₦airaland Forum

peepydelano:
This has been their aim from onset and they have successfully achieved that. Bunch of gold diggers.

If they are gold diggers as you have termed them, stating without conceding, and leeches as most will tag them, I hope you will be just enough to tag the men who will take up the present offer they have attracted gold diggers, too. Let me not see you do otherwise; else, Lol.

Honestly, I would rather say that their expressive burning desires have yielded a positive result, so let us rejoice with them rather than casting aspersions on them.

Mindlog:
Just make sure you strictly adhere to your medications ....it certainly not easy.

Sincerely if not that nothing will ever stop someone like you from exhibiting the usual lowlife attitude people like you that live in a place like Jaywick are known for, thereby disgracing me in front of my staff, I would have said find your way to my UK office in Mayfair, if truly you are in the UK, on or before 3 PM tomorrow, before I will leave the country, so that I can see how I can help you secure proper mental treatment and to see if you can become useful after your healing instead of wasting away your life here and there.

Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed their destinies are too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby.

Bumpkin!

Mindlog:
The man is not innocent, "Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife" and there is every chance he knows she is married but bible talk say "stolen waters are sweet, And bread eaten in secret is pleasant".but when hand touch you...

Beating up the guy was a way for the husband to validate his masculinity, as for the woman marriage don end.

Nigerians who indulge in such are still "lucky" says aggrieved husbands and wives no dey show up where their cheating spouse are having their rendezvous with cameramen in tow recording proceedings, which is a normal for some Kenyans and it ends up on national TV stations more as a comic relief..

Any sane person can't always stop to question your mental health after reading through your usual off contributions to most threads and posts due to ignorance or an obvious outright lack of intelligence like on this one with a concise submission and questions despite always striving to appear like an astute psychologist - only your fellow bumpkins will always buy into your charade. Don't even bother coming for me because ordinarily, I don't take delight in the pains of your kind, just as I don't have much attention to give you; my sincere pity goes to those physically around you that have to cater for you because I know that it is not always easy attending to a special needs person like you.

Do well to keep your mention or better still direct it to your kinds.

Ddworld:
So even at that, the best thing is to eject him from his OWN house? Why can't she leave quietly? Must she eject him because she knows the law will be favorable to her?

If truly she is not at fault, why not leave the abusive relationship? We all cannot be dull

Wisdom isn't for anyone void of knowledge. Unfortunately, it's very easy for someone like you and your ilks who are void of knowledge to equate foolishness to wisdom. Now scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you before I change my mind and descend on you.

Bumpkin!

LINTUNE:
seriously,men like u deserve de**h,your kind is making life so hard for men...imagine the rubbish u just typed...dea*h to fucking simps!

Yeah, boy, I am the chief simp of the universe, and I wear it with pride. Unfortunately, we are not going into extinction anytime soon. Now scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you before I change my mind and descend on you.

Bumpkin!

helinues:
Big fat lies.

It's not logical for Tinubu to pick someone from NW as VP when Buhari from the same NW will be completing his 8 years presidency in 2023

You have never been a smart guy, and your dispositional disingenuous attitude makes it worse, even though you have always strived to appear to be. Learn to retrace where and when necessary for your advancement.

As much as I do not hold a brief for her; yet, I know that the fact that she was caught on the scene meting out this act on him does not automatically mean that she is the original instigator of whatever accumulated problem they have that resulted in this and the bad person between them. If the guy had subjected her to emotional and psychological abuse, he deserves what has befallen him; if he is innocent and the true victim, however, he surely has my sympathy. In their innermost selves, they know between them what happened and who wronged who; unfortunately, such truth might be suppressed forever.

You sound selfless, humble, and innocent in general to be allowed to be misled and used by that boy that wants to have his cake and eat it. Strive to disentangle yourself from him with alacrity and save yourself from agony in the future.

muykem:
This is very bad and unacceptable, however, igbo needs to understand and work on something. You need to study your landlord choice and avoid any open confrontation against them. That doesn't prevent you from voting your own choice candidate. For example, it will be foolishness for Yoruba community in Rivers State to be holding APC meeting in build up to governorship election and openly campaign against PDP.

There is no doubt that you guys are dispositionally disingenuous - good in playing to the gallery/kowtowing, sententiousness, backstabbing, and hypocrisy and are universally known for it - but mistaking and equating it to wisdom/diplomacy like you have done here and as it is always the case among almost all of you and the naive outsiders are not only amusing but irritating.

Yes, being dispositionally disingenuous can always help anyone/group to some level of servile success and peace, but it always makes things worse generally and in the long run; for example, the mess Nigeria has become from independence to date, no thanks to you guys because of this same attitude.

The real wise honestly knows that it is better having and associating with the alacritous and expressive - which is easily seen as confrontational and mistaken for an enemy by the naive - than the disingenuous - which is usually subtle yet always a frenemy.

There is nothing wrong with a wife working in such an environment, just that the chances of an adulterous wife meeting more clients and exploring more seem higher than when she is programmed and confined in a particular spot having a monitor that uses a remote to control her movement. If she is not susceptible to opportunism and/or inherently wayward in general, you have nothing to worry about.

