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Low value women or olosho will give their men

1. Headache
2. Troubles
3. Frustration

High value women and pious women will give their man

1. Peace
2. Financial Assistance
3. Support

Evolutionlove:
You've seriously got an ample time explaining.

I won't reply him/her again, the person behind that moniker is a 🤡

HellVictorinho6:
who are u to speak 4 all women?

it's like you just want to argue...

exceptions are not the rule...

HellVictorinho6:
men dont pity those they dont like as well

yeah but it is still only men that can date or marry someone with no educational background, an illiterate, riches or from reputable family... men don't care about a woman's financial status before considering her for long term commitment

HellVictorinho6:
who says he cant become rich? misbehaving based on being richer shows no affection or attraction. she cannot buy his brain or become the owner of his mind with money. if she trys to oppress him because she is richer, then it means something is wrong between them. he has human rights too. whether u take it or not ,a richer woman will have a family with a man unless there is competition between them stopping it.

don't just read to reply but to understand...

women don't or can't wait for a man to get rich, that's if he even get rich because there's no certainty.... they want readymade... it's extremely rare to see a woman wait for a man to get rich or be successful unless she absolutely have no other better options than that man ..

KendoRide:
Please WhatsApp gurus here, can you take a look at the image I watched and tell me what’s that round icon before the message “see beauty” I sent

I don’t really know the meaning and I don’t want to ask her what’s that lest I’m wrong

when you reply to someone's WhatsApp status or when someone reply to your status, then that symbol is going to show beside the message or reaction you/they sent.

HellVictorinho6:
marrying a broke guy is not downgrading standards,there are other things he can provide. besides,a broke guy can become rich.

lol to a man it might not see it as downgrading but to her she's downgrading herself... even if he can provide in some other areas, sooner or later she will start misbehaving, because how can you control someone more powerful than you are? a number one thing a woman expect a masculine man to provide is financial stability followed by sexual prowess... anything else is irrelevant... providing this two is what makes a woman respects a man and makes the union lasts longer

pansophist:
If that's the options you have, then it makes sense to suffer while having her own money (eg low high status men), because the last time I checked, broke women are not getting married too. In fact more broke women are unmarried than wealthy women.

Also, wealthy women can marry tomorrow if they downgrade their standards, but a broke woman is like Ukraine, at mercy or everyone. That's a sad place to be, and it can only get worse.

at the bold, we all know that we have more broke women than successful women... these women live off men... even the so called successful women's wealth were gotten from rich men or through inheritance or born into a rich family... yes broke women are getting unmarried too but the percentage of marriage of broke women to successful women is far greater... when a woman is successful, she feels she doesn't need a man... the mentality of “what a man can do a woman can do better” can be both good and bad at the same time.

yes they can marry tomorrow if they downgrade their standard but we all know a successful woman can never downgrade her standard for a broke or unsuccessful man, unless she absolutely have no other options... some will even prefer to adopt kids than live with a broke man.

what you said about being at the mercy of others is true because at least some level of independence give someone a sense of security and a boost in self-esteem... and it also increases self-respect.. a woman should focus on building her value through her character and dignity.. anything else is secondary... being a rich woman doesn't translate to being high value to a man unlike how rich men are being perceived by women

this guy resilience in pushing hard despite the harsh criticisms and sometimes unwarranted insults he gets from some monikers here that won't even try is what I admire most about him... OP, don't be deterred by the insults or criticism but as a drive to do better

bro keep pushing, have some side hustles you do aside music too, maybe some profitable skills, very soon, either of those will click, as long as you remain focus.

Funnyson20:
Its been close to five years now since I had a girl visit me or honour our first date after we meet.
Honestly speaking, it is one thing or the other that will set in and we won't meet up or she would singlehandedly refuse to come,which the cause of that would not be made known to me.

