₦airaland Forum

Zzor:
Men should learn and try to apologize first in most issues, they should learn to appreciate women

If it wouldn't be Zzor...

Anyway, that's for your gentleman, loving wanna be men

It will depend on the kind of offence. But none is treated carelessly.

Skepticus:
The southeast also has its own share of cowards but the political system in Igbo land (Republican and stateless), though not perfect, keep these cowards in check.

Events in the last few years make me admire the Fulanis more than ever. It's not like their tactics are admirable or civil, but I respect societies who still have some level of dogged masculinity in a world populated by cowardly men. They make their moves silently and incorporate other ethnicities and manipulate them into achieving their Fulanization agenda.

I started to study them and was amazed at how an ethnic group not known to possess land manage to "bully" others from their lands, dominate them and spread their influence in about 34 countries in Africa. In fact, the presidents of Senegal, Equatorial Guinea, Guinea Bissau, Nigeria, Gambia are all core-fulanis. They dominate ECOWAS.

We might hate Buhari, but to the Fulanis, he occupies the hall of fame that Fulani heroes like Uthman Dan Fodio made. Real men.

I no go lie give you. The Fulanis has shown us what dogged masculinity can do.

The Igbos on the order hand are waking up to defend their own. At some point they wanted to use Ohaneze to clamp us down politically and I really thank God we exercised that the interest of Ohaneze is not the interest of the people of igbo.

Might I also remind you that the Amotekun has been infiltrated and does not stand true to its constitution.

Minjim:
Where is Nnamdi Kanu?

Look at Sowore. They arrested, released and arrested him. He never jumped bail.
Look at Sunday too- same.

So you expect the Yoruba Obas to go around chasing Nigerians from one part of Nigeria?

Who do you think made the move that Sunday has not been arrested.

You think bravery is about shouting and jumping.
Use your method we use ours.

Imagine. Saying one fugitive warned Yorubas.
Thunder fire you and that bribe taking /betraying fugitive

This is the highest you and your tribe can do. Stay on here to release thunder which you don't have to fire me.

Agbara otujo ya eji abali aga?

Them be lesbians. Nothing wrong actually, it's sexy.

Skepticus:
Traitors of any sane protest movement would always come from so-called "activists".

Yoruba's are never in short of these back-stabbers.

Personally, I want Sunday Igboho to abandon his struggle to clean Yoruba land so that Moróns who constitute a high number of the Yoruba Population would run to their "traitor" politicians/traditional rulers/leaders for help. Yeye people

Ever since this Igboho saga, I've been seeing Yorubas as cowards. No offense if you are one. This was what Nnamdi Kanu warned them off. NK told them that after Boko Haram deals with the North, they will come for the South, they thought it was a joke. Look what is happening now, even the so called Obas are not doing anything about it.

I now realise why in the Igbo land, we don't reverence our Kings like the Yorubas do. It's not hate, believe you me, but if they had played their part during the war, we will not be here. I hope the fulanis destroy them all including the middle belts.

Keketu:
please never message her like this again please

Why is that? I'm just looking for her services.

crackhaus:
Simple, so I don't know why the issue of DNA testing rattles them so much when it should be a good thing for everyone involved.

The writer of the article in the OP should have directed her rage to the scientists who invented the technology. Lol

Well said sir! Well said!

Whoever we laid with although may seems like we deceived the person into it, wanted to be laid by us.


Paternity fraud no matter how you want to down play it, has always been there since the beginning of time.

illicit:
The guys spend on them....


I saw my student in jss 1 gave his pen to a girl during exam....

the girl kept writing, he didn't write anything, he was now looking and smiling sheepishly..

He is a “real man”.

This one na just say, "Did you arrest the Northerners". Nansense and Nigeria.

buckeyemedia:
As silly as saying Abacha brought the internet to Nigeria?

Sarcasm, do you speak that?

So na Igboho make them ban crypto trade ni... OK.

BLOODYSPERM:
Men are forged, women are cultivated

I will not explain this

It is self explanatory.

RisenPhoenix1:
With over 200million cases and over a million deaths from malaria annually; mostly in sub-Saharan Africa; I think our priorities are misplaced. Covid-19 is only so hyped because it is a white man killing disease. We in Africa should concentrate on black-man killer diseases.

Oh no. What we are after is banning crypto currency and other stupid laws they wake one morning to implement.