NuCypher:
God knows nothing will ever make me settle for a lady with no means of her own. Forget what many of them claim about loving a dude, they look first at his pocket, what he has at the moment, and what he is likely to have in the future. Ain't no broad trying to build a man up. They simply are all coming to feast on his resources. But if she's going to do that, she better be coming with her pocket full as well. We chop each other together. That's the way.

The broads are all circling around this thread now like vultures telling the sorry dude to go get a job before even as much as talking to them. I'd find it interestingly pathetic for the dudes to not extend the same treatment to them. The evening newspapers littering this thread would rather stay unpurchased and age into the night because they do not want to "suffer with a man". All well and good. Wise men had better extend to them the same treatment and not let a broad come reach into their pocket, if she ain't got her own dam.n money.

Idealists who are imagining love in their heads are the ones I pity, especially if they are men. And do they often get all mushy! They are the ones who end up training a girl in school, only to have their as.s dumped. Sometimes they also sponsor her abroad thinking she'll come back to fetch them from the trenches. Instead, the broads just sail into the sunset with their loot.

Dudes, pity no broads, please. Do not pity them. See this thread as the evidence you need to hustle your heart out, live your life at the top of your game, make some dough, and find that working class Nigerian girl also earning in six-figures.

I understand your position. However, I have never seen, and will never see, anything wrong in a self-conquered and established man putting up with a woman that holds a philosophy that places immaterialism above materialism whether or not she has any form of material accomplishment to her name.

Also, as expressive and alacritous as I am, I am not a proponent of women subjugation - but I am surely a proponent and practitioner of hypocritical, crass, and opportunistic women, and men alike, subjugation, especially when they come closer with their shenanigans and fail to embrace change. A good woman deserves the best from her man, regardless of her social stratum. Servility is as bad as unjust cruelty; say no to both of them.

Raalsalghul:


This guy. Had to heat up this thread.

Lol, if, as human beings, regardless of gender, we fail to tell ourselves the truth always, it means that whatever education and material acquisition we possess are in vain. It's always better to disagree to agree always than feigning agreement always while being perpetually frenemies.

I used to think that you were merely glossing your status to taste the waters to sieve opportunists out of your way, but that doesn't seem to be the case any longer. Well, the fact that none of these overgrown women in teenage bodies and mentality who are desperately in need of husbands here has deemed it fit to come closer to you, talk more of giving you a temporary lead to rescue you, is one of those obvious pointers that 99% of the time 99% of them only disingenuously come closer to one forming feelings because of one's material possession rather than the quality of one's soul, thus the reason why you must strive to protect your riches whenever you come across it without allowing evanescence emotion to lead you astray.

And don't allow anyone to make you think that your desire is out of ordinary, the opportunistic and/or self-absorbing attitude of most of the female folks made it seem so together with the fact that 99.9% of them here within the age bracket you seek can't even cater for themselves talk more of giving you the temporary lead you long for. The emotions of love being the most powerful of all emotions and your guts telling you that with the right push from the right woman that you will rise, you have no reason to feel ashamed of your display here - even though you can do better.

If I were you at this juncture, I would rather squash the desire and transmute the emotion to something else that could lead to financial emancipation as such would be an easier route for your self-conquest. Of course, when you succeed, do not forget to protect your riches so that devourers of any gender and shade won't take you back to square one.

You have always given her an impression that her being faithful (I wager she is not but has always deceived you that she is) is a kind of favor to you rather than a standard she must meet and keep if she must remain close to you; else, she would not have had the effrontery to exude this kind of attitude. Literally, you have never been in charge of the structure of that relationship and have used servility to sustain it all this while.

The way some of you are always bold in ignorance is both irritating and amusing. On this "To be honest South west, South East and South South can't make any body president in Nigeria, only the north have the power and that's why Nigeria is the way it is today." Yes, the South west, South East and South South can't make anybody president in Nigeria without the North, just as the North can't make anybody a president in Nigeria without the South.

To be a president in Nigeria requires a collective majority of votes, genuinely or otherwise, from both the South and North, so no section of the country has the power to single-handedly make someone a president of Nigeria. You all should stop appropriating larger than life power to the North.

This publication is rather indirectly trying to give credence to the scammer, wittingly or unwittingly, given that anyone who has been aware of his person for more than a decade should have known long ago that he is not a prophet but a guesser and has failed time without numbers in his numerous guesses.

Ishilove:
You have been enabling her excesses everytime, which is why she is yet to learn her lesson. She believes you will come through for her anytime she blows money. Please, let her dig herself out of the hole she put herself in. That is the only way for her to learn lessons

For almost the first time, you have almost made complete sense; this ought to have called for some kind of celebration. However, as usual, you did not fail to show that you are a product of half-education. Take notice the correct way of spelling the following is "every time," not "everytime."

