₦airaland Forum

Techguy96:
Lol, my babe is already learning ui ux design, she passed tho.

Too many lawyers jor. And law firms don't pay well. So entrepreneurship is better.

Pusyiter:
This is not fair
You do not know or feel her pain
Just because you are married does not mean others should not
You are not God to judge a process
Many folks have been married through this platform and others too
Therefore, live and lets live
Free this Sis and if I should have my way, I will link her to someone I trust and fit in on what she wants.....

Link someone you don't know to someone you trust. I see the wisdom in that.

Akalia:
Money should not be on the list because it is not exclusively one party's responsibility to make money in marriage. Both parties should be making money and supporting the marriage but the problem we have in Nigeria is that Nigerian women are too lazy and dependent on men financially and that is why you mentioned money. An independent woman in marriage will not agree with you.

This is a lie.

There are men who are jealous of their wife's money and joint account also causes issues.

Know this and know peace o.

RightToReject:
Forget this lie you've just said here. Actually, there's nothing wrong with the fact that both of you met here and so on; it's nothing to be ashamed of because here is like any other avenue of meeting. Your first post on this thread ought not to be so, though.

Wishing you nothing but a healthy married life and good life in general.

I don't know you and telling the truth won't cost me anything. You can't come to my house to beat me so why would I lie?

I have my reasons for my first comment on this post, if it offends you, it wasn't my attention.

Been on this forum longer than you have to be able to make such deductions, not cause people here are bad but cause the internet has had more sad stories than happy endings when it comes to meeting spouses.

Adios.

RightToReject:
May God take my life within five minutes from now if my posit isn't true according to your husband's submission, which you corroborated. Don't dare me further, lol. I wonder why some of you always lie unnecessarily, even when facts are so glaring and abound.

Well, we didn't meet here.

You just used your life to swear for nothing. My hubby first saw me in church and told his friend that he came with that he would marry me even though he didn't even know my name.

What facts, facts that you read about?

Abeg I no meet my husband for here, I pray for long life for you.

ChiefSosa:
Money!

Thank you.

This is the number one cause, infidelity is number two.

RightToReject:
You and I know that both of you met here, but I'm not here to deride you, just stop the hypocrisy, OK.

Use what you hold dear to swear that we met here.

Since you're Omniscient and Omnipotent.

Don't sha call me a hypocrite unless you have proof that my husband and I met here. If you don't, just take your L and go.

To the Op, I met my husband in Church, we were friends for years before we took it further. It was even when we started courting we knew each other's Nairaland monikers.

If you're meeting guys on Nairaland, just expect nothing but friendship.

Ambeed:
Why sis?

You're better off meeting someone in your daily life and routine, you're sure of meeting them as they are.

Here you'll prolly meet people who claim to be who get are not, people who are bitter from previous experiences, people who prolly just want a hook up and very dishonest people.

Just be yourself, don't put it on your mind too much. There are other places you can meet people but online, especially Nairaland, I strongly go against.

And if you're a guy catfishing here, stoppeet.

RightToReject:
An attitude like yours is rather irritating. I wonder why you have taken to hypocrisy; I mean, apart from you and your husband meeting on Nairaland and gotten married here, before him, you also dated some other men here too. Before I go on, I'm not looking for any hook-up and not interested in OP's proposal, and I wish her nothing but success in her pursuits because I know that there are both good and bad men and women on Nairaland.

Once more, stop being a hypocrite. If you're indirectly saying that yours has been a mistake, I understand; yet, yours shouldn't be a standard.

Now your insinuation that I met my husband here is obviously false. I met my husband in our church, it was coincidental that we are both Nairalanders.

I don't take lightly to people insulting me or my marriage, choose your next comments carefully.

Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much a talker but cool.

If you within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

Abort mission sis.

Abort.

Righteousness2:
Dear, Go do a research. This Matter has been quite a while now.
Sowore and a pastor who was removed for fraudulent activities or something that nature came up with all these. No member has come out with such.

I made my comments based on what was written on the article and the article wasn't biased.

You are the one with enough time to and start researching which members came out with such.

Would it even be a bad thing if a member came up with such? Are our pastors and spiritual leaders above reprimand?

Is that what this is about?

Bar exam wey many go write, pass out come end up as make up artists, bakers and hair vendors on IG.

Righteousness2:
Which Members? Did u see anywhere where a member was stated to have said so?
Sowore raised an accusation. Which the church reported to be lies.