The worst part of this is that this will chase away investors, and they will lose money from start ups here in Nigeria with the way they wake up to impose laws on the people. No one is sure of the government policies and when it will come.

I am really pissed at this country.

softset:
I have always said it that this government is run by insane people. How could you just wake up and make such a decision?

I won't blame them, next election, if you like collect 5000 you will get worse treatment.

Look at NIN, some idiot just woke up and made a decision without putting lots of things into consideration, so I arrive Nigeria now with no way to get a phone number. Many government decisions are never thought through.

We deserve better than what we are getting, Nigerians are smart people, we should never settle for less , mediocrity should not be an option when choosing leaders

Nigerians are not smart. Our government and the people who represents us is the proof.

More kids to be adopted.

Skepticus:
I'm not even pissed at you for replying. It's an unwritten rule we agreed on at the beginning of this thread to help men focus on the purpose of the thread as men are known to "LOSE FOCUS" when women enter into an "all-male" space.

Occasionally, guys here, reply female monikers with comments that put them in their place. It's acceptable but when a known female moniker on nairaland makes a comment on any topic or thread, with words that troll and sarcastically insult men, I deliberately ignore so that I don't fall into the trap (shît test) she set. I and other men here called you out because you are a man. No word for the female moniker, she is doing what women are naturally conditioned to do - which is testing for weakness on men and using it to their advantage.

Your "shalaye" reply was unnecessary for a known female attention seeker commenting on a thread dedicated to "educating" and "liberating" men with taunting terms like "Alfa". Some of these female monikers use "Alfa Meils" - a red flag, which is intended to taunt and insult your masculinity and you see guys continue to engage these female monikers with sensible logical comments, instead of calling her out on her misbehaviour directly (or equally taunting her with sarcasm) or ignoring her outrightly. In the end, you end up giving her free validation and the opportunity to poke holes in your frame, which is exactly what she wants.

To think the dude brought a thread she opened to hurt her emotions. Shit just backfired.

Skepticus:
I'm not even pissed at you for replying. It's an unwritten rule we agreed on at the beginning of this thread to help men focus on the purpose of the thread as men are known to "LOSE FOCUS" when women enter into an "all-male" space.

Occasionally, guys here, reply female monikers with comments that put them in their place. It's acceptable but when a known female moniker on nairaland makes a comment on any topic or thread, with words that troll and sarcastically insult men, I deliberately ignore so that I don't fall into the trap (shît test) she set. I and other men here called you out because you are a man. No word for the female moniker, she is doing what women are naturally conditioned to do - which is testing for weakness on men and using it to their advantage.

Your "shalaye" reply was unnecessary for a known female attention seeker commenting on a thread dedicated to "educating" and "liberating" men with taunting terms like "Alfa". Some of these female monikers use "Alfa Meils" - a red flag, which is intended to taunt and insult your masculinity and you see guys continue to engage these female monikers with sensible logical comments, instead of calling her out on her misbehaviour directly (or equally taunting her with sarcasm) or ignoring her outrightly. In the end, you end up giving her free validation and the opportunity to poke holes in your frame, which is exactly what she wants.

They don't know. It's quite difficult to ignore, but then one must subdue his flesh.

PETUK:
Yesterday one hopeless Simp on Facebook, Rant HQ to be precised wrote, no man can claim a child under his roof even if DNA says the child is not his that his wife cheated on him.
Can you imagine women were calling him a REAL MAN, I was like what the fvck

It's called Rant HQ for a reason.

Best time to marry.

Nice way to cover up a loot. kudos Ekiti State.

This is what happens when a woman refuses her man to bond with his daughter. Although it only just a small part of the cause of this rape, because even when boded a deranged man would still sleep with his daughter.

Levels1:
I think the moderator should restrict this platform for adults only to make comments subject to (18) years above.

And why is that? Did you have to tag my comment to make this comment?

Do you understand what "no offense to my Yoruba friends" is?

humilitypays:
You really lack manners yet you are searching for a partner in same place you are displaying classless manner.

If you don't change, I am not wishing you bad, but honestly if you don't change this foolish temperament of yours, my dear, you are going to end up gracing filthy beds of pretentious men.


Experience have taught us that the easiest ladies to bed are those that say no sex before marriage.


