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Stupidity is when you think it wise to be a judge in your case. Citing the evidence available, you are the one with bad a manner, and more, not her.

lexy2014:
The topic didn't say "Politicians who founded media houses". It says "Politicians who OWN media houses".

According to the OP "6.) National Mirror. The National Mirror was founded by business mogul and Ondo State former Peoples Democratic Party Governorship candidate, Jimoh Ibrahim."

Now, take your low IQ elsewhere until you have the cognitive ability to interact with me effectively. Some of you are always quick to quote one even when obviously lacking the cognitive ability to comprehend properly.

Apart from The Sun Newspapers, Orji Uzor Kalu also owns New Telegraph. Meanwhile, Jimoh Ibrahim was not the founder of National Mirror - Prince Emeka Obasi was - even though he later acquired it from him. On the other hand, Champion Newspapers is owned by Chief Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu.

Governor Wike is just a sententious element that suffers delusions of grandeur. All it takes to gain almost everything from him at any given time is to put him on a pedestal and to wreck him, pull him off the pedestal, which is exactly what has happened to him so far.

This here "Another source said Obasanjo is not making serious headway in his efforts owing to what he termed age-long suspicion that the North has for the South East" rather than the lack of political sagacity and unity of purpose by the South East political class as myopic and/or disingenuous people within and outside the South East have always strive to assert is the reason why the South East seems to have been lagging behind politically in the country. Funnily and irritatingly, it's not only the North that holds such negative thought, which is as a result of their sententious, hypocritical, greedy nature rather than reality, against the South East.

You all should stop making politics seem like a game of tribalism and all other petty sentiments you all have made it seem other than a game of principle and conviction that it is literally. Anyone that thinks that there are no Igbos (or see anything wrong in them doing so or see it as a sign that the candidates from the South East are bad) who will vote for Tinubu or Atiku or any other candidate that is not from the South East is being delusional and small-minded in general.

The bane of Nigeria's retrogression has always been fundamental, and bigotry and ignorance top the list.

seunmsg:
So, 1994 to 2022 is 29 years, right?

What the fvck is wrong with you guys? If Tinubu is 86 as alleged by Teemac and believed by some cretins, that means he was 58 years when this picture was taken. So, take a look at the picture, does he look 58 in the picture? Tinubu was 42years when this picture was taken and he perfectly looked 42 to me.

Btw, he was the youngest Senator in the senate in 1992 and there was no dispute about his age then. Why are you all making noise about his age now?

Stop misforming the public. Tinubu wasn't the youngest senator in the third republic, not when someone like Ali Modu Sheriff, who's presently about 66 years old, was a member of the same senate.

It is unfortunate that if urgent and stiff measures are not put in place to nip this menace to bud, the present secret information I got from the CIA circle about the country will materialize sooner than expected. It's worrisome, though, that the guys at NIA have chosen to turn deaf to almost every suggestion given to them so far. They don't seem ready to spend money for the right reasons anymore.

Kingkum:
@RightToReject, the first condition the guy gave me is very difficult, i can't send my wife away just like that abeg, then i will visit him in ibadan with some things to cleanse me. he seems legit but i can't take the risk of sending my wife away without any form of assurance. the spiritualist is a popular nairalander and i can give you his username codedly if you want

Don't send your wife away under any circumstances, even if it is established that she is the cause, provided that she has not wittingly been doing you bad or taking delight in your stagnation. Her protection should always be paramount to you under any circumstance.

cococandy:
Of course I’m harsh. It’s intentional.

I’m flabbergasted at how easy it is for any con man out there to turn you folks on your family members with the snap of a finger. It’s never any meaningful advice or counseling on how to navigate difficult situations, improve your business acumen or employability. They never tell you how to manage your finances seeing as the whole world is having a financial crisis now.

They know that’s not what you want to hear. Anything that will require effort, re-strategizing and taking accountability will probably go in one ear and out the other. But they know once they tell you it’s your wife or gf or mom, they have your attention and you keep coming back to hear more of what subconsciously confirms your biases. Very clever business tactic for them but detrimental to you and they don’t care.

If you’re really here for advice, you’ve received it already. Pray in a different room. There’s nothing weird about your wife’s actions. Stop thinking any human on earth has the ability to spiritually hinder you. The mind is powerful and what you feed it reflects in your daily life.

