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obviously she still wants to have "fun"... you never marry her, you don dey get high BP... I'm so sorry for you bro.. person wey you never marry, your instincts don dey make you go through her phone... I pity you...

better have multiple options other than her if you value your peace of mind and select the lesser devil amongst them... and let me warn you, don't be so insecure as to let a lady know that you're afraid to lose her... why are you checking her phone? from your actions alone, she should know that the moment she fvcks up, she's gone... if she's doing something that makes you doubt her loyalty, you better let her be. the way you're talking sef, you're already emotionally invested and you value the relationship more than her... just dey play... e go shock you like electricity.

since she knows you're serious about her, she feels she has you hooked and you have nowhere else to go to, so she know even if she misbehaves you'll come back to her... you've commited to her while she's not committed to you... keep playing...

as usual, a foolish thread created by a renowned foolish person.

as usual, a foolish thread created by a renowned foolish person.

hmm the update has been existing before, which simply means not getting married or signing any marriage contacts... it's just a new form in which Hakimi did his own.. It's the same thing Cristiano Ronaldo have been using...

have they been intimate, if yes, she might be wasting her time..

and is the man financially ready and willing to settle down? if he's not ready mentally and physically, there's nothing she can do. She has to move on.

meedoLock:
Lol. U must be a Ronaldo fan. You input some facts up there though.

I'm a Messi fan... but the truth doesn't discriminate... it touches everything affected...

Women don't love men, they only use them..... this is why I'm not surprised Ronaldo refused to marry that lady she is with.. if she like make she born quadruplet for Cristiano, I don't think he will even marry her up... I even heard that Ronaldo's mum was even against him marrying... women knows what other women are capable of when it comes to their own sons.. but they will happily use another person's son... women know how ruthless and dangerous they can be..... I only pity Messi because the day Antonella will decide to switch on him, he might regret it.. well, I heard they've been together for a while before he even got famous, nevertheless she's still a woman and hypergamy doesn't care how long they've been together, that's if feminism and greed doesn't corrupt her... whether Achraf Hakim did what he did out of love for his mother or his mum's advice to him or out of logical decision due to how harsh the system is to men in the west is a question for another day...

why I love this case is that, it will only open men's eyes the more... it even gives Ronaldo more sense of fulfillment on why he shouldn't marry that woman... and other footballers will see that women don't love them, they only use them to upgrade themselves. women are mercenaries.... they don't go for a thing if they have nothing to gain from it... so don't be surprised that most divorce are initiated by women, they know what they are doing.. His mother's prayers and love protected Achraf this time, he should be more careful next time because the girl always dresses half naked and appear slutty most of the time.. I don't think she's even a Muslim sef.. he's lucky, else he would have ended the way other Men ended...

I'm so sorry for simps... a rude awakening is coming to them very soon... all weak men must suffer...

Women don't love men, they only use them..... this is why I'm not surprised Ronaldo refused to marry that lady she is with.. if she like make she born quadruplet for Cristiano, I don't think he will even marry her up... I even heard that Ronaldo's mum was even against him marrying... women knows what other women are capable of when it comes to their own sons.. but they will happily use another person's son... women know how ruthless and dangerous they can be..... I only pity Messi because the day Antonella will decide to switch on him, he might regret it.. well, I heard they've been together for a while before he even got famous, nevertheless she's still a woman and hypergamy doesn't care how long they've been together, that's if feminism and greed doesn't corrupt her...

why I love this case is that, it will only open men's eyes the more... it even gives Ronaldo more sense of fulfillment on why he shouldn't marry that woman... and other footballers will see that women don't love them, they only use them to upgrade themselves. women are mercenaries.... they don't go for a thing if they have nothing to gain from it... so don't be surprised that most divorce are initiated by women, they know what they are doing.. His mother's prayers and love protected Achraf this time, he should be more careful next time because the girl always dresses half naked and appear slutty most of the time.. I don't think she's even a Muslim sef.. he's lucky, else he would have ended the way other Men ended...
I'm so sorry for simps...

a rude awakening is coming to them very soon... all weak men must suffer...

Women don't love men, they only use them..... this is why I'm not surprised Ronaldo refused to marry that lady she is with.. if she like make she born quadruplet for Cristiano, I don't think he will even marry her up... I even heard that Ronaldo's mum was even against him marrying... women knows what other women are capable of when it comes to their own sons.. but they will happily use another person's son... women know how ruthless and dangerous they can be..... I only pity Messi because the day Antonella will decide to switch on him, he might regret it.. well, I heard they've been together for a while before he even got famous, nevertheless she's still a woman and hypergamy doesn't care how long they've been together, that's if feminism and greed doesn't corrupt her...

why I love this case is that, it will only open men's eyes the more... it even gives Ronaldo more sense of fulfillment on why he shouldn't marry that woman... and other footballers will see that women don't love them, they only use them to upgrade themselves. women are mercenaries.... they don't go for a thing if they have nothing to gain from it... so don't be surprised that most divorce are initiated by women, they know what they are doing.. His mother's prayers and love protected Achraf this time, he should be more careful next time because the girl always dresses half naked and appear slutty most of the time.. I don't think she's even a Muslim sef.. he's lucky, else he would have ended the way other Men ended...

