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Daretobeawinner:
I noticed that anything that has to do with bashing females always grace the frontpage , and evil words against women can have about 10000 likes

What's the actual problem with you guys , did you all suddenly become angels?

You are really bad at noticing things and the mods would have banned you a million times for making it seem they are not doing their jobs well.

What is wrong if a man is number 4?

Omokrireno:
Believe it or not, this thing called money ritual is real...

I noticed that ever since i started dating this girl, things have been very difficult for me. In fact, things just stopped working for me and life became so difficult..

The red light came out first when she left to travel for a week. It's was like a magic, things started working well for me and just when she arrived everything became stoned... This sequence continued for months until one of these school holidays when i went for a church program and i was told to leave the girl that she was used for money rituals and anyone she gets in contact with will become broke and difficult as the person's luck will move to the ritualist.... Everything happening in our relationship was revealed to me that day....

When she finally came back from holiday, all my business and street hustle became blocked again and we always have this argument because she has a difficult attitude and lies a lot. At first, i didn't want to tell her about it, i didn't want her to feel bad and it doesn't seem right to me then... One night, i frankly told her, i had to because i had no one in my life except few friends, i was fending for myself and paying all my bills right from 100level...


Well, i broke up with her this night, not because of the ritual stuff but because of her attitude and she called me crying that she rather die than for me to leave her to go through this kind of pain....

She has turned it to a do or die affair... I need input on this.

Let her die.

If she left you and you told her you rather die, she'd tell you to Mann up!

Why would the boss wants to speak with the worker's mother?

bukatyne:
Which of the girls did he force or kidnap?

You'd say she's reacting out of the fact Ned hasn't come for her or her sisters.

Skepticus:
No man who really thinks deep about women, retains high opinions of them. He either despises them or stop taking them seriously - Otto Weininger

No be lie.

Did I just hear "Amu-obi"?

Small small Tinubu don deh enter show.... Before you know it he will hijack this fight and once again become the God of Yoruba land!

New Dance Step loading.

Naijahops:
Here is my own story.
Well for me I'm someone that started dating at the age of 19 years old, I spent all my time exploring the internet because I promised my self I want to see how the internet work..... But I don't know how I ended dating bittch.
Dated this girl for 2 years, met this girl on the road, i stopped to have a few talks to her maybe get to know her, I got her number, then I called her to get to know her then we end up talking and get to know each other more, bro I love this girl eh, she loves me too after 5 months of dating she started showing me red flags like, picking my calls late and not initiating the calls first but for me i prefer her initiating the call first. This is the girl i helped oh..... i started orbiting on her Facebook profile i saw a guy commented on her pic saying I love you my wife""......she replied using my ""heartbeat""....bro wtf i was like what's going on here as a tech savvy i decided to do the investigation through fb i decided to extract her cookies, history and cache from her phone to my PC boom i got her login details i logged in to her Facebook profile i went straight to the guy chats bro what i saw there is not funny at all she been fVcking this guy for 4 months mehn i was heart broken don't know what to do , she even got pregnant for this guy and she aborted the baby i saw all this in their wow this girl called me her love of her life ohhh she can't do without me she can't cheat lol fear who no fear women...fast-forward i pretended that i love her just to get her to my bed unfortunately everything went sour for me i started feeling pain every day, lonely and boredom. I decided not to call her for a day and she didn't call me back till a month, we did not chat or call for 1 months 1 week, I deleted her number every history of her on my phone, then she called me after 1 month I don't even remember her number again I've already move on with my life. I first heard the voice I know she is the one but pretended like I don't know who's on the line.
Her: Hello....how are you doing ?
Me: Huh?..who is this please?
Her: Ahh (my name) so you don't remember me again?
Me: Ummhh nah i don't think so.
Her: This is (her name )... (my name) Please i beg you please i'm sorry for what happen, i'm not happy since when you left.
Me: OK heard
Her:Please nah, how are you doing?
Me: I'm fine ok, ummh i”m kinda busy when you called. We should talk later.
Her: oh OK, please call me when you are done.
Me: saying this in my mind *who is going to call this one* Ended the call.
LOL bro do you think am gon call her? Nah I don't go back to shiiit again she cheated on me the hoe ain't loyal, she called me in the night didn't pick, she saw me online on fb and messaged it took me 2 days to reply she was like I didn't call her I was like I'm kinda busy these, told her even my mom just complained that I didn't call her...she said it seems I'm busy person now and she liked it that way I was like OK......let keep this short...last year 2020 on my birthday November 29 she texted me on fb wishing me happy me HBD I replied after 4 days she started nagging, insulting me and calling me names that I don't call her and I don't care about her she said she call me sometimes I don't sometimes pick I'll pick and tell her am busy i will call back at the end of the day I won't call her, i told her you're a pretender....lol she said am a pretender right ... i didn't reply the next thing she did is Facebook blocking, lol she blocks me on fb bro...that is the end of my story i just try to keep this short....lol bro I will never simp for any woman again beside once a cheat always a cheat i trust a cheat..
I applied RedPill theory bro this is fVcking working for me guys, another girl broke up with me yesterday I'm gon share the story later need to take a break. Thanks to GLYCOLYSISS Ubunja Martinez39s Skepticus pansophist CAPSLOCKED CaveAdullam and all the guys that contributed to this thread.

