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Health › Re: U.S Hospital Charges Woman $40 For Crying In The Doctor's Office (Photos) by Richy4(m): 9:53pm On May 21, 2022
sweetjohn:
That one na cry of hunger
But it's brief emotions as well grin
Food › Re: Delicious Grandma Stew And White Rice I Made In Uncompleted Building. Pics by Richy4(m): 9:49pm On May 21, 2022
That Rice seems overcooked embarassed
Health › Re: U.S Hospital Charges Woman $40 For Crying In The Doctor's Office (Photos) by Richy4(m): 9:47pm On May 21, 2022
And people are crying for free in African countries cheesy
Family › Re: Family Takes In Ukrainian Refugee And Dad Runs Off With Her Just 10 Days Later by Richy4(m): 7:27pm On May 21, 2022
This is sad.. Lorna should Let them go... Tony may have been a lowlife waiting to manifest his true colour..

just 10 days.. If it's Africa, they will say it's Juju she used on him..angry
Sports › Re: Phil Foden: Man City Midfielder Wins Premier League Young Player Of The Year by Richy4(m): 6:10pm On May 21, 2022
I heard Reheem Sterling is downgrading to Arsenal next season lipsrsealed.. how authentic is the information please..
Events › Re: Why I Won't Attend My Cousin Brother's Wedding Ceremony Today by Richy4(m): 6:06pm On May 21, 2022
pocohantas:
Nothing surprising here. Men are their own enemies. Always looking for who to drag ego with. If it is not women, it would be amongst themselves. DMerciful come and see your younger brothers. grin
grin cheesy
You are shaking that table too hard sis.. and it's made in Adamawa... Things might fall heavily..
Politics › Re: Burial Photos Of Francis Arthur Nzeribe by Richy4(m): 5:59pm On May 21, 2022
edosignature:
In today migeria, the Priests will never do this.

Rest In Peace.

*His care was taken over by Catholic priests who were involved in furthering his education.*
I guess that time Pentecostal and new generation churches were not much then... Many people were Catholic and Protestant churches...all tithes and offerings goes to these few churches...

With that, there will be enough funds for the priests to sponsor people and also for mission work... Again many were not interested in getting rich... Only for the call they were ordained for..

Family › Re: Herbalist Impregnates Female Client, Fights With Husband Over Baby’s Paternity by Richy4(m):
Those that patronizes Native Doctors, where they called Clients or customers shocked smiley
Family › Re: My Wife Is Running Into Credit Card Debt by Richy4(m):
<<My brother bad credit score could get you guys blacklisted.. if that should happen, it won't be a wonderful experience for you and your family...

<<You have taken the first step which was an open communication...

<< The next step would be to be realistic on what you can swallow in terms of helping her to pay off her debt.. let her get a job... She can't keep spending what she doesn't have..

<< The final step is for you to invite a third party into it... By third party I mean a financial planner... A financial planner can help.. there are some that were into pay as u go.. they charge session by session... Or like prepaid style...

<<Your wife will not respect your opinion on being prudent in spending... But when u guys go to a financial planner, she will know that you are serious..and she will take the whole thing serious.... it's worth a trial..u don't have to be a rich man to seek the help of a financial planner...


Events › Re: Why I Won't Attend My Cousin Brother's Wedding Ceremony Today by Richy4(m):
Oga thing are changing and u have to change with it... The fact that u have a WhatsApp account shows that u are trending with the moving train cheesy

The most important part was that he remembered you and sent the invite across...

I believe Whatsapp is used for communication and the fastest way to reach you was through that..in my opinion, it has nothing to do with respect or disregard...
OP I hope you were not the type of person that a younger individual would ask how are u while greeting and u feel insulted grin
Politics › Re: Christian Girl Escaped Death By Whiskers In Bauchi State Over Alleged Blasphemy by Richy4(m): 10:48am On May 21, 2022
The most heart warming part was that they were coming back from prayer house...Is that not amazingly ironic grin
Crime › Re: Lekki Lynching: Police Reveal Identity Of Suspected Killers Of David Imoh by Richy4(m): 9:49am On May 21, 2022
texazzpete:
‘Mastermind’ almost suggests the thing was premeditated.
From what I understand, a mob gathered, an allegation of ritual killing was levied and then the mob went into a frenzy and lynched the victim (May his soul Rest In Peace).

