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Peaceyw:
I discovered something recently though I should share it with y'all
If you know to the extent women keep secrets, men will not tell women anything about themselves. Things that men think are trivial and unimportant that they tell women around them, they don't know that most of this information contain secret about their character, lifestyle, thinking process among all others. While women tell you things that will make her more valuable in your eyes e.g I am a virgin, I don't sleep around, I know how to cook, I can keep money for a long time without spending. Most of this things are really not important in the grand scheme of things but men don't realise that. Take a look at this scenario; My friend and I had an argument about food one day, and I was dissatisfied. So i went ahead and told a girl I am seeing recently about the argument. I might think such information is tribal but she has gotten one important thing about me, I like food. Later she will start cooking for me and I will think she really loves me, then suddenly she will stop cooking and when I ask her why, she says that ingredients are cost now and she cannot continue cooking. Then in my own mind I will start rationalize everything like; she is cooking for me, I should be paying her so that she will cook better food, it is not as if I can go to a restaurant and eat without paying. Then I start paying for ingredients for her to continue cooking. Although there will be no improvement in the cooking l but because I paid for the food because I want to get better tasting food, my brain will deceive me into thinking that there is an improvement in her cooking. Sadly, I am just paying extra for the same food I was getting for free.

We men should learn to keep most of our thoughts to ourselves just like how we are controlling pur sexual urges. Thank you.

Gee! I still have a long way to go. I never knew this. From today, I'm keeping my thoughts to myself, everything. I mean everything.

This guy still get mouth to talk?

Well he is better than the current puppet sitting on that seat now.

dalass:
Seeking relevance even where its unnecessary..

This is between Yoruba's and Hausa's. Absolutely nothing to do with your director and directed (ESN)

But Hausa no fit try this nonsense with Igbos na.

Una go hear am.

Skepticus:
If u tell the ho.rny idi.ot before now, im/dem go say u be INCEL, Gay or a hater of women. I'm sexually attracted to women like every sexually-healthy man but my sense comes first. My peace, happiness and money before anything else.

Now, he risks losing his job and wasting years of efforts and money used in achieving his doctorate degree because of sticking his d.ick in a hole in the wrong setting.

No be all pussies man dey, fuucck and no be all location pesiin dey pick pusssy.

Personally, I always advice men to avoid women from where dey get their daily bread. See-finish go lead to disrespect, reduced productivity from her (if she is a subordinate. Having sex with her already makes you both equal) and even loss of job, if she decides to target you. Don't shiit where you eat.

This case is what a lecturer in the university I attended is going through as we speak. Slept with a girl, now he's suspended and he's not sure he will retain his job.

The girls set him up, and failed into it. Funny thing is, this man is married. I don't really care that he is getting sex outside his marriage, but I'm disappointed in the fact that he got sex from his work place and from little university girls weh never learn to bath finish. Nawah oh

Yoruba1stson:
apologize to nyamiris, guy that can never be possible, we hate you guys and we will forever hate you. We don't see you as humans but descedants of ape, nyamiris are useless like my feaces

At least the fulanis are not killing the nyamiris that is useless like your faeces, and they can never try what they did in Ilorin and is doing in oyo and Ogun in the East.

franchasng:
To an average Yoruba man or woman, his major problem is to ensure an Igbo never becomes Nigeria's President as they go about mocking Igbos with their usual line: "Igbo man will never rule this country" as if they are God, and as if Obasanjo being President twice and Osinbajo being VP twice now have made all Yorubas to become rich.

When the time comes, God will shock you all even as nature keeps warning Yorubas to mend their ways with innocent Igbos who have done them no wrong....but pride will never let them tell Igbos sorry and let peace and unity reign in the South.


They rather prefer to be political-ally and slave to their enemies in the North while hating their best friend in Southeast just because Igbos are prospering, it is well

Even if they later apologise, I will not take them serious, and I encourage other Igbos not to take them serious either. If they could sell us in the past, what stops them from doing it again in the future? If they can sell their people, who are we the Igbos?

KosiGee:
Ndi Fulani e meribeghi anyi. Kwusi that kind of mentality.
Fulanis are clever and opportunistic. You have to give it to them. Their plans have been there for all to see but our foolishness chasing shadows and bickering with each other have prevented us from seeing the bold warning signs.

