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They are more concerned about the welfare and free movement of their tribesmen from other nations than the internal security of the host communities of their fellowmen countrymen even berating the nation's borders as colonial contraptions. In this they agree with other secessionists like IPOB.

Right, so if they have no regards for Nigeria, why do we all fight for Nigeria no one believes in. The truth thus is that when people fight for 'Nigeria' what they really mean is the resources in the geographical entity they wish to preserve for their selfish ends alone.

It is clear this conflict has no logical solution other than a restructuring of this country or else the streams of blood letting will eventually empty into a sea of civil strife..... you can add war to that.

How did you end up in relationship with his wife in the first place. There you missed it and acted unprofessionally. People of vision donot get entangled with diversionary issues, they don't mix work with play.

As a matter of policy I donot do 'family' with clients neither do I do birthdays, weddings, funerals. My socialization ends on location. Let people know you for the value you create for them and only that.

Anything outside that is an invitation to a world of unexpected consequences and believe me I have been tempted in everyway.

As a matter of fact it is for the same reasons you donot do business with close friends conversely. It doesn't work most times.

And Mr. President can do nothing because of the Kano electoral debacle. Something is bound to give sooner than later but on balance by 2019 everyone will be demystified.

Oyindidi:
Hmmmmmm... She's right

Of course she is.
At 28 with a depreciating asset called beauty she had better get the other parts of her brain up to speed and create a future for herself if not hunger will dock with her space station sometime in the future.

AnanseK:
All these con men fake men of God who have brainwashed our Christian brothers into believing their nonsensical prophesies and semi- literate bellicose rubbish, are missing the loot from the free for all Nigerian treasury under PDP . they can't maintain or fuel their criminally acquired jets and the arms smuggling with those jets is now blocked ( remember oristejafor). What is left for them now is to preach hatred and malicious lies in their effort to ignite senseless war in Nigeria. My Christian friends shine your eyes. Help the government to restore security and progress in our country.[color=#000000][/color]

Why are you appealing for help. Was security not one of the three legs the government promised to get fixed by which it was elected. Did they not discredit the former regime's security score card. Did they not boast about taming Boko Haram as an achievement.

If the solutions to national security challenges lie with the people then the government should let the people rule instead... which in the first place is the definition of democracy.

You can now all see the limitations of a superman in Aso Rock. I told you so. You cannot benefit from the institutions you destroy. This government started destroyingvand denigrating institutions from the day it was inaugurated. Now they are all too weak and discordant to help him tavkle national challenges.

Oga face your music and plan to excel in that. Nigerians are too materialistic and this makes them lose focus and relevance in a heart beat. This crave to be amongst should not be your source of inspiration.

Everybody threatening everybody in Nigeria. Failed country.

jaxxy:
Very good u say women shud respect, bt men shud love. Respect however is also earned not demanded. I have an interesting question for u tho. Can a man love a woman he didn't choose?

If God is the one who chooses you will be empowered by Him to love the woman and vice-versa. If you don't know how to receive things from God then you are not ripe to be married and if the whole thing makes no sense to you then you can always gamble with any one that comes your way....and obviously face the consequences for better or worse.

What you donot know and cannot understand cannot be of benefit to you.

Modelpearl:
This is it. I just wish every couple will read and understand this piece. or=Toks2008 post=68967984]In those days, our parents usually come together, they barely knew each other and they grew in love as a couple and in most cases, grew old together because they chose to love who they married.

They lay little emphasis on feelings, chemistry or even dating/courtship yet had a wonderful long lasting union but today, we want to be sure the feeling is real, we want to fall in love first, we want to be sure we are compatible and we meticulously pay attention to inconsequential matters and looking for faults and even many who tend to believe they got it right still end up breaking up after they eventually get married and i keep wandering what exactly are we getting wrong.

After a thorough research from GOD's words i found out that the ideal mode of marriage laid down by GOD have been abandoned and we have now come up with our own pattern...

Until we go back to the plan of GOD regarding marriage and understand that staying married is not about feelings or compatibility, neither is it about body chemistry or how romantic he or she is because all these aforementioned can never sustain a marriage but it is about growing in love and having a meticulous determination to love who you marry and stay married against all odds.

GOD's plan for marriage is for two people to come together and grow in love not for them to first fall in love before coming together.Genesis 2:22-24

I hope this makes sense.

Thank you. I don't have time to explain at length as I'm on ops.

Stycon:
What love are we talking about here please?