...

you are desperate and it shows when you're always talking to girls... this makes them aloof...

why are you quick to setting up a date when you haven't even attracted her? why are you calling her more than once? shey you don't have time for your life? you are giving the girl a type of vibe that translates to being clingy, weak and desperate.. girls don't want that...

phorget:
If broke men are suppose to hold 10k on a date with a lady then how much exactly would the lady come with?

A date shouldn't be made into a picnic.

lol you dey waste your time quoting a 🤡.. na yabaleft patient you quote oo

render01:
I've known my best friend since my 200L in the University. We are like sisters, always together. Last month was weird between us. She started avoiding me and so when I confronted her yesterday, she opened up to me that she has a crush on me and she doesn't know when it started and why it had to me.

She has a boyfriend. I was speechless and she started crying. It was like a movie. My brain is still processing. I just went home to my family house hoping by the time I returned, we'd talk things out like Adults.
Did I do the wrong thing but leaving?

LGBTQRSTUV+ 🙄

atheistandproud:
Please put aside your ego and read to understand.

Women want men that make money, now women are making money, sometimes more than men.

Since we're all claiming to be equal, now that women have money, why are they not marrying men and taking care of them?

That's the question.

Because men do it all the time (mostly) without complaining.

exactly and since they are now at the same level with men and they won't also use their money to upgrade the men they are with unlike what the men does, then they will have to face the consequences.. you can't eat your cake and have it.

and since few men make it to the top, this makes their options very limited... and even men at the top are not looking for equals they are looking for one that will easily submit to them and the type they can handle... these career women in most cases doesn't have that kind of character.. men date down, women date up... a rich woman won't look a broke man's way unless she doesn't have other options or just looking for a sperm donor..

this is true and it will only prove counterproductive to women in the long run because they will be at the receiving end of things.

women are being deceived that appearing masculine and giving off independent vibes is attractive to men but quite the opposite... there's a big difference between being masculine or having a bossy attitude and being a liability... men want women who are comfortably feminine and confident.. not women who are masculine... they are repelled by them..

redpill, redpill, redpill!! how many times did I call you Oh redpill.. how come you always prove yourself to be the truth every now and then? how come you're always so on point? how come those that refuse to swallow your nuggets end up suffering? you've proven yourself to be worthy at all times... You're simply the truth, and those who refuse to accept you will suffer!

OP, first let me introduce this thread to you... https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

read it up and save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

secondly, a girl is never a trophy to be won... if you put your girl before your goals, she will make you suffer for your foolishness... if you give a girl your heart to save her life, she will mock you over someone who refuses to give her nothing... the guy or guys that she's cheating on you with are doing nothing to get her and you are letting yourself to be easily used over and over again... and her mother is part of those easily manipulating you... don't think she's doing it because she loves you... no she doesn't, she only cares about herself and her daughter, and because they see that you're loaded, they will drain you until they've wrecked you... they are both predatory females...

third, leave love for women, leave emotions for women.. you're not a pú$$y... only pu$sies find love.. women find love, men find purpose... If you let them ruin your life, you'll only have yourself to blame...

fourth, a girl you're not married to is never your responsibility.. if you've done all that for your family, friends and orphanage homes, you'll be happy and more fulfilled and even God will reward you abundantly... I'm sure you'll never even do half of that for the people you call friends or family.. smh.. that girl will leave you and only your family will be left for you...

fifth, dump that olosho you call girlfriend.. dump that bitch you call girlfriend.. she's not your girlfriend, she belongs to the street, her reply has even showed that she doesn't even care if you break up with her.. don't let her mother manipulate your further...

sixth, never make a girl or any woman except your family your sole focus in life... women will never forgive you for being weak.

seven, all the money you're spending on your so called hoe or girlfriend, she's using that money to build herself up, and when you've finally upgraded her pass her normal level, she will begin to disrespect you and she will end up telling you that “what did you even do for me sef?”

eight, when a woman has nothing to lose in a relationship she will start misbehaving, why? because you're the only one investing in it and doing everything... so she won't care even if you enter the fire to save her. this is why you're the one who's hurt because you're the one who's invested the most...

nine, marrying a girl in Nigeria and taking her over there most times end in pains and regrets when the girl starts misbehaving... this is why men are avoiding marriage especially in the west... rethink this decision carefully... don't sign any marriage contract that will leave you wrecked and handicapped...

