₦airaland Forum

odinson1:
If it was the man who cheated and plotted to kill the wife,you wouldn't wish him well like you did her.
You are an hypocrite

At the end of the day, will I kill a man who cheated on me and had plans to kill me?

No be to wish am well make e dey go?

What else should be do to her?

Kill her?

Burn her?

Burn her things?

JasonScoolari:
Let's assume this story is real.... Are you really wishing an adulterous bitch and potential murderer well?

My dear, wetin I for talk?

That he should kill her?

Her karma is in front and there's nothing he says to her that will measure up to how much she'll reap for her wickedness.

If this is a lie, your lie will befall you.

If it's true, I admire your courage.

Na God save you. An adulterous spouse can kill. Thank God she had no fault against you. Wish her well and I pray God sends you a better woman. Q

Rotfl.

Some girls came to this life to not lift a finger to do any work. If not, what is she on salary for?

She be your wife? Hope you dey give your mama as much monthly sha.

Pure unprofessionalism

My dear, na who chop belleful dey contribute to family function. Your wife knows what you're going through, she needs to support you by telling her family what you both are going through and that you people cannot contribute financially to the burial but your support in other ways.

No go Kee yourself.

pasuma:
I can bet you've never done business in Nigeria before, if you did, you won't type this

I have been doing business in Nigeria Since 2011 and I'm still doing business in Nigeria.

Next?

calculator123:
1M can buy a plane ticket to the USA

How will he survive after getting there?

Maynmann:
700k can take you to UK

Where will he stay after he gets there?

How will he survive with 1m?

Tunjibalogun:
You must not black mail people with their moms and sisters before u pass your message. Stop this nonsense. No one owes you how they think, afterall ladies are doing it the wrong way just to show men their breast

Blackmail?

Make anybody thing wetin e wan think na.

Breasts cancer can happen to anybody.

Just take the message and spread the awareness.

If you're not interested in the awareness, that one na your own.

I don't know why my comment has you triggered.

This is not true.

There is no manual for a happy marriage asides love your wife, submit to your husband and don't commit adultery.

Your sleeping arrangements or change of name or who does the chores and pays the bills or who cares for the children is totally up to the couple.

No use how you think say marriage spos be to dey judge other people marriage.

The message is an awareness for breast cancer and the need to go for mammograms regularly, once in Two years if you're 30-40 and once yearly from 40 and above.

The need for self exams every day can't be over emphasized.

Early detection saves life.

Think about your mum, wife, sisters and female cousins when you read this and take your filthy mind out of the gutter.

Let's share the grace

WoroSeeWoro:
well no difference but so sad its the woman that bears the most stigma...its a mans world....and e de pain una......generation of oloshos

As long as you agree that there's no difference between the two of them, that's okay for me.

Your people should get that child a psychologist.

There's something going on with that child that's making him act out.

Please. It's important

May God help him.

But is it easy to straighten dried catfish?

chemberlin:
I was expecting something from this story and I didn't see and that part is that he is assaulting you. Since he is not then I advise don't leave. Look for ways to get things going to train your kids. He will be tired of his new found life style and get back to his senses.

Really?

If it's your wife doing this to you, will you accept this type of advice?

phemmyfour:
Ebuka? He should be managing others

EME also brokers deals for their artistes.

I believe EME was responsible for the Bill gates gig that Ebuka recently went for in New York.

Wetin person wan call this one?

JasonScoolari:
Tobi Baker?


Never knew he was into confectioneries...

No mind auto correct jor.

Good for them o. Cause I know they only manage artistes, they no longer do recordings.

Plus most artistes they manage are doing well.

Ebuka, Tobi Bakre, Mike Edwards. These are the ones I know.

candidtalk:
Let's start telling ourselves the truth na. Shebi we all get working brain?

What "child welfare" can cope with an irresponsible adult population where one unemployed man thinks he can marry 5 women and have 25 kids without the income to give those children a secure and sound upbringing that will make them productive members of society rather than a menace to others?

I just don't ubderstand Nigerians. We are all personally irresponsible, negligent and ignorant yet we expect leaders to solve all problems for us.

Why has Nigeria not put a compulsory limit on children per household, perhaps like 2 per household, as China did to curb population explosion that was threatening the future of China?


It is because we cannot talk honestly to each other to accept personal responsibility. Northerner will tell you it is his religious right to marry ten wives and bear 30 children.

Southerners will feel it is okay to impregnate women up and down who then deliver kids destined to be future cultist and killers because no father is taking care of them.

I will just never understand why we cannot see that the progress of Nigeria will comefrom.all of us taking responsibility for our actions.and choices.

It's the same child welfare that should curb irresponsible reproduction.

Rozross:
Then let her spill more to prove me wrong.

Unless the "more" is that she committed adultery, the husband is an adulterer.

Rozross:
The way she's wanting to go back by all means speaks volume and from her story she dodged saying exactly what happened between them because she's at fault else she'll spill everything to get sympathy. Eat your trash words kid

She might not be at fault. She might just want to go back cause she is dependent on the man.

I know someone like that. Though she now has a plan to save and leave after her first finishes secondary school which will be soon.

This is one of the reasons it's dangerous to enter a marriage without a source of income. You will take all kinds of nonsense and lose your self esteem and self worth cause you can't take care of yourself and your children without a man.

That man has always had that girl as his side chic, the fight you had was just an excuse to bring her in.

You better look for something to do, gather money and start planning your exit out of that marriage. That man doesn't love or respect you and is already enjoying his life of adultery.

Nigeria doesn't have any child welfare in mind.

Make people just dey born anyhow.

Aklee4994:
God want to use this guy to save his innocent cousin from her

I understand but diplomacy has to be used here.

Make e no too do gragra about the matter, before he loses his cousin who is in love.

Let him not make it look like a do or die affair, it could backfire.

Wisdom is necessary here.

That guy in my family I spoke about can't even tell his family what he's going through cause of shame. If op doesn't want to lose his cousin, he should be wise and diplomatic.

udofia234:
Let her tell my cousin, I don't care!!! but her marrying my brother is a no go area!!! I will go to any lent to stop them! I meant it

Sha be careful, cause it seems more like a vendetta against the girl than genuine love for your cousin.

The girl will tell him what happened and claim she was a terrible person back then and it could be true.

The cousin might be so on love that he will overlook anything you say and will even rebel against his family for the love of his life.

I've seen this happen in my own family. Even when family decided against the union, guy went ahead and family didn't attend the wedding.

Na him know the shege wey him eyes dey see for the marriage now, na people dey tell is, e no fit use mouth tell him family.

What God has joined together, let not man put asunder.

Just thread carefully, don't allow your emotions get the best of you, else you'll become the enemy.

And the girl in question might have actually changed and regrets her wickedness.

WoroSeeWoro:
Look cant you make your point clear without mentioning someone sister and mother or any females in their life...what type of mindset do you have....why is it peppering you ...

WTF...seems you are one of them , cos if you aint you wont be here fighting and defending a harlot

If my comment seemed like I was defending a harlot, then you have some serious comprehension issues.

Read my first and second paragraph slowly and try to understand it.

My last paragraph is the whole truth. There's no difference between the men who sleep with hook up girls and the hook up girls themselves. Both are fornicators.

Unless my last paragraph dey pain you sha.

Wizywiz:
I use to think you are a male hiding behind a female F Monika.....but I know better now..

Wow, really?

What have you that impression?

Moymoy:
Kogi people were not consulted by the then governor, Abubakar Audu, before signing off Kogi state's crown jewel away to Dangote under shadowy terms and conditions....

They should hold their lawmakers accountable then.