₦airaland Forum

jmoore:
I watched Newsline on NTA yesterday. This man has four wives and 19 children. The family is poor and the kids beg on the streets.



1. There should be a law banning poor men from marrying more than 1 wife.

2. Another law that makes it a criminal offence for a poor man to have more than 2 kids.

Much as i agree with you, i think the law shud not be restricted to the poor only otherwise that aim of population control will be defeated. There are also rich men that have children everywhere and do not take care of them!

waice6571:
As HRM show me a particular section of the constitution of federal republic of Nigeria that will be used to nab him in the court of law...

Forget... The company wan close shop. Go and ask the guy that attempted relocating Guinness Nigeria to Ghana how dem take solve the matter.

Ode leleyi o!

Do they want u to remain jobless after leaving them? Pls dont sign such contract. Tell them u want that particular part of the contract removed! If they decline, then walk! If u sign it you will be in trouble for going again that clause. I can tell u that for free because am a HR practitioner!

Vorrow from the company and not from ur boss!

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.
Oga tell her not to worry that u have things under control in ur house. Remember that if she has another motive aside coming to help, whether u agree or not, u are in deep shit, so it is better u avoid that shit!

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

Oga tell her not to worry that u got things under control in ut house. If u allow her come around and she has other motives aside comi to help, whether u agree or not, u are in a deep mess cos no one will listen to ir side of the story, so be wise!

JovialJune:
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs?

If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you.

Are u fucking serious? What if the woman has another motive aside coming to help him with chores?

This guy remains the most stupid politician ever to come out of Nigeria! Imagine what he just said!
How did Nigeria get to this stage of voting morons to power?

Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.

Arrest her say wetin happen? Na your wife? Abeg free the girl. You don't even onow the kinda girl u are dating. Abeg park well!

Am not surprised cos i saw this coming a long time ago! Funke has an overbearing attitude!

kenzysmith:
Good evening guys went to my ex wedding yesterday and I saw how happy her husband was I dance to congratulate them and as soon I shook hands with my ex
I remember those nights she will beg me to sex her, I remember the styles I use her to learn, I remember how she gave me bj , I remember how I use to smack her ass when she use to give me doggy , I remember the countless time I have Bleep her then I burst into laughter the husband was impress and taught my laughter was joy and he thank me after I shook his hands why my ex shook her head towards the ground

I want to tender my apology for falling the wife brea....st drastically and the pu ...ss y I have handle with aggression I tender my apology to the unborn children for the brea...st I have su ck beyond repair am sorry they should forgive me

This is exactly the same way somebody bleeping ur future wife presently will burst laugh at u when u eventually marry your wife! Remember karma na bastard, it always comes back!

Daveayo1:
Good news
Despite all rubbish and all hatred. We will not rest until gay marriage is legalized in nigeria.

Let the frustrated people comments begin

In your wild dreams!

starz100:
A friend needed advice whether to continue jejely with his 250k government job here in Nigeria or relocate abroad with his family through study route.
Please your contributions are welcome, because the brother is in a dilemma

Pls is the person alright? You cannot even compare a #1m job in this God-forsaken country to a life in Canada! Do u want to die in penury and hardship?

Thats a sogn u are far from God! Dem don get u!

360degreess:
Look at what poverty is doing.

Bro i just read what was on my mind in ur comment!
Poverty na bastard!

UrPapa:
To me I feel Tinubu has more sweet mouth amongst the 3
Can’t say about now but you need to see his former campaign speeches
Plus he has more achievements to talk about amongst them

Its obvious Obi will floor the other two, although he tells too much story but he knows how to drive home his point. Tinubu cant get his thoughts together, sometimes he talks out of point. All he knows is that it is his turn. Atiku has difficulty expressing himself sometimes. And i already want to predict that Tinubu will not show up for any debate except the one organized by his TV station.

Behold! The most unserious candidate and party in the history of Nigerian elections!

Some men no get shame at all! No ambition, no vision and no mission in life!