Stop capping thrash in the name of any pro-nonsense with a wannabe woke vibe. As much as the global economy is biting some people so hard, it doesn't negate the possibility of his wife being the cause of his stagnation, wittingly or unwittingly, citing his point of prayer incidence not necessarily about the prediction from his sorcerer, so he has not erred asking questions and looking for solutions.

@OP, if your said sorcerer truly has any atom of genuineness and ability in him, tell him to help you out from the problem without needing to victimize your wife and also on credit or something relatively so with a promise to reward him in multitude when you begin progressing.

The fact that he did not foresee her exhibiting these negative attitudes beforehand in the kind of present circumstance shows that he is not a discerning man; the fact that he has not devised a way to change it for her all this while and make her subjugable on top her money shows that he lacks grit; just as the fact that he is still contemplating what to do after all these discoveries, insults and abuses shows that he doesn't have a healthy standard. Tell him to follow his conscience

Meanwhile, the subject question of the thread didn't do justice to the body of the thread, given that in a healthy union and circumstance like this, there is nothing wrong if a man lives in his wife's just house, if his condition necessitates it, but that isn't the case here.

Emancipation of any kind has never made a woman (and vice versa, a man) worse character-wise; instead, it has always made a woman with a strong character more refined and expressive. So, wherever you see an academic emancipated woman displaying a shitty character unjustly, know that she has always been so, with or without emancipation, with the only difference being that in emancipation she is bold in displaying it, which as bad as it is is better than displaying it in disingenuous, servile, and or obedient manner as she would while in academic enslavement or when glossed with the garb of religion even in emancipation.

The secret of alleviating the world from poverty lies in enabling women's emancipation and empowerment without taking away emancipation and the rights to empower away from men.

Hmm! The thiny Adaolisa of yesteryears is now a quasi-ravishing quasi-big girl.

Happy Birthday!

Every other thing aside, an unpronounced secret is that Abdullahi Sule has always been an Atiku boy and the fact that they are in opposing parties won't stop him from doing everything possible to make sure that Atiku wins the state in the forthcoming presidential election.

The character of the woman in the story, even though the story seems fictitious, is bad. However, you all should stop all this nonsense campaign of calumny against the female folks (and vice versa). Yes, most women are like the incarnate of the proverbial devil, so also most men are; yet, the bad ones don't represent the totality of the female folks. No gender has a monopoly of either good or bad.

Some of the attributes all of you from both genders in this journey of the campaign of calumny against the opposite have in common are greed, ignorance, feeble-mindedness, sententiousness, and hypocrisy, even though you all strive to gloss them with the garb of "wokeness" and other nonsense ideological terms.

Being courteous towards the opposite gender, or anyone, isn't a sign of weakness but strength - of course, condoning nonsense from anyone isn't advisable and shouldn't be an option. Relate and quantify people based on their individuality instead of the species they are of and their nomenclature.

Spy360:
Your stupidity will not allow you to see that I was not talking about freedom of speech. It's funny a nincompoop will point out lack of comprehension by also lacking comprehension.

Useless agbado urchins like you should thrown into a lagoon hands tied.

Stop mistaking me for the never-do-wells that brought you into this world. Anyway, at least now that you have had the privilege to have a reply from me, you have something meaningful to brag about as an achievement for the first time in your life - and obviously, you are the first to have something meaningful like this to brag about as an achievement in the whole of your local government. Enjoy the privilege, bumpkin. And of course, you can convert the privilege for a cash of $102, 000 (one hundred and two thousand US dollars) at any Pawn-Shop that bears my moniker at any location anywhere in the world.

Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed their destinies are too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby.

Your attention span has expired for today. Bye-bye, Bumpkin.

Spy360:
Was there decorum when they looted borrowed funds and thereby destroying our economy and devaluing our Naira?

Was there decorum, when they admit terrorists into the army to terrorise us the more?

Was there decorum when all the political appointments favoured one ethnic group?

Was there decorum when idiots collected bribes to pick thieves and drug barons as party presidential bearers?

This is not time for stupid Freedom of speech. It is time for violence.

There is no decorum in violence.

Some of you are always quick to quote one even when obviously lacking the cognitive ability to comprehend properly. Bumpkin, I neither advocated for suppression of freedom of speech nor encouraged Peter Obi supporters to be subjugable as your submission and question in general connotes.

