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This is for those who claim "blood is thicker than water". Here is a man lusting after his brother's wife.

You think he will not rape her if he gets the chance?

Na the whole Camp you wan sell?

Do you carry your phone with you?

Telstar:
Nothing wrong with it. It's either you tell me or you keep quiet.

There's everything wrong with it. Know this and learn from it.

Unless you're super close, it's inappropriate. A faceless forum isn't an excuse.

Bye.

Telstar:
That's right, girl. Hope you aren't a virgin?

That's an inappropriate question to ask a woman.

Telstar:
LOL. You crack me up here.

Do you live with her to know she kept herself? Do not believe everything you read online.

My gf was a virgin when I met her but she never disclosed that to me in the first place.

That white guy is not a nigga. He probably doesn't know what's up. Never pressurize a woman to go to bed with you. Just act like a nigga, she would want it.

If that's the case, she's deceiving herself na.

My comment is speaking to many other ladies out there, so if she's lying, I pray other ladies will learn from what I said.

Telstar:
Are you really sure she's a virgin? Because most virgins never say they are until you find out yourself.

Whether she's a virgin or not. As long as she has decided to keep herself till she's married cause she wants to honour God, that's all that matters.

A woman who is really a Christian won't lie about her past. I'm not talking about people who claim to be Christians but are living in sin and fornicating without any care.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

If your reason for keeping yourself is to honour God, God will lead a godly man to you who Loves Him enough to love and wait till you're married.

You shouldn't bring topics like this to Nairaland, all you'll find are hungry Lions looking for new recruits and whom to devour.

NickNyce:
You sound like a potential pastor or pastors wife. I am not encouraging people about premarital sex. I just made it obvious to people making careless comments about it that it happens and not a criteria to condemn any lady or man for finding through love in that manner. My sister I am not against you in any way.

Any Christian is a potential pastor or pastor's wife. 1peter 2:9

No Christian should choose to find love through fornication, once you do that, you deviate from God's plan for marriage and our lives as His Children. Unbelievers can be excused due to their ignorance but if you call yourself a Christian, fornication should even repulse you, you should flee from it.

Let's always say the truth so it can set us free.

From Assurance, to Chioma my lover, to fiancee, to baby mama and now, Mama Ify.

Rain done fall on top fire of love.

See finish done enter am.

Shun premarital sex o, if you can't, don't try that baby mama nonsense. There is no honour in it.

No open eye go enter one chance.

NickNyce:
Sure I totally understand. I'm also from a strong Christian home and even my wife is. Our circumstance might have come in the wrong way as many people put it but it has been the best thing that happened to me and I'm a happy married man. I believe God has forgiven us for sex before marriage and all because I have found favours since I married her and I can't even imagine leaving her.

That our sex before marriage helped me somehow because I thought I was a bad guy looking for a fun moment but we grew beyond sex from her character and personality. Sometimes I go out with friends and they want the fun and clean mouth stuff but then, I can only imagine that with my wife. One funny thing is that even with two kids, sometimes I might be in the mood once she decide to sleep naked and she is not in the mood due to work stress, I just need to maintain and understand. Those times doesn't mean I need to go outside for fun when she is with me 24/7 building our home. This is also vise versa and I honestly adore her understanding as well especially when we can go for months without making love if am busy busy.

If you're forgiven for premarital sex, it's not wise to encourage others to continue on it.

Shall we continue to sin that grace may abound?

If you're enjoying God's favour cause you've been forgiven, it doesn't mean there aren't people paying for the shaky foundation of their marriages.

Let's try to edify each other in the things of God, not to lead others astray.

All the best brother.

Hmmn.

If you have intentions of dining with the devil, make your spoon over long o.
E get why.

We need to be reminded what Christianity means. That someone claims to be a Christian or a church goer doesn't make them Christians.

It's by their fruit that they are known.

We have also been warned that many will have itchy ears going after false teachers with false doctrines that's pleasing to their ears.

That's why we have all manner of churches and charlatans all over the place with followers bring led like rams to the slaughter.

Peace.

NickNyce:
No don't get me wrong, I only tried to explain certain things based on your response to my post. I made the post not to discredit any virgin but based on another post I mentioned where I see people thinking otherwise about sex on first date or sex before marriage. I am not saying its a good or bad thing but only trying to make people understand you should not judge others or feel things must be the way they imagine. Everyone can find happiness in their own way regardless of what circumstances.

So don't get me wrong, I'm not against you

I am saying it strongly that it's a bad thing, coming from my Christian upbringing.

I am not speaking for everyone sha, just Christians.

NickNyce:
You seem to young to understand the Bible. God didn't intend sex to be for man and his wife but for a man and a woman who he made to be a man's helper. That was before it became marriage.
Joseph had a girlfriend named Mary and it was his choice to keep her a virgin till they got married but then she got pregnant. If you study the Bible well you will see that Mary was not the only virgin per say and there were other ladies who had boyfriends like Mary and was having sex already and even bearing children for their boyfriends before they married them. Mary was chosen for a purpose not because keeping her virginity was the main point but because of her personality and believe in God. The Bible makes you understand that the moment you are born, you are already born into sin so it is your responsibility to identify sin and flee from it but many of us fail to understand what sin really is especially when it comes to relationships and sex.

