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I will seriously be disappointed in Nigeria and Nigerians if that ape-like looking man becomes Nigeria's president! Those singing his ptaises are those eating out is his ill-gotten wealth. If only we know what this man has done to Lagos!

Bros ur management did u a favour by sacking her. Don't wait one more minute b4 asking her out.. This is ur best chance and pls forget about whether she is dating one guy, if she wants u she will find her way back to u!

Did i read well? Monitor lizard! Even if woman finish for this world animals no be the next thing! And that creature thatbis full of diseases! Tufiakwa!

Rest in peace beautiful woman!

Cheerycherry:
Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.

I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.

Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.

When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.

Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.

Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.

He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.

This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.

I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.

It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.

I need inputs from married people please.
We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!

Much as i do not support cheating, I don't know what u are looking for in your husband's phone! Stop invading his privacy. What u don't know cannot kill u!

rickyboss333:
Exactly my point. But d issue is that d query further escalates the issue to other person's cos I believe queries must come thru d HR officer or manager, which in most cases goes thru his superiors (I stand to be corrected) and which obviously makes the case hopeless 4 d theif whom I believe wants 2 b given a second chance. That's why I felt making him write a report or statement on d incident and signed is better

I think you are right, every organizatiohas her own system or process! The report will suffice in this case so u don't put ur job on the line for someone!

ProphetofOdin:
Hi,
Please I will try to be brief as possible as i can.
I work with a firm that sells construction equipment, and head the logistics and warehouse department. I have this junior colleague that has been with the company for 8years(long before i joined cos i have only been there for 2+ years), he is experienced and good at his job.
But yesterday i caught this guy trying to steal two pieces of 70ah batteries, it really broke my heart because he can not even sell this things for up to 100k. I have tried everything in my capacity to make sure those working under my dept enjoy every benefits that are due to them; from hazard allowance, overtime, and so on. I sign all this allowance without asking questions even when sometimes some of them are questionable. I was doing all this so that nobody has any reason to steal and they have small change to augment their salary.
Personally i hate theft and frown at it and they all know it cos i keep preaching against this at every meeting, and if i escalate this to the management at the HQ in Lagos, he might be sack without benefits after 8 long years and he is a family man.

Though I have scold him and told him he would hear from me by Monday morning, the truth is given the situation I don't know what to do with this guy.

I am really confuse cos i don't even know how long he has been doing this shit.

Bros as a HR practitioner, i will advise that u issue the guy a query and keep the response because if the issue eventually get to the mgt thru whatever means and u have not done anything, it means u are complicit. The query i issue will exonerate you! When u are trying to help someone pls do it cautiously! Not at the expense of ur job!
Meanwhile if such happens again and u catch him or them pls do not spare him!

I have come to realize that you can't force a woman to do what she does not want to do. Leave her and let her be! E be like say she think say one ready made husband dey wait am somewhere but when the time is right, she will realize! The likes of her always end up in the arms of giys that will turn her to punching bag! Make una no beg am pls!

Pls point at one African leader that have common sense?

These are the useless and worthless girls we are talking about! They make sex cheap and love expensive with every gibberish they say on social media and unfortunately most girls like them with sawdust in their head follow them blindly!

This should naturally be a good opportunity for Nigeria to make money from Gas but the slowpokes we have in govt will never see the opportunity!

I wonder why guys still come here and tell us about their cheating gf! Girls are the same everywhere. The next one might even be worse. For u to have waited for her to cheat up till the 5th time is what i don't understand! That girl left u a long time ago and u are just planning to leave her. Op abeg say something more reasonable, cos anything u do now will not make any meaning!

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

Abeg who the guys wan settle down with? Useless and worthless girls of these days?

Women develop feelings for that man that spends moretime with them whether at home, at work or in church or anywhere. Man don't trouble urself so much, you have lost this one!

Am sure the op is a lady! I wonder why ladies of these days like to present themselves cheap but in their mind, it is the man that is insecure! Shio to these worthless generation of women!

Heartbroken05:
Good morning nairaland families.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.

Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.

There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.

But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.

But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.

I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.

Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.

I really don't think u need any spiritualist to tell u the girl was using u, it is the brain resetting slap she got that brought out the truth!
U also said ur girl says the guy makes her laugh and u think that is rrally nothing to worry about? See bros, just move on! She was not meant for u from the onset, u eere only her benefactor!

Oga leave this girl and move on na! There is nothing u can tell a girl that is charmed or in love! She go realize her error much later! Just move on!

Ned go still f*ck this one! U gerrit? If u dont gerrit forget abourit!

Whatever the circumstance thay caused yhe separation she has gone to test the waters outside her home and has realized that that street is not smiling, hence the decision to retrace her steps! For me its a no no!

Ao ri iru eleyi ri, afin deru ba oloro ni o! Me wey dey fight somebody not to do female circumcision, a doctor is now doing otherwise! This life no balance!

Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

Haven't u noticed that the high rate of education amongst women is responsible for the high rate of divorce in our society?
Pls fo and chexk statistics!
Am not saying it is not good to educate women but our educated women have turned out really badly because they equate themselves to the men in the home and we all know that there can't be two captains in a ship!
Kudos to ur uncle for taking the right decision, he is enjoying the sisvidends of marriage right now!

I was waiting for this! Rather than clamp down, they are begging because election is around the corner and they need the hoodlums to win elections! Shior. My probkem is when will real elections begin to count in this country?

All these una yeye bills, who dey enforce am? The one that have been passed in various states we are yet to see the effects, landlords are still harassing tenants so i wonder where this one will lead us o!

Lets be sure they are not teaching these young lads yahoo yahoo before we start commending them!

Impressive!!!

Tinubu should and can never be president in this country let alone have a running mate!

mrfree:
She came to make remittances and money was not complete, so I told that she should always ensure to make her money complete.

Op u never talk true o!

Girls dont ever learn! RIP to you. To ba dorun ko so run re o. I wish u could come and explain what ur eyes saw to other girls stoll roaming the streets!

If u actually did what u said u did, then u are disgusting! Is it every girl that u meet and they pee that u start to swallow there pee in d name of squirts?
I met a girl that squirted sometimes ago and the whole place was smelling of pee! Since then i began to dislike squirts, moreso she was not the first that i saw squirt but my interest in her was that hers was intense!
So bros squirt is not magic, they are only peeing on u!

Broda mi, you are loosing bsleep for nothing! You are not the only one sleeping with her, thats the koko! If u cant live with it, then let her go! You are probably only a side guy!