Now scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you before I change my mind and descend heavily on you.

She, just like most other people, has an erroneous understanding of freedom of speech. Freedom of speech doesn't negate decorum, but of course, this doesn't mean that Petter Obi supporters personify indecorousness, given that they are usually mostly on the defensive side on most altercations.

The only problem in your relationship is that you don't love her; instead, you are in love with her, whereas nature made it that she ought to be the one to be in love with you, all things being equal - no thanks to your lack of grit. There is no way you, as a man, can genuinely/selflessly love a woman and still continually enable her shortcomings and pander to her whims and caprices, no and never.

It will be very easy for people who have not been in your kind of position, or something similar, to urge you to continue indulging him or cast aspersions on you for being annoyed, even though if such people were to find themselves in your position, they would not have done and indulge 1% of what you might have done and indulged from him so far.

In fact, a thorough dissection of your submissions shows that the lack of money is not his main problem; his weak ethical leanings are. He does not mean well to you, and by extension, he is not healthy.

That said, you can still bail him out from this one, but before and after doing so, sound it out to him by every means possible that you will not indulge any further nonsense from him and mean it both in words and actions by relating with him based on his mentality and mental disposition towards you in general rather than based on the nomenclature of husband he bears - that is part of what it takes to be conscientious and it is for the good of your health. Do this only if you do not mind losing your marriage in principle, which will entail separating from him should he fail to change positively.

The highest and most fulfilling point of living is reaching the height of not minding losing any person or thing in principle.

Why not! However, the day she abuses the privilege of knowing will automatically mark the beginning of her problem in the union.

Sore loser, accept your loss in good faith and know that life does not revolve around your self-absorbing interest; a typical conceited person that suffers from delusions of grandeur.

With the connotation of pride in your message, a thinking non-human being that does not know how human beings live will think that women for convenience and pleasure purposes are scarce these days; without knowing that it is only women needed for something meaningful that are scarce.

Some of you like deceiving yourselves. In fact, from the POV of this kind of arrangement, when a man proclaims that women have nothing other than their vagina to offer men, he will not be at fault, given that some other women could even offer him the same vagina and pay him money on top of it just to have him close to their lives simply for being a normal man and not a slowpoke. No man of good standing will find your request enticing or embrace it wittingly. And if the reverse were to be the case in this arrangement, you would see that apart from dick, the man would have a lot more to offer you.

Everything you have tabled here revolved around thoughtlessness (insensitivity) on his part and your expectation of thoughtfulness from him instead. The truth is that only you here know whether he is truly dispositionally thoughtless or your bad attitude all this while has made him so towards you. For instance, at that point where he was giving you money that you claimed to have thrown on the ground; under normal circumstances, a thoughtful close person in his stead would have detected the slight changes in your demeanor even before giving you the money and would have accorded you both the emotional care and physical support you needed.

Well, if your attitude all this while has made him become thoughtless towards you, the onus lies on you to retrace your steps and work and walk yourself back to his mental nervous chamber so that you can start commanding his emotional care, this will take time to materialize but the end will be worth it.

If he is, however, dispositionally thoughtless, there is nothing much you can do to change him, especially since it is obvious that his "mumu button" is not under your command. The best you can do is accept the hard truth that he is a thoughtless person (which doesn't automatically make him an evil person) and stop expecting emotional care from him. To make him sit up a bit and for your mental health balance, deliberately stop taking him seriously even without treating him like an enemy and watch him adjust gradually.

heendrix:
He had a baby outside was only his crime and so we can't judge her for setting him ablaze right?? what happened to walking away or divorce as white men call it??

I just hope phools like you justifying this barbaric act get to have ur share of it someday, if not to you but someone so dear to you, maybe by then we can now understand ur English

The phools here are you and the never-do-wells that brought you into this world that denied you the privilege of quality education; thus your inability to see beyond your parochial primordial sentiment. A statement of fact neither qualifies as a judgement nor abhorrence of it. Now scram and direct your further mentions to the phools that brought you into this world.

Bumpkin.

myami:
so I shouldn't play away match again? You are an idiot

Stop mistaking me for the idiots that brought you into this world, and before directing your further mention to them, take notice that there is a difference between playing away match without giving your companion an impression of piety and when you have always given them an impression of piety only for them to find out or you return home one day that you have been playing away match and having a child outside.