"Eros" or "Agape"

We are talking about having romantic kinda love before taking things further, you are preaching about

See, every relationship is obligated to demonstrate "Agape" kinda love but when it comes to this kinda thing that happens between male and female, if you ain't feeling the "eros" please don't proceed! I repeat, abort the mission!

Yes, romantic love needs "Agape" kinda unconditional love to thrive but if you gat to get married, you gat to have the "eros" boiling. How you gonna make that happen is up to you tho

You can grow and over grow in Agape after you got married but don't sell the idea that people should get married if they ain't feeling no spark. And don't get it twisted, it ain't lust!

My ideas are for Christians. I am not a marraige adviser to the world. I see relationships the way God sees them. Starting with the fact that we are created by God to love and when He calls us it is not because we had any affection for him. Passions are for mere mortals whom simply cannot sustain them over time or when circumstances change. That is certainly not what I want to invest my time in, a diminishing return.

RedDoor:
When Buhari read this news, he will smile and say una never chin cho chiii


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I have mine and ready to vote with my voters card. Are you?

No, I won't vote. I don't vote.... but go ahead, it is good to vote, just as it is good to go to school.

Only the third time I have seen the police on strike since I was born.
Only the second time I have seen an open police protest.
And the first time I have seen one where the protesters are armed.

This is an extremely dangerous situation and yet a new low.

thatigboman:
No. Not neccesarily. NMS Zaria is a secondary school owned by the military. U can proceed to NDA from there if u want to join military as officer, or to Depot in Zaria too if u want to join military as a junior officer. Or u go to conventional university, if u want civilian life

Which depot again. Is the NMS training not superior to that of the Depot or have things changed.

Stycon:
What if after you got married, the love refuse to grow? What do you do?

You have a responsibility to build, to nuture love. True love can only be understood and appreciated with the training only God gives. Quite often the reason why love doesn't grow is because of the weeds of lust. Just as weeds soak up the resources of love and choke it, lust disguises and confuses those who invest in it.

To uproot lust to let love grow the man and the woman must of necessity shut down their emotions, sight, sounds, touch, smell... and rather focus on the objectives of the union. I tell people, if you want to build a relationship you have to think long term in acting short term. Ask yourself what you will feel towards that person in 50 years when typically the woman's bosom is flat and the man has retired, no longer a Genwral in the military or Director of the CBN because folks these days make life's choices on such maundane issues and simply cannot see beyond them.

They 'love' conditionally.... also known as lust.

mekuso89:
Marry who you love, and if you are married then love who you are married to

How can you marry who you love when love is not a switch but a house that is built brick by brick. That means you will have lived a lifetime with the person before marrying, because love grows until death.

I suspect you confuse lust with love.

To love who you marry.

For a Christian you don't usually have a choice. God brings the person and you have to build a relationship.

Those are the relationships that last.

Status symbols of their automobile industries. Africans where are yours.

kestolove95:
Mumu 4yrs, Buhari never participated in the coup, his was brought from maiduguri to take ova, it was abacha, babangida, vatsa and co...dat did d coup, study ur history

Madam, all senior commanders from Brigades upwards are sounded about coups before hand. The sure sign they were not privy or did not tend to cooperate is that they are arrested during the coup and subsequently retired. And this is coming from someone who knows. They don't just 'bring' people in to lead from the blues. Every future senior appointment is decided in the planning of a coup. Nigeria is not one of those countries where Captains and Majors plan successful coups. It just cannot work.

I am not saying Buhari spearheaded the coup but to say he was not privy is impossible. If he was totally loyal to the then government he would certainly be dead because the oath he swore includes to protect the integrity of the government by the arms he bore. And to follow that would mean his head if the coup suceeded. What do you think will have happened to Babangida if Dimka was able counter strike.

I donot know if Utomi's assertion of anti-south ethnic bias in the coup planning is true. It sounds more like the same garbage we hear from politicians when they want to muddy the waters of reason but to absolve Buhari of acting against the constitution is wrong.

OmoAlata1:
Most of the commenters are senseless. How can you idiots turn someone’s pain into a joke?

Op, brush you teeth twice a day, morning and night. Everytime you brush, you need to scrape your tongue. Get a spoon and use it to scrape the back of your tongue and move it forward, this might make you gag. But scrape until you are just getting clear saliva. After that, use your toothbrush or a special tongue brush to brush your tongue very well. Rinse your mouth. Get hydrogen peroxide and mix it with equal part water(50/50 ratio mixture). Put the mixture in your mouth and swish around your mouth for one minute(do not do less). Spit it out. Then put another mixture in your mouth and gargle for 30-60seconds. This will wash the back of tongue for you. You can do this mixture practice 4 times a day especially after you just finish eating. So you can pour the mixture in a 3 ounce bottle and take it around with you whenever you go out.

