₦airaland Forum

Emilokoiyawon:
If Fela, Bob Marley, Lucky Dubey, 2baba and 9ice no win Grammy then you know say grammy na fake award.

I believe winning grammy is about the highest bidder and status, it's about connection. It's the highest stage of music promotion business. It has not much to do with talent or merit..by the was, Davido is more popular and loved by the African continent than wizkid or burna..this is so because music is more about entertaining pple with sounds, its little about lyrics

For some teenage males and even working class bachelors, the reality of sex draught stares one in the face at one stage in life or another. And for most Male in this situation, any means capable of bringing quick solution to their momentary sexual needs will be explored.

As we all know, for any one under the grip of kongi and who has no spouse has only one option ie paid sex or maybe the quite unpopular option of abstinence. But we all know most males of this generation will prefer the former option.

Paid sex may be the go-to option for a quick, spontaneous, zero stress sexual experience but it comes with more price to pay than just the money you part with.

As I always say to my friends, I'm proud to tell you too that I'm one of the endangered species of men who have never paid for sex before. Not like we see it as an plaqued award of some sort (maybe a little sha), but because of the indignity inherent in the whole process.

Below I will tell you why I believe hooking up with a hooker is not ideal for a man

1. Hygiene: there is no gain saying sex with a hooker is bad hygiene in itself. Because she must have had sex with several people who may not necessarily be hygienic themselves but because she needs money and they have money, she let's them smash. Whether we agree or not, condoms aren't 100% safe.

2. The excitement: If someone agrees to have sex with you for a fee, for me that already sort of takes the fun out of the whole thing. Not like you hunted this chick down with your charm and skills or that she's feeling you. For me that satisfaction will just be missing if I pay to get a girl to bed.

3. Spirituality: I've heard from some Christians folks that when you have a sexual intercourse with someone, you've had a covenant with them in the spirit world and that you share all their spiritual problems (or blessings if a person with good spirits). Considering sex is powerful, sex is what leads to the life of another being, you don't want to be defiant to this school of thought

4. Self esteem: For any man with high self esteem, common street sex is not an option. Some people will want to say that their are very high class prostitutes who will not have sex indiscriminately even if you have mo eyes to pay them. The truth still remains that they have sex with strangers, people whose past they know nothing of, they could even have sex with ritualist who will deposit juju and bad luck inside them. The risks are I inexhaustible. But the punch line is a man who hasn't lost his self esteem will rather sweep a high quality chick off her feet and then smash than go looking to have sex with vulnerable women looking for money.

My write up is not to judge those who patronize hookers in any way, its is just to set the records straight in case some of us are not aware of the disadvantages of the practice

I'll start with the know-how.. We have capable youths for the Nigerian project .. What we seem to lack is the resources to effectively run campaigns and confront the old generation politicians in elections.

Think about it, who will sponsor your nation wide campaigns when they know you will not steal and refund their campaign expenditures when you resume office. When they know you'll probably block all the corrupt policies that enrich them as business men

And lastly, we know elections in Nigeria are all about manipulating state institutions like the police, inec to perpetrate oneself in power.

The youth definitely cannot compete in that league and therefore only one thing can work

Revolution!!

calcal:
The youths are not serious to do anything in this country or they don't have the know-how?

All these you've stated about the youth of Nigeria may be true but if we fold our arms, it will only get worse and worse. Mean while, the fact that some indulge in these vices does not mean that we can no longer reason productively..like burna boy's song, these youths are only monsters made of the many years of hardship and suffering. Our girls use their body to earn a living due to lack of basic privileges. We cannot blame anyone for trying to survive because many of us may do the same 'yahoo' if we had to start where they stated from. I totally understand your feeling that the minds of the youth may be irredeemably corrupt but the solution still lies with us. Just a few good youths can lead the others into the light.

venger:
Which of the Nigeria youth, is it the one's that spend all their youthful age scamming the white men and women and there justification is that they are recovering the wealth, their ancestor lost to the white. Is the the one's that harvest human organs for sale and ritual purpose. Is it the one's that do kidnapping, banditry and terrorism. Is it the one's that do tribalism and ethnicity and give each other degoratry name like afonja, aboki, Igbo e.t.c. is it the one's that support protest and go behind to sabotage it and blame those who participate in it. Is it the one's that are intolerant to each other religion and affiliation. Is it the one's that support government no matter how bad the government it. Nigeria youths are not ready for leadership position, that is why the old men still rules us today

It's no debate that Nigerian ladies are very peculiar, both for good and not so good reasons. Relatively, they have their virtues. At least unlike the so called 'civilised' females of the western world, Nigerian women are not predominantly engrossed in feminism and are therefore humble and respectful.

