Richy4's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Richy4's Profile › Richy4's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 (of 356 pages)

Family › Re: Bullying: I Taught My Son To Fight Back by Richy4(m): 10:25am On Dec 05, 2021*

If u know how to teach your sons/ daughters to fight back, please do..

Unfortunately, those kids that are living in boarding school doesn't know how to fight back.. it's not that they don't want to but the fear of being gang beaten by the seniors...It was a general knowledge that one insult to a senior by a junior is an insult to all..

it's only those that has lived in boarding houses that will understand what I'm talking about.. Day students most times wondered why those living in boarding houses were docile...

Yea they are because as a day student, after fighting a senior student who is a bully in school premises, u will go back home to your parents.. your paths with the bully might not Cross again for some time.. but as a boarder, u will wake up with them, they will bring their mates... It's just scaring sometimes..

I remembered my school father those days... wish I could see Senior Christian again in this life time.. May God bless him wherever he is... He was simply a God's sent to me.. He fights all my battle with the bullies especially the senior ones.. even if it has to be his friends... How I wish that this little boy that passed on have a senior Christian in his life as a school father just the way I did those days..

As an 11 yr old that I was back then, I tried to stay away from SS2 bullies.. but I was being picked on because I hated being spoken to in a rude way..The annoying part was u were expected to greet your seniors every day and to call them senior this or senior that.... That was just the most annoying part...I was tagged as an arrogant spoilt brat..

Chai!!!! This guy taught me how to break certain school rules without being caught.. Since our school was unofficially known for cooking the worst tasteless food ever in the whole FCT, Even when they cooked something as simple as fried yam, it still tastes awful.. angry

He taught me how to smuggle in small kerosene stove and pot inside the dorm room without being caught.. how to cook rice and beans.. how to hide everything inside the ceiling during inspection...He was just like the best mischievous cool elder brother anyone could have grin

He was the genesis of my being tough, strong and independent in this world.. Bless you wherever you are

18 Likes 1 Share

Family › Re: #DowenCollege: Bad Parenting Vs Bad School Training. Which Is To Blame? by Richy4(m): 5:43am On Dec 05, 2021*

In my opinion, I think bad parenting was to be blamed..

Some kids are really problematic from home... Most times parent with problematic kids feels like boarding school is their best option to send a problematic child just to shift blame.. Since they have the fund, and the school needed the fund.. they took anyone in irrespective of the kids behaviour

For example, there was a time that a seminary school for boys was established in my home town... It started from JS1.. this kids were supper nice.. They came to church in their sparkling white outfits...

When some of the super Rich parents in my community with problematic kids saw how well mannered these kids were, They sent their kids with hope that they will have good behaviour as well...Not knowing that they were there to corrupt the others..

Before the school could turn out Senior students, We started seeing them smoking, and doing other things not meant for kids that age... Infact the changes was massive..

So how do u think a school in need of funds can change a kid whose parents dumped in school to avoid massive embarrassment?

3 Likes 1 Share

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Wolves Vs Liverpool (0 - 1) On 4th December 2021 by Richy4(m): 6:20pm On Dec 04, 2021

I watched this match with heavy heart... But there was light at the end of the tunnel...Thanks Guys...

1 Like

Family › Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Richy4(m): 3:31pm On Dec 04, 2021

ugotaya:
Brothers should watch out for all these narcissist women that will not only ruin their life but also their destiny. ha haaaaaaaaaaa.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Rather Make N8M A Year Working For Myself Than N82M Working For Someone Else by Richy4(m): 12:58pm On Dec 04, 2021*

shineeye1:
Preferring the big salary working for another man is exhibition of poor vision. What happens when they suddenly sack you?!

Based on your question about being sacked,..
You have seen what the pandemic has done to many business owners .. Many of them struggled and some are still struggling.. and a lot of them have closed their business doors permanently..

Both the owners of Businesses and the employees faces challenges/Risks..

You made a reckless statement there by saying people that prefer big salaries exhibits poor vision...

Meaning every Nurses must open a business where he/she can practice health care giving..
Bankers the same...All Police/ Army personnel that receives salaries should open a security outlet.. Just All in the name of being a business owner with excellent vision? Haba!!

1 Like

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Rather Make N8M A Year Working For Myself Than N82M Working For Someone Else by Richy4(m): 11:57am On Dec 04, 2021

The difference was over clear oo cheesy

e clear pass 7UP self..$20K a year compared to $200k a year? Haba!!..

It doesn't make financial sense at all except maybe the pride of being a business owner and an employer of labour.. grin

6 Likes 1 Share

Education › Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Richy4(m): 11:13am On Dec 04, 2021

ORIAYO70:
I don't knw how sane parent will live their ward at the mercy of third party, in the name of boarding sch n u expected positive result...

