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benqo01:
Op u didnt do well at all,how will you tell her that your sister doesnt like her? When no b say u b small pikin haba u bleep up......na everlasting hatred u don put for her mind between ur sis and her u know woman na dem no dey forget something.

You dont even know where they will meet and if eventually she meets your sis she go remember wetin u tell her and thats bad.

rest.. he has realised his mistake, the matter don end already.

Hayee:


I'm a bad guy, I'm a bad guy ended in tears
Even your fellow redpillers disowned you

Please lala put this thread to front-page so that he can receive more insults
Make I no lie this thread sweet me die

When I keep saying Nigerian men don't like good women you think I'm just being stupid

This one is in obvious need of a desperate and blood sucking jeezebel to ruin his life

rest... the matter don end already.

TeddyJammy:
YEAH. .

alright.. but I believe you should be able to make your own decisions too sha.. women don't really like themselves and see themselves as enemies sometimes ..

Favfables1:
Oga wisdom...
I hope you give "discharge fee" to all your guests who come to visit you ba?
Cause if you only give "discharge fee" to just the girls you sleep with, then that's just plain stupid... And it's not different from paying a who..re for a job well done...

you still nor wan wise. read the story again and read the comment again then come back to reply

TeddyJammy:
All riqht. . I have got more of the comments.

i was wrong at first. I know. I Bleep up. . Yeah nobody is above mistake. . I only feel bad when i got the msg frm my sister. And i wanted to hide it away. It was my sister that said if i didnt tell her to go, that she will come to my room and chase her out.. I taut of keepin it away frm her buh wat my sister told me was very embarrassin. . . Bside my other sister gave me a morning ritual to perform on behald of my twin brother. That i shud not sleep or talk to any girl if i wake up in the morning. I taut of this b4 making my decision of tellin her wat my sister said.. She understands me. Yes she did. Buh i knw i was wrong by allowin her to come at first. .


ALL BLAME SHOULD BE UPON ME. . I REALLY bleeped UP. . BIG ONE. I HAVE ADMIT I MADE MISTAKE. . PLS



IS MISTAKE PLS Y" ALL SHOULD UNDERSTAND.. IT WON'T HAPPEN AGAIN.


I HAVE SENT HER THE TRANSPORT SHE WASTED. .

nobody is above mistake bro.. we learn and move on. it's just that we just have to be careful of the woman wey we dey kpansh.. just be careful bro... God bless..

is that your sister the eldest?

ashawopikin:
No mind dem, dem go carry makeup and filter for their faces, but op u for at least give her tfare, with all the kidnap and security challenges, she risk her life come see u

naso brother.. normal normal na social media life be that.. but the guy con still tell her wetin his sister talk? nor be nonsense talk be that?

Favfables1:
Wicked for not giving her transport??
I didn't see where the OP promised to give her transport o...

She came to visit him on her own volition, she wasn't forced or anything of sort, so why should the OP be obligated to giving her transport? Unless it's outta courtesy sir, no one is obligated to giving his/her guest transportation back after they visit...

If he gives her, fine..if not, that's still fine too...

you nor wise.. sometimes the money go be like discharging fee.. but you nor wise.. nor be everything person go dey do strong head. it's not a must to give her full transport fee but it can be like a token... na common sense.. nor be by force say e go continue like that..but I nor blame am sha.. na the desperate girl I blame. she feel say people fit nor like am if she show her natural face and she wan try secure a relationship before it's too late na wetin make her dey desperate be that.

the guy con still tell am wetin his sister talk again? nor be childish stuff be that?

TeddyJammy:
u no get brain

you be mumu man.. your sister tell you that kind something and you go tell am same thing to her face.. you nor get sense... mehn some people nor suppose dey exposed to redpill.. they won't apply common sense...

it's not even a must to give her all the whole transport fare but you can contribute to it as long as she came and you even had your way . despite your claims that she's ugly you still fvcked her.. if na your sister dem use like that con tell her that trash, you go dey happy abi? mumu

na pussy go kill all of una

manuelkel:
Why y’all blame people when things go wrong ?
If you don’t have advice to offer shut the Bleep up?
People need advice not blames......

you nor get sense.. why e nor seek the advice before e go dey fvck.. mumu

eeewise:
But how do you take care of a child in this economy with no job or family support systems

So.....