I'm so sorry for simps... a rude awakening is coming to them very soon... all weak men must suffer...

he won't do anything until you really do something threatening... I'm sure he's enjoying his own room and he expects you to use your own money to fix it.. you have three options, arrange soldiers or police to threaten him

relocate if it's possible to get back your money

or use your own money to fix it for peace to reign.

Borntosmoke:
Pls make money . I'm talking from experience eeenh!!!. Na girls go toast you. No be you go toast dem

to be honest, I'm tired of all these make money make money women will come... the problem is not that women won't come, the problem is that who are the women coming? are they coming to take their share, drain you, destroy your life, improve your life or kill you because of what you have?

the more you grow as a man, the more carefully you should choose a woman to mingle with.... the more powerful you become, the more careful you should be around women... most women are mercenaries... what you mostly need to win around women as a man is confidence, experience and your ability to sweet talk your way around them... anything else is secondary... never use your resources to win or impress a woman, you must continue doing that, else she leaves.

you don't need a life partner.. what you need is a life's purpose.

the way the system is designed is to keep the average people poor... it's the matrix.. you'll keep working and working and working while you forget yourself slowly... the taxes, the bills are designed in such a way you'll continue working as a slave till you die... this is why only until you break free from the matrix, and stop working as a slave, unlock your potentials that's when you start to enjoy life... but if you're still an NPC, doing what the average Joe does, you'll never amount to anything...

The Matrix, John Wick, Free City is trying to tell us the truth... but people aren't seeing it... When the guy in free city was still working as a slave (normal 9-5), he doesn't have time for himself or has any love life or any sources of income apart from that bank, he wanted to purchase a shoe with his salary, no matter how hard he works, didn't sustain him... until he was able to break free from the Matrix, that's when he started enjoying life and finally bought the shoe... most people are NPCs thinking they are free... it's a prison we design for ourselves and we night never break free because we are so dependent on the system, and powerful people made it so to keep the average person in control...

you may not believe it, but starting a good business in Nigeria is far better than oversees... at least for now... the taxes wahala, the laws to keep average people poor and in control, the bills, the known and unknown bills and restrictions ain't much here and you can easily scale up your business... but there.. you'll work and work and work and work till you have any sustainable income, and it will never be enough.... you need other sources of income, break free from the Matrix, think outside the box and stop consuming and doing what the average Joe does... most people think they are free or enjoying because they live in these cities that satisfies their illusions, but deep down, they are fvcking sad, depressed and tired... until you break free from your prison and anchors holding you down, you'll forever get stuck in this loop designed for the average person...

it is not about where you live or work, but how you live and work... people are still making it in this country till tomorrow, abi you want to tell me we don't have people suffering or homeless in overseas??.. it's about discipline, mindset and doing the right thing in order to win..

why did you quit your music? does doing clothing business stop you from making music? can't you be doing both? anyone who can't take criticism or develop a thick skin will never amount to anything in life.. never let negative remarks stop you... most of the people criticising you are not even trying or doing well for themselves... always take the positives and keep improving yourself..

virginprincess:
looking for ways to defend your sexual promiciourity,i personally would love to marry a virgin man.

when you read open your brain...

women don't like virgins, in fact they might not even respect him.... if you tell a woman you're virgin, you're telling her you're not experienced and you're of low quality thereby not wanted by other women... she feels why does no women want to stay with you? women are attracted to men whom other women wants to fvck. they know that if you have quality, women will definitely wants to be with you. even if you're a virgin, do not tell a woman you are.... I'm not saying you should start sleeping around just to satisfy being experienced to a woman, your wahala na your own.. anything wey your eye see, you take am...

I'm just saying the way ladies think is opposite to that of a man's thoughts... Men are direct, women are indirect... always act like you're someone who's never lack of sex or women with your actions and words and you'll never lack women...

KnowledgePower7:
I no need anything to get into action
My Rod of Moses can part any pusSEA
I have even knacked a babe for 4 hours straight.
Just because you are a 1 minute man doesn't mean men like us should be knacking for 2 mins. No we are built different.