If you must play an away match, always make your companion know directly or indirectly that you are gamed and allow them to decide whether to indulge you or not rather than taking to hypocrisy and disingenuousness.

Bumpkin, take your low IQ elsewhere before I change my mind and descend on you.

cococandy:
Her actions are unjustified.

It’s one thing to be upset and angry.

It’s another to go through with the whole process of setting another human on fire. Unjustified!

Unfortunately, you are not qualified to judge her, lol. One sure timeless way to avoid incurring the wrath of other people is respecting whatever they hold sacred; had he done that, I wager we wouldn't be here discussing the calamities that have befallen them.

It will be very easy for almost everyone to judge and cast aspersions on her, but the truth is that some people are not built to absorb some kind of treachery from someone they have a deep interest and connection with (whether selflessly or not) or someone they have vested absolute trust in naively. The husband brought all these avoidable calamities through his deceitful act.

Mindlog:
Eyah.

Jaywick bumpkin, I foresee poverty, pride, and shame depriving you of a golden opportunity to mingle with an aristocrat in an aristocratic enclave for your life-changing meeting, lol.

A good wife (or proverbial wife material) is ambiguous, so rate her based on your concept of what a good woman is to you. Don't try it if you are prudish.

Personally, if I were to be in need of a wife, I don't see anything wrong in making one that is in sync with me a wife, given that there will be no difference between her and any nonvirgin or even a virgin that will not remain permanently a virgin after popping the cherry. Whether she will remain a professional in the act afterward will be a different case entirely.

Mindlog:
E be like say you still dey learn Yahoo work.

Once again, adhere to your medications and seek psychotherapy because you need the engagement of a professional, it will go a long way in anchoring you.

Do have a nice day.

Foremost, an inconsequential you could not have made me temporarily suspend my move, I had to because of some urgent consequential mammoth deals that require my physical presence to attend to before going back to America. Subsequently, the temporary delay has availed me an opportunity to attend to you in my magnanimous wish to help better your life, only if you can convince me that you are not the poorest of the poor mentally and financially, which I still believe that you are. Ordinarily, I do not need to go to a further length to prove anything to your type of person, but I had to at this juncture for the sake of posterity (refer to the attached).

And my £25,000 offer to you remains valid until the next 24 hours (36 hours maximum) if and only you can through the following actions show that you are not the poorest of the poor mentally and financially:

- You will transfer £1000 to a Nairalander of my choice as a way to show appreciation to the forum.

- After that is done, you nominate a Nairalander of your choice and I will transfer £25,000 or an equivalent amount in any other currency to any destination of your choice to the person and after your visit to my office at Mayfair on or before 9 AM tomorrow, you collect the money from your nominee and use it to better your life. In addition to that, I will take care of your medical health bills for a period of one year because you obviously need comprehensive medical rehabilitation.

Meanwhile, unlike bumpkins like you that are mere subjects to your host countries that eat from the systems, I have always been a huge strategic investor and stakeholder that coupled with the fact that I am a U.S. diplomatic passport holder, the authorities in every country I stepped in have always accorded me maximum regard.

Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed their destinies are too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby.

Mindlog:
Who dash you West End of London..delusions of grandeur, I believe you know what that signifies in psychology.

Ok, write your name RighttToReject on any print of UK's today's newspaper with today's date clearly showing then I will do the same.

Bumpkin, it seems you targeted me when I would be unavoidably unavailable to post this. Anyway, thank God that I am still in the country, even though ordinarily I would have ignored this nonsense, but for the sake of posterity, I will take up your challenge on the following terms and conditions because I do not do small-minded people's thing:

- You will transfer £1000 to a Nairalander of my choice, once the person confirms receipt of the money, I will snap the shot and dash the Nairalander the money because I won't need it.

- After that is done, you nominate a Nairalander of your choice and I will transfer £25,000 or an equivalent amount in any other currency to any destination of your choice to the person and after your visit to my office at Mayfair on or before 3 PM tomorrow, you collect the money from your nominee and use it to better your life. Yes, I am this magnanimous.

The fact that you think me having my UK office in Mayfair is a big deal shows the level of your poverty, so I am ready to prove you wrong, cure you of your mental illness, and also help you prosper.

If you aren't ready to accept my terms and conditions, direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you.

Illuminating the light of those whom the masses assumed their destinies are too dimmed to shine has always been my hobby.