₦airaland Forum

If your submission here is truly the truth, you should be happy that a man who has not conquered himself (or has never meant well for you) but wishes to conquer you has moved out of your life. A man who is sure of himself will not try to conquer you; instead, he will strive to conquer himself without striving to conquer you and love you without hating himself.

There is nothing wrong with a lady that is ambitious because that will not stop her from striving to place principle above expediency if she has always been from strong ethical leanings, but there is everything wrong with a lady that is greedy because she will always place expediency above principle.

The reason he is doing so is very simple; every sagacious politician and/or discerning person that chooses to be truthful to himself can see that the majority of the Nigerian political actors, which by extension means the majority of the voters, do not want a Nigerian president of the South East extraction, at least for now, due to primordial fundamental issues rather than a lack of political will and wherewithal from the politicians and masses from the zone. He is too wise to live on an expectation, yes, a miracle can still happen and a South Easterner emerge president come 2023, but as I said, he is too wise to live on expectation rather than standard. OUK is a man of standard and he has always lived it in words and actions. Numbers decide the result of democratic elections.

For the record, only a few bona fide Igbo sons and daughters can genuinely love Igboland as he does.

He is just battling the ruins of expectations that are gloom, and he stands to have a major health fall should the expectations become totally doom and if he fails to take solace in something else quickly. He is at the place where no huge investor, especially one with grandiose delusions, in politics or business always wishes to be after giving their all and best.

Faber:
South this, South that. Call the Devil by his name. Wike denied Southern Nigeria PDP presidential ticket.

Atiku said he would step down if PDP ticket is zoned to South East in the Spirit of fairness. Wike said no, it should be zoned to South so that he will clinch the ticket.

The other Northern governors have plan B. Tambuwal is going to senate, Bala Mohammed had his SSG win the PDP ticket for him, Bala Mohammed is going for second term unopposed. Wike was beclouded by thug life and dollar-power. His sole plans is to be PDP presidential flag bearer. Meanwhile SW PDP have produced Obasanjo, SS PDP produced GEJ, it's remaining SE PDP yet Woke refused.
He attacked Peter Obi and that angered Anambra PDP delegates. They now voted enmass for Atiku.

Op leave South alone in this PDP case, hold Wike responsible.

Thank you. All these small-minded elements like twisting facts.

JovialJune:
Trying to play the victim and gender card to gain public/female sympathy is dead on arrival, I followed this court case from the very beginning and it was obvious she was lying and faking tears, everyone saw through her lies, every one knows she wanted another cash out, she was caught committing perjury countless times in court, she should zip her lips and pay up.

Someone that does not know you for a typical personification of goo that you are and sees this your post might conclude that you have always been a rational and fair-minded lady that is worthy of being counted among classy ladies, Lol. You obviously made this unsentimental post because you know that she is indefensible at this point.

Most of you are only good in twisting information; in the next few years for instance, if someone like Tinubu fails to clinch the forthcoming APC presidential ticket by not getting the support of the South East delegates and politicians, some of you will carry on with the part of the news that favours you without telling the true story about the pre-event behind the whole circumstances; the same way Wike has started ranting and twisting what led to his loss.

A Nigerian president of the South East extraction could be possible at any given time, if not in 2023, it will be sometime soon afterward.

You, your imaginary uncle, and every bumpkin here that will applaud the stated thoughtless in particular and irresponsible in general attitude you and your imaginary uncle have adopted and exhibit in this your illusionary submission deserve thorough beatings for trying to rationalize and normalize abnormality.

Donaluta:
Every fucking time .. Una dey find way to defend stupidity....

The person behind that faithfull18 moniker is another small-minded element in this space; one, however, can only pity her because of the single-digit IQ she and her types possess, which makes it impossible for them to see beyond goo.

If I were her, I would definitely do the same if he had made the request and held the notion that she had been unfaithful to him unsubstantially.

The sure way to avoid tasting the bad side of most people is by not meting out or supporting evil against them unjustly, and in the event you do, and they decide to indulge you, don't automatically mistake their tolerance for foolishness.

Balderdash.

Her reality is not everyone's reality and should not be made to seem so.

Take your eyes off your mother in particular and parents in general properties and earnings henceforth; for your mother's own in particular, since she is your main target, you have been viewing them with covetous eyes and that is a recipe for disaster waiting to happen if you do not retrace your steps - eschew a typical inherently greedy element attitude. How, whom and when to give out/make use of her property is her prerogative and should not be forced under any guise into doing so. I wager your next line of action, if she fails to budge to your demand and assuming that you have not started already, will be to subject her to psychological and emotional abuse until you either get what you want from her or institute enmity in the family.

After your parents have seen you through the tertiary institution, thereby bequeathing you one of the best legacies good parents can bequeath to their offspring, it now behooves you to build your hope around your knowledge (skills) with an ultimate focus on mastering the science of wealth creation and sustainability through the use of your already acquired knowledge and continuous acquisition of more knowledge. Learn to build yourself with what you have.

Cultivate the mindset of "what if she does not have any property in her possession."