Sex has never been the reason guys break up with girls, if sex is the reason, then all married men would leave their wives the very day they have sex with them. Think beyond sex. Be a woman of value and no man will leave you just because he had sex with you. It was never about sex, it was about who you are outside sex. The thing is, before sex men ignore a lot of you girls flaws, but after sex they become more attentive and start to analyse your personality which makes them leave you after the sex.

Develop good character, have respect, be humble at all times, be jovial, love and respect people, chase your life dreams with dedication and your best partner will come your way online or offline.

But this style of being disrespectful and calling God on top will only end you up with pretentious men that will further finish what is left of you.


I have observed few of your comments, you come off as a very rude, disrespectful, mannerless girl who uses born again pretence to cloak her lack of good home training. You really need to work on yourself if you truly want the best in life.

Peace

This is hard work not gonna lie. I have been doing great, but I have fallen out of thr wagon. Its pretty difficult finding my way back in.

No offense to my Yoruba friends in the house.

I expected this to happen, you know why? Yorubas are cow.ards!

This dude has been threatened and he was looking for a way to back down. Which other way if not to insult the people the Yorubas have in high esteem? Watch him cool off and never to be heard again. It's all a game plan, politics. Nigga has built his reputation politically, he's gonna contest for position soon.

Before I used to be mad at my tribe for not having a symbolic ruler like the Yorubas have obas. But this right here showed me that the Ibos hate to be controlled (to be a zombie).

Skepticus:
There are good girls. Na u fool ursef.

This 2021, I won't join you guys to blame women for taking advantage of your stupidity.

Shebi, U get money pass other guys and u wan show say u sabi spend as a lover boy. You must double that money.

I appreciate the lady for teaching some of you sense. Weak men everywhere!

Ever since I gave up. In fact I'm encouraging women to continue with advantage. Some niggies ain't supposed to be rich.

RisenPhoenix1:
If she had asked nicely, maybe she would have cleared her rent and had some left over to invest. Instead, she's forming tough gal. Now she's homeless, single and about to be penniless and in debt.

So much for a smart girl.

cococandy:
@bold is the argument you’re both making against yourselves. No one told you that all women or even most women do this. You chose to say that in response to the thread because you want to misrepresent pregnancy as no big deal. Create a poll on this thread alone and see how many ladies who had pregnancy cravings actually inconvenienced anyone else in other to satisfy them. I bet you the number would be less than those who didn’t.

Then in the rest of your post you also said your other aunt handled her cravings well.
So argue for and against your own point.

Good job. Keep going

BTW. As a pregnant woman, I wouldn’t hide my cravings. If I can cook it, I will. If I can’t, I’ll go get it myself or order it via any of the multiple food services available or ask my SO to stop by where it’s sold and buy it for me. The options are plenty.
It’s not a complicated life.

What you highlighted were points I have to propose the fact women exaggerate their cravings and I am not contradicting myself with them.

cococandy:
How many pregnant women have ever told you their cravings were uncontrollable?

You and Phoenix reacting and responding to arguments that no one was making to begin with.

My mother did have cravings when she had me. Due to the fact my father wasn't around during her time of pregnancy and when he was, he wasn't helpful, my mother dealt with the cravings. And when my father left to hustle for the family, she still handled her cravings too with my other brothers. Which is to say, those cravings are there and they're over bloated by you women in an attempt to seek attention from the men you are married to. Then I've been with my aunt who had her cravings during her pregnancy, her husband was that "knight in shining amor" you would think she was having baby Jesus with the way she showed her cravings. I have stayed with my uncles whose wife was doing all the hustle, she was pregnant as at that time, and she never showed any sign of cravings at all. However she did tell me once in a while what she wanted to eat at that point in time, but it all shows it can be controlled and that other women who actually show it are just exaggerating it.

cococandy:
Oh look. And you weren’t trying to manipulate anyone with your desire for garri and groundnut

She's smart enough to know the minute she tries it, she loses her job. Duh!

NoToPile:
Mine was garri and groundnut on a working day I can never forget


I actually told my boss I wanted to drink garri and he was like ohhh that's what the twins want to eat today right. When I marched back to the office with groundnut roasted in the shells, I drank my garri joyfully my colleagues were trying to hold back their smiles, I didnt send them at all. Its not easy getting groundnut on that street, I guess I was just lucky to see someone hawking.

The slapping taste of the garri was so heavenly as of I had never tasted garri before

Pregnancy cravings are very real.

Now my question is, was it uncontrollable that would have made you request that either your boss or colleagues went out to get them for you and why did you have to get it yourself?