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pachigo001:
is like ignoring there manipulation do frustrate them

exactly... and it also make them attracted to you at the same time... unlike the nice or easily manipulated man, he will be used and discarded and push towards the end of the earth...

lovediehatelive:
You'll see a man hustling morning and night, and everything will just be going into a blackhole and he can barely eat, let alone save.

Save as much as you can, invest as much as you can while single. When you marry, all your funds won't be enough self.

A word is enough

now just imagine, with all these burden of performance on the man, he now adds the struggles of life with a bad wife or a nagging bitch, trust me, he just signed his death warrant along with that marriage certificate...

the sad thing is, when this happens, no one will be there to save him...

women love drama, she wants to have some dramatic moments with you that's why she purposely does things that will upset you so you guys can argue and talk and talk... they thrive from this emotional energy, you displaying that you don't give a crap about her childish plays will make her rethink her decision... once in a while give her that drama she wants when she least expect them, just act completely different to her sometimes, and romantic also sometimes, and also mean when the need be... but if the behaviour is constant like purposely doing what offends you no matter how much you try to correct her, dump her, your peace is more valuable to be traded for any b!tch...

in summary, women are adult children...

Samantha124:
Comrade it seems like your English is not englishing.

I said 8 inches should be an average size.

do you even know what 8 inches is? I doubt? or you've let what you see in porn destroy how you perceive sex and dick length??

or should I say you've slept with numerous men to know which dick is small and which dick is big let alone 8 inches? smh

livenija:
After so many weeks of posting the sex, we finally did it n i just have to say, i dont know how to tell her, shes has a wide pussy, omg I have a 6.3 inch dik I will know cause my phone is 6.5. Yes I took measurements lol

Am so sad now cause i tot it would be a bit tight.

Do i tell her, that her pussy is wide or do i go on with d relationship n hope it doesn't last

have you now realised that sex isn't worth the stress and risks many of put yourself through? now, you're even disappointed... na when you never do the thing e go dey shack you like say world wan end, but after you don do am, you go just shake your head...

stay away from fornication...

you can be poor in a rich country if you don't utilise the opportunities and do what's necessary and expected of you, and you can also be rich in a poor country if you utilise the opportunities and take necessary risks...

if I'm to choose, just like the moniker above me have said, I will prefer being rich in a rich country... massive privileges, less enemies...

because it has always been a game... but it wasn't pronounced like this in the past... back then, the game of love was played subconsciously, now it's being played consciously or let me say intentionally, making people self aware of the moves they make, and what they do... because the game is being revealed, this is why it's becoming increasingly difficult to love someone genuinely because you now understand what it's all about, and also thanks to the media, people can freely talk about the game... it's said that the game is to be sold and not told... for you to win now, you have to play the game without letting others know you're playing it... you might not understand it yet, but every human relationship has been a game, the predator and the prey, the user and the used, the giver and the receiver, the manipulator and the manipulated, the superior and the inferior, the master and the slave, you just have to sharpen your senses in order not to be swept away by the waves of these illusions...

in summary, love is war...

luminouz:
Let them come. We'll fight them together. I am Spartacus and you are Gannicus or is it Oenomaûs?

We go finish them

I will be Kratos in God of War

Emmizay12:
Low life's hunnn

Low life's have successfully made prostitution the oldest profession in the world

Bro, old, young handsome, rich, poor, black, white, intelligent, dumb, righteous, unrighteous, confident, happy, sad, ugly, american, Chinese or whatever tag you can tag a human being has bleeped a prostitute

K.

SCOOPERJEF:
Oga stop saying what you don't know. So in your own world of fantasy(which is shit by the way) it is only men who are low life and shortsighted that are sleeping with prostitutes abi..

Oga continue sleeping with prostitutes, okay you're not low life, are you satisfied?

anyways, you didn't quote the whole post which I modified soon after...

SCOOPERJEF:
how some you just come up with these kind of assumption is amazing. There are multiple proof of wealthy men moving with prostitute and their life or business never crumbled but some low life asswipe from nairaland thinks it is only men who are low lifes are the one sleeping with prostitutes. Try to change your mentality is dangote a low life or Thomas partey. Archraf hakimi and a host of others moving with escort low life's or shortsighted. Make unu try a dey get sense o

the thing with you guys is arrogance, you guys pick one or two examples and use it to justify the kind of life you live... the thing is exceptions is not the rule, and you don't really live with these people you mentioned to know what goes on behind the scene... I'm just stating fact about those who patronise sex workers... if you want to continue patronising them, that's your own problem, but don't try to justify it by bringing irrelevant examples, there's nothing worthy in it... if you're a man enough, and you don't have any problem with your self-esteem, you don't have any disabilities, I don't know why you should waste your resources while putting your life and reputation at risk patronising hookers... it's such a shame.. why pay for sex in the first place.??

it's just like you saying because some smokers lived long life, smoking is good then.. don't you know the damages smoking cause to you? or because some people consumed alcohol before driving then that makes drinking and driving okay... do you even know the effects of alcohol in the body?

if you cheat on her, don't confess, repent and move on...

if she caught you cheating and she cheats back, divorce her... that's the rule of the game... cheating is not the same with men and women...

before a woman cheat on you, she has lost all love and respect for you... but this is not true for a man, a man can have zero feelings for a woman and still fvck her... men don't attach feelings and emotions to sex, this is only for women...