Maybe he was the loudest voice there? Or struck the first blow? possibly the one who brought fuel from his bike.
You are not entirely wrong my brother... but a mob can't just come from nowhere and converge in a particular spot.. .. someone or group of people may have raised the alarm that made the people to gather in their numbers... So who raised the false alarm?, who suggested the lynching?... All these can be classified as mastermind... They led and others follow..
Family › Re: Can Stammering Be Overcomed? by Richy4(m):
Namiji4319:
I need an input please

Is the cures medically?
Spiritual? Or self practice
Speech therapist...and yes u can overcome it...
But when you do, there will be a little bit traces of it like when you were really angry.. words will fail you... In that case, it's advised that u breath in and out smiley
Crime › Re: Lekki Lynching: Police Reveal Identity Of Suspected Killers Of David Imoh by Richy4(m):
texazzpete:
How is there a ‘mastermind’ for a spontaneous mob action?
When an individual decides to incite or stir up an act that results to a mob action for example, what is that individual called if arrested?
Crime › Re: Trafficked Lady Cries Out After Being Trafficked To Oman. Photos And Video by Richy4(m): 7:29am On May 21, 2022
She should make the best out of it.. Oman currency is even more than the US dollar in value..She should get a decent job and Adapt to the country
Family › Re: I Am Confused � by Richy4(m): 5:24am On May 21, 2022
You are an adult.. u are capable of making an informed decision..

I believe you can decide what is best for your daughter as her protector..

As u are deciding, think about the psychological effect the child is going through right now knowing she's in an environment that she wasn't loved... Act on it fast before you have a damaged kid on your hands

Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m):
PeerHub:
Guys... I took time again tonight to call her that I won't be coming to pack her things back to house but I can afford sending her money for transportation. What she said to my face was "if I can't come, then I should leave it be"

My concern is the wellbeing of my one year old son she has with her....

This boy needs to be taken care of.. I do not want him to be exposed to another phase of life this early.


huh huh huh
She is not ready for reconciliation yet. Whoever that is beating that drum that she's dancing to at the moment, is setting her up for an exhaustive aftermath...

Let her be for now.. Don't call again except if it's something that has to do with your kid.. When she is ready, she will give you a call that she's coming.... Agree that u will accept her into the house on the condition that u have a heart to heart conversation on what was going on in your relationship...

Make out time for a visit ( best time should be on a weekend) Book a hotel in where you will stay in her home town, both of u should talk on a neutral ground where no member of her family or yours will be involved. .. ..Let her meet you there.. it's a sign that she is willing to take a step.. don't go to where she is staying..

Tell her about how her attitude and behaviour was making you feel in that relationship... Let her also tell you what she doesn't like about how u behaves towards her. After the discussion, u can go with her to see your son..

The heart to heart conversation is really important because as she is coming in and stepping her foot in to the house, both of you will be starting on a clean slate...old things cleaned up and dusted away...
As for your child, don't worry.. your kid will be fine..

Family › Re: My Step Daughter Wahala!!! by Richy4(m): 9:25pm On May 20, 2022
Please for humanity's sake, send that Young girl back to her mother if she's alive...

Immediately I read about neighbours being involved, I knew that there's a distinction between 'my baby and our baby'..

Assuming it was handled correctly, no neighbour will spot the difference sad
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m):
PeerHub:
I've used that against them. If they really meant well for her, the same day she came with her belongings, she should have been sent back.
I disagree with you on this one man... I can't send my daughter that came to take refuge in my home away in the name of marriage... God forbid.. Why am I her father?

I will advise her to settle with you or find ways to reconcile with both of you and bring the issue to an end... But asking her to leave my house because she's married.. that will never happen... Sorry
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m): 8:38pm On May 20, 2022
PeerHub:
Hmmmm.


Both parents want us to resolve, I keep saying I didn't send her packing, when she feels dim she can come.

I'm not not comfortable with the part where I should be the one to go bring her luggages back to the house.

This is why I've come to ask if that's not foolishness.


If I do go, what could be the possible consequences.
If I was to be in your shoes, God knows that I will not go... If she knows how she managed to fit her luggage into a car while leaving, she should also try and fit it back while coming back...

This is just me being me...If that's just how every couple behaves, packing out once there is misunderstanding, how would one solve their issues...

But you can be a better man buddy and bring her stuffs back... See it as a sacrifice for reconciliation smiley
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Packed Her Belongings. by Richy4(m): 8:22pm On May 20, 2022
<< I don't want to know what transpired between the two of you.. but if you were the one that wanted her back into the house and she accepts to come back, logically, u should be the one to help her take her luggage back because u wanted her back...

<< If she was the one that left on her own accord and decide to come back at will, then...( I won't say what I will do smiley) but conveying her luggage back into the house is not part of it..

