems to be immortal but settles in mortality. An attempt to separate us from other animal is pride and personalizing a wishful paradise is greediness and selfishness.

But because I hate these two things (greediness and selfishness), I disassemble my interest in a wishful heaven where the fools of earth will eternally dwell.

We all imagine but some folks are very greedy and selfish in their imaginations (loving an already built house that is made without hand instead of just planning to build one by themselves) .

Nice post you have put together.

Eddlad:
Am trying to help u answer your question,how do u know animals have souls.

Your conviction that animals have no souls lies in the usual religious dogmas we have all around us.

Tell me the characteristics of living things that man has which animals do not!

wirinet:
You guys talk so much gibberish, you sound schizophrenic.


So what exactly are you saying? Are there different types of souls or not?

These same " Animals have no soul" notion was the same argument that enabled Christians justify slavery and genocide against "African Savages" They were just branded animals and voila, they became soulless.

Please educate me what you mean by eternal soul and spirit. If the soul is eternal, then it was never created. Are you saying that you God is a MAN (probably a Jewish man with diick and all). What of women and hermaphrodites (yes some people are born with both sexes), in whose image were they created?

Please explain what you mean by "created after God's spirit", and why you think that animals were not created after this God's spirit.
Look at the picture of the chimpanzee below and tell me why you say it does not have a soul and spirit, while you do.

That guy's arguement is so baseless! It's an arguement that rests on dogmatic beliefs.

Eddlad:
From where you knew animals have a soul ask where they go after death,pretty simple.

So you believe animals do not have souls?

This is one question I have been pondering on. In Nigeria, it's very easy to label someone as an atheist, making it very clear that many Nigerians don't even know the meaning of the word 'atheist' or 'atheism'. It's a common thing in this part of the world to see people as atheists when they try to question some religious dogmas that we have been made to believe for so long. Before you read further, it should be noted clearly that I'm not an atheist.

Different religious ideas abound in the world that give diverse descriptions of how humans started and how humans will end their journey. This has given me that personal conviction that the 'Supreme Force', who many see as a man with white beards, sitting above the clouds, does NOT even recognize any religion! The 'soul' is one vital aspect of the various religious ideas which is believed by many to leave the body at death. While some think the soul will face judgement thereafter, others think this same soul will continue to hover around.

If man knows where he's going to when he dies, how come he still doesn't know where the souls of animals go to when they stop breathing? To argue that animals do not have souls is just too crappy to accept. To ever nurse the feeling that the souls of animals die with them when they stop breathing is just too hypocritical to consider, when it's very clear that humans are animals too. Respiration, Reproduction, Feeding, Movement, etc are all common traits among humans and 'animals'. If we want to say the Supreme Being created man specially with the powers to think and create, and for that reason, should be entitled to a soul alone, animals think and create too! Look at the birds; can you weave the nests they make? Not even with your hands that can hold things like the prehensile tails of monkeys!

It seems man doesn't really know what becomes of him after death because if man knew, he would have used his knowledge to discover what happens to the 'souls' of animals that we all can see exhibiting life and emotions as we do in their various ways.

Readers' opinions are welcomed.

Motherfucker2:
God or prayers doesn't change a country, people change things.
With the amount of churches and prayers in Nigeria, Nigeria would have been greater and more advanced than USA.

Just sit in your house and continue waiting on your imaginary God to come down from heaven and change Nigeria

Your opinion would have been an excellent one if you didn't refer to The Almighty as 'imaginary'. I'm not an atheist...though, I don't buy the usual 'Pray for Nigeria' syndrome many Nigerians exhibit! Why do we have brains if we can't use them to solve human problems we created?

Until the citizens become wise, free themselves and do away with the whiteman's ill-fitting robes, Nigerians and Africans will continue to wallow in religious ignorance!

Tolexander:
actually, taunt like this triggered the pre-civil war pogrom in the North.

Keep ur mouth shut there!!! Ur reasoning is very daft here! Who told u it was something like 'this' that caused the pre-civil war violence? The problem with people like u is that u hardly read and u talk before thinking.

mrvitalis:
First of all what is innovation??
This technology is already in place,
the duration is only a function of the given battery

What has this added to engineering??

Lol those he even know what angle to tilt the fan?? Or u thing those angles are just chosen??

No wonder Nigerians value practicals over theory

Check the meaning of innovation and tell me if this is innovative

Mind u am a mechanical Engineer And this is my feild

In ur entire life, what have u been able to create?

Obasanjo, shut ur stinking mouth!

iflywithbuhari:
That silly Dokpesi judge in PH will soon go to jail. That's when people will start taking Sheriff seriously. That convention will never hold, by fire or by force.

Rubbish!!!

Wetin dis one dey talk?

DanielGb:
Rapmoney the intelligent guy.
Always on point.

Some guys won't understand this
some ladies won't accept it. they know why anyway.

Money is a means to an end.
A lady who is attracted to you seek your time. He wants the hunger or desire in you to always want to be so close to her or hear from her.

WARNING: Be careful of been friendzone. Make your intentions known to her.

Caring is just the part you show her how much you love her.

but Waite,
She is still a girl friend. Be clear about that. only if you have make the decision to marry her.

Why spend heavily on her.
Save yourself the worry, soap opera drama and music video bullshit. She ain't gona stay if you don't do two things

1. Have Something doing.
A business or Job or something you are Passionate about or make do with it. It doesnt have to be profitable.

She want to be part of the Adventure.
Ask Her.

2. Desire to be there for her. Pay attention to everything about her.

Did I mention money. No!
You only need to spend on her when you feel she merit it.

Spend on her only when she deserve it.
To the guys
MAKE HER DESERVE IT BEFORE YOU SPEND.

An Example:
A Lady friend of mine ask me why I didn't call her. I simply answered: " On watsapp, you don't reply my IM. So why should I call you?"

She gave excuses but, she change. when I notice she change. I call her.

Its simple.
The ladies see every potential man and a man a superior being. Admit it or not. Enough of Equality bullshit.

Be Her Leader.
Be the superior being.
not as a dictator but as someone who gives to her when she deserve it.

Bing**
Zing**

Thanks...and I will always remember this post of yours!

Luckymay:
How do I treat PCOS? and what are the risks to my health as a woman? Oya Dr leggo....

You dor run come here too, abi?

murphyibiam15:
word!...rapmoney asswear i have been learning alot from ur posts...keep updating us always plsss

Thanks bro

15. When you sneak out of class to smoke 'wee-wee' with dem bad guys for the very first time, only to find out Maths paper in WAEC ended 1 hour ago!

14. Your reaction when the guy that has been disturbing your crush is suspended for a whole term! You: "Oya, come disturb again make I see u!

Chai! No encouragement?