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smh! why is it that those people who didn't do even half of all these showoffs and PDA didn't experience divorce and cheating cases unlike people of today? it only shows that people are marrying for the wrong reasons and not because they are truly ready to commit to their partners...

what most people see as genuine in this modern times is nothing more than fantasy and satisfaction of illusions which we created for ourselves... if you like go moon make una go do honeymoon, when shits hit the fan, you'll regret ever doing this and your so called soulmate might actually end up taking your soul if you choose wrong..

apart from your normal useless rants like someone suffering from PTSD, men like this actually disgusts me!! tueh!

is that not leg chain I'm seeing so? mehn, which kind of foolish men are coming up these days? I even see some doing nails and painting nails... wtf?? some go even wear feminine clothes, nose ring and painting their lips?? like wtf is wrong with these people??

there's a way which seems right unto a man, but the end therein are the ways of ________

smh..

juwoonn:
I’m married for 9 years now... and we dated for 7 years prior to wedding. She was not asking for money then and she’s still not asking for money now. In fact, we pull resources together to do things.

she's not asking you directly because you still spend.. it doesn't change the narrative... it doesn't matter whether she's being vocal with it or not... try not to spend or do anything that involves money at home and see what I'm talking about...

and also, exceptions are not the rule...

it means you're not being productive... spend time creatively... learn new skills, read new books, engage your brain.. don't just stay idle... it weakens you mentally...

Blunttruth:
Sit your wife down and talk to her. Listen to her reason for not being able to give you the desired sex you want. If there's anything you can do to release her stress, because stress for women kills libido. Tell her she is pushing you to go outside. If after doing all these she doesn't change , then you can take whatever decision you want

a woman denying a man sex knows exactly what she's doing... she doesn't need to be told she's doing wrong... if the man is carrying out his responsibilities on her, and he also takes care of his body and not in anyway smelling and also dresses well, I can as well say the man is being friendzoned in marriage.. if this is the case, the woman is either cheating on him or the man is already emasculated..

I would suggest him to take another wife as soon as possible without remorse... he should also cease his responsibilities towards her and abandon her totally like she doesn't exist.. the man should be happy in front of her and don't ask her anymore for sex... he shouldn't even get angry sef..

another case is, if she's cheating on him already, I just hope his kids are yours if she has already given birth.

@YEMOYEMI

Pierohandsome:
Sometimes parents are wrong . They make their choices out of share prejudice.tribal sentiment, religious etc.

Parents are not meant to choose partners, but to bless and counsel, nothing more.

Many marriages that broke got parental approval. And I have seen many marriages without parental approval going well, many ended well

yeah that's true.. sometimes all these just happens... that's life.. even some prophets of God sef marry bad wives.. it's good to always ask for their advice, sometimes it's not everything they tell you that you'll follow...

some will fall in places, while some will fall out of place... such is life

this is very good

just like that? a lady you met on snapchat said she's into interior decoration and without thinking twice you sent her money? mehn.. your mumu abi na simping na another level oo... abi na another thing you pay money for? abi na fvck you wan fvck?? you better talk true and narrate wetin really happen??

I know say if to say na man now, you won't exhibit this kind foolishness... sorry, not sorry, that was simply foolish...

but another angle, why be say na only women dey scam you?? I read one of your previous thread you created and you said you were scammed too... if your stories are true and not in anyway looking for cheap attention, mehn, I would say men like you who thinks with their dicks disgusts me!! tueh!!

man city should not relax!

Madrid are playing them without rush and much precaution.. they are just waiting for the perfect moment to strike man city... if Madrid should score first here, Man City is out...!

as it stands, Madrid are taking things slow to avoid a slip up

TheOldGods:
virginity is not only a woman's thing. A man that wants to marry a virgin should keep the same energy and be a virgin. No person deserve to be second class. That statement alone is double standard

a man can marry more than one wife... so it's a woman thing.. of course I'm not saying men should fornicate, but a man can only be a virgin to the first wife and not the rest...

RedChiefPriest:
Level of moral decadence in the society is high and Op wait till the "Mind your business " crew arrive.

It is obvious those ladies are hookups girls and those boys are probably yahoo guys.

a perfect combo! olosho plus Yahoo guys go hand in hand..

OP I saw your mention earlier, and you made some valid points... it's true that some men just want to be friends with benefits with a girl without any commitment or taking the next step in the relationship... but in most cases, even when the relationship is well defined by the man and he has made his intentions known, the lady still keeps her options open and cheats on the man, sometimes even when the man has already proposed and visited his parents...

women should learn to keep their legs closed and remain a virgin, by doing this, a man won't be scared to take things forward with the lady... but most ladies are hoes and lacks qualities needed in marriage and to maintain a home, so men who are ready won't see the need to commit fully to women like this... until women learn to remain chaste, this will forever continue.. men are now becoming wiser and not settling for less...

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

first big mistake, dating a single mother

second mistake, a struggling guy tending to the needs of a single mother while neglecting his own development in life

third mistake, no viable purpose or plan...

guy, why do you decide to ruin your own life by your own hands?? see ehn, leaving her is your first step towards redemption and reclaiming your lost life... get back up, forget about her and reprogram your life... save yourself because no one is coming to save you.. ciao..

why won't there be population dip when LGBTQ bullshit is on the rise?

Tenrack:
Where is team "my wife must be a virgin" make Una come see.

she's not a full virgin, she's a partial virgin... and they are almost like no virgins at all because guys have imprinted their experiences in her... they are also quite dangerous especially if the guys they had other romantic encounters with did good with them..

we are talking about full virgin, in mind, body and soul not just about a penetrated hymen..

dalass:
Ned Nwoko will bring the woman he's interested in home as his WIFE BEFORE GETTING HER PREGNANT. There is no surprise 11 year old in his house. That's how true Kings roll.