1, 2, 3 go, ohyaa come for me...

she doesn't look happy with that, make her mother nor go collect her husband lmao... women know themselves and what they are capable of, this is why they hardly trust each other...

I remembered I once commented on a girl's photo that she posted with her mother... I said jokingly "your mother fine pass you ooo", omoo this girl vex for me sha... lmao, I was like, "sheybi na your mother?" mehn women just like drama

Emekaphilip360:
I disagree with you.

K.

humilitypays:
What a perfect answer.



Ignorance is bliss especially when it comes to romance, love, relationship and marriage.


Only fools find love, wise people always end up miserable and unhappy.

exactly, you perfectly understood what I meant... this is why the greatest love you would ever experience would be when you haven't fully understand what love or relationships is all about, the do's and don'ts of it.. ignorance is bliss sometimes but everything comes at a cost...

Emekaphilip360:
So you mean all the girls doing hookup, olosho and acting porn are all damaged?

I wish I could type more than just YES.

Emekaphilip360:
I still don’t get it. Imagine a girl that just suck and bang another man just few hours ago that’s the kind of girl some men want to hook up with.

Women too are trying. Banging almost 7 to 10 guys a day on the name of hookup. That kpekus will be on fire. This is why sex don’t mean shit to a woman. It’s just fun to them.

@bolded, only when a woman is damaged, sex would mean nothing to her anymore... because she's mentally damaged, she now sees the act as a type of charity work... this is why they migrate to hookup sites, roadside prostitution and onlyfans... when she has gotten to this stage, words like shame, immorality, consequences, accountability and responsibility will be no where to be found in her dictionary...

on the other hand, men who intentionally fvck and patronize these type of women you mentioned are low lifers and someone without standards... men who lack the balls, men who entice women with their money to get them laid, men who would fvck anything on skirt, men with shortsightedness, short term goals, men who are blinded by lust, men who are suffering from addictions, men who are sexually indisciplined and men who are of low IQs... real men don't eat nonsense...

crystalmoon:
same old story una no dey tired at all

truth doesn't change, only lies...

summary of the long post - stay away from fornication and things that offers you no benefit...

preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.My whole world is crumbling.
I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.
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he might have been facing a lot of pressure of getting cash, you know how the economy is now... he might be frustrated, this is why he resorted to gambling, but unfortunately, it's like going from frying pan to fire... gambling will crush him totally, he should take up available work for now while aiming bigger, not just sitting idle doing nothing hoping for a bigger contract, he must get working... but trust, no man will ever feel happy not being able to provide for his family, you might never know what he's going through or planning secretly... life is not even easy for the singles let alone the married ones, so please cut him some slack... talk to him, and you guys can discuss how money can be made, and I hope he really listens.. but one quick question, was there any red flags you noticed when you were dating?

and secondly, life is not a bed of roses, you have to get off the fantasy of happily ever after, there's nothing like that... there will be challenges you'll face in life... you just have to fight through it... yes, you might love him, but love is not what hold marriages, it's commitment... even the couples you admire online, have their own worst stages which they will never talk about but since they keep feeding you guys with fantasies, y'll believe that's what marriage is all about... if you base your marriage only on love, it will fail..

thirdly, why re you comparing your situation with others? do you know the kind of environment and connections they have? do you know if they had help? do you know what they did to get to where they are? why are you putting unnecessary pressure unto yourself because you wanna impress? see ehn, there's so much pains and struggles people hide from the world, we only share the good part of it on media, this is why social media is a place of lies, where hypocrites relate with each other... face your own struggles, be your own competition...

you married as a virgin as you should, but life doesn't end there... someone can be good but still experience some bad things, that's life for you... there are some circumstances that will be beyond your control, and you just have to live through it, this is a phase everyone will pass through whether you're good or bad... the only thing is that, your experiences shouldn't make you stumble but makes you stronger...

Auscajwazobia:
https://twitter.com/Wazobiaxpressgh/status/1712226635745808802?t=rTLxKowIdKsf1E--ZrVeEg&s=19

Here is the link and it's over 400k view. Next time mind how you react to peoples post.

it was only a valid question which people have the right to ask and it was a good thing you did by providing the link so to give people more access into the case and to prove how genuine it is... I've viewed the thread, and I saw other people testifying as well... well done 👍

the job now remains on the girl side to come out and speak boldly and say nothing but the TRUTH since the people are now on her side...

because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

Fajeed:
This is how it later went....

