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hopefulLandlord:
I'm an atheist and I've had a couple of life-threatening situations but never for once have I cried to a Jewish god to interfere

Trust me, this is a grave lie. You have never been in such situation.

dadabashua1:
I'm a Christian but I have to agree with you to some level,at least they don't kill in the name of religion, they pose no threat to anyone's life or way of life,so I won't judge them either.

Hehehe! The people you're thinking are atheists will shout Jesus more than you if they're in a car that's about to crash... There's nothing like that in Nigeria! I had a friend who stopped believing in the existence of God because his father died and he dropped out of school. But one day, a sickness was about to take his life and it was in church that he got his healing after hospital failed him. If he was truly a geniune atheist, he wouldn't have gone to any church but rather die in the sickness but today he's a pastor. This country is filled with fake atheists. Trust me, they're all christians!

You're confusing NON-CHURCH goers with atheist... Put them in a car that is about to have accident and see how they will shout JESUS more than you! Nigeria in particular is more religious than Israel. Wake up, op.

Timekeeper:
.. It's nt funny..
Try harder

Supposed i was cracking jokes... That would be you!

Guy, move in with your wife... Reports of lovers dying in another lover house these days is alarming! Don't be surprised to see yourself behind bars for the crime you never committed. Truth is always very bitter o...!

Akwaibomdude:
But what could be the permanent solution to this

Kerosene is cheap

Please, my guy... Your head dey there! You know king Solomon was the wisest man on earth and as well very romantic. Read Proverbs 6:24-35. You will love what is there and know exactly how to approach her with the Sweet romantic words there... I bet you, she will accept! In fact, if possible, text her the romantic words there. Thank me later.

I will do that immediately! Thanks, op

gidgiddy:
Oyigbo is the "imposed name" but Obigbo is the ancestral name

I have been there and i know the history. Oyigbo shares boundry with Abia State. There are stories and evidence of Ogoni men who sold pieces of Oyigbo land to Igbo people who later infiltrated to take over the place. Oyigbo is both the geniune and ancestral name of the place. However, that area is an outsketch belonging to Tai people of the Ogoni tribe. The name Oyigbo is an Ogoni name. The confusion is the word "gbo" that appeared after "Oyi". So, the igbo tenants now convert "Oyi" to "Obi". It's like "Ade" in Yoruba being changed to "Ede" in Akwa Ibom. Government don't just change name of a place. Oyigbo was the ancestral name which passed down to the era when Igbo began buying lands to settle in the area and when the name kind of coincide with their tribe, they vie to change it so as to claim the entire land only to realize that it was too late for them to make such a change.

Which idiot typed this?
It's Oyigbo, not Obigbo.
That's just why i won't read or support this argument.

The future is crystal clear... She should block and forever stop any contact! Guy, women! As long as ex is concerned, there must be some sort of emotion attached by the time she start sharing family issues with the supposed idiot ex in the name of seeking advice. The man should spell it out [like i would] to the wife to choose between his ex and him now that they're both still young so that they can both enjoy peace of mind in their separate ways. If he doesn't do this now, then he should expect story that touches the heart. I have seen die hard enemies ending up in marriage just because they accidentally open up to each other. And this one is an ex. Unless the woman is firewood, as long as blood runs through her veins anything can happen. She could one day seek help from her ex from an undisclosed location which could result to "I'm sorry, please, forgive me. I didn't know what came over me" kinda news... Take this advice now! Don't say you've not been told... Thanks!

1. Rotimi Amaechi
2. GEJ

To God be the glory you're safe...!

Na today? This is another avenue to steal money for the upcoming elections.

All this noise na because of Kanu! Nothing more or less... We know.

That was not only the reason... It means that she was a professional international intercontinental balistic MANIZER! She loved it so much to the extent that she couldn't prevent 10 babies in the process. That's what she did, who she was. A lover of Pen!s.

Okay, you need to plan it.

Let some of your friends to know so that they will help cheer up the audience when she says yes and also record with camera. You need to plan with some of your audience for the deal to go well.

Rafaell:
I don't agree with you intoto here, bro. Yes, we are bound to get angry from time to time, but we are always advised to apply more subtle & accomodating ways of releasing the anger. If it was the other way round now, and the guy beats up the lady anytime she gets him angry, U all will holler wife-beater & domestic abuse !!

Now it's the woman's turn in unleashing abuse on the man, U are now quick in tagging him NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE !!

Come on, what's good for the goose is also good for the gander. The woman can choose the option of breaking down in tears and sobbing her heart out instead of raining curses n abuses on her fiance. That's rubbish naà

I personally don't judge people on their worst mistakes. I first of all think what could result to one's action. And yes, marriage means dropping one's differences. The nature of that girl is who she is. Please, Go and study about temperaments before you mention my comments again.

It all depend on your understanding of life in general. You need to understand that when someone is angry, he is out of his moral state of mind. It appears you're a very straigth forward person who is not flexible or understand human temperaments. Even spirits get angry. There is a reason why God said, "be ye angry, but sin not". You're even lucky she ended there. God drawn the whole world in flood when he was angry. He destroyed a civilization (Sodom & Gomorah) and was about to flush out Israel in the wilderness if not that Moses pleaded. In fact, anger made God to disallow Moses from entering the promised land. Look, humans are like God and besides, spirits reside in human bodies. So, bodiless spirits cannot help it, how much more a human being. And like God, humans regret their actions caused by anger. If you truly love her you wouldn't quit her over mere natural phenomenon. But i see you have found someone else & looking for an excuse to quit. Guy, grow up! It seems you're a kid & not ready for Marriage.