We all need parental care while we grow.
Most parent does that cos of their work schedule, now Sylvester is dead

A lot of us went to boarding school and we came out strong and independent...

Yes some parents sent their ward to boarding school because of work schedule, many sent theirs because of quality education.. and some find themselves there due to distance between home and the school...

I don't see anything wrong with parents sending their children to boarding school.. cultism can still exist within the day school operations.. under the nose of the parents.. so?

2 Likes

Education › Re: #JusticeForSylvester: Parents Of Dowen College Cult Members To Fly Them Out by Richy4(m): 9:44am On Dec 04, 2021

NovesaTillie:
The parents who abandoned their 12 year old in a boarding school have failed woefully in parenting and should be arrested and charged for negligence and murder

10 Likes

Crime › Re: Maid Strangles Gov Lucky Igbinedion’s Mother To Death, Disappears With Her Money by Richy4(m): 9:18am On Dec 04, 2021

What did the Autopsy report revealed? Death by strangulation?...

A lot of people are experts nowadays in finding cause of death including the gardeners, gateman, cooks, not to talk of experts that stays in beer parlours embarassed

3 Likes

Politics › Re: They Were Trying To Get Rid Of Snakes, But Burned Down Their Homes Instead by Richy4(m): 7:08am On Dec 04, 2021

That's just sad.. Snakes catchers would have collected $350 or less..

But now they have to start explaining to the insurance company on why the should be compensated or the burnt house... ie if it was insured..

Family › Re: Advise Me Like Your Younger Brother by Richy4(m): 6:00am On Dec 04, 2021*

Yahoo Business? So defrauding People on daily bases, Scamming people of their money is now a Business in Nigeria?
No wonder people call it Yahoo yahoo with boldness as if they were talking about Chevron Corporation, NNPC or some banking sectors... People have mentally accepted it... it's just painful to be called a Nigerian if one is sharing the same passport with these set of people embarassed

..

OP please do not soil your hand with that illegal stuff...The sleepless nights, the cries of the victims sometimes does not go unpunished.. Karma still exists...Instead, If you are good with cooking try and look for a high flying hotel where you can attach yourself and earn some money until u can stand on your own

I would have said that you should submit your proposal to a bank for a little loan but they will need a collateral and your credit standing with them might not be strong to grant you a loan

19 Likes 1 Share

Family › Re: Advice For This Young Girl Please by Richy4(m): 7:29am On Dec 03, 2021

Dailyparrot:
You contradict yourself in an attempt to exonerate and support the girl.

Earlier, you said she should not be blamed because she is just naive and young.

Later, you said she should go ahead and marry without the parents consent because she's an adult capable of taking independent decisions.

How come she's not to be blamed for being stupid enough to allow the same man who helped her abort her pregnancy to get her pregnant again. So, her reason for aborting earlier was not because she lacks what it takes to take care of the pregnancy but that she doesn't like the guy that got her pregnant. Does this whole situation not sound so foolish?

At 19, she's not a baby. I don't know why we keep making excuses to absolve these young girls of their stupidity. A guy her age will take full responsibility for his actions, will go to jail if he commits rape or armed robbery, so, why would you say the girl shouldn't be blamed because she's naive.

The mother did what an average woman out there would do. Would you suggest she reported the case to the police and have her husband jailed? Who will take care of her and her children or rather you would suggest she leaves the marriage? She did right by taking the girl away to save her and her marriage. Now, the girl she's trying to protect from the step father has by herself chosen to destroy her own life. Or was it the mother that sent her to be getting pregnant from different men anyhow?

Apart from the series of rape and attempted rape from her father and step father, she has a full blame of all that came to her.

When you report to human rights, what do you intend to achieve? To have the fathers arrested or to prevent the mother from forcing her to abortion?

Unless, the so called human rights will take her in and take care of her bills until she delivers and is capable of working to take care of herself and the child.

This is how girls go about breeding bastards that end up as menace to the society. She deliberately agreed to have a child with the new boyfriend without marriage. How more idiotic can she be.

Now, the guy is claiming broke, thereby, leaving her to her fate. Definitely, she's the one with the pregnancy and whether or not there's money to take care of her and the baby is a burden only her can bear. I pity for the society with the rate these girls are breeding kids without formal family setting.

I made out time to read what you have written...I believe that was your opinion which you were entitled to...

But I will suggest that you should please go and make a little research about teenagers.. Your write up shows clearly that you knew nothing about them...

A 19 yr old is still a teen and can make series of mistakes if not guided properly.. Yes they can vote and be voted for at that age and can go to adult prison... but still, that doesn't absorb her from being in that confusing age bracket...

