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I have come to realize that you can't force a woman to do what she does not want to do. Leave her and let her be! E be like say she think say one ready made husband dey wait am somewhere but when the time is right, she will realize! The likes of her always end up in the arms of giys that will turn her to punching bag! Make una no beg am pls!

Pls point at one African leader that have common sense?

These are the useless and worthless girls we are talking about! They make sex cheap and love expensive with every gibberish they say on social media and unfortunately most girls like them with sawdust in their head follow them blindly!

This should naturally be a good opportunity for Nigeria to make money from Gas but the slowpokes we have in govt will never see the opportunity!

I wonder why guys still come here and tell us about their cheating gf! Girls are the same everywhere. The next one might even be worse. For u to have waited for her to cheat up till the 5th time is what i don't understand! That girl left u a long time ago and u are just planning to leave her. Op abeg say something more reasonable, cos anything u do now will not make any meaning!

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

Abeg who the guys wan settle down with? Useless and worthless girls of these days?

Women develop feelings for that man that spends moretime with them whether at home, at work or in church or anywhere. Man don't trouble urself so much, you have lost this one!

Am sure the op is a lady! I wonder why ladies of these days like to present themselves cheap but in their mind, it is the man that is insecure! Shio to these worthless generation of women!

Heartbroken05:
Good morning nairaland families.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.

Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.

There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.

But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.

But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.

I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.

Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.

I really don't think u need any spiritualist to tell u the girl was using u, it is the brain resetting slap she got that brought out the truth!
U also said ur girl says the guy makes her laugh and u think that is rrally nothing to worry about? See bros, just move on! She was not meant for u from the onset, u eere only her benefactor!

Oga leave this girl and move on na! There is nothing u can tell a girl that is charmed or in love! She go realize her error much later! Just move on!

Ned go still f*ck this one! U gerrit? If u dont gerrit forget abourit!

Whatever the circumstance thay caused yhe separation she has gone to test the waters outside her home and has realized that that street is not smiling, hence the decision to retrace her steps! For me its a no no!

Ao ri iru eleyi ri, afin deru ba oloro ni o! Me wey dey fight somebody not to do female circumcision, a doctor is now doing otherwise! This life no balance!

Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

Haven't u noticed that the high rate of education amongst women is responsible for the high rate of divorce in our society?
Pls fo and chexk statistics!
Am not saying it is not good to educate women but our educated women have turned out really badly because they equate themselves to the men in the home and we all know that there can't be two captains in a ship!
Kudos to ur uncle for taking the right decision, he is enjoying the sisvidends of marriage right now!

I was waiting for this! Rather than clamp down, they are begging because election is around the corner and they need the hoodlums to win elections! Shior. My probkem is when will real elections begin to count in this country?

All these una yeye bills, who dey enforce am? The one that have been passed in various states we are yet to see the effects, landlords are still harassing tenants so i wonder where this one will lead us o!

Lets be sure they are not teaching these young lads yahoo yahoo before we start commending them!

Impressive!!!

Tinubu should and can never be president in this country let alone have a running mate!

mrfree:
She came to make remittances and money was not complete, so I told that she should always ensure to make her money complete.

Op u never talk true o!

Girls dont ever learn! RIP to you. To ba dorun ko so run re o. I wish u could come and explain what ur eyes saw to other girls stoll roaming the streets!

If u actually did what u said u did, then u are disgusting! Is it every girl that u meet and they pee that u start to swallow there pee in d name of squirts?
I met a girl that squirted sometimes ago and the whole place was smelling of pee! Since then i began to dislike squirts, moreso she was not the first that i saw squirt but my interest in her was that hers was intense!
So bros squirt is not magic, they are only peeing on u!

Broda mi, you are loosing bsleep for nothing! You are not the only one sleeping with her, thats the koko! If u cant live with it, then let her go! You are probably only a side guy!

Datboredberry:
Rugged? Seems I don't know the word... Cause none of the musicians you mentioned look rugged... Except for reminisce...

Thank u sis! I don't know what Davido is doing on that list! And to even think Davido comes before Olamide is unthinkable!! These guys are mostly butter!

Corruption Development commission will be instituted soon. I swear! But i keep thinking which and how is this administration fighting corruption?

hisexcellency34:
Sharply..Muslims no dey waste time at all

I swear! If u go faint too much as a muslim, na inside grave u go wake up o!

Ah! What is this one again? God help us o!!!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
King wey get swag come handsome join again. Long live Ogiame. By the way where is Ayiri ??. Been awhile I heard from him. Lol

Lol! I like this person's response! I was just thinking in my head where is Ayiri now and suddenly i saw this post! U too much we are thinking alike. Ayiri with all d noise wey him make, i hope he is watching!!!

I see a problem with ur mindset! And the problem is that you have started procrastinating already! Why wait till 2022, why not start now!!!!
Think hard, take risk, invest, avoid frivolous spending, save, deny urself of some pleasures, network to meet people cos u can't succeed alone and u will see urself fly! And pls don't forget never to procrastinate, whatever i can do now, never postpone it! Best of luck.

Klimltdz:
That's Oil and Gas environmental degradation for you. The Un been warning us over the years, but no one gave them a listening ear.

This is just the first stage.

Very well said theose bunkerers that cook diesel in nearby forest are the real menace in that area!