Give her better 15 strokes and compulsory 6-6 fasting. She will comply. That's what my father used to do to me and my brother if we ordinarily fight each other. We don't even know phone back then otherwise that's like 24hours dry fasting.

Your true wife will marry you even if you dine with the devil himself.

Kobojunkie:
A psychological problem is no part of nature. Stop projecting these issues at nature.

mtcheew!

Kobojunkie:
Stop projecting this on nature. This is instead a known psychological problem.

a psychological phenomenon that is part of nature... In fact, that happens within nature! There's nothing to argue with you because you have no point. There's a popular adage that says "you will never understand until it happens to you". Love is nature and it naturally happens. In some cases, it grows beyond control. It can build and destroy as well. It's a powerful weapon for both good and evil. Again, pray that you never fall in love if you wish not to suffer or die for anyone.

That's a man in a woman's costume...

Kobojunkie:
It is wrong because is not a marriage but instead a cage she endures, using her children as her emotional cushion.

again, it is the work of nature. Women who are uncertain about their wellbeing and how their children will fair or survive if they leave the man are the ones stuck. They're not in the marriage to save themselves but the future of her children based on true unconditional love she has for them. Love is the greatest and most powerful phenomenon that exists in the universe. Guy, if you have never fallen in true love, forget it, you can never understand its true nature/colour or what love can actually and really do to a human being or even spirit. Have you seen love made someone take bullet for another or allowed to be killed willingly just to save another? Pray you don't fall in true love with anything, even your children otherwise we'll soon hear story that touch the heart.

babies are like your own creation and you have the full responsibility to nurture and raise them... It's like making yourself. You put more attention on what you build. This is naturaly so and it is not their fault. God made it so. Just look at Facebook the original creation of Mark (he makes sure that it works on all phones or anything that can browse despite the vulnerabilities associated with it working on outdated browsers, but look at whatsapp which wasn't his core creation, it works on selected phones). So it is in all things. It is no one's fault. Some women are still in some marriages only because of their children and nothing more or less.

Get another Nanny... Put yourself in the shoe of that Nanny, i bet you wouldn't do any different! Learn to love her and give her respect and move on. What has happened is her destiny. Don't try to behave like Portipha to Joseph. I see your story like the story of Joseph in the Bible. Please, just accept reality. With the way you're acting, if any bad happens, you could be held responsible but God forbid. Instead, you should be her friend and stop priding yourself. This is the work of God. If you evaluate very well, your Nanny must have had a poverty experience that's why she accepted the job. Please, be her friend and move on. Pride can end you up as a Nanny tomorrow in someone else's house and you would think it's the devil's handwork but God forbid. Because trust me, something could happen and you could lose your marriage because of that Nanny. You expect father and son to fight each other or to fight on the same side against you? A lot of people are already envious of what you have. Woman, behave! Thanks..

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Guy, if you truly love her, you would do anything to marry her. I think it's right time you sit for hours and think if you're in LOVE or in LUST. If love could reduce God into a mare man then you should re-evaluate your feelings for her. Go to the Bible, love made Sampson and Solomon follow their hearts. God is not against that. Where God is angry with you is when you begin to serve the Devil but God will not blame you for loving a woman and do her wish. God will never punish you for that. He didn't punish Adam for obeying Eve because understands what love can do to a being...

It's your fault.

Just change his diet. Let him eat well. And let him take viagra like 30mins before action, you'll love him. I seem not to believe all you said. I'm sure there's something you're not right about which is irritating him and that's what you should find out and fix. You are the one that's not romantic. You need to turn him on and spoil him with really crazy pre-intimacy, he will be the one to want more. It's possible his sexual drive is dropping due to age or some medical factors. Secondly, buy intimacy gadgets and masturbate before him and fake pleasure, he'll be very jealous. You will see him want to replace that toy next time. If you cheat you might end up getting STD or end your marriage soon. Sometimes you can just grap his d!ck or massage him sometimes after bath. He'll hungry for you. Also, meet a doctor to give you a great viagra pill and ask him to take it before action. Do this and don't think about f*cking your life out of a good marriage a lot of people are scrambling to have what you have. Tks

We're in Ember months as well as closed to campaign/election year. Similar incidence happened in port harcourt and both incidence happened to a building under construction. The same police prevented people from rescuing in port harcourt. The main aim of the planned collaps is for people to die so until enough people are dead, they won't be ordered to allow mass rescue. The thing is, these men (police) are following orders. This is ritual killing and don't be surprised to see another incidence similar to this happening in another state during these periods. When we're close to election, what you will hear is, tanker explosion, truck running into crowd, etc. and this always happen at the close of the year mostly towards election year. Just see how this case will be thrown under carpet like it happened in PH. Na them them.

How did they know the figures? A pure lie...

This is why Alien spaceships can never crash in Africa like the Roswell crash, because blacks will use them for lunch unlike the whites that would prefer an autopsy. Ormo, i'm speechless because i understand why you're eating it. It's well.