You talked about her mother saving her marriage and doing the right thing... I felt really bad reading what u wrote in that regard... U should ask yourself, what was the remote cause of her problems today?

Was it not the wrong choices the parents made that landed her in that situation?
U sounded so confident as if it was okay that the woman should sweep what happened to her daughter under the carpet in other to save her marriage... What an unfeeling thing to say..

I wish this nonsense occurred in a sane country where govt look out for its citizens.. where poverty mentality will not stand in the way of justice... where abnormal things like rape got treated with the way it should be without anyone thinking about who will take care of the family or where the daily bread will come from if a culprit is punished...

That young lady should take some responsibilities...Yes.. But she was not the architect of her problems..Bad parenting, poor choices made by both parents, lack of parental care and attention.. Bad govt( because @ 18, there should be some stipends given to unemployed teenagers by the government)...all contributed

3 Likes

Romance › Re: Heartbroken People Reveal The Extreme Ways They Got Back On Cheating Exes (Pics) by Richy4(m): 6:37am On Dec 03, 2021

Hotspotbro:
Ah yes, they can be done in countries with Woke laws, this shit can't be pulled in Naija or any third world country
Damn buffoons

Actually some of them can be pulled off in Nigeria
<<< Just like an Obituary Banner, An angry wife or raging Husband can organize one and say... Welcome home Cheater..
<<<Any News Paper that recognizes the smell of money can announce that a cheating man is expecting a baby just the way it was announced there, signed by the wife...
<<< An angry man can burn the dress/ shoes of their cheating wife... like wise the woman...
So yes, some of them were extreme but there are some that can be pulled off in Nigeria..

Family › Re: Advice For This Young Girl Please by Richy4(m): 5:50am On Dec 03, 2021*

<<This might be common occurrences when someone is from a broken home..
<<Father, in love with another woman abandons the son (s)/ daughter(s) for the Ex-wife..
<<Mother, for the quest of her own happiness abandons/ dumped son (s)/daughter(s) in her family home to remarry..
<<Randy Stepfathers, looking for loopholes to get into the step-daughter's pants..
<<Daughters, becoming an easy prey to any man that needed sexual satisfaction...
<<Sons, joining bad peer groups due to little or no home training/ attention... The chain is just endless...

I will suggest that u tell your friend not to abort that baby because it might be her last... In stead she should give it up to adoption with a clause (You know the type of adoption that might allow the mother for a visit) I don't know if that type of adoption exists in Nigeria...

After this pregnancy/ child bearing exercise, please ask your friend to find a way to better her life... so that she can become a better and stronger citizen...If she learn skills like fashion designing, hair dressing, Computer skills etc...She will be independent, she will have a mind of her own.. she will now settle down and find real love if that was what she wanted...

The root cause of her problems is her parent's wrong decision in life...

3 Likes

Family › Re: Man Beats Up His Wife For Putting On A Short Skirt Without Wearing Pants by Richy4(m): 12:32am On Dec 03, 2021*

He is a man, He should know how confining wearing an under wear is especially at home...It didn't occur to him that maybe she wanted to be free just a little....Someone once said bra was uncomfortable that it was like a bubby Zoo...

I believe that he wanted to beat the wife, not because of what she was wearing...when someone's cup is full and overflowing, little thing could escalate into something big sad

2 Likes

TV/Movies › Re: Which Movie(s) Comes To Your Mind When You See This? by Richy4(m): 6:21pm On Dec 02, 2021*

>>Living in Bondage
>>Nnaka the Pretty Serpent
>> Circle of Doom
>>Rattle Snake
>>Glamour Girls
>> True confession
>> Evil Passion
>>Onome
>> Sakobi
>> Sound of Music
>>WWE (Wrestling )

42 Likes 5 Shares

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Arsenal (3 - 2) On 2nd December 2021 by Richy4(m): 5:45pm On Dec 02, 2021

May the best team win... If. Not that I was born a Liverpool supporter, I would have been supporting Newcastle...

I feel really bad that they might be going on relegation this season.... just like how my dearest Bournemouth left premier League.. sad

Crime › Re: After 10yrs Of Practice, Fake Lawyer Arrested In Port Harcourt Court (Video) by Richy4(m): 4:21pm On Dec 02, 2021

wman:
He messed up. He should have gained admission to a tertiary institution, then moved on to law school.

U are correct.. Even if it was distant learning..

1 Like

Crime › Re: After 10yrs Of Practice, Fake Lawyer Arrested In Port Harcourt Court (Video) by Richy4(m): 4:19pm On Dec 02, 2021

alizma:
Some people have gift in a particular area but out of ignorant or stupidity, they ignore the process of validating the gift. You will be surprised that this man had won several cases which probably draw attention to him and subsequent enquiry to know his foundation.