Sports › Re: Chelsea Will Always Be In My Heart: Rudiger Confirms Chelsea Exit by Richy4(m):
He's a good player...We all hate to say goodbye some times... best of luck buddy..
A German that writes so effortlessly like this must have scored really high in his IELTS exam.. smiley

Family › Re: I Need Help.... Marriage Counselor In The House by Richy4(m): 12:36pm On May 20, 2022
Blhezin:
Bros u be senior man abeg...I comot cap fr u.... respet man
cheesy smiley Thanks man
Family › Re: I Need Help.... Marriage Counselor In The House by Richy4(m): 11:16am On May 20, 2022
ImaIma1:
Ask her what is causing her moodiness. Is she having regrets that after fighting for you both to be together, it is one chance she entered?

One day you might get back and she is gone with the kids. Then, you will need to explain to everyone how you have turned her to your personal punching bag.
@ bold, I guess he's no longer the man she married.. the one she was willing to fight all her family members for just to be with due to the beast in him..OP knows this and I think he is playing with our intelligence if he act like he doesn't know
Family › Re: I Need Help.... Marriage Counselor In The House by Richy4(m): 8:50am On May 20, 2022
Someone recognised his shortcomings, asked for help,.. and people were insulting him... Does that really make sense in any way?

He genuinely needed help because he's tired of becoming the beast.. he wanted the beast in him tamed...He needed positive results in his marriage and wants his wife happy again.. What will the insult do to salvage the situations at hand?..

It's just like a kid that told an adult that he's tired of failing his exams..
Instead of helping the kid based on his request, The adult goes off key saying things like... How can u keep on failing,.. mathematics F, English F.. chemistry and physics F are u not tired... There are boys in your class whom u were older than, yet they were excelling...

Now, how does that help the boy?.. insulting this man will not solve anything... Show him where to go if u know... Direct him to any good therapist that u know or an anger management class organiser that you know in Nigeria... Please slow down with the insult.. he's already pissing and beaten himself up already..
Politics › Re: Actor & Musician, King Zealot Arrested, Paraded As ESN Operative (Pictures) by Richy4(m): 8:19am On May 20, 2022
And when they removed your shirts and trousers,... U automatically looks guilty before anyone that sees u cheesy grin
Politics › Re: Soludo: A Liar, Looming Failure, Hypocrite Or All In One - Uloka by Richy4(m): 7:42am On May 20, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy
All these long grammar just for 100days in office?
That means If you were an indigen of Kogi State, you would have written a dictionary grin

Family › Re: Starting A Family by Richy4(m): 7:22am On May 20, 2022
Rubbiish:
I really don't understand the bold?
What kind of ungrateful post is this??
@ 35 as a man, u want your first child to be 9 years old? I initially thought u were a lady, how many men do u see getting married at 25?? The benchmark for the average Nigeria man to get married is 30 to 40 yrs & u are just 35, so why are u lamenting? My brother is 35 this year & still very much single, so what is really your problem? Honestly your growing up has really done alot to your esteem that u now find it enjoyable blaming yourself for no reason. U really do need help!
Honestly, after that bold, I stopped reading.. because I saw an ungrateful human...
Some couples married as early as 25 still seeking for children... Some even adopted..

Anyways, Economics is indeed correct when it discovered that human wants are insatiable...
Family › Re: Man Absconds From Marriage Ceremony Due To Extortion By In Laws In Abia- PIC by Richy4(m):
farem:
Damage control can't work.
No amount of padding, this is live events in ya area.
Disprove this picture by calling ya fellow 'na script' or shut up
Haba!! I said I have seen the picture once here on Nairaland.. is that the damage control? Besides I don't play tribal cards...I'm way too old for that embarassed
Family › Re: Man Absconds From Marriage Ceremony Due To Extortion By In Laws In Abia- PIC by Richy4(m):
I almost believed it until I saw those pictures..I have seen that pic before but can't remember when lipsrsealed
Crime › Re: Nigerian Policewoman Cries As Man She Arrested Drives Her To Unknown Destination by Richy4(m): 3:47pm On May 19, 2022
Bluebrain101:
For herehuh In Nigeria. You sure you wanna ask that questionhuh?
grin grin grin
Crime › Re: Nigerian Policewoman Cries As Man She Arrested Drives Her To Unknown Destination by Richy4(m): 3:17pm On May 19, 2022
Unshackled:
the policewoman has both of her hands engaged. So who was doing the videoing?
Don't police officers wear body camera in Nigeria?

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