Family › Re: Seven Major Causes Of Divorce In Nigeria by Romanoff(f): 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
No finance there? |
Education › Re: See The Food Given to my daughter today in school by Government. by Romanoff(f): 6:06pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
tollyboy5: Lies, public sch are one of the best. If that was the case, rich folks will put their children there. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 6:05pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Zonefree: If not wickedness, why should a non virgin Nigerian girl demand no sex till marriage? That's a criminal act!
The reason I'm soliciting for Virgin or Nothing is cos I don't want to engage in premarital sex. No Nigerian girl owes any man she dates sex. It's not en entitlement. If a woman who use to fornicate before decides she isn't doing it again, she is well within her right to choose not to. Same as a man. You're entitled to your opinion o. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 5:48pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Zonefree: Blame your gender, they're the proximate cause. They hardly close their legs, always eager to spread them like butter on a bread. And your own gender don't go chasing them abi? Your gender is so bad that even when you meet a woman unwilling to have premarital sex with you til you're married, y'all bolt.  Una no fit hold body sotey una dey even pay for sex. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 5:34pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Zonefree: The man is at the receiving end now, you now called them fornicators and adulterers 
Roman, your judgement here are always one sided, no surprises. When he was skinny dipping, he didn't know? Even person wife fit betray am, talk more of gf. Women too no dey dey receiving end? Let Oga carry his cross and learn his lesson. I don't know how people are so comfortable having unprotected sex in this era when most people sleep with anyone or anything. |
Education › Re: See The Food Given to my daughter today in school by Government. by Romanoff(f): 5:23pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
May God bless you enough to enroll her in a better school.
Public schools these days no be am at all. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 5:22pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Zonefree: When men rape and kill, we condemn them. It's expected you condemn women when they're wicked to their benefactors. The benefactors and the women are all the same, bunch of fornicators/adulterers. There's no kind of vice that isn't found where fornication and adultery are involved so I'm not surprised. Let him sha learn his lesson. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 4:58pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Zonefree: You didn't condemn the wickedness and evil act of your gender . Why? Wickedness of which gender? Is wickedness gender specific? The men that rape and kill, those ones are not wicked, abi? Next time, let him stay off fornication or use a condom or pick his company wisely. I don't feel sorry for foolish people. |
Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by Romanoff(f): 4:46pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
I feel no sympathy for people like this.
You got someone pregnant out of wedlock, you no marry her, instead you send her go US make she go born, she now outsmarted you by terminating the pregnancy and building a good life for herself.
I hope he has learned his lesson sha. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 4:44pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
SyrusdeHansome: Babe i knw many working class ladies that still depend on their partners 4 provisions. It's like ur gender are naturally wired 2b dependent. It's not abt being a student or working class because av also seen girls that are very contented with the little their parents give so that u can never catch them using material gifts. This kinda girls when they say they love u they do that 4 real When you say working class women "depend" on their partners for provisions, please, elaborate. |
Family › Re: Can I Employ My Wife Without Appointment Letter? Need Advice by Romanoff(f): 4:14pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
APC2: Thank you for your advice. I'm not stopping her studies. She will continue like that and probably graduate with pass or third class. It's just to monitor and handle managerial issues as I am so busy working with two Universities and running my PhD but I may employ another person if she refused to do the needful You should employ a manager so she can even focus on her studies. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 4:13pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
SyrusdeHansome: Even the mature nd well to do ladies like u will still see relationships as a means to have all ur needs met. Only 0.5% of Nigerian girls are truly independent So it's best to date small children and expect them to invest financially in the relationship. Unless she's into business or doing runs on the side. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 3:19pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Where do you want a student to get money from, what business is she doing?
You people will not stop dating children who are still dependent on their parents. |
Family › Re: Can I Employ My Wife Without Appointment Letter? Need Advice by Romanoff(f): 3:17pm On Oct 24, 2022*. Modified: 4:14pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Not being book smart doesn't mean she won't do well on business.
Many people doing badly in school are better off learning a trade or doing business.
For now, let someone else manage the business till she can prove to you that she can do a good job of managing the business. When that time comes, don't make her write a letter.
Meanwhile, find out other things she's passionate about, school no be for everybody. |
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Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Romanoff(f): 8:58pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
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Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Romanoff(f): 8:55pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
And two of the ones he just married are beating up each other over packing space.
E be like say them no give them orientation on how to comport themselves. |
Romance › Re: Ur Mom And Sister Beat Up Your Wife. What Would You Do? by Romanoff(f): 8:49pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Michelle70: Calm down, she may have called his mom "a bastard and a prostitute upon nothingness" Still, na cry my mama go cry, wait for her son to come back or call is on the phone to tell us her daughters. Na we go come call out brother, finish am with our mouth. E go know how to take discipline him wife. I'm not exactly friends with my SIL but I'd never condone violence against her. |
Romance › Re: Ur Mom And Sister Beat Up Your Wife. What Would You Do? by Romanoff(f): 8:45pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Michelle70: Probably the woman bullied ur mom with words.
And they had to bully her physically I trust my mama sha, she will NEVER resort to getting physical. But if they beat the wife up and strip her naked, na police station then go go explain themselves. What type of woman will strip another woman naked over a quarrel? |
Romance › Re: Ur Mom And Sister Beat Up Your Wife. What Would You Do? by Romanoff(f): 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
If my mum and sister did this to my brother's wife, na me go call police make them arrest them first.
We go hear both sides of the story for police station, then I go pay police to detain the guilty party.
I will never support violence against a woman.