Bought my car in 2014, i have changed the gear oil only once and the recommendation came because the gear light became dim when on drive. After changing the oil the light came back as bright as it use to be. And this was like 3-4yrs after buying the car. The gear is still performing excellently till date.
If ur mechanic is saying u should change ur gear oil every 3months, then the mechanic is wack and you need to replace him!!!

If u get to know the motive behind his insisting on having a joint account with you, then u will know he doesn't mean well! You probably does not know this person u call your fiance very well! I have always been against joint account with my spouse from the onset and any form of insistence does not mean well! My advice os that u just stand your ground, he will of course threaten you that he will call the relationship off, that should be a red flag for you that he does not mean well!

Pls ask yourself if men give financial help to ladies (let alone an ex) without getting anything in return! If you gf is serving in d same state where her ex lives, guy they just made u a side guy!

English is a language we are all struggling to learn and understand! Don't let that make u miss a good girl! The least u should have done was correct her and let life go on! Even u the op is not perfect at English! Some other people that are better than u will come and tear your english to pieces, may be then u will know that we are not all perfect at this nonsense language called english!

I try not to read other people's comments! My advice is if u are very sure of what u know, confront her probably with voice recorder, let her know if she doesn't change u will report her to her husband and d family. If she changes, then let go but if she doesn't, then make good your threat!
The use of a recorder is to have an evidence for taking such action!

teekay213:
Hi,

I got a 2bedroom flat because the place is close to me and my wife place of work.we couldn't get a 3bedroom around the area cos that was the one we saw at the time and it was not costly.

But here is the problem I have a 19yrs old boy waiting for admission and a 16yrs old girl in ss3 but I don't know how to allocate the 2 bedroom maybe my wife and I should take one and leave the other room for my son and daughter but my girl is already a lady and she doesn't want to share a room with her brother,,am also thinking my wife should share one room with our daughter while I share the remaining room with my son but what if me and my wife need each other.

Where we relocated from we had 3 bedrooms and everyone had his room but because that was the only apartment near and less costly we had to take it.

My candid advice, let the boy go stay with a family or friend that can accommodate him till he gets admission! The reason being that as a guy, he can always take care of himself provided he gets the needed support, a girl u need to somewhat monitor and uay not have the time to do that. So let the guy be the sacrificial lamb for now after all when he gains admission he gains his freedom! However, am not saying u should neglect him even though he is staying with a family or friend. However, if u have the resources to change your accommodation to a 3bed apartment, pls go ahead, it is for the good of the family!

To be honest, Islam is retrogressive and that is one of the reasons this country is still the way it is! I wish everyone could coexist without one religion forcing itself on the other! And to think that I was born into a muslim family makes this whole thing sickening! My family is not like this!!!

duduade:
Please mind your business

There is no othet way to say it better: Mind your business!

YoudeyVexme:
I might be older than your father, we all have the way we chose to go for our sexual lives.
Yes I do get your point but atleast talk like a civilize human.

U cannot even be older than me let alone my father that died several years ago! If i tell u my age u will marvel! U can only be my younger brother and quite frankly u are childish, that's why u responded to me the way u did!

This is what selflessness is about! Meanwhile some people are busy taking these human lives! I salute that man's courage for risking his life to save other lifes!

If u were my younger brother, tbh, i would slap some sense i to your head! The girl u call clean, is it written on her forehead that she has no infection or HIV? Pls get sense. It is bad enough that u are paying for sex but thinking of having raw sex with random girls is even unthinkable! My advice for you is to get a decent girl as a gf and stop this wakawaka!

Wow! To be honest, i just pictured myself in your shoe roght now and i can tell u for free that i don't know how am gonna handle that situation!

Emilokoiyawon:
You mean just like Wike abandoned Rivers and is now following Atiku up and down?

You bloody hypocrites!

Do the children of these days have to call people names? Are u guys sane at all?

wallarwallar:
Dindinrin ... U be dog ni always looking for who to attack

Why donthe children of these days like to abuse people, did u see any form of abuse in my post? The you don't know if the person ubare abusing is as old as ur father. If that is the way u were brought up, then your parents did a bad job!!!