However my bro fvck up but still na my bro so i no blame am. He too like woman pass anything.i don warn to the point I just give up.
The problem now be say I took some of the chocolate when he first bought it.

and where's the award that you've collected for knacking 4 hours straight..?? it's very easy to know a clown when you see one... well I'm not surprised, you still sniff girls panties.. odé

🤡

when it comes to sex, a man knows what other men are capable of... when it comes to manipulation, a woman knows what other women are capable of... men know if we just want to fvck a girl and leave, other women knows if a guy is just a mugu to another woman.

it would have been better if you have uploaded a picture here.. because I don't even understand you

and by the way, why is it only men that uses all sort of substances and rubbish for sexual satisfaction? women don't even bother themselves because they know men like the one OP is saying will go extreme lengths in order to satisfy them. these women know that it's like a trophy or achievement for them... why una dey kill unaself because of these women?? these people aren't even good in bed and you're the one doing the most work? if you kill yourself for nothing, na hell fire straight...
these people don't care about you, if you like last 100 hrs, the moment her feelings and hypergamy is switched on, she will leave you...

kill yourself because of woman oo.. chocolate 🍫 kò, indomie nii

Power.

AndroidAI:
There are millions of kids on the streets, in slumps, in foster homes, dumped by straight parents.

The LGBTQ community, out of compassion, usually adopt these innocent kids and offer them opportunities that their straight parents failed to offer.

The LGBTQ community are known for their creativity.

They dominant the fashion industry, the movie industry, the music industry.

We use computers and smartphones today all things to Alan Turing, a gay man.

Even nature is gay! There are over 1500 species of animals found to practice same-sex relations.

Such as pigeons, lions, elephants, etc.

Believe it or not, every family has at least one gay or lesbian.

Unfortunately, many of them live in hiding for fear of being judged and shamed.

However, they are very emotional, problem solvers, and often times, they are the piece that holds the family together due to how they can resolve issues.

The LGBTQ community have been in existence before Christ, and yet Jesus never for once talked about them, nor did he condemn them.

Rainbows to everyone 🌈

I've never read an absolute bullshît like this in my entire life... you're a glorious clown 🤡

I'm sorry for you.. you think you're enjoying abi? you're killing yourself slowly... ever wonder why the food and drinks we consume this days slowly damages our health? have you ever wondered why we treat ailments that were not heard of from the past? the things we consume daily slowly deteriorates our health.. and when your immune system can no longer take it anymore, you begin to spend money to regain back your health...

and you might not even be working out, I'm really sorry for you bro.. you won't understand what it is now, but later when you need your health most...

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hope you wrote everything about what happened? because what you wrote now, I didn't notice a single fault from your side.. I just hope you're telling the truth and you're not trying to portray yourself good and his family bad... because how come almost all his family have the same impression about you??

if I will advice you BASED ON WHAT YOU WROTE... from your write-up, I didn't see a single fault from your side, his family probably didn't like you and I always advice women against settling down into a family where they are not welcomed, and same for men. it is like living in hell... but it is much worse for the women...

and I also use to tell women that chasing their career shouldn't stop them from having a serious relationship... you don't need to be in a sexual relationship, I'm not saying you should keep sleeping around with men, pls note the difference, but have a serious relationship and keep your options open... a time is coming where career won't mean anything to you again, there are so many important things in life than that... you should set your priorities straight... your job can sack you anytime...

you ignored the red flags in your relationship and it came back to haunt you... this is why you shouldn't let love blind you from taking the right decisions... the men you rejected in the past might have been the right men for you but because of your feelings that ain't temporary, you let it override your logicality... Now you only have yourself to blame... you can either endure your marriage and try to get things right because there's a kid involved already and starting all over might prove very difficult for you or divorce which might also not lead to a happy ending for you... pick your poison carefully.

Do not fight with his family members, but avoid those that wants to fight with you... respect who respects you and ignore those who wants to quarrel with you like they don't exist and this shouldn't stop you from doing what you still have to do in your marriage... face your husband, na the man you marry nor be her sister... let your home be your major concern... talk to him, and I'm sure he's also willing to make things work... so you guys should work through it together... you're not the first person this would happen to and you won't be the last person as well... many marriages even faced issues greater than this and they survived.. you can make it work also.. divorce isn't everything, don't let what you see on social media decieve you... unless domestic violence is involved or threat to life, divorce is not an option... most divorcees regretted their actions later on... all problems have solution.. you and your husband should make things work and God be with you both...

Wealthier:
So I want to understand, if he was giving me family relationship vibes. Why not complete it

remember, if a man doesn't see you as someone he can wife up, there's no way you can change his mind no matter how kind you're to him... it also depends on how you present yourself to him or how you relate with him.

Wealthier:
I have accepted my fate okay. I hate that someone would love to have a family and you tag me as desperate. Everyone is thinking I'm desperate. But when I go ahead to have kids on my own because noone would take me seriously, I know the new names I will be called. And if I decide to be by myself, I will still be called names.