The case at hand is about "release of Information" and not the lies of Sowore

Did you see "when some members" was stated in the second paragraph? Or you wanted the article to name the members who accused him.

The accusation by the members is what prompted the investigation by Sahara Reporters.

Righteousness2:
Are u sure u understood the Matter?

Yes I did.

Read the first two or three paragraphs.

The members accused him of not paying custom duties on the books.

My phobia for toilets, even mine makes me double check it before I just siddon on top.

Too many films done mess with me.

Plus I have a friend whose colleague got bitten by a snake in their office in Abuja while she was using the toilet.

Na God save her say the quickly rush her go hospital.

After inspection of their environment, they discovered they didn't have a soak away. Their office was backing a swamp so that was how the guy had access to the toilet.

Dude is just plain stupid.

A case that's still in court. You allowed your sympathy for the accused and the greed blind you having your fans will clap for you.

If it's your daughter that was the girl on question, will you be so insensitive?

Sense is far from this guy.

kay29000:
Lol! I know. That's why I was surprised she called it that. Anyway, I have been looking for Salmon for a while now ...but most of these fish sellers seem not to know it. And I don't like buying fish from ShopRite. I guess I will go there today to find out if they have.

Na seafood section of big malls you go see am. Some sell whole, some in cuts.

kay29000:
Please someone with the correct name should tell me, thanks. By the way, I bought the two fish for 800 Naira...maybe that can help with the name. The woman says she normally sells for 500 each, but because I am her customer, she is selling for 400 each.

Rotfl. Unless you thief am, you can't get salmon for that price.

wirinet:
Very wrong approach. Why will you advice him to marry a girl who does not see him as the most important person in her life? What kind of marriage is that?

Expecting her to change her attitude just because marriage is like expecting him to stop drinking and smoking just because of marriage

If you ask same guy, he will pick his siblings over his gf.

Things should change after marriage. Not before.

If the relationship no cone lead to marriage nko?

If he wants to be the most important person in her life, let him marry her.

All they both need is counselling on how to transition.

Na today woman dey leave family cause of man wey e dey end in tears?

wirinet:
The OP never asked his girlfriend to throw her family away. He is only asking for them to allow them start their own family without undue interference. If the family can leave their sister in the cold because she decided to start her own family, then that family is very wicked and selfish.

Let him marry her first.

After that, they can both adjust together. After all, the girl's family won't be living with them.

When that bf of gf dump you, your family will be waiting to be there for you.

When that marriage even ends, na your family go give you support wey you need.

If you throw them away because of bf, what happens when that relationship or marriage ends?

You'd be left alone, naked in the cold.

Kraytur:
Things worsened a day ago when he flared up and picked up the knife I drove out and went to get an hotel I been lodged there unable to return to get my things


I’m contemplating going alone or going with cops.


I don’t mind leaving my properties behind

Go with police o. Get your things and stay far away from him.

Kraytur:
I had recently just paid rent for the 3 bedroom we lived in

I hope you both don't live together sha?

If you do, better move out.

Kraytur:
You have spoken well sir

I’m shocked at this

My mother’s family are in complete disdain and do not support it


They know me to be easy going and tolerant

There’s nothing I’ve not done for this boy

Twice he passed out I rushed him to the hospital and payed his bills

He just now had his wedding with an American I helped him

With everything including the link

But this is how he pays me back

Someone I thought how to fish is about to not just bite my finger but end my whole life

Just move on. As far as your conscience is clean, avoid him. Next time he threatens your life again, first report to the nearest police station then to your parents.

Na from clap them dey enter dance.

I will say it over and over again, it is not always that blood is thicker than water.

Blood is thicker than water didn't stop Cain from killing Abel.

It did not stop Joseph's brothers from selling him off into slavery.

If you've tried finding what you did wrong to him and came out clean, avoid the guy. Don't let him know any of your moves.

Competition and envy is what drives him and those are two deadly traits.

I done talk my own.

Na who show you love and wish you well be your family o.

Two people that are willing to respect each other,commit to their marriage vows and communicate with each other.

Na wa o

When the bible asks us to give to Caesar (government) what is Caesar's.

Thank God for knowledgeable and independent minded members who held him accountable.

Judgement will indeed start from the house of God.

toffyz:
@ the bolded, pls what do you actually mean?

A lot of people spend their young age caring for many children. That can be exhausting and cause premature aging. Having less children makes you able to prepare for retirement and enjoy what's left of your life.

Fine man aging like wine.

Age is just a number o, enjoy life.

No born plenty children so that your old age go sweet.