The flip side here is that they suffer a symptom called entitlement mentality. They are very money oriented. In all fairness, they are only a product of the society they've been born into.

Without further ado allow me to share some tips on how to successfully take a Nigerian girl on a
1st date.

1. Take her during the day: it is very important that the first date occurs in the light of the day. This will enable you two assess each other's physical attributes to a reasonable extent. You don't want to see her for the first time in the night when you can barely even see her real face considering she might be wearing a heavy make up.

2. Know the location like the back of your hand: Especially for our brothers on a budget. Resists the urge to pick a random meeting point. Whether it's a bar or a restaurant, be sure to know the meeting spot and the price of most things in the place before taking a nigerian girl there on a date. We know how some girls can want to order very expensive things on another person's tab. It's a shameless thing and you shouldn't see such girl any other time by the way.

3. Meeting at a groovy location : A lot of bros are guilty here. Don't ever take a girl to a location with loud music or crowded. You may not get the opportunity for a meaningful conversation cuz you can barely hear each other's voice.

4. She may give it up on the 1st date: Many people believe a girl is loose if she lays with you on the 1st date. This is not true. We already know women can act, they are the master of deceit. Not having sex until 3months doesn't mean she's not a LovePeddler. So it makes no difference if y'all Bleep on the 1st date. It's a matter of y'all truly having an instant chemistry. Provided she is not asking for money though. By the was, Konji is a bastard and a respecter of no one. She may have been sex starved for a while.

So on your date this coming weekend, you should bear these factors in mind

David adeleke aka davido who had led the Endsars protest in abuja on Sunday has been tagged a sell out after video surfaced online that capture his saying he didn't protest.

However davido has come out to clear the air and explained that his alleged denial was a
pure fabrication and a product of bad journalism.

Below is a snapshot of his official instagram account where he took the liberty to shed more light

The Edo State Governor and governor-elect, Godwin Obaseki, on Monday, hailed the Edo people for ensuring his victory at the state governorship election.

He noted that his reelection had put anl end to godfatherism and ensured that ‘the lions and tigers’ were permanently caged in the zoo.

Obaseki said this while speaking to party supporters at the Museum Ground, Kings square in Benin City after a victory road show across various streets in the metropolis.

Obaseki said, “The message of Saturday’s governorship election for this government is to go and work for Edo people. It is clear and Edo people have spoken that we should work for them and transform the state.

“You have helped me cage the lions and tigers in the state. You will never see them again in Edo State because they are all in the zoo now where they belong. Today, I promise you that we will work for Edo people because no one will hinder us from delivering the dividends of democracy to Edo people.


“I will collaborate with my brother and deputy governor, Philip Shaibu to work for Edo people. I thank everyone residing in Edo State; you have spoken and we have heard you and are ready to work for you.”


The National Vice Chairman, South-South of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Chief Dan Orbih noted, “Saturday’s governorship election shows that Edo people have rejected godfatherism, money-bag politics and given a mandate for the development of the state.”

15 cows were on Saturday evening, struck to death by lightning at Ikogosi in Ekiti West Local Government Area of Ekiti State.



It was gathered that the cattle were killed at the Ikogosi Warm Spring site, a popular tourism and recreational centre where warm and cold streams meet along Ipole-Ekiti.



The Asaoye of Ikogosi-Ekiti, Chief Ayo Ademilua, who confirmed the incident on Sunday, said the lightning occurred during a torrential downpour between 4pm and 6:02pm.