@josephm456

michlins:
will you pay for diapers or school fees. Which one will you contribute?

dem suppose don abort you sef.. so you won't be here to tell me nonsense... 🤡

when the guy dey fvck, e nor know wetin go end am abi? or if everyone was irresponsible as he was, you go meet life this way abi? nor be wetin spoil life reach like this be that

Do unto others what you want to be done to you... if your mother has done the same you won't be here on nairaland today to open this thread... if she was your daughter, would you want that for her? I'm sure you aren't even married.. this is why girls are being told not to open legs until they are married but they won't listen. what other people are praying for, you are thinking of wasting it... smh

you are committing two sins

1. fornication (you and your girl)
2. murder

flee from fornication, seek forgiveness, and may the Lord forgive you.

this is not new... and it will still happen again and again...

I pity men marrying non-virgins, and still doesn't have the funds to carry out DNA tests... their heartbreak experience will be so heartbreaking... that husband will be somewhere telling people how "lucky" he is to meet his olosho.. smh

adeloly:
Dear Nairalanders
Please could make someone to be sick within 24hours of sex A serious sickness
A good suggestion will be highly appreciated here
Thanks

is the person a male or female? and are they married together? or fornication?

SundayNightGist:
Beacuse I wanted to know if the two kids are hers, that's why bro
Or do you think that's going too far?

nothing concern you with that one na, even if she adopt am, that one nor be your problem since it's not your kids... why put another person wahala for your head? if she says they are hers, ehn na her wahala be that naa.. are you planning to get married to her ni?? hmm you better rethink wella

SundayNightGist:
Thank you for your advice. I will share what she told me about her past relationship this coming week here on Nairaland.
I have been trying to get her to do DNA test because of the boys but she has been saying don't I trust her? That with all the love she has been showing me why am I still asking for DNA, that what's my business with that since the children are not mine anyway... Don't you think she has a point? Abi this love thing don dey turn my head ni? Because normally I no be mumu but this single mother matter just get as e dey be me

don't let her use "don't you trust me?" to manipulate you oo, many men have died due to that... and why are you trying to do DNA test on kids that ain't yours? has she conceived for you already?

Rokiat:
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What is more important the ATM or the money?

It doesn’t matter the giver what’s more important to note here is that pu….say is life, because it don’t only give you men pleasure but most importantly it birthed you.

Chris Rock said it best in selective outrage, a nigga could be dead with his di.ck out and people will pass his dead body and not give a F but now a beautiful woman can stop traffic.

Niggas done gone to war over pussy killed each, worked hard and spend to either get the pus.sy hair fixed, get the puss..y nails done, take her on vacation, get her car repair take her out etc etc you get it.


Ya all misogynist niggas keep lying to yourselves but puss..y is power.

@ the bolded, you spelt "simps" wrong...

and to the rest of the post, you haven't said anything.

ladies think they are offering men sex, actually they don't even offer sex, you can only offer what the other person can't offer himself.. and since sex is a joint work, both are doing each other a favour... any girl that think she's doing you a favour just because she's offering you sex should be dumped.

and if we look at it deeply, men are the one giving and putting all the whole work just to satisfy the woman, from ejecting sperm to burning thousand of calories... this is why sex drains men..

Rokiat:
Who received a seed and make a baby out of it? You or a woman?

if you put your ATM into an ATM machine to withdraw money? who owns the money? you or the ATM machine? who invested before the ATM can eject money?