All what I wrote about if you have a bad character that puts men off or if you have done some immoral stuffs at the past, or if you've done unnecessary shakara back then, you didn't point that out to see where you erred so you can correct yourself... the thing is that you don't want to take responsibility, and you're looking for someone to blame... you're only deceiving yourself further...

I said you being desperate started kicking in when reality has dawned on you... I didn't say that you wanting to have a family is you being desperate, but is it now that reality has dawned on you after wasting valuable time... the urge to start a family at this stage of your life will make you display some kind of attitude that signals desperation to the men that approaches you and the bad men among them will do what they can to just bed you only to dump you later....

well I would have debunked this story if not that the account wasn't newly created... anyways regardless of whether what you wrote is true or not, I still feel you're leaving some information out about you that doesn't make men approach you...

or you were among those who does shakara unnecessarily when men approach them or trying to talk to them, now it has dawned on you that time is no longer on your side... and please don't say God doesn't answer prayers... even Abraham who's regarded as God's friend bore a child in his old age after many years of prayers and fasting.. if you're true to yourself, or you're a woman of dignity and you didn't engage in acts of immorality when you were at your youthful phase, God will come through for you...

now read what you wrote, you're letting something inconsequential cause a rift in your relationship.. someone you're not married to, you're already fighting with him over not wishing your mom happy birthday? what is wrong with ladies and self-deception sef?? shey before you met him your mother doesn't celebrate birthday abi? abi which kind wahala be this? does he wishing your mom happy birthday or not changes the way he acts around her? you should only be concerned about if her respects her or not, not because of issues like this... seems you have this kind of bossy attitude that put men off, and these attitudes is mostly prevalent among career women because they believe they've arrived... I'm sorry for you...

no matter how feminists make it seem, marriage will always be the topmost priority for women... a woman will only say she doesn't need a man when she can't find one...it is not out of willingness to stay away from men... at this stage, your desperation to get married increases and your friends being married and enjoying marriage will also add to the desperation... at this stage, any man that lies to you about marriage, you'll quickly offer yourself to him... this makes you super vulnerable... the more a woman ages, the more vulnerable she becomes when it comes to relationship... when you become clingy and desperate and you also don't have a good attitude, men will avoid you like a plague, they will just use you as a cum bag...

reality dawn on women late, while on men, early.. this is because of the hard life most men are subjected to at early stage... they've experienced the harsh realities of life and this make them decision conscious.. but for women, due to self-deception, they regret their actions later in life... OP, at this stage, only God and you refining your personality can save you..

Rokiat:
A C cup
Lady could wear the same outfit and it wouldn’t look so tacky just that her boobs are too big and they look like they are about to pop out. Dressing for your body type is crucial.

it doesn't matter how big the boobs asses are, there are outfit that will definitely cover her up, and that would make her look reasonable, decent and well-mannered.... when a lady is blessed with big boobs and asses, she doesn't have any thing thinking upstairs anymore.. na to begin hookup business and begin flaunting her adornments online... no reasoning, no thinking of what to do, just displaying shear stupidity.... even if she wasn't blessed, na to go do surgery get by force and if she's not lucky, the surgery na wetin go take her life...

I don't blame her, na stupid men like her wey dey patronize her I blame ..

I pity men who carry women like her put for house... and if that woman na close friend with that married lady, I pity the husband wey marry that lady put for house...

women, I don't just understand them... they don't reason... not a single bit... most of them are like dead fishes that goes with the waves of the sea... it doesn't matter to them what they are doing is right or wrong... they just want to belong and trend, no matter how stupid most of these so called trends are... na them you go see for twerking challenge, boobs challenge, buss it challenge, hórny girl space and all manners of stupid challenges... yet you go dey hear “men body shame us”, shey are you guys stupid nii??

you nor go ever see them participate in an intelligent conversation or participate in a good challenge, but when it comes to stupidity, they are the ones you would see on the leading hashtags... the more technology advances, the more stupider they become... it's like it's the reverse for men.... if a man is to do a music video, he will wear what will cover his whole body amidst stupid naked women... women he will pray to himself never to give birth to or marry as a wife.... it doesn't matter if you shout this from today till eternity, they will never change... and their fish brains always lead them to their death.

always note that a woman status upload can be a sign of shit tests to determine the frame of the man she's in love with... it might not be you and it might also be you...

normally I don't even reply girl's status, so whenever I reply even one of them, they are always awestruck.. because they won't see it coming, and it's not all those simps lovey dovey messages that simps bombard them with...

a man who thinks a woman doesn't keep her options open is a dead man walking... a woman is always single until married, and even if married, she's planning her possible escape routes in case the man doesn't perform. give a woman your 100% heart at your own peril.