"The whole town shook when the thunder struck. Later, some commuters coming into town and those returning home from their farms saw Fulani herders lamenting that it was the lightning that killed their cattle,” he said.



Lightning strike 15 cows to death in Ekiti (video)



Also speaking about the incident, the Onikogosi of Ikogosi Ekiti, Oba Abiodun Olorunnisola, said the herders are trying to sell the dead cows to residents, adding that this portends health risk to his people.


The monarch said he had already reached out to his colleague at Ipole-Ekiti, Oba Oladele Babatola, on the need to warn their subjects against consuming such a desecrated meat.

"The two of us have alerted our subjects that there was an attempt to begin the sale of the cows and we are making efforts to prevent the intending buyers,” he said.



The traditional ruler called on the government to evacuate the carcasses to prevent spread of communicable diseases.



Spokesperson of the State Police Command, Sunday Abutu said the incident was yet to be reported to the command because it was a natural occurrence.


“We have not been told, but if the owner of the cattle later realises that someone was responsible, he will report at the police station and we will surely rise to the occasion, if such happens,” he said

One of the biggest speculations making the rounds in the Nigerian Music Industry lately is the beef between davido and burna boy.

Laying claim to the number one spot on the African continent, burna says he is better than everyone except the legend, fela Kuti.

He also says davido is an embarrassment to the industry and rose to limelight only owing to his father's money.

Davido has since made several statements on social media to correct burna's impress and has recently released a track 'Fem' which seeks to bully burna boy off the thought.

Dbanj under the guise of praising both artists recently posted the album art of burna's twice as tall and shortly after that, posted art of davido's hit single Fem.

Something seems not to add up here. Burna's album was released about a month ago but dbanj never posted or talked about it. Davido's FEM dropped and the next day the koko master hurried to his instagram to post both artists' works, captioning davido's song with the words 'I can relate'.

It is obvious dbanj may be on davido's side in this ongoing feud between the two younger artists, who knows.

I hope he doesn't get his hands burnt from burna's camp though.

What do you think

Truth is messi will end his bright football days in Barça. All this back and forth news about his Barça exit is to help his write it in history books that he actually wanted to leave and conquer other leagues but it was Barça and la Liga that refused him. It's a subtle attempt to justify his sectional goat status. I hate to say this but if he doesn't leave now, cr7 will be in a better place in history.

Need I remind us again that women all over the world have an exaggerated sense of entitlement. And indeed our very own Nigerian women are the worst in that regard. Only in Nigeria will you find that a woman's entire life expenses become a man's problem the moment he mistakenly woos her. If she wants to make her hair, change her wardrobe or even load her phone, she believes it's on the man.

This situation has discouraged (or maybe deprived) many right thinking Nigeria young men of decent romantic relationships as these ladies have turned the affair to auction sales where the highest bidders take it all.

The mentality these ladies grew up with is that of finding a financially buoyant man to marry them while they may have nothing at all to bring to the table. (but sex)

While it may not totally be their fault as some of these traits are traceable to some barbaric doctrines in our various African cultures and traditions, I only write to sound a sincere brotherly warning to the bachelors on here to stay woke.

If you couldn't find love now that you are struggling financially, don't go looking for some yeye love when you finally make your money.

Women in this part of the world have the habit of noticing men only after they've had their breakthrough and then they start scheming to harvest what they didn't labour with you for.

I have seen men get married to women who would never have looked their way if they didn't have money. I consider this an act of low self worth. More so, what becomes of the union if later in life there is financial crisis.

I must acknowledge that not all Nigerian women fall into the above described category, but believe me 70% of them do. The remaining 30% is either from a well to do family, a special edition woman or maybe not so attractive.

The only likely situation when love after breakthrough may be genuine is if the woman is also already made and just seems to be feeling your style. If not, oyo is your middle name.

Don't let anybody harvest you carelessly.