Awesome!

The fact op brought this here means she has already made a decision and is looking for validation here. Poor guy.

Where is tjr picture of the woman?

Dpsychologist:
Many teenagers are also facing same problems. And most of the time they have no one to depend on. And asking others about women sometimes might be embarrassing so many men pretend they know how to get ladies and use money as a weapon to entire women.

Some of them weh get people, hormone no deh gree them listen.

Oblongata:
Abeg wetin be the meaning of ‘hot’ again?

You are trying desperately so hard for nairalanders to accept you but quite frankly, there’s no need for that...

We already have the likes of bobrisky and co, we no kuku mind them... so your own no new to us

Go get a job sis, or bro... and while you at it, get a life!

Ps we still see you as a guy wearing wig

You could just avoid this thread you know. You are not smart I tell you.

Intersex be you and God bless.

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

No sir!

Like Afenifere like Ohaneze ndi Igbo.

uncleck:
interestingly, you're sat down, did a lot of research and wrote a very long article on just how to woo a lady. And the price tag is 2k. Yet you have the effrontery to call someone a simp. Chai!

If you bought that article you will not be here trying to console the fact that you are a simp (f00l).

ziondaughter247:
See this one! I am sure you are still in your face me I face you forming 'redpill'. Better tidy up your character. Old age is not far. Treat your woman like shit and watch how you will be discarded like poop in your old age. Be warned! There in no point in forming stupidity for your wife.

I didn't know nairaland has a way of displaying people's address and living details. I thought this was an anonymous forum.


To your point on old age, if you don't plan regardless how many wives/children you have, and no matter how much you adored her, you'd suffer at that point with or without her.

Men listen: When you marry and you over adore your wife, worship her (which is not wrong but has its consequences) when you should be planning for your retirement, your wife will be taken either by your daughter or your son to his house where she will be taken care of leaving you alone (so much for company in old age) and you will leave alone but this time without already laid out plans put to action during your young age. Sounds crazy right? But that's the truth. Have your wife, your kids and focus on getting something that will take care of you during your vulnerable age.

Get this: NO MATTER HOW YOU WORSHIP HER, PRAY FOR HER AND OR LOVE HER, IF SHE IS GOING TO CHEAT, THERE'S NO STOPPING HER!.

Have a beautiful day Princess.

uncleck:
Nairaland headquarters of red pill will call him a simp. But the fact is, if you are married, the longevity of life and your happiness thereof, depends on your wife. If worshiping her will make your home a happy one, go ahead and do it. Don't let hearsay or unfounded suspicion ruin your happiness. Maka ndu Ogologo.



Your roof is still my concern. Check my signature

Simp.

RisenPhoenix1:
Even kids were taught these simple facts of life. Bu these days, they are being taught that they are not responsible for anything, not even their own well being. It's the new age entitlement mentality.

What pisses me off however, is how they feel so self righteous, accusing others of being unreasonable because you advise a path of caution. They've even coined a new phrase for it; "victim blaming". It started with rape victims who dress up in bras and thongs and drape, get drunk, and themselves across a one star hotel bed with four doped up street boys, then scream "rape!". And now they've extended it to every single type of crime. Victims are supposed to do whatever they like and should never be held responsible for their foolishness.

That's the world we live in. No one wants to be judged yet keep doing things that will lead to judgement.

The kind of life we live in.

".. A lot depends on the happiness of your woman"

The simps anthem.

RisenPhoenix1:
Don't mind them. They fail to understand that because a murderer is wrong to murder does not mean that the victim should not also take reasonable precautions to prevent crime. A thief is a thief and should be blamed for stealing; but I'm not going to be waving a wad of cash in the middle of ajegunle at 11pm and be claiming "the victim is never to blame, blame the thug that robbed me". That's stupid.

I wonder why they've not done this. Welps my bad. They do it unconsciously because they are only taught its wrong to do kill, steal and do all the wrong things ever known to mankind. They were never taught how they could mitigate this on their end.


I remember when I was in school (University), even before I entered the university, I rolled with all these cult boys and bad boys, they told me, if you are not sure where you are going to or when you will be back, never go out with your android phone or anything that I can't risk losing. I listened, the fools amongst my friends would laugh at me for not coming to school with phone and wanting to go home before it's 4pm. They didn't know until one of them had to go through the experience that I was preventing from ever happening to me twice before he could learn. He was harassed and had his phone takes away from him with a slap. If he had kept his phone at home, by that 5pm, he would have been OK perhaps only the little cash he had would be taken from him. Only then did he understand what I was doing. During my time in school you'd never find me at odd time and the only odd time I was in school (9pm cause of my project) I was harassed by cultist, I had to bully my way out as well. But happened next, I became scared of a possible attack from them (FYI I'm not a cultist).

