₦airaland Forum

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Dude I don’t know you from Adam but you’re just sensationalizing your story.
Your mother is in love with someone and will now kill herself because you refuse to leave the house ?
She will now put a stop to her earthly happiness and that of her husband because of you ?
I mean she commits suicide and will you be charged as the person who caused her to do so ?

At the end of the day .. you have your place and she is rid of you , I guess everyone is happy.

INDOMIE9090:
you be Chinese ?

What if I am .... why not answer the question or move on please or is NL only for Nigerians ?

It boils down to True Repentance
What made him cheat, was it that you ignored him . ( this is easy and with a time table, 2/3 a week ) it can be easy to manage.
Also was it serial ( with many women ) This would be hard and needs a process to stop the addiction.

Downside is that you aren't married yet and such is happening really doesn't bold well for the marriage.
I would advice that you get a court legal document and not make a huge noise about the wedding. ( Spending Lavishly with this particular fellow)

Kapeter:
I shuttle between Ibadan, Abeokuta and Lagos often. I'm mostly on that expressway but for a while now I've been stuck in Ibadan cuz of the numerous evil news about the Fulani herdsman menace on that highway.

Just before this December I read on the news some AIG visited this very same highway and together with Seyi Makinde the governor of Oyo state, I remember they promised that the road will become safer and there should be no panicking or fear and that people should go about their journey as it would become just as before where everyone can travel safely using the expressway.

Hehe. Yesterday was my favourite cousin introduction at Abeokuta and I had no choice than to be there.

I took a public bus (not that I have a car though but I can always get one when the need arise) off to Abeokuta and on my way what I saw makes me wanna go to every SW government house and say a very big thank you to all our governors.

There are bunch of Amotekun stations, Police, Army. Almost at every where till the end of Oyo state axis and then when you get to the Ogun state axis, you will see the OP Mesa patrolling the whole expressway.

The Ibadan axis has actually been the hotspot for the criminals actually but almost everywhere on the road you will see Amotekuns station even 12 am I was still on the road yesterday travelling safely with peace of mind seeing the huge security on that expressway.

This is Akeredolus biggest achievement so far in governance as the chairman of the SWGF. I couldn't help but be once again glad and proud to be South Westerner yesterday when I saw Amotekuns stations all over the place.

What I found amazing the most yesterday was if your car/vehicle get broken, you'd be surprised at the speed the OP Mesas and Amotekuns would get to you to stay with you while you fix it. Damn. They will stay right there with you protecting you untill your car can move again. Na. This is all that I ever pray for.

I'm so proud of SW governors for Amotekun. God bless them so much. Tonim God bless you and yours too. Thanks for all the love you have for Yorubaland.

Yorubaland will sure take its place God willing.

What is / are Amotekun ?

Obavoh:
This is my wife’s favorite meal. She eats it a lot when she is pregnant.

Sometimes she will even wake me up at midnight to prepare it for her. Women!

Garri. 1 cup - 50 naira
Palm oil. 50 naira (I didn’t use all)
Onion. 20naira
We had salt, maggi and fresh pepper at home.

Simple recipe:Add garri to a clean bowl

Add onions and fresh pepper. Add salt and seasoning to your taste

Add palm oil and mix thoroughly till its well combined

This sounds like a new low bro.

Eastcoastboy:
It takes 5 years plus before it starts yielding fruits oh!

So beware, make you no begin rush the baba for your 10% or after 2 years you go say you want use or sell the land.

Thanks for the advice. That's perfect for me.
We can sign a legal document that i lease the land to you for 10 years.

What's the purpose of the topic ?
Are African Americans better than Africans ?
Topic too vague and brings about discrimination.

EMMARNUEL:


Our area was raided in the early hours of this morning by Armed robbers, they took almost everything from my laptop, MiFi, My 55000mah New age power bank, my phone and other gadgets, they even took my gas cylinder, I don't know where to start from, I use my laptop for work as I currently work from home as a Graphic designer, how do I survive now

My heart is so heavy, I have been crying since morning, they case was reported to the police and nothing has been done about it...

I'm finished, I don't think I can survive this..

I beg jump and die
So that you wont see the new Govt
We will be one less person in Nja
One more person gone with 2022.

siofra:
Help!!

I need answers.


What do you think? Is it okay?
Is the man too old for her? Is he grooming her? Is she too young for him?

Thank you for your coherent answers in advance.

Never liked you again since you got me banned. So I've got no advice for you .. Just here to read comments

rainmoredays:
I am too sure of the email I used in registering this account, but here's mine

rainmoredays(at)gmail,com

I have 2 Plots of land available for farming at Oko-Ireke. somewhere in OgunState. You could farm and remit 10% of proceeds to me if you are interested.

Do not pay the government
- Target some projects to build
- Pay the money to IMF to reduce the deficit

Fira09:
Gbenga Raheem, the husband of a female lawyer, Omobolanle, who was shot dead by an Assistant Superintendent of Police, Drambi Vandi, in the Ajah area of Lagos state on Christmas day, December 25, has given a chilling account of how his seven-months pregnant wife was murdered.