Hopefully this will help you greatly. Make sure you drink plenty water and leave sugary things along. Dry mouth and being dehydrated can cause bad breath. If you have excess dry mouth issue, chew minty gum

Hmmm...abeg go easy on the hydrigen peroxide. It is an extremely dangerous, corrosive agent.

The stars are aligning for Brazil.

First and most importantly, screen for your HIV status. It is a well known symptom that people can miss easily.

If your body is not fighting infections, your immunity may be compromised.

First and most importantly, screen for your HIV status. It is a well known symptom that people can miss easily.

Their contribution to the development of Nigeria....

Xander85:
What kind of road construction is that biko nu!? See how deep that gutter is...almost like a ravine, yet they didn't think it wise to build crash barriers on either side of it to help prevent speeding vehicles or even people from falling in!

This is why we need to give these jobs to competent and tested contractors, as well as paying for a proper job to be done! You pay peanuts....you get a monkey service!

Oga, it was an expatriate company that reconstructed that road. Has nothing to do with them. The road has a design team that provides the specs.

Hmmm.....restructure Nigeria now....lest we eternally regret why we did not do it when we had the chance to.. ..

georgecso:
I don't have any issue with having state police of all things are put in place by the state government. Imagine States like Bayelsa, Ekiti, Kogi that are still owing their workers several months salaries, how do you expect them to cope with hungry policemen?

The people will gladly pay for their protdction and law and order in gneir domains. Don't worry aboutfundjng. Folks have been oaying gatemen, security men, vigilantes, thugs, anything and anyone for protection for decades. To have it aggregated, recognised, organised and constitutional is just the next logical step. And may the constitution keep the upkeep and maintenance, selection and appointments in the hands and pockets and at the pleasure of the people.

dingbang:
We are still not yet Democratic enough to form a state police.

See what a Nigerian who votes thinks. Why not just say Nigeria is not destroyed enough to begin to think straight.

Indeed we are our problem.

The owners of Nigeria will never agree to that...while their Hisbah go round persecuting non confirmists and restricting the civil liberties the Constitution upholds.

pjosh1:
I use a Lexus es 330 and I have changed the battery twice in a week, at first I thought the battery I bought was fake not until I bought the second battery and I still have the same problem. Whenever I park and off the engine the car refuses to start unless I start the engine with another battery then put in back mine. I don't think it's the alternator because sometimes after using another battery to start the car I can still drive it out, park and come back home without giving me problem and sometimes it just won't start​ after I park. I also noticed when I'm driving at night if I put on the headlight my dashboard light will go off, the AC will go off and the DVD system and sometimes even without putting on the headlight​ the AC and DVD goes off.
I'm afraid of calling a rewire to come check it because they sometimes just create extra problems.
I just bought the car not up to a month

...well you can guess why the car was sold....depart from used stuff. I decided that a decade and a half ago. No regrets. If you cannot afford new, hire, rent, vehicle finance, whatever but used....? on average is a sheer waste of money and may cost you other things more important that even money cannot buy.

iyatrustee:
My thoughts exactly. Besides, what constitutes unlawful disengagement? Can a private company be thought how to run its affairs?

NUPENG remains the most powerful union in Nigeria for good and sometimes bad. But the truth is that the oil industry remains a largely secretive cult like enterprise with an unaccountable, corrupt and unstable government on one side and neo-imperialist, western overlords on the other side, each fighting selfishly for their share and supremacy and not minding one bit how the working parts of the engine fare. Surely there has to be a third force, a third leg to make the stool viable.

Rainmaker69:
This is very disgusting reporting. How does the private transaction between a local zone of a Trade Union and an oil company involve the remaining 190 million Nigerians? The Reporter is obviously trying to create panic where none exists. Its a shame really and we should call out these idiots who deliberately mislead Nigerians for personal motives.

My dear, 90 percent of the oil industry is privately owned from truck tankers and choppers to drilling rigs and all the folks who run them so exactly what are you saying. Is unionism only for government folks alone... Bankers have their union, taxi drivers have theirs and construction workers too and any investor going into the oil industry knows that the moment you begin to become a significant player, you emerge on the radar of NUPENG and they will demand you permit your workers join or else....

otokx:
Nupeng has not said anything about the terrorist act of their tanker driver in Lagos, what a country?

...I see...no longer Jonathan's fault...it is a country wide phenom abi