No, because only genuine women like you now exist - typical sententious, disingenuous, and hypocritical element.

Upliftment101:
Read my post again bro. Atiku knows he owes Tambuwal for that magnificent sacrifice he made by stepping down.
Now do you think Atiku can refuse whoever Tambuwal recommends for any position? What other position do you think Ihedioha could be interested in? Who else in the entire south is closer to Tambuwal and Atiku if not Ihedioha

Well, Tambuwal, as great as his sacrifice is, cannot force his choice on the Atiku that I know. And no, as much as Ihedioha is close to both men, I still know some other silent but influential politicians from the South East that are even closer to them. Do I have anything against Ihedioha and his probable emergence as Atiku's running mate; no.

Atiku might rule that out because despite Ihedioha's contributions towards his success via Tambuwal, he might still feel betrayed that Ihedioha let him down by pitching his tent with Tambuwal instead of him, citing the fact that his machinery brought Ihedioha into national limelight pre and post 1999 elections. Ihedioha was first an Atiku boy before becoming Tambuwal's colleague and close ally.

Stay there and be pandering to his whims and caprices, thinking that you are doing him some good without knowing that you are aiding and abetting his stupidity while jeopardizing your sanity and both of you destroying your lives in general at the same time.

He is akin to a special needs person. So, you must use an intentional genuine (yet hurtful) act like this one you have hatched (although he can easily capitalize on that one to ruin you) to jolt him to reality, and you will see him sit up by force unless you have never had an atom of influence over him, or he has never always placed any value on the union, in which case, you can go for an extended separation.

Only a foolish husband will take his dutiful wife and good woman in general for granted in the name of any nonsense ideology or guise. All women are certainly not of the same ethical leanings, so wherever you see a woman from strong ethical leanings, always accord her the highest level of regard whether or not she is your wife, friend, companion, relation, etc.

However, if you do automatically equate all the women that do project civil or respectful persona, demeanor, and disposition in public among those from strong ethical leanings, you might be in for a rude shock to know what does happen on closer observation or in secret.

You can only extricate yourself from the entanglement/bondage through psychological detoxification and transmutation. You are in the unfortunate condition because you built an emotional connection with her on the core of her physical/material possession and it gets worse, as it is now, because she stayed good to you in the cause of your association with her.

For a layman like you, one of the easiest ways you can carry out psychological detoxification and transmutation is through a focal magnification of one negative attribute she possesses and the channeling of your energy on a new pursuit.

Next time, take to building a mental connection with a woman rather than an emotional connection with her - unfortunately, only those who love genuinely/selflessly can get this done.

The object of attraction is no longer attractive to her. Knowing what her object of attraction toward you was, you should know it already if you have always been discerning, will make it possible for you to extrapolate her action and reason behind it, without her uttering any word, and make your decision on how to handle her or what to do further.

DeLaRue:
Difficult to see how Jonathan can win a freely contested APC primaries.

You mean majority of APC governors will swing behind him a day or two before the primaries abandoning their own long-held interests?

So El Rufai, Ganduje, or a contestant like the Vice President will order the delegates under their control to vote Jonathan... because that's the order from Aso Rock?

I just don't see this happening.

1+1 does not always = 2 in politics; thus, the reason why 24 hours is a big time in politics. And in politics, free and fair election is subjective, so Jonathan, or even a version of Tinubu that has not labored so hard like the main Tinubu, can win free and fair in the coming APC presidential primary election if he has the backing of the establishment (the cabal at the presidency as it is presently).

This is possible because, among other reasons, in the main election proper, the presidential election will take place before the governorship election and this makes it impossible for even the most gritty politicians among the non-members of the cabal and who are diehard supporters of Tinubu susceptible to servility to the cabal.

All the presidency will do is mandate the governors/leaders of the party in each state to deliver his candidate at the presidential primary or risk losing their chances of either winning their own reelection or having their anointed candidates winning in the main election in their states and you will see the majority jettisoning their prior candidates to align with him.

Popularity never wins elections, influence does and the most influential politician in the country today remains PMB nay the presidency. So far, what is being run in the country is akin to a pyramid scheme, not a democracy in its true meaning.

Stop abusing the word "niceness" because, citing your submission, yours is a case of servility, and yes, servility is a weakness. True nice person, as pleasant as hir is, cannot be caught pandering to the whims and caprices of small-minded people or allow being trampled on continually by small-minded people.

Meanwhile, a cure to servility lies in your willingness to give up feeble-mindedness, ignorance, pretense, and greed in some cases.

You do not have to be wicked to have reign over your dominion; you simply need to be conscientious.

Golan007:
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Rubbish.

Are you not Eboe?

Primordial bla bla bla.

Hey didn't you say North Central?

Aren't Benue, Kogi, Kwara people Nigerians as well?

Come on, look for bumpkins like you to engage; sententious people like you with low IQs irritate me because you can neither be just nor extrapolate nor comprehend properly.