Honestly, I am not surprised.. if he can put it together up till now.. And no one dictated it.. He is too smart.. I wish he utilised the smartness in doing the right thing...

Crime › Re: After 10yrs Of Practice, Fake Lawyer Arrested In Port Harcourt Court (Video) by Richy4(m): 3:45pm On Dec 02, 2021

MufasaLion:
A "charge and bail" lawyer.

Crime › Re: After 10yrs Of Practice, Fake Lawyer Arrested In Port Harcourt Court (Video) by Richy4(m): 2:34pm On Dec 02, 2021

How did he managed to know what he knew... all the sections and subsections...
The dude may have been even winning some cases....
Cheiiiii Which way Nigeria.. which way to go? embarassed

108 Likes 1 Share

Romance › Re: Heartbroken People Reveal The Extreme Ways They Got Back On Cheating Exes (Pics) by Richy4(m): 2:11pm On Dec 02, 2021

Digmygold:
I thought they said only.Nigerian women are bitter after a break up. So foreign women are the same. Hmm..

Politics › Re: Jos Jailbreak: Names, Photos Of Escaped Prisoners declared wanted by Richy4(m): 1:30pm On Dec 02, 2021

Isiaku Yusuf and Abdul Azeez Abdul, How will people recognise their faces since it looks like a negative image.. angry

Travel › Re: The Dirty Hotel Room I Paid ₦10,000 For A Night - Man Cries Out, Shares Video by Richy4(m): 1:16pm On Dec 02, 2021

I used to hear things like sweeping things under the carpet... This one is sweeping things under the bed..
The Cleaners has not been paid or what? grin

1 Like 1 Share

Crime › Re: Police Authorised The Burial Of Timothy Adegoke - Vanguard for The Truth by Richy4(m): 12:39pm On Dec 02, 2021

Praxtech:
You thought wrong this is not the vanguard newspapers

Thanks.. I just discovered that it wasn't the same.. Again thank U.. cool

Crime › Re: Police Authorised The Burial Of Timothy Adegoke - Vanguard for The Truth by Richy4(m): 12:25pm On Dec 02, 2021

naijaman2225:
THIS 'VANGUARD' IS NOT THE SAME AS THE NEWSPAPER.

Thanks Bro.. I was worried.. Thinking that it was the newspaper... Someone has corrected me earlier..
How someone will just sit and write loads of rubbish is beyond me.. just unfair on the grieving family

1 Like

Romance › Re: Heartbroken People Reveal The Extreme Ways They Got Back On Cheating Exes (Pics) by Richy4(m): 12:15pm On Dec 02, 2021

I like the local Newspaper one... The banner of "Welcome Home Cheater" is funny as well

5 Likes 1 Share

Crime › Re: Police Authorised The Burial Of Timothy Adegoke - Vanguard for The Truth by Richy4(m): 12:05pm On Dec 02, 2021

PaChukwudi44:
It's not Vanguard newspapers.Its one fake NGO that just came up from no where

Oh!! Thanks for clarifying that.. I appreciate it cool

Crime › Re: Police Authorised The Burial Of Timothy Adegoke - Vanguard for The Truth by Richy4(m): 11:36am On Dec 02, 2021*

I read that he was buried with the hotel bedsheets.... I believe that those involved were not stupid.. if indeed they dumped his body far away from the hotel, why was their bedsheets present in the grave?..

7 Likes

Family › Re: Sacked For Theft And Insurbodination by Richy4(m): 6:13am On Dec 02, 2021

U are the reason why they didn't take you seriously...
Who employs someone in this day and age without a written agreement? No matter how small the business is...

It's a matter of going to google and lifting an agreement there that was in line with what you wanted or your business haba!!

When there's no administration work done like what is expected of them, salaries written in black and white etc, they will summon you to the shrine ie doing it the local way...

Just get the police involved, let them sign up an undertaking that nothing must happen to you and your business..and they cannot be found 100meters around your business premises

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Liverpool (1 - 4) On 1st December 2021 by Richy4(m): 11:53pm On Dec 01, 2021

Salah is just way too fast... His pace is simply out of this world...

Watching him running with the ball and mane chasing to score or the reverse being the case always make my day...

3 Likes 1 Share

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Everton Vs Liverpool (1 - 4) On 1st December 2021 by Richy4(m): 11:21pm On Dec 01, 2021

Zico5:
Liverpool is doing wonder. May the winning continue. YNWA

So many classy humble players we got

.. I'm hoping that the same menu would be served to Wolves when we visit on Saturday..

1 Like

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 (of 356 pages)