LIB had earlier reported that Bolanle had just left an eatery and was driving with some of her family members including her daughter when the police officer fired at her car, killing her on the spot.

Narrating the ugly incident the victim’s husband, Gbenga, said;



SOURCE

I am NOT defending the cops actions but the story has a hole.
-Was he asking for something for Christmas before he decided to shoot ?
- Was it an accidental discharge ?.
- Why would a 33 year old veteran forfeits all in the twilight of his career in the afternoon ?
- Any reasonable person would have seen that she was pregnant so why kill 2 people ?
- " he cocked his gun at her too " means some kind of confrontation had occurred with the deceased and the cop .

Hence why the investigation must occur.
1. To make sure he doesn't hide under stress or insanity defense
2. To make sure the deceased was not wrestling the gun with the cop.

What a terrible way to pass and on Christmas Day

Make Chelsea win it this time around O.
Lyon, Chelsea an Barcelona all have a very strong Team

Words fail me ..why not just cross the floor instead of sabotaging the party's chances.
Just an adult behaving as a bad mannered kid.
It is for behaviors like this that you were not chosen for neither President nor Its vice.

micflo28:
OP instead of showing us pictures, help three people to relocate from here...

Thats easy - apply for a Master's degree program.

habsydiamond:
Canada is a country I will love to live in when I port from this country... this is an example of a country that values the lives and properties of her citizens unlike here.. I no say anything.

Just a reminder that someone called Bill always finds where you live and Taxes you cannot avoid.

abbey621:
True talent cannot be hidden, be it Cameroon or Lesotho, the beast shall not be denied, go and look up George Weah and Abedi Pele, if you're great you're great!

Those are exceptional talent. But none achieved Champions League or World Cup status. Now place them on any European team do you not think they would have won World Cups ?

Odingo1:
Not true, Eto‘o, Drogba etc are world class.

Exceptions to the list .

Come as it may. Your son would not be the world class talent we know if he played for Cameroun.

I just came to read comments and feminist responses.

TYCO77:
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Truth is, government has to recover part of the cost of making new highways. It must not be forever. After 10 years it should be discontinued.
It depends on how construction and maintenance was financed. Every so often, the taxpayers agree to build a bridge. Other times they may object to the cost and only agree to partial funding. In that case, people using the bridge are charged a toll until the costs are paid off. In some cases, it’s never paid off.


No fund was borrowed to complete this project, it was funded with the repatriated Abacha loot.

I agree that there should be tolls - To maintain the bridge users should be able to pay when using it. It is a convenience. If not take the longer route around.
The bridge was not built with BOOT - Build own operate and Transfer - So no cost are to be paid off.
I am not sure about your 3rd paragraph - Abacha's loot.
The Issue with tolls is that the govt will levy N1000 - the ticket will be Issued for N2500.

frank14011991:
For proper maintenance it has to be tolled. Buhari is the best thing to have happened to alaigbo

I like your first sentence - not the second.

lastchild:
how is it supposed to look like?

It lacks creativity . Just slab of concrete and steel . This is the 21st century.

Nyne:
How is this short bridge worth 300b naira ??

I am sure the actual bridge cost half that .

So It took Nigerian Govt 43 years to build a bridge the white man would have completed in 4 years. Yet we still blame the white man for ills going on in the country. Or when they left they also took away our common sense and logic.
And you want us to celebrate just a single achievement of the Minister and failed APC govt. How short -sighted are we ?
How's the bridge going to be maintained ? You better give out the contract and make it Iron clad for 99 years or else the bridge going to have pot holes and death traps in a few years.

STOP PRESS !!
I know someone who had been away for 15 years and just returned this year. His bag was supposedly tampered with ( It had arrived in an earlier flight ). The plastic wrap was removed -however on closer inspection, there was a note from the American law enforcement that they had opened it, checked it and removed NOTHING.

I am saying this to say, It isnt the norm.

That said - YOUR BAG isn't worth 400 Euros. Maximum 60 euros. If you purchased a bag for 400 euros - you have been taken to the cleaners.
A set isnt worth 400 Euros so lets stop with the lies.

Omoluabi16:
I can't help but wonder what happened. I keep hearing and reading of these great African kingdoms. How did we lose the ability to develop further? The Europeans have gone so far it will take another millennium to maybe catch them..

Their excuse would be brain drain ! I tire o. We found Oil and lost all sense of what made us successful. Just Terrible bro.

observanc1:
but Nigeria is not the only country England colonised. England colonised South Africa, Kenya, Singapore, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, US, Canada etc move forward, others are moving, and forget the blame game.

You forgot India - That even has nuclear weapon. We should stop already the blame game . 9ja is a 62 old man
Canada still has the queen on the currency. Nigeria doesnt yet the white man (boogeyman) is still very much still haunting us