All this story boils down to (whoever that's reading this) is, try on your end to enforce security, it cost less and will save you a lot (including life). Don't listen to your friends that will bully with "are they not humans like you". They're but they're worse.

Quite a pity that the dude must have moved on you are still talking about him.


Musta did a number on ya silly Toke, hmm?

RisenPhoenix1:
Those who feel personally attacked by any advice to desist from opening legs up and down will now come and blame you of victim blaming. They want to insist that they should be free to live as they like without any consequences.

Let them I say. It's nature's way of weeding out the foolish so they can't continue spreading their DNA.

What the dead girl did is the same as a girl walking in the night in an environment she knows is not safe even for men.

This is the same as a girl going to the church to read her books when there's the library and the whole nation was on lockdown.

You can't point what's right to people ruled by their emotions.

Saviolamemphix:
Men ,
Beware the classic gun-to-the-head marriage pressure administered by your typical non-descript, rudderless late 20’s/early 30’s woman.
When a woman pressures you mercilessly to marry her, bullying to the point of threatening a break up – this is the shit test of ALL shit tests. Treat it as such – If you fail this shit test , you are ruined for life !
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The best way to pass a shit test is to not play it at all. Do the complete opposite of what that test says. If it says you should pass, fail. If it says you buy, don't!

RisenPhoenix1:
I saw it earlier, but didn't want to grace it with a response if not for your mention. I'm actually speechless as to how to advice him. The op is the author of all his misfortunes, yet he's wondering whether he married the right woman. A woman is how you train her. Let me write out an analogy and tell me how you will advice such a person. Here goes:

I bought a brand new Toyota Hilux, tear rubber on credit. I've still not been able to pay the seller and he keeps incessantly reminding me of my debt, even though he gave me a receipt in advance.

I don't like to check the water levels in my radiator, and sometimes when I do and there's no water, the tap is too far from my garage so I'll drive it without topping the water. Recently it started overheating, that was what first got me thinking.

Brake oil is too expensive, so I don't gauge the brake oil levels in my car. After two brake failures leading to accidents, I'm getting confused about what to do.

I forgot to put engine oil inside my car after I drained the sump, and my engine knocked. Now it's not even moving at all,and the cost is prohibitive.

All these incidents make me wonder whether Toyota Hilux is the right car for me at all. Please advise.

1,2,3...go.

Omo....


When I saw the thread the answer to all these analogy hit me which is the answer to ops problem.

Princessjoke:
I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out...he saw all the chats. Now I'm loosing a relationship of 3yrs plus..,coz of a fling that's not even up to 2 month... I'm done for...I'm finished where will I start from. He's heartbroken, he couldn't believe I could do such...it's just one time...he should be able to forgive and forget...

Every armed rubber started with "...just one time...", likewise prostitutes.

Olunmercy56:
I don't know if some men are just created to be a cheater Must you cheat on your partner Why not control your mumu long stick Please face your life and precious health, no man who is a cheat is worth dying for. There are still many trustworthy men out there who will not cheat on their partners, they love their partners for real. Wise up

Let he who is not with sin cast the first stone.

Skepticus:
The advice given by these gold-diggers to manipulate men in the red pill/MGTOW is something that you are deeply aware of (being an OG here). However, those reading stuffs here are at different level of the red pill and MGTOW. Some who have swallowed the red pill are a few inches away, into going back to worshipping pussies over their lives. Some here may not be interested in all we say. They just get the temporary kick off being in an all-male thread discussing about issues mostly related to women. As soon as they are off this thread, they go back to dissing those in the red pill and wallowing in their blue-pilled state. Some here, (I'm aware) are on a deeper level as monks. No interest in impressing/gaming women, and the society. They just want to make their money, enjoy their lives and be left alone.

In typical gold-digging fashion, the advises (targeting rich guys who show their "red pilledness) have ranged from playing feminine and submissive (Chameleon), never give sex easily (acting chaste) while having an appearance that messes with his sexual imaginations (implied sex, knowing that men have a weakness for sex). Don't ask him for cash (it cheapens her game. Only cheap prostitutes do that), rather project his spendings into business/investments. This appeals to his ego and he starts to commit gradually without knowing while she makes her moves on the low.

For the rich ones going their own way, use shaming tactics like " gay-shaming" "stingy-shaming" into pricking his ego. In trying to prove you wrong, he spends. For those who appear to be monks or dilly-dallying with women, abort mission - wrong target.

Most of these are something I'm aware of. To think your fellow guy will call you gay because you've told them and stood your ground that you will never spend money on Women, drugs, alcohol and betting.

Martinez39s:
Why did you bring this case here when it is obvious to a primary-6 kid that you should cut her off? If you can't figure this out on your own, you and your girlfriend deserve each other. SMH.

Gaskia!