Man city must carry la liga join o.. If not this money na outright waste o

[with due respect, what do you mean by such hands, the only behavioral requirement of a leader is selflessness and consciousness towards other people's feelings, on that basis Kanye is qualified, no one is perfect, not even the current US President, so y isn't Kanye able hands. quote author=pickatyou post=91392571]I like his dream but I guess it's dead on arrival. I might be wrong though.
But IMO you can't put a great country in such hands[/quote]

This story just further asserts my opinion that love and money work hand in hand and are ever inseparable..in today's world there's no romantic love, there just attraction, the root of which is money.. The only category of ladies who can love you truly are the financially independent ladies

Jahkye:
chaiii

if you have never experienced what it means to be betrayed by someone you loved and cared about so much then you'll be blaming the man

depression is poisonous and not everyone has the strong will to overcome it so before you start bashing the man just know that depression is very very deadly

Bro, he brought the evil upon himself. If a man wants to invest that much in a woman, don't ever do so in expectation of romantic reward. It's archaic. I'm not saying men shouldn't help women but it should never be for romantic gain, else this will most likely be the outcome

Shibaraba:
Most times written by the unmarried.
No successfully married person will tell you to divorce. .. Never.



One word from a successfully married lady I once met...



Patience .


When patience dey, everything is in order

That's false, will patience also be applicable in a physically abusive relationship

I think what the cab is saying is this.. Don't be in a hurry to conclude that you're fortunate in life while you're still single cos the woman you'll marry can make or break your destiny. In other words, not every wonderful gf is a wonderful wife

Ordinarily it depends on the state you both reside but frankly speaking a brother should not have thoughts of marriage on such meagre amount and not in Nigeria's current situation.. But if the lady is rich, she may carry on

Only an abnormal married woman will book a massage session with another man

In addition, avoid these two like the plague, gossip and being attention seeking

If my student lands at 69 after an honest marking exercise, I'll consider tipping him with an extra one mark by checking his grammar and presentation. A legible handwriting will boost his chances too

Basher8583:
I have told you Ajimobi can be a bitch atimes. I agree with you on that.
He did well in road construction. When did all your malls, hotels, estates and funky places show up in Ibadan. I have friends who constantly spend thier weekend in Ibadan. This they didnt do during the regim before Ajimobis.
You know this now... Why are you using sentiments to judge like a typical African man

Bro that's a selfish way to see things, the malls and stuff are not the primary responsibilities of a responsible govt, these are things that the masses could barely enjoy bcoz ajimobi impoverished them, ajimobi was an opportunist because he he looted and put the state in debt using these flimsy projects as shield. Education is the bed rock of development in any society, education was totally ignored by ajimobi because he could not effectively loot with it. Let's stop being blind, I could go on and on

Won't stop saying this, so far d FG continues to be the main driving force of the economy , standard of living will continue to nose dive and youth unemployment will go from heights to heights, Nigeria is too big a country for one govt sitting in Abuja to try to affect the lives of the citizens, when state govt autonomy will clearly bring government and development closer to the masses, Nigeria is intentionally underdeveloped

Nigerians now seriously address the topic of depression, something we never used to know..we have to prevent the children from growing to know it as a Nigerian thing coz it's not

Truth is the Lad lacks good manners, there's no nice approach to asking an elder to leave a seat, we are Africans not Americans, respect is part of our culture and it's even written that 'give honor to whom it is due'..

TrishaP:
No I'm not hitting any like or share.

Have you been to all these cities before putting down observations? If you have then you are a runs man too, if you haven't then...

lol..we meet these girls and we can tell because they always rep their cities..u don't have to go to the cities b4 knowing wusup

Until nigeria reduces salaries of public officers..corruption will continue to grow because pple with sincere love 4 nigeria will neva b given chance to help nigeria..na the thieves go dey come because of the fat salaries

stayblack:
MY GRANI FOR VILLAGE, SING PASS THIS BLECHER, MAYBE MY OLD GIRL FIT CONSIDER FT D.BANJ. LOSSER FT LOSSER...

guess you're the loser here..just wonder y u can't even spell ur name..not LOSSER

englishmart:
as a maga, she extorts from you and spend it on the real g

yeah that's me

sinaj:
we call our dad wid it

there are different kinda daddies u know

Later when it's time to father children they will now say they have low sperm count

Ladies it's always a bad idea to lie about ur virginity..what face do u give him wen he suddenly falls into ur bottomless pit naa