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I thought this model of camry starred i 2003?

Nothing wey person no go see for nairaland!

This particular eagle is destined for the grave!

They unknowingly turned the interview to a political rally where as usual the guy rubbished the present fovt. However, the guy is sound, i give that to him!

Had the problem bern solved now?

Bros why are u complaining? The time will come when u will needto get her approval to spen your own money! Nonsense!

Tell them and they will justify an increment in monthly allowance for the home!

Rigging has started even before the election!

Pls i like to ask, when will we begin to give so much support to our geniuses in this country, people that can actually make life better for us particularly in d future. All these BBNaija people will only corrupt our young ones and make their lifes miserable!
No be where one married woman dey go Bleep for national tv be that!? I wonder the morals such woman will inculcate in her child(ren).

How come we never feel the effect of all these investments on power? Am sure we all know the answer!

Wgen will girls of nowadays learn that its not safe to make a video of urself while making out with whosoever! When will they ever learn?
These videos or pictures always get into the wrong hands!

I'll recommend a kidney and liver function test! .

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

I sincerely thunk if the Op goes by these advice, things will get better for you and your wife! However, you need to take the advice about the pastor very seriously and let your wife know what you have done about the pastor. I would also advise that you arm yourself with those messages you saw cos the time to use it as evidence might eventually come!

This isnot a good signal for southern governors! If u make a law without enforcing the law, there will be total disregard for the law!

frozen70:
Marriage is all about live and respect

If you ever love your wife and its obvious you have always loved her

No matter the hard times she will never berat you

But if you have been treating her like an option

That time is when she will give it to you every hour

Women don't forget negative treatment and tends to pay back no matter how long it takes

Oga u are not entirely right! Love a woman to high heavens, ones you can no longer provide in the house, oga they go reduce you to rag! Examples abound! Am talking from experience.

Pride they say preceeds the fall of a man! The pride wey this thug of a man get ehn! No be here o!
I saw this coming! This man has lost his integrity with this yeye moves he is making! You have been deposed, let it sink into ur head court or no court!

MNDY:
Haven't you seen a virgin that is respectful, obedient and loyal?

Oga pls show me one!
As we have them onthis side, so do we on the other side, so whats ur argument?

Some of the things that come out on this show shud just be an eye opener for parents! Some kids have just gone astray without the parents knowing!

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Oga, ur analogy is nonsense!
Haven't u seen a virgin that is disrespectful, disobedient, disloyal etc and a girl with borehole as u called it that is exactly opposite in behavior? Which would u pitch ur tent with?
E be like say woman never dey on top ur case b4, u go know what's up!

Small sense like this, this girl nor get! Pls quote me anywhere, this girl marriage go break very soon with this nonsense wey she dey talk upandan

Davash222:
She's Biafran not Nigerian.

I doubt you'd type this if she was caught with drugs or into illicit acts. You would have been the first to call her developer.


God bless IGBO Nation.

Biafra is a figment of igbo people's imagination that will never come to pass!
Pls get that straight!
Hausas will never allow any part of this country break away cos of what they stand to loose. May be u have not realized that.

RoyalBoutique:
Good girls plenty.

Bros, i nor know where in this country u dey o! But me i dey south south, good girls scarce well well! Na pretenders plenty pass!

Bris u did not tell us how u offended her! This may make it difficult to make comments! Besides, ur wife us ur wife, if u realized that u have offended her, the u need to go make amends!

Oga that ur heart that is beating fast is ur conscience that is pricking u!
If u want to cheat oga abeg putur conscience for onside and cheat and if u don't want to pls avoid it especially if u know u can't handle the consequences!

Why are u asking what can u do? Didn't u realize that u have misfired? 1. U lied when u shud have said the truth 2. Even if u truly wanted to break up with a girl, should it be thru a text message?
The girl actually did u right by not responding to ur message!
Better go and beg her, good girls scarce gaan ni these days!

Did i hear someone call Tinubu Mr President? E get some people wey be say eye service no go allow dem enter heaven! Who made Tinubu Mr President?

Saneesk:
Good day fellow naira landers.

So I'm wondering do they really sell job offers or it's a myth. Really wanna know abd please what are the price range for notable agencies and bodies, might consider buying

Oga, yes they do mostly in d ministries and govt agencies! It might interest u to know that u can vuy an employment for as much as #1m!