Don't thank me, and of course, do well to keep your mention or direct it to your fellow bumpkins.

swaggerjack:
There are many richer than Orji Kalu. Tinubu is far richer than Uzor Kalu- he has been collecting 10% of Lagos tax revenue since 2003.

My post is concise enough for any sound person to understand; I am not giving to armchair analysis.

Hurt her not. At the risk of being misconstrued as justifying her untrustworthiness and pernicious act in general towards you, blame yourself, not her, for whatever wrong she meted out against you. This is so because you failed yourself, and the fact that she is allegedly older than you is not an excuse.

Next time don't take someone seriously until you are able to dissect and vet them and can at least 99.9% accurately assert what they can do at any given time subject to circumstances. It is called being discerning, and as a man, you ought not to be caught lacking it and grit if you must reign supreme in your glory.

You can always walk the walk without being hurt and without wittingly and delightfully being the reason someone might get hurt - in other words, you can give everything without losing anything.

Ishilove:
I make it a point to jump and pass your posts because of your despicable polymonikering for intentions of insidious mischief, as well as penchant for unnecessary and wrong usage of
bombast and verbosity. However, since your last two posts are not as long as your usual posts, I braved it and read through them, and I am aghast.

Do you even know what you are writing?

Look, don't bother answering. Just don't bother.

Shior

Lol, frustration has eaten you up to your bone marrow. Stop hallucinating on my post with your obvious low IQ. In fact, I guess this is your indirect way of soliciting for the position of my PA on domestic affairs - local - as we discussed some time in the past; unfortunately, the position is not available, and even if it were to be available, you would have to upskill to be fit for the role.

Meanwhile, I am in support of the motion to trick the homeless but now rescued actor, Aguba, to take you as a wife. I will make out time to communicate with Pastor Chinyere to see how he can persuade Aguba to consider you. I know that with the better options available to him, it will be nearly impossible for him to consider you under normal circumstances, but I will bring my professional prowess in this regard to bear to see to its fruition. Hey, your attention span for the moment is almost expired.

Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby.

Jovialjune1:
The bolded, you no get am, no dey jonze yourself this boy, you are the exact opposite of the bolded.

Lol, I wasn't referring to harlots, riff raffs, and small-minded elements in general, so I don't hold a brief for you and your likes - only fellow aristocrats will understand.

Now, run along and direct your further mention to bumpkins like you because your attention span has expired.

Literally and officially, Orji Uzor Kalu is the richest politician to come out from Nigeria, given that he has been the only Forbes rated billionaire among the partisan politicians.

It's amusing and a sign of unawareness how some of you think that it will be a herculean task for the OP to find a lady working for a bluechip or multinational company as a causal sex mate, especially if he is doing well for himself and carries commanding and attractive aura like some of us. The problem is that most of you are always quick to see others in your little world, thereby projecting your inadequacies on them.

Professional positional standing does not automatically negate ethical disposition.

Post detail, post detail, yet an ordinary snippet of the details that have been posted, someone's daughter has run to report to the MODs and delete it, Lol.

You lots should cut her some slacks. Her intention and interest might still be pure and selfless regardless of the circumstances, and she might have agreed to marry him also had it been she came into contact with him while he was still homeless and if he had made a move on her, even though a homeless in his stead then would have been more concerned about bringing himself out from the situation than thinking on whom to suffer in the same situation with him. In circumstances like these, it is not good to cast aspersions without a first-hand closer observation with the concerned entity and the dissesting of them unbiasedly. Never say never.

UjuJoan2:
I know you feel betrayed, but come to think about it, why does it bother you who your wife confides in or not? Most women gossip to their friends and family and it’s not a big deal. Getting married will not make them stop that habit overnight. You can’t expect to become her confidant because you married her a year ago, when she has know these people all her life.

A woman only complains if she is being treated badly.

I don’t know what she tells them by are any of them lies??

The way you mentioned her joblessness, I think you are more worried about the fact that she talks about your financial capacity. But why is that even a problem? Do you want her to lie and say you provide the things you don’t?

She may not be working and contributing financially, but you calling her “jobless” is very unfair. How do you expect her to be happy when you belittle her every chance you get just because she doesn’t have a job.

You should concentrate on making her happy so she will stop complaining to her family members about you. That’s the only solution!!

@OP

The other balderdash in this post aside, take notice that it is not your duty to make your wife happy, and vice versa. Striving to always do whatever you know is right towards her at every given time and to the best of your ability is your duty, and accept nothing less from her. The choice to be happy or not is solely hers to make, and if she fails to allow positive energy to take precedence over negative energy, if she chooses unhappiness, jolt her to reality through any cruel means that might suit you.

On a general note, take up grit and gumption to arrest the situation permanently. The problem most of you in all these kinds of unpalatable situations has is a lack of standard and personal philosophy in general and together with a lack of grace in losing in principle. You might not know peace and reign fully in your glory if you do not give up expectation and force and embrace a standard. You should have a standard you live on, which she and everyone that crosses your path must know and adhere to or incur your wrath.

Servility is as bad as unjust cruelty - say no to both of them.