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I walked into force headquarters one time without being given a visitors tag and dropping my phone. It is a very porous place.

Because it is sweet

Chioma is busy following Davido up and down. Don’t blame the nanny. Does she not have parents that the boy can stay with, when she is busy. They all have to be blamed

Corridon:
PDP should stop wasting their time and chasing shadow! How would Atiku even convince the south to vote for him after eight years of Buhari? Obi remains the undisputed choice of Nigerians.

Obi is not going anywhere!

Hello,

My wife insists that if I truly love her, I must wash her pant. I’ve never done this before and I don’t understand why she wants me to do this. Would you wash your wife’s pant? Mature advice only

Get out while you can. She will ruin you financially

maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

What kind of talk is this ? Mannerless people

All he had to do was leave the country while he was still a governor and let his deputy handover.

soundOsonic:
Actually python is harmless. It has no venom.
It can only swallow you if it is very huge.
I don't think the python in that hostel can swallow any human

It can choke you. If it wraps it self round your neck or chest you are dead

Glory be to God! I am inspired.

Easier said than done. I’m sure the person who wrote this isn’t married. Smh!!

Yet there is a video of you having lunch at his house and you people chat online. Truth is bitter.

membranus:
That's very terrible. How then are you managing the marriage without hating the woman? You must be a superman.

I have become numb to her physically. I am considering a second wife because God knows I have tried

seunmsg:
4 years no sex and you are still married? Are you very sure she is not getting it somewhere outside? Omo, things they happen o.

Things are truly happening but this is the reality of marriage and many won’t speak up

We go outside. Mine is 4 years no sex. I have tried everything to make it work but she says no.

Let her try and emergency travel documents from Nigeria high commission and tell them her passport is missing

No meat

Brush your tongue thoroughly and rinse at least twice. Make sure after brushing your tongue it is pink

They said stop travelling at night people won’t hear

maureensylvia:
Honestly I'm done fixing nails

It's not my calling at all

I lost my finger nail two months ago

Early this week I lost my big toe nail
It's painful
It hurts

E pain pass heartbreak

I went for treatment and was charged 10k to pull out the remaining nail on my big toe, I Was injected on my toe twice to reduce the pains.. omooorr I cried like a baby very painful something... Look at what fixing artificial nails has caused me.

Now I'm at home today, limping... I won't go for business nor deliveries today... I'll continue tomorrow and still go back this evening for dressing.

Have you had this experience before?
How did you treat yours?
How long did it take your nails to grow back again?

Share your experiences

Shave your legs looks nasty

How many times will this man die? He supposedly died years ago and now he has died again!! Guess he had two lives.

Is it his beard or what he wrote that matters. He can look like that and be the smartest in the room. When he gets a first class who will be rewarded his beard or him self. Misplaced priorities.

Typical African mentality. Who told you he does not have need for the money. How can u determine what he should do with his own resources. Have u ever given him N85m before?? Talk true and for the sake of the kidd I won’t spill...that’s what happens when your papa is also a cloth chaser

Does Obaseki campaign at all? I haven’t heard or seen any clip of him doing so.

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

welcome to the real world bro!! Married for 8 years and will tell you women and money is 5&6 so the more you can provide the happier she will be. However, just advise her to be patient till things get better

rentAcock:
There is nothing more depressing than being a one hit wonder. I was about to ask who is DJ Morillo for his sad demise to grace the front page of nairaland. I looked up his song "I love to move it" on YouTube and I was shocked to find out that this once popular hit song in the 90s was sang by a man no one knows his name. May we not be one hit wonders. And may his soul rest in peace.

But that one hit wonder made him money esp from that Madagascar movie and countless features in house music compilations. So was a good one hit.

[quote author=maduxs post=92860047]Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Because of 11k u r shouting. Broke ass. See it as hazard fee.

stanleymakavelli:
MR librarian what about people that were raped and murderd in their homes ?

True people get rapeD and murdered at home but let's reduce the risk by avoiding putting ourselves in compromising situations.

Eyinjuoluwanimi:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/06/late-uwa-read-at-church-where-she-was-murdered-for-5-years-%25E2%2580%2595-report/amp/

Why couldn’t she read at her house or no libraries

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

Who made you God to judge her. Her personal life is hers and that’s my problem with africans. Has her lifestyle affected her productivity and cost you resources. Get a life and grow up.

Akinsoladwayne:
Hi everyone! So I was at my brother's house yesterday and could you believe his wife cooked rice for me and served me with a meat I mean just a meat.

This is the person that knows how choosy I could be when it comes to eating.

I'd recall vividly before my brother married her, then when I visit my brother at his place I do the cooking and the least meat/fish I'd always dish my food with could be two or three.
But I have been wondering how on earth would she serve me her in-law with just a meat.
This is an insult of the highest order, like I'm gonna need to call my brother's attention to it.

Well at the end of the day I had no choice than to eat the food like that with the one meat she served me. The food self no sweet.

If you like bant me, it's none of my fuvking business.

Jobless stupid person with a backward African mentality. If in the brother ill tell my wife to never serve you food again