₦airaland Forum

Reminderz:
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I will speak to you from an Islamic point of view... generally speaking, there are many genuine reasons why Islam frowns on such marriages... unless she converted to your religion, then Islam frowns at marrying an unbeliever in the Deen... and it's quite a good reason as well...

supposedly you died before her, all your kids will revert back to her religion, and in the sight of your Lord, this is a grave misconduct , all this i love you, she loves you won't save you... when you're choosing a partner, you're not only choosing for yourself, but for your kids and their future...

even if God spare your life, your kids might end up confused and might later revert back to her own religion, and this might break your heart..children mostly generally incline themselves to what their women follows, this is why you should be very careful who you choose to be your wife.. you might not be the one who takes the Deen seriously, but if you fear for your own future and theirs, you would fear for the outcome... that's if you're truly God fearing or you fear His wrath.. but if you're one of those claiming woke muslims, then I have nothing to say to you... and since your wife is not inclined towards your religion, do you know the outcome and consequences when it comes to willing or sharing property when you're no longer on this earth?

you're one of the men who thinks emotionally, you're not the first person to fall in love and won't be the last.... some of the ones greater than your love ended in divorce, so have you thought of this possibility and the effects it will have on your kids?? or na still I love you, she love me too?? now you seems blinded by love, all this will seem like nonsense to you, but e go soon clear for your eyes...

from your story, it seems you guys still have issues on which religion your kids should themselves adapt to, this is just the beginning of the problem, that love go soon clear for your eyes when you're asked to account for that decision you took years back... maybe not in this life, but in the next...

even if you're a idol worshipper, find another idol worshipper to marry or someone who's ready to convert to what you believe in... when it comes to marriage, leave emotions out of it and think logically before you dive in... love is not what sustain marriages... the risks is much greater than the illusions of enjoyment in it... find someone who aligns with your interests and beliefs for your own peace of mind and for the future of your kids...

apart from religion, marry someone who aligns with your interests and dreams... even if it's the person occupation... if you know your wife is an actress, then you should know all the things involved in being an actress, don't come out crying when she starts kissing random people on screen and eventually cheat on you and make you father another man's kids... religion is not the only thing that should be taken seriously, there are many other things as well, marriage is not a joke... it's better to be single than dive into marriage while leaving your brain behind... love won't save you when problem arrives... love is just the emotion to attract people to each other, not the emotion needed for a successful relationship, and the thing is that most people can't differentiate between love and lust, and that will be the cause of their downfall...

Nice.

idady2njsd:
i am muslim and my wife is a christian, we re leaving in peace and hormony she goes to her while i go to my mosques the only issued we always have is about the children, but we never fought over the issued, we always talks about the matter, very soon we will come to conclusion. i love my wife she love me as well

I wish a Muslim woman will ever be allowed to practice islam when they are married to a Christian man, religious tolerance possible??

What do we do with photos na

IconicR:
Betta Edu- Humanitarian

Hahahahaha, Nigerians are funny, people that will soon start cases with EFCC due to corruption.

AbuAeesha:
The road to Kano is not here on nairaland.
Kindly Go their and channel your grievances.

Forget about them jare, they hammer on northern affairs and their governors dey cheat their a$$$

Rubbish, for governors to embezzle

ahnie:
You see some of these men outside and think they re human beings gentle n good looking outside,but dangerous and monstrous at home.

So as she talk now the father na wicked man automatically, nawa for women oh, how una brain dey function sef?, No Wonder still dey deceive una till thy kingdom come.

DELTA , the only state with constant bad news.

qtguru:
You will not be a second wife, you will have your own husband. It's not as rosy as you think.

What do you mean by your own husband?

siofra:
Maybe I'm young and foolish, but I really don't mind being a second wife (or third wife or whatever) but I'll not be a first wife to a man with other wives.

And there are terms and conditions.

He must be super rich (like Ned Nwoko rich)

I will not have children for him (my mind may change)



I'll have my own apartment and I'll not take his name.

If he's Muslim, I'll not convert to his religion.


☺️

But if your brother marry Muslim lady you people will Force her to convert to Christianity right, nawa o

Harrynight:
Another Robber Stamp Senate loading...

Senate would only reject this motion just because they don't want to go against FG decision to have MNK continue in detention.

Asslickers everywhere


Maybe judiciary should be scraped in this Shithole country cos some people are above the law.

How on earth FG repeatedly disobey court order ?

