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olayiwola72:
Which app to watch the live match on apple store please

crackhaus:
You seem to have deliberately ignored this part in a bid to appear open-minded.

My bro.. I have applied Full stop on this thread.. I would have answered u.. but I was clearly upsetting someone ..

Dididrumz:
You dey fight your fellow man and na penis You see to drag?

He was a Saw machine operator... We thank God he did not use the Saw

Justbehave:
Yes opt out already before you destroy the life of an innocent man.

We have to hold u.. U don't have to say anything anymore..This one u have said is enough

bdchange:
Some of your comments sound funny to me. How long will it take you guys to understand that in marriage, husband and wife comes first. Every other person including your pastor, priest, Imam, Alfa, mother, father, siblings and the rest are secondary. Any issue you want to discuss with any other person should be known first by your partner. She keeps deleting the chats history between herself and the priest and you are saying privacy. Privacy from who? Someone that should be her number one confidant. If the priest is actually truthful to himself and God, he should have informed the wife to carry the husband along immediately. The priest should better marry her if the husband kicks her out. Nonsense and ingredients.

Maybe u should read my previous post how I expressed how annoying it was for a wife to put the priest or pastors over their husbands..

I don't have anything else to say on this matter again So that it won't upset the husband because it seems that different opinions was upsetting him already...

So if u have something to say to make him feel better and that will bring solutions to his concerns and problem please do say it..
Cheers

injuredman:
My OP asked if she doesn't owe the husband an apology. Maybe I shouldn't even bring it here since I don't have the permission to share all that he found. Also, my disappointment in the priest friend is making me upset with people on a faceless forum like this. Yes, my friend is angry, yet he still wants the priest to retain his office. And yes, he has damaging evidence that would affect the Priest's Faculty if reported. Why the deleted chats? Why refusal to address the suspicion? Plus other classified evidences.

We are very good at giving out non practical advice, but when we are beneficiaries of such actions we speak differently?
My guy is hurting reading some of the comments here, and I feel bad bringing it here. It is shameful and painful enough that he is going through what he is going through in the hands of a wife. Reading through this is another blow to him.

Restroom:
Looking for someone to use his head for rituals?

Only a mugu will fall for this

East for that matter

Haba!! U should have given him the benefit of doubt... His name is Grace of God .. He can't do a thing like that

injuredman:
All these because a priest is involved? If it was an ordinary man, would you wait for all these logic? A wife having conversation with your friend only when you're not around is not a bad sign. The guy must wait to see them banging and moaning? Kai Nigerians!

Oh!! Okay.... Was that the overwhelming evidence you got? That the Priest and the woman were talking when the husband was not around... Hmmm!! Ok

I thought you got something better.. but hey, it's fine, It is a huge evidence...Infact, your friend can go and report the Priest to his superiors.. so that they can give him a termination letter..if that will make all the parties involved happy..

This is because under no circumstances should a Priest speak to female congregants in their husbands absence.. it is a taboo.. It is unheard of... He should have been meeting only men, boys and husbands for prayers and supports to avoid scandals like this one ..

Mercychen:
Ok, thank you.

injuredman:
This blind defense of our priests, and generally "men of God" is why the church is messed up with priests acting with all immunity and impunity.

If you think that I just open this thread to rubbish an institution I grew up respecting so dearly, may my friend's pain and the disarray this priest brought to his marriage be your portion soonest.

AMEN!

AntiChristian:
But this reason is flimsy!

The dead is dead. Whether you pay respect or not you are not helping the dead! She can't get/see your respect.

Whoever comes later can visit the grave!

Jesus burial was not delayed becos the 11 disciples and hin family no dey around

injuredman:
Waooh!

Eye opening! Unfortunately, the husband had already suspected these two long before. Since I am not the husband, and didn't have his permission to share more details, I will leave it at that. But like I wrote before, there are more info that prompted the man to confront both wife and the priest.
By the way, how does a wife's relationship with a friend to the hubby (be it pope or bishop) become more important than her relationship with her husband? Note that the priest is not in charge of their church, just a friend to the guy.

Curiouscity:
Many people define cheating as when married man or woman has sex with someone who is not his/her spouse only. I think it is more than the physical sex. Any level of intimacy with opposite sex, that your spouse is not supposed to know is cheating. The deleting of the messages shows she is cheating, emotionally or sexually.
In fact, some people believe that emotional cheating is worse than sexual cheating.

AntiChristian:
But why do Christians waste money at the morgue preserving a dead person that will still be buried?

This money can be used in charity na!

But wetin concern me sef?

Favfables1:
When a person acts in a manner regarded as suspicious, he/she puts himself or herself in a position that will cause others to misinterprete his/her motive...

We can't say for sure whether or not she is cheating, buh her actions are indeed suspicious...

Why is she always deleting her chat with that priest?? What is she hiding that she doesn't want her husband to see?? Why is she being defensive and dismissive when confronted about the time she spends with the priest?? And in marriage who should be your greatest confidant, a priest or your spouse??
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