Peppysco:
If this was Tinubu, you all will forget this your analytical senses and begin to yarn dust. But because it is Obi now, you all suddenly begin dey get sense. Una never see anything, 2023 has already eluded you guys with that Obi's action

Scram, get out of my mention and look for your fellow small-minded elements to engage in pettiness, unless you can prove that I am your fellow tribalist. One common feature that sententious, ethnocentric, hypocritical, disingenuous, and opportunistic elements like you have is a psychological projection attribute.

For a record, I have neither identify with Peter Obi nor any presidential aspirant before, and have nothing against Tinubu, or anyone regardless of where they are coming from, even though I have always maintained that where fairness in particular and politics of principle and conviction in general take precedence over primordial sentiments in particular and politics of expediency in general that the next president of Nigeria ought to come from the South East, citing the existing arrangements prior to now. The same school of thought every fair and sane person has identified with.

He didn't miscalculate. Discerning and sagacious politicians, or even electorates, are always able to tell the direction the election result will swing before the election proper. I commend him and OUK for their actions so far, even though he acted a bit late.

Ordinarily, consultation fanfare during party primaries has never been a hallmark of an aspirant who is serious. So, don't write-off anyone who bought forms and is still in the race until submission and substitution of candidate's name at INEC closes.

DeutschJunge:
Mr Man free me naw!
Your mind is so big that i am already occupying a huge portion of it, i am flying around in that big head-mind of yours like casper the ghost, right? Please ease off on the obsession. If trampling on people and trying to make them feel wortless to boost your dwarf ego is what gets you off, baba, you will forever remain flacid on this thread.

Point of correction, i never said i wanted to be like those people i mentioned in an earlier post, i only gave you examples of special gifted people that accomplished amazing things in this life. You on the other hand, trying to force your opinion down peoples throat, while implying that you have a mind big enough to obsess over sombody you dont know on a faceless forum, now thats a BIG-USELESS mind!

I ask kindly again, avoid my mentions!

I don't give a damn about your ranting and balderdash. It is good that I have been able to knock you into reality a bit and you now know that you are a man with special needs and not a special man, so you can scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you. People like you that have a disorder where delusions of grandeur are dominant and desire for others who will put you on a pedestal (an addiction you cannot afford to give up), even though it makes you worse, are inseparable.

Bumpkin.

Munzy14:
Hahahahahahaha....Now this is what we call finishing..

Welcome to nairaland where students claim know it all tha a professor.

Welcome to nairaland where over sabi people have an estate.

Wisdom isn't for anyone void of knowledge. Unfortunately, it's very easy for someone like you who is void of knowledge to equate foolishness to wisdom.

Of course, anyone void of knowledge personifies foolishness. Bumpkins everywhere.

DeutschJunge:
Can you please point out again where in my post I said I do not understand “my true self” or needed a psychiatric diagnosis? There’s nobody small minded as a self proclaimed high IQ individual, gaslighting people on Nairaland just to feed their shrimp ego.
Stay away from my mention!

Keep on deceiving yourself and looking for your fellow small-minded elements to tell you what you want to hear to make you feel good while you keep mistaking the fact that you are a special needs person for a special person. Yours isn't introversion and has nothing to do with TSLK personality - Wannabe Abraham Lincoln, Issac Newton, etc.

Once more, only you and small-minded elements like you would not understand that it takes a special breed of woman (a discerning woman that has affinity for people with special needs) to put up with you in the long run, until both of you find yourselves in a quagmire journey.

DeutschJunge:
I knew someone like you would creep up sooner or later. In fact, I am surprised it took so long.

Abraham Lincoln, Issac Newton, Winston Churchill, Vaslav Nijinsky, Nicholas Tesla to name but a few.
They were all special and different humans, they may have died ages ago but their names are house hold names till this day! Heck, Elon Musk is a very special and different human!

Being special, in both of the scenario you listed is a gift from God! Having a gift doesn’t make you “worthy”, you earn “worthiness” through hard work and dedication! Just like the people I mentioned earlier.

So, next time don’t aim at belittling another human because you feel the need to feed you midget ego. Compassion is a word in the dictionary, look it up, learn the meaning and try to practice it.

Good day!

The major problem small-minded elements like you have is a distaste for truth and lack of understanding. If not for your obvious low IQ and delusions of grandeur, you would have observed that I did not make my factual submission to deride you but to help you understand your true self and the way to achieve your desire. Don't worry, the compassion and other varieties of considerations you need, as I stated before, will come from a discerning lady that has affinity with people that have special needs.

Where (among other things) you stated that you knew from childhood that you are special is what caught my attention. Well, no, you are not special; instead, you are a man that has special needs. You and whosoever might come closer to you must accept it that way before you can have any semblance of a healthy relationship.

Being special vs being a special needs person:

The former is a thing of worthiness while the latter can be a result of a disorder or quasi-disorder. Given that you literally belong to the former, you will always require the understanding and consideration of whosoever that gets closer to you for a healthy relationship to take place. A lady that is discerning and has affinity for people with special needs will make a relationship/marriage pleasurable for you.