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I have always said women of these days have very nad character, if as a man u notice anything that is out of place, if u don't address it immediately, it may consume u in d end!
There are things she has been doing before now which ubhave overlooked that that is why she has behaved like that because u have never corrected any of those issues in the past.
I blame you for thos though but leave her she will come around!

As long as you have life, pls bro be hopeful. The coming year will be a much better one, dust urself and start again. I wish u olenty of luck and luv!

Op, lets call a spade a spade! Your so-called gf is cheap! It is only cheap girls that sees nothing wrong with all the things u mentioned!
And pls i mean no insult, people are already helping u to knack that girl! U are just on the side whom she can run to when others fail! Wise up bro.

Op se that ur brother, he will soon receive sense, you guys should just stop giving him money and let him get into small trouble with his yahoo yahoo, that is when he will know that if u sell ur family cheap, outsidera will be evem too expensive for u to get! And yorubas will say omo ti ko ba gbo eko nile, ita ni won ti ma ko!

I read thru a lot of comments here i see a lot of immature responses and most people here dont know the creature called woman!
Bros, mark my words, this small thing u have nnoticed, if u don't nip it in d bud, i swear by the time the real issues start, u will no longer be able to handle it. Plus it were to be ur brother that was there, am sure it won't be the same!

DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.

Bro u need to thread carefully on this issue, because it is capable of breaking d home! However, what she did was a calculated action to sendurmum out so her mum can come in!
I don't k ow how to describe the women if these days with their behaviour!

itsme01:
Any conviction link of Bola Ahmed Tinubu since 1999 under PDP or APC

Bros we all know how corrupt he and his cronies are and we know alos why there has been no conviction! So forget matter make the matter rest!

itsme01:




Bola Ahmed Tinubu


Na Ogun go Kee you if you ask why am voting Bola Ahmed Tinubu... After all he did NADECO, Lagos State

*Best Graduating student Chicago State University
*Former partners with Deloitte , PWC , Anderson, G.E, ExxonMobil, Aramco
*Former Senator, two terms Governor of Nigeria's most richest best Governed State, founder of a ruling Political Party and National Leader
*Investor in local economy, INTELs logistics (only Nigeria owned port logistics) , OANDO PLC, Alpha Betta (the only Nigeria tax consulting services in Nigeria that can rival foreign ones) Renita platform, TVC (top Nigerian News station)

*Rapid Response Squad... RRS best security outfit created by BAT
*LASERMA 112
*BRT fast metro system
*LCDA creation
*Best Tax model in Nigeria
* First state owned independent power plant
*LAGBOAT
*Highest paid civil servants
*Detribalized political appointment with Ibos and Hausa serving under Jagaban
*PPP Eko Atlantic manmade island


.

.... and it all ended in corruption!

backbencher:
Dude, how come MC oluomo can afford university in America for his kids , while most of his union membership cannot afford better schools for theirs?

Siddon there make pant dey wear you!!!

Hmmmmm! We all start talking ehen something terrible has happened! Sly's death would uave been avoided if students and parents have spoken up before now.

This op just spoke many peoples mind! This is something i have always wondered for years!. I wish the women here would be bold enough to tell us why this is so!

This na standard matter! Standards different fron standards!

The way to know an idiot is from what comes out of his mouth and his tweets!

FirefliesSun:
I am so mad right now. I am so confused.
Today around 5:30, I had to visit my friend to pluck hibiscus flowers.

One thing led to another while at the flowers, I saw my friend's mother making eyes/wink and pouting to my friends husband. He just smiled back although he noticed I saw it but the mother didn't.

I can swear they are having a fling and it's shameful. I don't know how to tell her. I am just here, very confused and bothered. Even if I wanted to tell her, how do I even start?

It's non of ur business! Mind ur business.

awa:
Na waoh... Some are looking for kpola while some are running away

Aswear this life no balance!

Ayion:
What do you think is the reason why beautiful girls go for rich guys not caring wether he is handsome or not
So also, ugly girls go for handsome guys not caring wether he is rich or poor?

Sorry, it is the guys that go for the girls but the girls profile the guys to know which is suitable or which one nearly meets or meets their standards!

AdaSunshine:
She's simply cheap.
A cheap girl.

Everybody has a price o! So i wouldn't call her cheap!

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

That is the life of women! I can tell u for free that only about 1% of women will not do that so bros its nothing new! Just make sure ur sanity remains intact so that u can dust urself and start up again!

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Yeye dey smell! If the ur brother's friend has slept with her b4, it can happen again and the fact that your brother and that his friend are still friends make the whole relationship unhealthy! For me i don't allow my woman go near her ex for whatever reason! Its not healthy because when the unthinkable will happen, trust me she will keep it away from her husband and women are very good with secrets!

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

Why are u asking what u shud do again? U have said u can't marry her. That settles it! But don't waste her time.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

Are u alright? What kind of yeye talk is this?
Abeg go and look for your own husband!

I laugh u in spanish! If u enter market these days u will know that our wives have been trying! We don't even have as much negotiating power as they have in d market, so don't btey our women!

I don know tey tey say this oga no get sense!!!

Oga, u are very stupid! Ur mates are looking for ways to leave this country, u are planning to cone come back becos of bills? Were u hoping to live in Canada for free? Bros if u cone back this country i pray make kidnapers kidnap u from airport so that ur head go correct!!! Nonsense!

This video really got me mad this evening!!! No principal or headmaster can put my child in this kind of stupid condition, I don't care what the school is going thru! My kid should never go tbru this, no be me swear for the school o!

Abeg somebody shud educate me, is Rwanda one of the G20 countries? If not why this picture with Rwandan president?

Wetin this one take different from girls we dey stand by roadside for night @ Allen? Glorified Olosho!

RiceProducers:
We don't

You don't! But Nigerian govt do! Small time China go recolonize us if care is not taken!

Small sense, this op no get? Thegirl is even smarter than him!

Bola146:
age is just a number, na common sense matters which I think you lack, you need to pray for more maturity please. First take good care of your parents and siblings at home, if you don't have any, invest in your future since you can't think straight or if you don't have a good future, please buy her the phone and cleave to her, you will surely be alright, Pele.

Na just ur first sentence i read before i clicked the like! I swear you response is on point!

I still wonder why we buy everything we need from china!

These people obviously do not know what they are doing! Fees a prisoner with #1,000 per day while an obedient citizen earning minimum wage cannot feed himself with #1,000 per day.
Shame on u all!