exactly! she knows what at stake and she go open leg.. you don't have job or no support system yet you dey fvck around.. how your body dey move sef

so she nor think of all these one before she go open leg for one agbero abii... which advice she con dey find? na her cross make she carry am.. me I nor go talk say make she abort am oo.. i fit swear for am sef.. nonsense

HardMirror:
porn of 5 mins? It is that 5mins that would better my life abi? Thanks, I pass, porn ain't no big deal for me. I watch it, I enjoy it just as watching any other thing. When I am really busy or not in good mood, I dont even remember porn exists. It is just one of those interesting things in life

leemao.. okay na.. enjoy yourself

HardMirror:
that porn ate deep into you does not mean everyone has that problem. I go months without watching porn, just as I go months without watching movies. I am not helpless, I am in control. I watch when I want to without it controlling my life.

even if I should take what you just said as true mr. mirror,.. trust me it will do you a lot of good to eliminate it completely.. save that energy used in jerking to porn for something far more better.. channel that energy and drive to something better.. there are a whole lot of beautiful things you can do.

have a nice day Mr. mirror

HardMirror:
we are making progress now as you and some others are contributing to this thread. Which I appreciate, but I dont agree that masturbating is not good at all. Not true

Kill the stuff that usually makes most people masturbate which is porn! kill it! you won't die, trust me... masturbation is NOT the real issue here.. na the nonsense pornography... na the useless thing be that

Szilard:
But hope you know the brain scan of a porn addict is similar to that of a drug addict too..

I know, we all keep saying do it moderately,but it ain't easy bro,

With time- viewing porn will become a full blown habit that'd be hard to control...

And I'm not saying this for the sake of it

I've had my experience

Even the basic understanding of pure biology explains this

Porn bleeps up your dopamine levels, you become desensitized

If you're candid, I believe you can relate to the line below

If you watch porn, at the start... normal boy-girl sex scenes would be enough for you

But as time goes, they won't do it anymore for you bro...That's when you start searching for crazy fetishes...

Fine ,you might not agree with me, its alright

But I just had to chip this in

I know you might be able to handle your porn usage, but trust me... majority of other's can't

And I'm not saying this from a religious angle at all...I don't really fancy religion.

Porn is bad.

ABI ooo.. you don get am jahre... just leave the guy.. e nor go hear word.. sheybi you see how e dey try bring silly excuses to justify in actions.??. just leave am..

HardMirror:
I love people who contribute like this. Thanks.
What you say is true about sexual fantasies becoming weirder. Indeed not everyone can handle it. For me and many others, we have no problem

.. leemao.. you nor still hear word..

na by force to watch porn? lol you and many others right? you and many decieved people who sees benefits in porn leemao

Lordedifice1:
I understand you
But you have to understand that something's that you do is not necessary. Yea some people hormones have high sex drive like me i am very active but i don't womanise nor sleep with ladies. Sex is a very good thing, but masturbation is not good at all. Just discipline yourself that's all

exactly.. na lack of sexual descipline dey cause all these nonsense people dey face now

FERNANDEZISBACK:
And what's wrong with porn..?

nothing wrong bro, knock yourself out.

HardMirror:
defending porn does not mean that is the only thing that occupies my brain.

it sounds like it does, like your life depends on it.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Nothing wrong with it and only religious extremist are gonna say it's a sin..it's healthy and fun..

Who made it a sin?
Enjoy and please yourself sexually..

Bro... is not about being sin or not sin.. leave that for now.. think logically... what usually makes most people masturbate is porn... remove porn you would see that 95% of people won't even be inclined to masturbate.. ahh

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You must be joking..stop caging people with your belief..let them be free to explore their body..what's the essence of their creation if they can't do so..
They have sex outside you are gonna call them adulterers now they are enjoying themselves you are still bringing religion..

both are not advisable.. like I said one main reason why people do all these is pornography, sexual stimulating scenes or objects.... nothing else..

in case you don't know... porn is even the main reason why people develop strange sexual fetishes nowadays ..leemao..nor worry.. even if e affect you... you nor go talk.. this one wey you dey defend porn like say na your life and breath.... ahh Omo people dey oo

keep jerking off to porn... happy jerking

HardMirror:
If you dont watch porn. Your sexual life can NEVER be interesting especially if you are married.

leemao.. see mumu mentality oo

so when porn wasn't available in the past, sexual life wasn't interesting leemao... says someone who don make porn occupy all hin brain... ...