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damn! you shouldn't have showed up! remember I said even if you were gonna go on with something like this, she shouldn't know you were there...! damn! you fvcked up on that part... I don't know how the conversation with her and your friend goes but he might have hinted her through his chats with her that you were the one that was testing her all along.. because how come you said she mentioned your name and still told her how long you guys have been together at the same time?? she might have known that it's you who just wanna test her that's why the guy refused to tell her who gave him her contact...

remember, women are smart and very much smarter than men... you might have been the only guy used to checking up her phone like you've said earlier which screams insecurity, even if she's guilty, this would have let her come up with other strategies to use for you like clearing chats or leaving no trails of her cheating when she's with you.. even if you're suspecting a woman of cheating, you shouldn't let her know that you're investigating on her until she's caught red-handed... now with this mistake you made with this stunt, she's going to be fully guarded... she might be real with you but now, she holds all the cards and I don't think you have any cards left with you...

1. she now knows you love her so much and might decide to use it against you... women rarely appreciate true love...

2. she might be real with you, she might not, but with this mistake, she will come up with other tricks...

3. your clinginess and desperation will lead her to cease being attracted to you... women don't like needy men..

4. you've shown her that you might have no life and can't live without her hence the stress you go through in finding if she's truly loyal to you...

5. a woman should be the one always wondering if you're cheating on her and not the other way around... she would keep finding you attractive that way with the kind of aura you emanate...

6. if you're emotionally invested more than the woman you're in relationship with, she will cease to being in love with you and starts seeing you as weak... whoever needs each other less in the relationship holds all the cards...

7. a woman should always see that you're more carried away with your mission than with her.. this way, if she's real with you, she will find you more attractive and if she's cheating on you, she will easily let her guard down because she feels you're more confused on yourself than on her...

8. it's actually not quite complicated to know if a woman is real with you or not, just don't let them know of your plans... always stay 10 times ahead of them...

9. and what you said about her restricting you to her posts, women, women do this very well, since you're not married to her yet, she will keep her options open and she wouldn't want you to see things that will also spoil her chances with you and also her chances with other prospective suitors... women always keep their options open know this and know peace, even when married especially if her loyalty was bought by the man she ended up with or if she married a simp or a weak man...

10. since she now holds all the cards, she's left you in a rock and hard place and anything you do again won't seem genuine to her because she will feel you're still testing her with it... Even if she's not real, she can use the fact that you haven't caught her cheating and also the scenario with your friend to exonerate herself and in also to emotionally manipulate you into thinking she's real .. now you no won't really know where she falls into...

My final line is, brother, anyhow the matter later turns out to be, just focus on yourself, she might be real, she might not, but the fact is, focus on yourself... there are plenty of girls in this world for you, you're a man, you can date and marry more than one. You have that privilege, don't give yourself unnecessary high blood pressure over one... I know you love her and even more than she does, but as a man, you don't deal with women on an emotional platform because you just make yourself an easy target for women to prey on you.. just act normal to her and don't overburden yourself in the relationship... if you feel your mind ain't at rest, the best is to let her go for your sanity... But you should work on your emotions... Women think, men act.. so act like a man you were born to be... always act like you don't need a woman and women will always want to be with you...

hope you've written down your will and gave your siblings passwords to your gadgets?

Auscajwazobia:
Go to my page on twitter quicklinkentertainment and chat with me I will reply to you.

I'm not sending you any fvcking message... where's the link? you said you've made the post trend already, so where's the link?

you even said you have a donor who wants to offer her something? who's the donor? what's his account? bullshit

Auscajwazobia:
Hello, kindly send me your number now, don't hide because I have made the post trend and many are requesting to see you authenticate the post. If you are not lying against him send me a message now or I will track you now.

I promise your image will not show.

where's the link, and we would like to see the many people that are requesting...

oyetpel:
Where is the link to your Twitter post? And why do you keep disturbing her to give you her contacts?

good question...

how will she honour you if she doesn't respect you? respect comes before honour... do some people actually sit down and think before they talk or do they actually imagine how the words they say will be perceived by other people?

He calls himself apostle, didn't he see the verse in the Bible where it was ordered for women to respect their husbands?

Wike played the game perfectly!

as expected, when it comes to trends like this, always expects a particular gender to take the leading position marketing their tools of work...

but come innovation, technology, critical thinking, intellectual conversation, politics, they are found wanting...

this day was never about any awareness on breast cancer, it was about harlotry, immorality and debauchery... as expected, low IQ lots would jump on it..

VinnyBaba:
Because Biologically, Sex is for Procreation!🙁

A Normal man Should Ejaculate after 2,3minutes! 🤨🙂

But with DRUGS and Sex Enhancers, Guys go 40mins and Ihour,
Thereby deceiving Naive Girls that every Guy should last 1hour!😒😏

that's why you shouldn't have anything serious with a hoe... a girl that sampled many guys have already been damaged mentally to know what real sex looks and feel like...

she avoided a stray bullet... make she nor go marry gaybriel.. foolish man..