If I mention Nnamdi Kanu, I’ll be called his supporter and IPOB apologist but no Nigerian has seen, explained and tried vigorously to educate and open people’s eyes but we have all responded with hatred, more foolishness, blindness, arrogance and continued enmity with each other.

Fulanis believe they are invincible, they have been strategic and coordinated.

It will take a few good and relevant people to come together, bury their hatchets and give the fulanis the kind of treatment they have been giving people for years.

It’s not about writing and ranting online. Their madness can be ended if we really want to.

I don’t know how long people and I mean southerners will tolerate their evil. It’s very coordinated. Their local herdsmen invade your farm, you raise your voice or confront them and the lone farmer is killed...police will not arrest them, the invasion continues, locals mobiles and confront them, the Army comes in and make arrests...All these are to psychologically subdue the people...

When an Igboho or outfit like ESN rise, take the bull by the horn...’presidency’ speaks and our weak governors with their greedy ambitions and other political jobbers would panic!!

Buhari is surrounded by his kinsmen who make decisions and respond when things seem to get out of control like the Igboho case or the Obigbo where Wike was used to kill people to make it seem like he is a strong man who takes decisive actions...These bunch of people will be disappointed.

We need more Igboho...igboho isn’t invincible but whatever happens, he has made his mark as someone who stood up...Igboho is a warrior and an Odogwu.

No Fulani elite has criticise their incessant troubles and destructions but they are quick to attempt to change the narrative and make these bandits look like victims. All the Serikis and miyetti allah with Buhari’s kinsmen are aware of all these. They know about Benue massacres, Nimbo Enugu attack, Ibarapa troubles. They authorised and supported their Zamfara mercenaries and others who some Fulani governors claim they came from outside Nigeria.

They know what they are doing but southerners are foolishly divided to mobilise. Southerners will act but then more atrocities would’ve been committed. Let’s stop this evil now.

People like the MURIC man and Paul Unongo need to be ignored. They are the stooges used to blind you all.
Wike might have acted his evil at Obigbo but it was an Ekeocha that was dishing out info from the Army.
The names of the commander of the unit who mercilessly killed civilians was shielded.

Southerners....Wake up.

Yorubas biggest issue is that of cowardice and Islam they have within them.

OlayemiAshraf:
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Are you a sadist ??

The word that should be there is Depressed and not Sadist

Below are pictures defining what the above bolded is.

Skepticus:
I'm archiving this. This quote is deeper than it appears on the surface #AWALT

I been think say na only me this post hit.

Gondonu:
Bitcoin-the only means people employed to make a living despite its constricting economic policies, they went to block it again.

No need to wail. There's a way around it. When this ban, something told me Nigeria wants to go the American way.

Welps. Gonna have to try again. You didn't need to be told so.

Ottyn01:
So myopic reasoning Instead of banning them from driving cars inside the school, the management should utilize the opportunity and build a car park, place security there and collect parking fee of #100 or #200 thereby creating revenue for the institution.

Africans don't know how to utilise envy. It's always trying to oppress any and everyone in a way that we both lose. Tueh!

See confirm reasoning, but our envy no gree us utilise our greed very well in this situation. Thank you sir.

RisenPhoenix1:
Africa didn't grow in leaps and bounds when it was traditional for centuries. Conversely, there were great empires even when a foreign religion (Islam) was predominant in West Africa. The EU, the US, the Gulf countries, Indonesia, Malaysia, Brazil are/were all religious countries at the time of their development. It didn't stop them from growth. Religion is not the problem. It's how we apply it. And how we apply religion is only a reflection of how we reason...selfishly, narrow mindedly and near sightedly. It doesn't matter what religion we follow, if we continue to reason the way we do now, we're still not going anywhere.

Finally someone with a good sense. Religion has never been or may have contributed very little to our problems. It's just our mindsets.

It's been long since i truly visited here. Though I do see post from here, only from shared post of people whom I follow. Thing has made me lazy, anywho, here's a nugget:

In Love and in War... Everything is fair.