Please, don't lie against the Bible, in the time of Mary and Joseph, Fornication and adultery was so frowned upon that the angel had to appear to Joseph to tell him not to put Mary away.

I no know where you read say them dey cohabit dey born children out of wedlock for Bible o.

Wait, why are you making it look like the virginity is the whole point and not a relationship with God?

I am not too young to understand the Bible. I made a decision when I was barely 15 to submit myself to God and by God's grace, I achieved that till I got married.

Being born into sin doesn't mean God doesn't expect us to get born again. Being born again means turning away from sinful ways, including fornication. I'll leave you with Hebrews 13:4

I rest my case.

NickNyce:
God will not come from heaven to help you build it. A marriage built with a good heart, trust and understanding matters alot.
The Bible says "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God".
From this you already know God has given man the chance to find a wife for himself regardless of how he finds his wife. After finding that wife then man needs to seek the face of God to obtain favour from God because he has put it in his mind that this is the woman he found as a wife and wants to spend the rest of his life wife.

God intended for sex to be between a man and his wife.

Not a man and woman sampling randomly till they get married.

We are to be undefiled before we get married.

Don't twist the word of God abeg.

NickNyce:
Some men can marry a virgin and that marriage will not still last dear. At the end if the marriage crash will she not still remarry as a non virgin and that marriage could probably last.

A marriage whose foundation is built on God and not fornication will withstand any storm, virgin or not.

Shalom.

Kriss216:
I want to believe this advice is not for Nigerian girls.

A closed leg will bring hunger and starvation.


Shalom.

That will make them work hard.

Kriss216:
Did you marry as a virgin?

That is not your business.

To the ladies out there who have lost their virginity to premarital sex, it is not enough reason to continue in fornication.


You can still ask God for mercy and stay away from it, the man God has for you will wait cause he Loves God and knows it's the right thing to do.

Shalom.

NickNyce:
Why would you think of going for 20 dates in the first place. That means your eyes are with 20 different people probably to know who is real. I think you are only suppose to go on a date with someone you already want to give your attention and build something with. So giving 20 people such attention in the name of searching for which one will favour you is very wrong and not a good foundation.

The 20 dates can be at different times in your life. Movie dates, strolls, hikes, swimming, etc.

Imagine if you go for 20 dates and have sex with all of them on the first date.

One guy will now ask you your body count, if you tell him the truth, he'll call you Olosho.

I don't subscribe to sex on the first date or premarital sex at all.

It is not a solid foundation for a relationship.

Yes it is. That's when a woman is most moist. There's a reason for the moistness.

Lady VJ is waiting for some sugar.

Know this and know when to avoid what will make you commit sin.

It looks like HIV/AIDS, staph, gonorrhoea, Chlamydia and herpes went on holiday and are never coming back, cause the way some of you have casual sex without protection is alarming.

You'll hear some come online to say they've gotten a girl pregnant because they didn't strap up. In these days that everyone is sleeping with anyone.

Maybe talk have a duplicate life somewhere sha, tori ko ye mi.

richmond500:
Dating is a not by age, but by mentality, maturity, perseverance, respect, understanding and commitment.
Most times the wisdom and courage to carry on in a relationship will be something u find out as u go on.
Forget about age, I have seen a 39yrs old man that behaves like a child, very annoying with yeye fantasies and I have seen a 23yrs old man that is very smart. Age is just a number, experience is the greatest arsenal u need.

No one is too young to date, if u hadn't any prior experience, then u wouldn't know. Most redpillers here are teens who feel fighting and insulting a woman is show of superiority. Though some monikers are quite smart and i will advice u to follow them, u may learn a thing or few from them, just to mention but a few, Though u should be careful of RomanOff advice, that one no sabi filter words and she go serve u d advice as e deh hot, some of her words can depress u lol.



OH, by the way, I hear say diapers don add money, I just say make I tell u, whatever u do with the info is ur bizzness

My dear, na tough love o. No need to dey sugar coat nonsense.

Sicilyjoe:
Then why all of u are making noise, so make una keep quiet and stop saying one rubbish or another, all the police to do their job

His confession is enough.

No sane person will be peddling child pornography. I am sure you don't know what that means.

Sicilyjoe:
Yes I will show to world to prove is true, let the woman provide the video evidence simple, what is there is she dodging the small breast and toto ?

Rotfl.

Wait until it happens.

The police has already seen what they need to see, the rest is not for your consumption.

Sicilyjoe:
Mumu woman show the video where he is touching her breast and toto or u shut up mugu

If it's your own daughter or sister that was molested like that, will you show the world that kind of disturbing thing?

SEGLIZ:
if you return to thread a couple of ladies mucked the man, though I want to call out monikers, it is rather wrong I feel for the pregnant lady not even the husband.
I know this some trimester, pregnancy trauma or syndrome thing that should have been simply schooling the guy.
even the male on the thread did better. just my observation and opinion though.

Those women have prolly never been pregnant before.

No be everybody wey dey here get sense.

SEGLIZ:
@Romanoff, can you just advice those senseless ladies mucking this young man. I don't expect this, they fail realise a fellow feminine is at the mercy of this man.

How?

I am not following the topic anymore.

What are the insults about?

Instead of you to go and farm.

The baby has Pastor Chris' whole face.