Nigeria is really a zoo

That means you are a lower animal living in the zoo

LyfeJennings:
Actually It used to be industrious
Quite a lot of things were produced in Aba but as it is now
THAT REGION IS DEAD
The hate agenda the Igbos made and embedded in the minds of their young ones isnt helping
That REGION COULD HAVE BEEN THE "ASIA" OF NIGERIA
it could have been the China, Japan, Taiwan, Singapore of Africa
but unfortunately, THEY HAVE KILLED EVERY THING THEY COULD HAVE GROWN
Nnamdi Kanu and the other igbo leaders could have made that region more attractive for investments and monopolize the economy
No reasonable human can invest in that place as it seem
Not even their own billionaires...
Anyways, na them sabi

The problem with them is that they don't welcome investment in their land, they are very hostile to strangers.
Our business men and others around the world are afraid of investing in that region , they would rather take it to where their businesses will be safe.

jackmrandy:
This country is in deep shit. how can someone in prison be controlling those who are in the outside world. and to even make it worse, Ekpa who is not even in Nigeria controlling a state.

Not nigerians, they are the most gullible tribe in Nigeria

Ladiesdoctor:
Rubbish.
Eastern Region is one of the most industrious in Africa.
But Sit at home has dealt with the region massively.
For goodness sake what kind of hypnosism is that? Someone will be enjoying every bit of freedom in Finland and will be enforcing such barbaric instructions to his followers in the name of seeking for Independence?
Killing, maiming and destruction is the order of the day when ever sit at home is been declared.
After you finished killing them, who are you going to rule again?

Industrious in what sense please , i stand to be corrected

Obynopositive:
cant dis man be brought to book with all this hate speeches......

How is it hate speech, i thought he is speaking in favour of the igbos, no be igbo say they wan go?

Absuchat:
The fat pig

Why insulting him, i thought he is speaking in favour of the igbos

orion7:
Reno don turn full time ass eater. But the waay everyone ignored him is really loud. Let him keep doing twitter. Such an idiot

Yeah, but what he said was the truth

ChatterHouse:
I'm so happy Reno is so useless


Reno omokri de blogger


I'm so elated that Obidient has ignored the mugu


Agbadorian here comes your Saviour Reno omokri de jobber


He can licked any type of balls as long as its serve him

Agreed, but he said the truth

See this bastard slave that doesn't know his root, is he a white man??

And it is usually committed on Sunday

Suspect33:
lol, I used to think that people who said things like this were just hating, but now being in the system myself, it's all now beginning to make sense, Nigeria's education system does very little in the way of impacting knowledge. Just cram, pour and forget.

Evidences are there all over Nigeria, paper, paper and paper with absolutely nothing to show .
Cram and pour with absolutely no intelligence.

BadMaster:
You are just a foolish idiot. People like you don't deserve access to the internet. What a waste of a being

Rather than insulting me , why don't you present a better argument to counter mine , that way you show you are educated but with these insults, i don't think so.

DeLaRue:
Getting 5.0 GPA in any art course over a 4 or 5 year course is extraordinary.

Art subjects are usually easier to study than science subjects.

However, because art subjects are not exact and there are often no single universally accepted answers in written exams, a 5.0 GPA in a pure art course is more difficult to achieve than in most science courses.

This is Nigeria, our lecturers here dwell on copy and paste oga, they all have hand outs or a particular text book which they'll direct you to buy and read so , intelligence is different from being brilliant

Copy and paste education system,
The 3rd class student in that class can even be more intelligent than her but because he or she didn't give it to the lecturer as it is in his lessons, then he or she got low grade

RemoveKebab:
NIMASA, NPA, The CNS, all Southern ports should return to southerners

Useless comment

taylor89:
When I hear people say one Nigeria I go just laugh

Imagine say Nnamdi Kanu from other tribe

They for don release am

What’s his offense sef?

Let us have our country we’re tired of this shit.hole

One day ehnn that freedom will come to pass

As them take release kabiru sokoto and abba kyari abi

Rubbish, so we ain't fit to compete with them?

Corridon:
Even though uncle Charly is exaggerating things, but millions of Nigerians, irrespective of tribe and religion, undoubtedly believed that Peter Obi is the savior Nigeria needs to reach the promised land, but sadly, Tinubu truncated our democracy by stealing the mandate Nigerians freely gave to Obi. But we Nigerians strongly believe it would be retrieved at the appropriate time.

Hahahaha many igbos not nigerians

Loveabove:
My mind always tells me this Shettima has evil mind to kill Tinubu and allow his boko haram boys to take over the country.

Not shettima , you are the one nursing that evil plan

Corridon:
Religion of peace indeed.

Go US and UK where they practice Christianity and go loud your music to disturb public peace and see what happens to us uncivilized and unenlightened ass

solmusdesigns:
Falana for AGF would be a good idea

Make we hear word, other tribes una go criticize reach ground but if e reach una tribe, he will be the right man for the job. Naija and tribalism

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar



This celebration and inauguration is ephemeral

An ephemeral celebration
Transient, fleeting, short-lived, momentary, transitory and a fly - by - night holla baloo of a noisy razzmatazz

Grab my weed while I walk out of this thread

Wetin igbo smoker wan tell us