For those who will invest in a relationship and when it ends, deems it fit to take their investment back. For security purposes don't!

emmaodet:


Bro, we are in spirit.
Nairaland is a very big distraction for me, very very big.
Woke up 3am today and determine to just flip through nairaland and sleep back till morning, lo and behold, i was glued to nairaland till 7am.
I think i need to find a way to stop this addiction.
Don't even no the harder one to stop between masturbation and nairaland sef, abi oga seun don add juju join this forum?

You and I both. Though I finished up my assignment before strolled in here.

Biafrawemove:
Thank God for ESN
We need another vigilante


Go And Tell Fulanies herdsmen To Relocate From BIAFRA lands Because lead Us Not Into Temptation Is Better Than Deliver Us From All Evil

Tankio!

They acted because both the South-west and South-east are having none of the herdsmen shit and they are in fact are losing side.

Maybe Africa is coursed. Maybe we are deficient.

Is it me or was he sarcastic?

bukatyne:
@bold:

100% on point.

Nigeria should seriously start getting her acts together.

We would run to the Chinese and they would demand we learn Mandarin in return.

Nigeria does not value her assets. We don't. These westerners will come over take our brightest mind by offering them good money and thriving environment, because already Nigeria has spat them out.

Cyry:
Nigerian MEN are SO useless.
They know nothing apart from sex.
#fact.

Would have been different if y'all offered more than sex. _who_res!

CalliDora1:
Lies
Lies
Lies!

Please speak for your sisters.

I remember some time ago, I was dating one young man. Then the chairman I was working for wanted to date me too. He'll give me cash gift and I'll refuse. So he said I should apologize for rubbishing him with his money and I did.

Another time, he threw an open check and told me to name my price but I began to plead with him that I don't want any money from him ( cos I know the next thing is to ask me out).

I told this man I was dating and the moro.n said I should have collected the money.. huh?? When he saw the look on my face, he began to say... You'll just collect the money and play him. Mehnn... That was the end of the relationship. I ditched him and never looked back. He begged and begged, I blocked him for life. And to think the chairman sacked me because of that.

You men are the reason some girls begin to misbehave.

I can never do such.

Looks like the devil gave y'all women the mantle to lie when he visited. Or maybe y'all stole it from him.

sapien:
You don't seem to understand. Go through my previous replies.

I spoke to her through her mum's phone, since she wasn't picking her phone. I asked her what the problem was, she said there is nothing happening to her. I asked if she was seeing another man, she said she wasn't that type of chick, that she does not have time for such. I also asked if I offended her or she caught me with any other woman, she said no. She was repeating "No Problem" as if her life depended on that phrase. I finally asked her if she was still interested in the relationship, she said yes. I called her the next day, she didn't pick again, despite giving her several missed calls.

It would smack of inferiority complex if I went to her place and saw her. I have tried my possible best to make it work but, apparently, she wouldn't give the relationship a chance any longer.

I have moved on. Even if she calls me back later, I don't see myself picking her calls ever again.

And she wouldn't even dare visit me without notifying me first.

I believe once communication collapses in a relationship, the relationship is as good as dead. I don't need to visit her before she communicates with me if she is sensible.

Thank God say you get sense. Word of advice, since you have made up your mind, unfollow this thread, and stop replying anyone here. Women and simps have a way of making you change your frame (mind). They're pretty much good at it.


They will tell you the girl is having crisis, this and that... Forgetting you are also human and could have yours. What good is it of having someone to talk to during your worse times and you don't talk to that person during your worse time?

Break up and never take her back. 4yrs is nothing. Get another girl.

franchasng:
I never met my wife's parents nor siblings until the day I went to pay her dowry. She pleaded with me many times to come to her place, I never showed up.


Quality men are not usually easy to get so when a lady finds a quality man, she handles him with care. You belittled yourself before her in so many ways.


Why are Nigerian guys always in a hurry to meet the family members of their girlfriends Its a turn off.


Now listen and listen well, that girl is seeing another guy she considers far better than you and seeing you or picking your calls irritates her, ladies don't usually handle such things well unlike guys that can manage a community of ladies and all the ladies will be happy and fulfilled lol.