Not a shameless randy, low budget Naira Marley knowing he had an 11 year old boy somewhere, had to spring a surprise on his married wife of 13 years!

He didn't just cheat, the mofo didn't even protect himself! Aside getting a kid from it, he could have also gotten a terminal virus from his stupidity.

Don't defend what's wrong. Call a spade a spade!

this is why I said, he should have told the woman from the onset, but he's probably afraid of losing the woman or a low value man that's why he kept such secret..

victory36:
chemical engineering in uniben . No, I am not into drugs. Learning a trade, which was what I wanted to do before I was forced to school.

this is why many students like you end up miserable, especially in this African part of the world... "I went to school because of may parents", "I went to school because I didn't know what to do", "I went to school to belong", "I went to school because others are going to school", many people don't know what schooling means and are going to school for the wrong reasons.. this is why when they pass out and things didn't work out the way they imagined, they end up miserable while blaming themselves, the government or their parents...

see bro, it's obvious maybe you're not even well affixed to that course you're studying.. you might not even understand a thing the lecturer is saying to you because it will sound like jargons to you... in more open world, you would be studied and left to do what you're naturally inclined to do.. if Messi has being forced to leave football for school, no one would have known him today, he would have become miserable... and so many other cases like that...

I don't know what level you're in but at this point that you're still living with your parents, it will be very difficult for you due to some of the reasons you've said... you can't do away with them and you can't avoid them.. If you can keep pushing I will advice you, but find time to find a passion you're generally inclined with and start something.. these days you don't even need to depend on school before you can make money or find something you're good with. everyone is not the same, and this is the mistake most parents are making.. you were forced to do a course you don't even like, it's just like an art student forced to study medicine...

and I don't know if your parents are approachable, you can talk to them on the kind of course you really want to study, that's if you haven't gone far, so you can start again... I hope you don't end up frustrated so as to not have suicide thoughts...

as long as you're right, those looking for advice are wise enough to take the one that works best for them, no one is forcing opinions on anyone here... although there might be some tribalistic comments on this thread but you have to learn to separate the wheats from the chaff... this forum is not meant to spoon-feed anyone...

secondly, the advice people detests most times are the truth but because they come in a harsh or condescending tone, they are dismissed... the truth is very bitter, if you don't want to hear it, you'll only have yourself to blame in the end...

Raalsalghul:
Waste of time if you ask me.

for those looking to raise kids in a healthy environment, for those considering a two partner household... if you are not considering this then it's not for you...

dear men looking for a serious relationship from women, do these:

scrutinize her past,

only a true virgin deserves your total attention and resources,

don't pay for what others got for free,

never privatise a public toilet,

a fvcked pu$s$y is a loose pu$$$y,

tattoo, coloured hair, multiple piercings are garbage properties,

never save a damaged woman,

the past is not the past,

once she cheats, she's gone...

you said there were 3 instances when you were rejected by the women you were having sex with...

I think the problem with most men these days is that, they can't differentiate girls looking for serious relationship from girls just looking for flings or fun... most girls these days are just looking for who they are gonna be fvcking constantly while the guy take them on an adventurous ride... if you approach girls like this for relationship, they will friendzone you because you'll sound low value to them, unless they are the one requesting for the relationship themselves... you're already fvcking these women, if they want more than just sex, they would be the one to bring it up, not you..

see ehn, before you can even be sure of the intention a girl has towards you, you have to role with her first.. I'm not talking in a friendship way, you have to relate with her as if you're already dating or fvcking, that's how you'll get her to open herself to you.. and don't be too quick to formally ask for a relationship from girls, role with them with the bad boy style, when they are reciprocating, they will tell you if they are in just for the fun or for a serious relationship as well... learn game, learn how to deal with women, learn women language, you'll see that they are very easy to role with and not in anyway complicated...

finally, find a purpose which keeps you busy, relationship should be secondary in your life as a man and stay away from fornication..

your fears are valid and that's a very good reason for dumping them.. a woman who still insists on keeping male friends while in a relationship and yet doesn't see nothing wrong in visiting them even in homes is nothing more than a olosho...

see ehn, this century, getting a good girl is increasingly difficult... a real high value woman is not even settling for anything less bro... you have to become high value to have access to these women... most women have been ravaged and destroyed by feminism and liberalism..

even if you want to get a high value woman, the environment matters and how she was raised which includes her family background... else, you'll have to go the baby mama way or avoid getting married legally, but make sure your kids are properly raised..

Happy Birthday Bro, God bless you... but let me tell you one thing, as a man, birthdays should be one of the least things that you worry about... I don't even tell anyone my birthday date because I can't stand all the fake love and messages received during only a day out of 365.. people don't care about you bro unless you're something... when you become someone, that's when they notice you especially if you're a man...

so bro, birthdays should be one of the least thing you worry about in life.. focus on yourself...

the west is doomed... and it seems everyone else is headed towards that path of destruction... the new world order is happening!!!

this is why when you cum, and you realise that your affection for that girl did not reduce, then you can confidently say that you're in love with her..

anyways, stay away from fornication

this is why as a man, you have to practise self control... nor be every pus$$y you see you go chook prick... many men have dug their own graves by being unable to control themselves...

when a woman is acting desperate towards you, you should be very careful.. most men realise this late..

by setting boundaries from the start... most people tolerate disrespect from the start of the relationship.. some will even say "if I can't comfortably insult you, that means I can't be in a relationship with you", this is just stupidity.. as time goes by, love will wane from your eyes and you'll start seeing the shits you once tolerated...

don't tolerate disrespect from the start, even if too much familiarity later comes to play, you'll learn how to deal with it effectively than tolerating in small amounts from the start just because of love