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The baby mama tag will never leave her if he doesn't marry her.

That name "Baby mama" is the most degrading name for a woman in this day and age.

You see that thing about dowry and traditional rites, they don't ever borrow money to do it. If you borrow money to start your marital journey, there is already an error. I have an aunt who literally paid for everything from the traditional rites to the church wedding and till date, that man has not been able to pay any bill in that marriage and she has refused to divorce him after 12 years cause of what people will say. She is not happy, she now looks older than my mum that's her older sister.

Never ever live above your means. You could have insisted she wait for you to have money for the traditional rites.

Never marry cause you think age is not on your side, that's how you end up with garbage.

The signs were there from the beginning, you chose to overlook it and here you are.

My advice for you is that you put your foot down in that marriage, double your hustle and be the provider in your marriage.

So these are their faces

Sometime, the devil uses children to torment their parents.

His life, his choice.

Before you judge him, take note that the fornicator, the adulterer(ess) and homosexuals are going to the same destination via different routes.

Make I carry my wahala dey go.

First work with the one you have here, let's see.

luminouz:
Romanoff....yen yen yen

I now know why your mouth is big

Lol. Na you Sabi

IgboWarlord:
You've seen a marriage scale through after Infidelity...yen yen yen..See as e dey sweet you for mouth..

Na truth I tell you so. A lot of women have stayed in marriages with unfaithful husbands. I've seen marriages where even after their fidelity of the wife, the narrative still went on.

Why I wan lie

CodeTemplar:
I hope you are paying for OP's data then. If not you are just foóling no one else.

I have said my bit.

He should focus on fixing his own marriage.

And please, don't mention me again. It's okay to not agree with what I said but just don't mention me cause I stand by all I said.

Instead of Christians to study the word of God and the signs of the end time, some now follow conspiracy theories and think America is significant to the second coming of Christ.

CodeTemplar:
The way some of you confuse emotional junks for maturity n intelligence is something else.
How do you know the circumstances around his/her own marriage to know his/her own is considered workable?
If you guys have nothing intelligent to say just keep shut at times and read to learn.

As long as you don't pay for anyone's data and you're not mentioned or insulted, kindly offer your own opinion and look away.

Mr. Intelligent.

This is a good idea.

The NIN can be linked with BVN, it can eradicate under aged voting to a lot of extent.

Especially in *clears throat* in our loudest regions.

ANALLORD:
Even if she has her money she will never settle for a less financial Man unless she has hit the wall and ready to settle for less

Young rich ladies are not attractive, they only attract men who are very wealthy than they are... Just look at DJ cuppy for example

How's cooking 4 one's husband and cleaning the house "domesticated" abeg oo

Nope. I know of many young ladies who are married to men that are not as rich as they are and I tell you, their marriages are modern give an take marriages.

Make money o. Make you know wetin de make you marry man wey you wan marry. Make e no just be like say you dey marry the guy cause e dey financially capable.

That is what we have chieftaincy titles for, let Tinubu leave presidency for those who have the masses at heart.

ANALLORD:
She will attract beta men

Men need men who are more financially responsible than themselves

Men also don't want women who are hoes and whores

I still maintain that a woman who has money can attract any kind of man she wants.

And on the plus side, she doesn't even have to cook and clean cause she can lay for those or prove to be "domesticated" so a man can "wife" her.

Woman wey get money na Queen abeg.

demmymoney:
A woman with money will always attract simps and not real men

So a woman should not have money so she can attract real men. The same real men who will insult her for asking for transport fare or urgent 2k.

O wa Lara yin

omojesu202:
I even prefer my marriage to collapse than my brother's own. His problem is my problem. I know how to handle mine, contribute to where I request your contribution or stfu

After 20 years of marriage, your brother doesn't know people to consult for advice to fix his marriage, you had to come to social media to seek the opinion of people, most who will give you negative advice.

I wish Una well.

Now I'll shut the front door.

This is why I always claim to be from FCT, na there them kuku born me.

Women, make your own money o.

A woman that makes her own money is attractive to any man of any age.

Even the ones wey dey call her evening newspaper here no better pass man wey she wan marry.

Brooke60:
Yours is two years and about to collapse, you no face that oo. You are facing the one with a son of 20 year old. Guy!!!

I am telling you. If he put the energy he's using to carry his brother's problem into his marriage, he and his wife will be able to weather the storm approaching their marriage.

People no even wan put in work for their marriage the same way they don't want to put in work in a relationship.

As long as infidelity is not the cause of marital challenges, it can be worked on if the two parties are willing.

I've seen a marriage even scale through after infidelity.

Divorce is just the easiest and laziest way out for most.

Rotfl

If you refuse to know God by yourself, there is no mumu that "prophets" won't use you to play.

MrMacinterchi1:
they were still processing in the first picture. is that the only picture you viewed?

Go back and check all the pictures and get a comprehensive understanding of the picture.

and again , father and daughter do not sew same uniform on wedding days. either traditional or church.
you know this, don't you?

It's based on the first picture that I made my comment.

How does it even bother you?

MrMacinterchi1:
does father kneel with their daughter when giving them out?

You see it now?

They weren't kneeling in the first picture, were they?

He looks like he's her father and he's giving her out on her wedding day.

Jaqenhghar:
What name did I call you? So I have to believe everything you put up shey

I could also call you a liar.

Why I wan lie for you?

I be nurse abi I get hospital?

Just carry your wahala dey go.

Jaqenhghar:
You are lying. You are probably one of the nurses you are telling this bullshit story to say if they pay well they will do their jobs. Lies. I have been to several private clinics its all the same .

Go to Trust Charitos in Abuja.

Some of you will just call people names anyhow online, you don't have a monopoly on name calling o.

May God epp us.

I was recently in a hospital after I was registered with a HMO. I swear, I no believe say na naija hospital I dey. The nurses were so cordial, respectful, attended to me well and were even giving me tips on what I came for.

I got home and was gisting hubby of how nice the nurses were and he said "with how much they are paid and the calibre of patients they attend to, you think they will dare act like unruly general hospital nurses".

I'm not making excuses for the wicked nurses we have but that single experience had led me to believe these nurses can be respectful if they have a lot to lose.

I'm one of the proud followers of Nathaniel Bassey. His page is full of godly content.

cooooooks:
This statement completely glosses over the inhumane and illegal actions of these terrible barbaric women.

Maid is a profession. There are schools in Nigeria and abroad for becoming a maid or housekeeper.

So if someone studies to be a maid or housekeeper or cook, he/she should expect to be tortured and maimed?

No. That's not my point.

In Nigeria, only less privileged children are maids and there is no way to know if they will land in good homes.

Not all women are kind, some are vile and just plain wicked. Some of these maids go through physical and sexual abuse, even as minors and their madams keep mum about th sexual abuse their husbands mete on these maids.

One of the ways to mitigate this is to give birth to children one can cater for so your children won't end up in the hands of abusive women.

Funke Akindele, the real slay queen.

It's important to give birth to kids you can take care of to avoid situations where your kids end up as maids.

The man cheated, someone on front page said his value will not diminish but he can't say same for the woman.

It is well with the African woman.

Sis, you're in a loveless relationship.

If that dude loves you, he'd have helped you at least process the clearing of the car or followed up with you in the entire process, no be until he add money to buy the car.

It's his loss. Meanwhile, don't get carried away being independent that you'll end up marrying a man who is looking for how to eat his cake and have it, na you go dey foot all the bill for that marriage and it isn't palatable.

I've seen it happen to someone dear to me and it almost happened to me as well.

Shine your eyes, use sense do miss independent.