Stop believing that good ladies are scarce, they are not, in fact, I wished I could marry more wives cos I keep seeing super hot and good mannered ladies that deserve to be wife's, so I wonder why you single guys cling unto one girl thinking she is the only mother Theresa on earth.



Forget the nonsense that she used to help you, that's by gone and thank God she is the one playing herself not you, so forget the past memories and go find a better chick and don't ever accept her back because another guy have fu*cked her and only after that guy dumps her that she would come back to her senses. Unless she is a confirmed virgin with visible hymen, and she comes back with the hymen in tact and you use torchlight to confirm the hymen, don't ever accept her back, she doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you, she doesn't regard you.


Don't ever marry a girl that doesn't respect and regard you. Forget Love, respect, loyalty and submission from a woman is vital for any marriage to work.

Before I married my wife, she calls me more than 5 times a day and when I complain she would apologise and before you know it, she has called again despite having a very tight work schedule owing to the nature of her career. Now that she is my wife, she calls me more than 5 times everyday. Sometimes just to gist me or tell me irrelevant story that happened in her workplace or something like that which makes me laugh lol. Once a woman is in love, she wanna talk to you always, she will tell you every damn thing she does daily even when you don't ask.


Forget that babe completely, she doesn't worth the hype jareh .


And lastly as a single guy who is not yet married, you are not supposed to be dating just one girl. You are supposed to have at least 3 qualified wife materials and maybe 3 other parole. How can you tie yourself to one girl as a single guy that's looking for a wife Are you Pastor Kumuyi

The person weh dem call en name or think off and e no show, the person don die.


Na this evening I thought of you. I be like where franchasng deh, abi him don chop ban?

That break up she initiates for no reason.

Add ubunja to the end of the bolded to get the real gist.

Just in case you decide to show up in court.

luminouz:
That's what we have been saying since bro... Women don't understand what love is, in respect to a man. It's about status, class and all that to them. Men can fuq,date and marry tomato and kunu sellers but how many graduate women can marry lowkey vulcanizers. This shiit gets worse as she gets more education/money. A unemployed female PHD holder would scorn at an unemployed male BSc holder. She would hint at him not being at her level and I wonder what dafuq is wrong with women. Why does everything have to be transactional or material? I have seen and watched thousands of women since I was born and I tell you this, women don't think like men do. They just can't even think like we do. I was fifteen when I realised that there is nothing like love with women,it's just a lot of libidoic chemicalised mumbo jumbo neurotransmitters BS affecting our decisions.

There is nothing I love more than putting these egoistic women in their places. A self acclaimed feminist came to my house y'day. She saw as everywhere stew in my new crib and she was forming lovey dovey and shit. My dick no even rise. I was just so uninterested. Naso this motivational speaker enter kitchen cook soup finish, packaged some to take home, enter my bathroom took one toilet roll, entered kitchen again poured my palm oil inside nylon bag. Yet this was a babe whose status is always about how broke men are and such?

I let her reach my house gate, collected her bag, took my toilet roll, took my palm oil and poured the soup she took into the gutter, called bike for her and bid her goodbye.

Her WhatsApp status that night was full of pain. I enjoyed it.

N.B: This is 2021. If she is not a keeper, she is not worth your resources. Let her leave and never look back.

You sir are a man of culture.

I think the best thing to do is for the affected to move to the neighbouring countries like Togo and open up there, we would buy their currency before buying crypto.


A big loss for Nigeria.

Go ahead and report him to police. He deserves whatever is coming to him.

bukatyne:
She married at 18 and was already an actress before marriage.

Happy birthday Omosexy, God bless you.

Look at her, living the life with her achievements yet she's always before the lens and not once has she slip up her family into the media for thr wrong reasons.


Feminists will not see this woman and site her fully. All they see their bitter self.

NextD18:
It has now become a serious issue because they've taken their terrors to South West, isn't it?

Had it been they were still operating in the North or even anywhere around South East, y'all would have kept mute, support and still worship them as usual. I truly do not care or feel pity with what they are doing over there.

Those people, _fucking cowards! If they had acted with boldness, Nigeria would not have been locked together like this. She would have been divided during the first Civil War.