EriMma1:
This is why I'll never marry an average income earner because they can complain and press calculator? See all of them here. Calculator pressers.
That is why i advise men not to get married until they have a high income job, to avoid all this kind of headache but no, that small thing dangling under can't wait to start eating what the big boys are eating. They just jump enter marriage with 120k salary and start punching calculator here and there.

So when it comes to giving your wife money, mathematics go enter am?. You can't give her money to maintain that same body you mount every now and then? Na him you turn financial expert seeker/adviser.? SMH. This generation of men have lost it.

Na this kind things make marriage no dey hungry me again because if all a man can offer is to panel-beat my body and not care whether knots and bolts don dey loose or find it difficult to give me when I request, then ill rather live singularly, work and take care of myself without stress or any body knacking me up and down with no benefits or care. abi you wan dey chop me make i no chop you back? Damn! Na wa o.

Oga, give her pocket money. Na that one she go take know say she marry. Men are supposed to spend on their wife's, working class or not. That is why igbos name their wifes Oriakum, "eater of my wealth". It is your obligation to spend on her. I'm guessing you're Yoruba otherwise mouth no go gree you come talk this kind thing outside. I'm sure all your supporters here na Yoruba men. Kobojunkie number one.

you won't let men live, yet you won't let them rest 🤡

no wonder men see no value with staying with you and they keep dumping you like the thrash you are 🤡

ooh I see your past threads and how you've been bleating about men... you just registered this account this year and you've constituted more nuisance than the average person... and it's all because of men giving you sleepless nights and still letting yourself be their cum bag 🤡

I'm so sorry for you.

emorse:
Saying the hijab is just a piece of cloth is a way of excusing "bad" behaviour (Note that "bad" is in quotes). Islamic teachers and leaders don't think so. The case in Iraq is a major example. The lady lawyer who wasn't called to bar until about a year later is another.

You say anybody can wear the hijab and you're quite right. But would you answer answer this question honestly? How many non Muslims have you seen wearing it? Can you give me an estimate in percentage?

By the way, you're being unnecessarily emotional. The person you quoted suggested that such behaviour is not expected or condoned in Islam(even though he never mentioned the religion) which is not a bad thing to say if you ask me. It is not expected in Christianity either that's why Christian ladies are condemned for dressing and dancing provocatively especially in church when they do so. Take the thread below for example

https://www.nairaland.com/7636324/moment-clergywoman-lands-slap-ladys
I could argue that the lady in question is not a Christian because it was a wedding.

Not every statement is an attack bro. Try and be calming down. Some nonentities are trying to drag us down the path of a tribal war already and God forbid they succeed. Please don't add religion to it.

alaye you just dey write story... if you truly understood what I post you don't need to write all these stories..

I said why is it that when a Muslim does something people don't attack the person but the religion unlike when Christians does the same thing? and does wearing hijab means someone is a saint? when someone errs, attack that person not his religion or tribe.

because they date who they love and when it comes to marriage, they marry who is ready or who loves them.

Hpesoj:
LOL. You just contradicted yourself.

So Arab and Jewish-nfluenced cultures which are contained in the Koran and Bible, respectively, are what you term "our culture"?


For your information, elaborate celebration are heavily supported by African culture.

religion is not Arab culture... it is for everyone... get your fact right... just because the stories of the Jews are there doesn't mean it is Jewish culture... all tribes have their own culture... religion too has its own culture.. the religion culture is what everyone has to follow, while each tribe follow their own culture, but their culture must not to go against the religion culture or what God said in the Qur'an or Bible... simple...

Yemike:
Thank God you're able to recognise your foolishness.
Since your future is determined by religion peace be unto you.

I swear you dense gan... you sure say your head nor nack ground for small?

Kholiwe:
Shut up your nonsense mouth. Fool that doesn't know his culture. You are worshipping a Jewish white man yet you have the audacity to talk about what is and what is not African culture. Get lost from my sight before I descend on you.

Ani oponu niè... alainironu 🤡