HardMirror:
big fat lie.
I have been masturbating for over 10 years now and never had any so called issues people claim. Most white guys masturbate even the married ones and it helps them not to cheat when they have the urge and their wife not in the mood. Even my girlfriend knows I masturbate cos she cant be available everytime I am Hot.

Life is not hard, we make it hard for ourselves. I am 100% sure it is your religious believes that makes you speak against it.

You say people have problem with masturbating l, do you know that ordinary food is big problem in the United states and more than 60% of their population are over feeding?

Even being religious can be a problem. I know a lady that went mad because she was always seeing demons in everything.

leemao ... continue...

make pornography your new ally .. keep watching it.. let it keep you company.. leemao..

leemao.. people keep bringing stupid reasons to justify their actions.. leemao do so moderately.. do so moderately till you become hooked to it and you don't have anything to think about again only porn.. every addiction started with the stupid myth "do so moderately"..

gamblers too go talk say do so moderately.. smokers the same thing..drug addicts too untill dey get hooked. .. some go even talk say smoking dey give them inspiration.. leemao... well na so black people dey think sha... keep giving you and your supporters something to keep them busy... leemao... benefits of porn and masturbation.. ahh I can't stop laughing shaa.. the main reason why you masturbate is that useless thing you watch... use the time to watch something far more beneficial... porn wasn't introduced in the ancient times and they live fine and they had even more control over themselves than now and everything was good... porn is very bad... even a two and three year olds will be exposed to porn and want to try it out... porn actually increases your sexual urge and you having the need to masturbate or do something sexual everytime not reduce it...

check out this link maybe you go change this your mentality.

https://www.nairaland.com/4451325/how-masturbation-pornography-almost-ruined

nor let wetin you read online decieve you.. you better find something better to change your life.... nor be only porn na blue film... why can't it be benefit of watching an educational movie, or benefits of learning a skill through youtube videos.. why porn? wetin you dey gain for there leemao.. na one of the things wey spoil life reach like this if you nor know... it even makes the young people now think about sex and sexual scenes, or thoughts everytime ..

If you can't keep your secret, don't expect others to do that for you...shey you hear?
mehn love dey shack una oooo... why you go even tell woman your secret.. those ones wey dey leak anything like water? nor tell anybody wetin you go dey regret later .....shalom

the audacity.. chai.. men don suffer from these hoes hands...

you need to keep it cool also... If you dey work nonstop all the time shey you nor go break down?? At least you can be switching off when you want to sleep sometimes....

leemao... this issue of trust don kill many men wey fall for this same trick of "shey you nor trust me niii" yen yen yen..

and why are women totally worked up on this anytime topics like dna test and virginity comes up? that shows that they are worried and hiding something... dna test shouldn't be an issue just like checking someone's blood type .. wtf?? do not trust any woman ooo.. if you get money do ammm.. nonsense post.. when you nor end the marriage before wetin the man gain from your side?? wetin you contribute? make you con bring another man's child add to the man misery abi?? nonsense and ingredients?? and besides your previous topics on nairaland shows that you're not the type to take serious and engage in discussions with.. mtccchw

make I con burst Una brain... even if you confirm say dem be your kids after dna test, that one nor mean say she never cheat before ooo... wise up ooo.. nor go mumu ooo

Nomoress3:
It has been over a year I quit masturbation already. I really appreciate this creators and the main players of the masturbation quiting thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/1202#108706106 for making this achievable. I knew when the thread was created but I was feeling too big to start counting days with people there. I was able to quit for a month at a time before I relapsed and it even got worse until I started actively participating on this thread.

The benefits I noticed
°I started to look fresh and I paid more attention to personal development.

° Increased confidence and I started associating easily with people

°My level of anxiety reduced drastically

°My brain is now as sharp as it used to be when I was young in my secondary school days. Those days, I can learn any skill I wish to, be it electronic, or art skill. When any of my friend does anything, I learn in less than a week no matter how hard it seems. I just realized how long I've lost the skill after I stoped masturbating.

My advice to those that still masturbate

STOP!
Don't listen to those that lie that it has one benefit of the other. It has none just stop and don't be hard on yourself, it's a gradual process.

368th day without masturbation and the benefit is massive.

Did you have any sex during those period.. If No, Omo you really tried oooo.. goood one !! it's not easy

shengbo weyrey?