₦airaland Forum

Rubbiish:
What bills do u expect a 20 years old to pay?
That is the responsibility of his parents
This is how u people subconsciously push kids to crime

Greattestman:
This issue has been eating me up for so long and i don't know what to do. My mother began pressurizing me to rent my own house and leave her alone.

It was unprecedented and i don't expect that from her. I'm barely 20 and I teach in a private school. I also do home lessons so my monthly income ranges from 25k to 30k or thereabout.

This money will not be enough for me to rent a house, buy my food and take care of myself. I have tried to explain but she refused to understand with me. She told her friends to advice me to leave; that I'm matured enough to live alone.

I'm pressed and I need your advice.

fuckingAyaya:
After math's u wait for dinner? Werey

Messi1:
I've always visited this my uncle at least four times a week. That is where I pass away time. His children all like me and any day I fail to come they must ask me why didn't come. I use the time i spend in his house to teach his children Mathematics and do their home work for them.

Today I was in his house, he stormed out from his room and ask if i don't help my mother at home. He yelled at me and what pain me most is that he said food is costly and they are only managing. He made me feel like i was the one finishing the food in his house. He said I should not be too frequent in his house if at all I must come.

I'm considering severing all ties to this my uncle, will that be right?

Preshy01:
What's wrong with Nigeria having a black coach?

Godsownfc:
Sorry for quoting you here sir, I'm so ashamed of doing this, please I need your help sir, I'm supposed to resume school since last two weeks but I'm still at home due to lack of fund, the little I saved up during the strike was used to pay for my sibling school fees thinking strike will last till next year, but here I am stranded, I have look for work around to do so as to get my tfare back to school, but to no avail, even the construction sites said they have workers already (I school far from home). Please help me sir, I have been missing a lot, even if I don't have foodstuffs now, I just want to travel back, 6k will get me back to school sir, please help me in anyway sir, I will appreciate. I can send you my school details sir.

MoneyMustBMade:
I be Igbo but to be honest I like tinubu but his old and partially disabled, if not for his sickness tinubu would have been among the best... The north are destroying this nation...

If that tinubu is young why won't I go for him?

But for now his old and needs to retire

Atiku is same North that have destroy this nation...

Peter obi is better

StrongandMighty:
Nigerians have given up on tinubu and Apc already...

nlfpmod:
Twitter User, Shunvilla asks Osun Police:



https://twitter.com/shunvilla/status/1590742143685259264

Ikennaford:
I don't understand this bro, I'm not in Nigeria to share rice and none of my family members are in Nigeria too, that's why I'm here, is just $10k is not much

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

is there no balm in gilead

GardenGreen:
Amen. Fulani can't transfer the mantle of power to another Fulani. Never

Wike is in perfect order !

Silentgroper:
does a man go demanding sex at gun point 4rm a female.. It takes a promiscuos female to allow a promiscuos male fvck.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

GardenGreen:
I am raising broiler chicks for Xmas/New year seson.

Give me that 1 M and i'll expand my production and remit capital and interest within six months or we have a system in place where you get back your interests every two months


It is in high demand and broiler market is so large it doesn't need too much noise to sell

Perfectskills01:
It is not about being bold . You can be bold yet refuse to express your feelings. This lady knows the implication of asking a man out directly just like the same guy might also know the implication. The game will always rig against the one that first expresses feelings

Shybeauty:
Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.

limeta:
Una eyes go clear when Obi take south west
The youths are up in arms nothing the old can do .

QuotaSystem:
Very well said Hannatu.

Peter Obi’s candidacy is just a spoiler for Atiku and nothing more.

That’s why Dino, Reno & co are mad at Peteru.

Shokoloko:
Not true. Here in Canada, if you leave your kid in the hands of a babysitter or respite worker (who is over 16) and something negative happens to the child, you will not be accused of anything. You were not present - how then is it your fault?

Sisib15:
Hello nairaland, So i met this man three years ago, we started talking and he told me that he's divorced, at first he doesn't want to disclose it to me that he has married before , i discovered through my search on Facebook and he said his wife packed out of his house and he has tried all means to beg her to come back but she insisted that she's not coming back even her pastor informed him to move on and he has moved on and they were married for 5 years without a child.
Then he asked me out and we started dating in which we have been together for two years now, my problem is what ever i do for this man he never appreciate it, he's always complaining to an extent that i feel that he's still much interested in his previous wife. I started staying in his house because his house is very close to my work place and i started seeing alot of things that i don't like especially he like measuring me up with his wife standard whatever I do to him i don't do it well like i don't know how to dress, i don't know how to eat, i don't know how to cook and he likes judging and always wanting to correct me. I love him so much but i don't know if i can continue with this. If i cook, i don't know how to cook, if people should hurt me outside and i told him he will judge me first before listening, at times he says some demeaning things to me and tell me that he's joking with me. At times, i feel that he's pretending, recently i told him that he needs to see a therapist.
My problem now is that he's asking me for marriage, i don't know if i should accept or i should stop the relationship, i am really confuse!
He's 40 years old and i'm 28 years old.

Nilon:
handjob or blowjób?