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The law sha !
This should be a case where both parents are " mistakenly fell from a motorcycle " and beaten.
Leave the face intact but destroy their bodies.
Kudos goes to the vigilant neighbor - Godbless whoever you are.

jaybenugo:
Woman And Her Partner Arrested For Battering Her Two Children Aged 5 And 2 (Graphic Photos) - IGBERETV report



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I don't understand why when co-parenting you don't see all these physical abuse. ?
I mean I am seeing hot iron impressions on these kids, belt impressions not the leather side but the metal side.
Kids that cant even formulate words properly - why not give them up for adoption ?

siofra:
God! I love this man so much for this. He's one of the last brave ones we still have in this world.


He knows what true love is and I respect that.

Such a supportive man. God bless you, sir.

Modified;

It seems my post is annoying some people, well, they can die for all I care.

I see topics all the time on front page telling a woman not to leave her husband just because he cheated on her.

But here I am praising a man for being brave enough not to divorce his wife for cheating and they are coming for me like I'm the devil?

Fūck all of you insulting me, what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.

I do not think I've hated someone as much as I do you.
You are a swine and disgusting.
You are a snake and therefore slimy and filthy.
You are a heel and Satan's Spawn
You're a vile and appalling.
You got termites in your crooked smile
You are a Nasty Jerk.
The day you were born there was an earthquake.
The day you first smiled - Hail fell from the skies.

unclejb2:
to build batteries for who to drive..??

Unless we start driving electric cars here, manufacturing the batteries here is not good business.

If it’s cheaper to make that elsewhere you’ll find buyers. Everyone has oil it’s just cheaper to produce in OPEC countries. So that why people buy.

So when are we going to start enjoying monthly stipends from the national cake .
Oil nothing
Agriculture nothing
Lithium yet to be determined.

This reeks of the cabal or a group of powerful ,rich Nigerians who are affected by the change of Naira notes.
The only way would be for the CBN gov to extend the deadline or else he would find himself stressed out or pushed out and another person likely the deputy extending till June

Kewtt:
"When I was in prison, Tinubu gave my wife a house in VGC and pay my children's school fees....."

Asari Dokubo

My only ask/request for whomever becomes president either Obi, Emilokan or the other guy. Is to stop kidnapping. I can deal with the high cost of living , epileptic power supply, corrupt police but kidnapping has to end.

Generalwoodz:


I watched this small film for way more than 7times

more like 77 times for me.
Here's the full video https://www./video/x2n5d7w

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Hold Press !! Save in your bank or Bank Account
Why should I save my money in your bank account ?

Dear - Its a red flag if the dude cant save money. If he gets mad when you bring up Money is another red flag.
Seriously reconsider your future with him.

Mustiboy:
Everywhere you go, people hold their phones in their hands even when they have absolutely no need for it and the phones would be safer being in their pockets or bags?

Is it some kinda show-off? Cause I could swear this act is more common amongst iPhone users. Are they trying to make a statement? “Oh see the phone I use? I’m not doing too bad”

One thing I’ve noticed is that you’ll hardly find people with broken-screen phones or an entry-level smartphone holding them in their hands this way.

I overheard a Bet9ja boy narrating to his coworker how the respect he gets from folks in his neighborhood has skyrocketed because he now uses an iPhone 13.

Is it a Nigerian thing? Or na so dem dey do world over?

Guys either put their phones in the left trouser pocket - Wallet in right trouser pocket.
Women will put their phones in either their handbag or back pocket in tight fitting jeans .

Its only in 9ja people have 2 phones. Carry both.

ruggedtimi:
Which country dey put phone for pocket?? Chinese or u.s...Except north korea

everywhere else except 9ja

Why would the CBN governor stoop low to support terrorism ?
The story makes no sense

The only reason I would think not to do is if
1. You are married
2. You don't like her anymore
3. Her hands have been somewhere you don't trust.
4. You've seen a babe you want to come back and scope later.

She's bleeping the dude.

She can't defend herself so I'll reserve my comment.
But if true that's wickedness.

PerfectMatchNG:
Which would you prefer?
An organisation where you are a bit relaxed and performs the same routine everyday for a salary of N80,000 naira.