NEVER. |
Christianity Etc › Re: As a Christian How Will You Handle This by Romanoff(f): 4:47pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Before it starts haunting you, go through the path of restitution. |
Politics › Re: Another Photo Of Tinubu Keeping Fit Surfaces by Romanoff(f): 6:11am On Oct 23, 2022 |
Corridon: They keep recycling old pictures of the push and start engine. Let him do it in a live video before we believe him. It's like they took all the pictures same day so they can be rolling them out one after the other. This same suit picture was taken the same day the suit portrait was taken. |
Politics › Re: Why Are So Many African Countries Still Poor Decades After Independence by Romanoff(f): 9:13am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Because the leaders just want power with no vision.
If you even look at the political parties across Africa, what is their ideology? |
Romance › Re: What Is Advisable In A Situation Like This??? by Romanoff(f): 5:39am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Oga, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you to let go and move on. She obviously has. |
Family › Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by Romanoff(f): 12:58pm On Oct 20, 2022 |
Gloriagee: I kind of like you. The way some women are so unempathic to their fellow women is mind boggling.... It's Stockholm syndrome sis. |
Family › Re: My Wife And Inlaws From Imo State Can Do Anything To Japa by Romanoff(f): 10:02am On Oct 20, 2022 |
Zonefree: If your SIL is from Imo, that makes your husband from Imo too unless your SIL got married to an Imo man. Rotfl. My brother's wife sir. |
Family › Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by Romanoff(f): 9:43am On Oct 20, 2022 |
Rozross: You readily forgive those you love without a doubting spirit. You are kind of toxic, even me that like troubel dont know how to keep grudges, before the next day as e long reach, i've forgotten that we even had issues. Marriage isnt relationship, learn to accept your partner's flaws and weaknesses and forgive them each time their weaknesses is taking it's toll on them. This one isn't even a big issues sef, its you who has been complicating things. He's sorry and begging you for forgiveness and you still dont want to forgive him, what else do you want? His head? Abeg work on your unforgiven spirit. She is not toxic. Her concerns are valid and no two human is the same. Just cause it will be easy for you to forgive such dishonesty doesn't mean it will be easy for her. With a husband that can scam you like that, who needs an enemy? A wife that has always supported you and is equally hardworking. What is in common 200k that he still had to scam her for? They sha both need counselling to get past this, it won't be easy but it's doable. That trust has been broken already so after this, going forward, please, have your own savings as you contribute to the home and family projects and keep receipts. Next land or property you'll buy, inform him about it, carry him along but source for your own agent yourself to avoid situations like this. The trust can't be the same again sha, but na to dey manage the situation and to avoid such in the future. |
Family › Re: My Wife And Inlaws From Imo State Can Do Anything To Japa by Romanoff(f): 9:35am On Oct 20, 2022 |
I don't think it's an Imo state thing. My SIL is from Imo state and doesn't have that mentality.
Na rubbish family you marry from.
Simple. |
Travel › Re: Flooding: Australian Government Warns Nationals Against Travelling To Nigeria by Romanoff(f): 10:05am On Oct 19, 2022 |
It's the way it's being reported on the international media as if half of our population is being wiped away with Noah's type of flood and all na because of humanitarian aid money wey them wan chop. |
Travel › Re: Lack Of Proper Transportation System In Abuja. by Romanoff(f): 9:52am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Owopariola001: I don't believe so.
Yes, the population might have increased over time, but still, the population is small when you consider FCT as a whole.
After Gwags till you reach Lugbe has very little population, in fact, what you have mostly is virgin lands.
After Lugbe, till you reach places like Area 1/Wuse/Berger/Federal Secretariat, etc., what you have are sprinkle estates that are filled with few people.
Then after leaving Abuja metropolis, you have the Nyanya/Maraba area, then you start to enter Nasarawa proper.
Roads leading to Kubwa/Zuba axis are mostly virgin lands, same as the Airport/Kuje axis.
The thing is people are settled in various Local Governments of FCT very well, but major roads leading to them are still scanty with virgin lands. If you know how many villages are between these towns that you mentioned, you go shock and these villages are where 60% of Abuja residents stay. Between Gwags and Lugbe, there are over twenty villages there. Between Kubwa to Zuba, there are over 6 villages (that I know of). All the towns you mentioned here are all under Abuja Municipal area council. There are five other area councils and if you know the number of villages that are there ehn. And many civil servants especially come from these places. I do believe over time, Abuja will need a good transport system cause not everyone will be able to afford Abuja town, especially civil servants and low income earners. That's why the rail system and functioning bus transport system has to work. That way, other Area councils will even develop faster if everyone sees there's no need to live in Abuja town. |
Family › Re: Ladies Don't Try This If You Have Quarrel With Your Husband by Romanoff(f): 9:45am On Oct 19, 2022 |
lovediehatelive: That communication part is highly underrated.
Many couples don't know the power of communication.
Some may think that giving their spouse the silent treatment is punishment, but it does no good because it could lead to a void where someone else outside is patiently waiting to fill Effective communication cannot be over emphasized. |
Travel › Re: Lack Of Proper Transportation System In Abuja. by Romanoff(f): 9:27am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Owopariola001: You're right.
The buses are too big and the passengers are small in number.
Even the small cars for public transport don't get filled up quickly, and the drivers won't want to move until they fill their cars. The alternative is to join any of the private cars that are going in your direction.
I think the problem is that FCT as a whole still has few populations. And people only move from one end to another. Few population you say? Go to Nyanya Maraba area, you go shock. Even Kubwa Bwari axis sef, no be here. Lugbe and Airport road environs nko? I've been in Abuja since 96, trust me, Abuja has become too populated. |