OR

An organisation with a lousy boss where your work routine changes from time to time for a take home salary of N200,000

Dude I am currently in a job where I am paid 3-5M less annually than other jobs which bring about more stress, micromanagement, more hours . As long as your combined salary ( with the spouse or S.O) is good then I would go with the former.
However in your case it’s a 2.5:1 ratio.

My advice would be to take the 200,000 job and see if you can tough it out for a few months which could become years.
Been thinking - how do you know the other boss is lousy ? Is this your current job and are thinking of quitting for the 80,000 ?

lilprinze:
Chelsea is just wasting money anyhow.

Thank God it’s their money and not yours o

I’ll tell you a secret -
Nja girls that I’ve been intimate with are damn clean.
-Nice shaven honey pot and armpits and during doggy they smell very very nice .
- They even bring their toothbrush to smell fresh when kissing.
Oyinbo on the other hand some of them do not smell nice. They don’t have proper hygiene.
Big ups for the 9ja ladies. !!!!

lexy2014:
Let's say you have spent 30k on 50 girls, that's like 1.5m. this is social media where some of you make up.stories to boost your ego. But if true, it's unfortunate that you spent 1.5m on sex and you feel it's an achievement. If you spent that money on yourself or done something important, wouldn't that have made a difference?

That what some people spend in a weekend.
The 3m I have had no headache , no baggage, no attachments. I have peace of mind .

Fabulozz:
My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

Dude let your wife be.
Go brothel to suck and bleep someone else for the duration.

HonNL:
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Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

I spend on average N30,000 to bleep a girl.
I have bleeped ( I like the word bleep ) about 100 girls.
Don't need to worry if people spend less or more, what's important is that it achieves your goal.
In some occasions Okafor's Law kicks in in which I don't pay a dime.

Enemyofpeace:
another man's wife is the sweetest. There is nothing compare to it, it is like stealing meat from a delicious ot of soup without being caught. Try it and your prick will never be the same again

Its true and no liability - she ain't moving in with you. No extra baggage.

Suspect33:
Only an idiot marries the crop of women the Nigerian society produces today. I've seen enough to realize that marriage is increasingly becoming a losing game for men.

Like the woman fvcks herself. Is it not your fellow men perpetuating the crime. Sex cannot be the only reason you marry or want to be with someone. Marrying a virgin doesn't mean you will enjoy the sex. The Vagina does not have a meter as long as a man cums he is satisfied. And many just fall asleep after leaving their women unsatisfied.

Rubbiish:
If u think it's cool to belittle yourself just to get into a woman's pants, then it's fine. A lot of men even do way more sillier things to get a woman. But my point is, don't just standardize it.

That’s the goal bro . It ain’t jamb Q

Rubbiish:
It's a wrong approach!
Do not talk down on yourself or suggest any utterance of such just to break a girl's facade! If that is what u have been doing, stop it.

Why should I when it benefits me ? Do you know how many women’s guards are down when you can make them laugh ? I know my worth and once they get to know me - would know this dude is a prince in pauper clothes !

Rubbiish:
Do not say the bold to any girl or human!

Dude it's called reverse phycology. The girl will certainly laugh for which you would have broken her façade.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Dude you're my hero for your backbone.
There was a lady - a damsel i met at the supermarket in Magodo in October 9th. I couldn't fathom the confidence to say hello. I am still not over the lost chance to date her.
For you, bounce back and ask the next lady. If she looks you up and down - Just say " I know I am not up to your standard but can you tell me why not ? " I just wanted to say - you look like an angel. You must have fallen from the skies cause you shine like the stars at night.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

I wish i could provide you with a shoulder to cry on and strong arms to protect you.
Sweet words to affirm to you that everything will be alright.
God knows I've got the broad shoulders to do just that.

every relationship has some quirks - Some will say Thank God he comes home and that he doesn't beat you.
I am sorry but leaving /divorcing him will only address one of the Issues which is you'd be at liberty to find true love again and hopefully building an economic foundation . Dont worry about your kids - they are resilient and will get over easily than you think.

He would need to reach rock bottom before he comes to his senses and apologizes but personally I find the environment toxic at the moment. Maybe first step be separation as there's a chance of reconciliation.

Best of Luck

3 years and your daughter finally fessed up.
Anyways - Sex & women are the main reason I didn't pick up the cloth and become a Pastor - too many beautiful women and temptations. I hate to be in the dailies soiling the Church.

Its her body
You're only 23 once.
Her booty though doesn't look natural