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Baawaa:
This is what happen when a beautiful lady marry a ugly lazy guy

I'm telling you. And he calls himself "Wisdom".

That's what a lot of those men do in Abuja. They are jobless and homeless and always move into the house of any woman who has a good job and a house.

This wisdom guy is actually from the pit of hell, he killed her without remorse and called her family to come for her corpse.

May we not marry one of the devil's spawn in Jesus name.

saphiere:
Mention me on a thread where Nigerian woman commits rape crime and drop your acct no on the thread I will reward you. I give you till Sunday to do that.

I can't search for one. But I have read of cases on twitter and I know gist who were abused by their maids or aunts.

Ehen.

So good they named him twice.

He'll be like "come over here you cute little zebra".

I like his outlook on body positivity.

Even men have stretch marks.

saphiere:
Because I have a dad and brothers, men should continue raping women right?

No. Are your bothers and your father rapists?

If they are not, you are calling them rapist with your generalization.

saphiere:
But why is rape common with men?

I don't have an answer to your question but then, there are women who also abuse minors (rape).

I don't believe in making generalizations, else I'd be guilty of what I'm accusing others for.

saphiere:
Maybe it was a neuter gender that raped her.

I know it's a man. But it doesn't mean all men are that way.

That one woman is a ho doesn't mean all women are.

saphiere:
May the soul of this innocent girl rest in peace and may God punish every male on the surface of this earth.

Ah. This is too much o.

You have a dad and brothers o.

Not all men are goats o.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I just feel that's one side of the story. What if the woman wasn't sick and did not die and still love the man,shebi you know you will be the aproko and it's you they will use and settle...

Just kidding! Yes it's all shades of wrong what the particular monster did and he should be thrown in the deepest part of hell but don't forget ladies marry kidnappers,thieves and still love them forever more.

I'm sure it has to do with individual differences and what the environment is ready to accept. If it was against the law for a families to scatter, nobody for think am.

Marriage is damn hard and if you aren't ready for it,don't jump in as it's not some sex fufilling fantasy reproduction scheme..I don't even know if I'm making sense

I do. But then, people shouldn't marry if they are incapable of being faithful to one partner. In this case, I am speaking of serial cheats and people who already knew they can't be faithful to one person, yet they got married.

derecho:
Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so" -Matthew 19: 8

If you understood my last reply, you won't say the italicized.

Yes. But Jesus agreed to Moses' teaching on the subject in verse 32.

derecho:
Go and study your Bible my sister.Jesus didn't permit divorce on any ground. Moses did because of the hardness of men's heart.
Bad times includes things that will test your love(as a man) and submission (as a lady) not only sickness or poverty.

Matthew 5:32.

That was Jesus speaking. Not Moses.

I refuse to believe infidelity is a hard time.

If it was the woman who committed the infidelity, will you be saying all of these?

derecho:
Though I don't support infidelity in marriage but have you asked yourself
1.How they met?
He might have met her as a philanderer.

2.Did she marry him only for the good times?


You may think our mothers were stupid and sheepish but I believe they are wiser than many girls of nowadays.
Mind you,Going away with the kids may not be as easy as you think.
It is better to look before you leap.Marriage no be play

So bad times includes infidelity?

Bad times are things like sickness, brokeness, and down times, not infidelity please.

In short, infidelity is so bad that it's the only ground Jesus allows for divorce in a marriage.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I didn't mean it in a demeaning way..I mean thats why my mother is still with my dad(na that kind way I mean Old skool marriages in general)despite how my papa dey misbehave that time. If she had left, we wouldn't have had double parenting, it would have been woeful!.. they are a blessing,thank God for my mama patience. Now she's the boss,papa don old..E no fit do gra gra,mama dey call the shots..

I kind of feel it's best to leave a cheating partner, especially if they do it all of the time.

The kids are watching and they will think it's how men are spos to behave.

My neighbor is a serial cheat, he cheated on his wife when she was very Ill and was even bringing his lovers into their matrimonial home.

This woman died even after she had gotten well, e no go pass high BP wey kill her because of her husband's infidelity.

If she had left, she'd have still been alive to raise her kids.

Now the man has sent all the kids to boarding schools and has moved on, guess what?

He's still womanizing and it's not even been 6 months since his wife died.

There is a 70% chance that you're the father.

Note that weeks starts counting from her last period before y'all had unprotected sex, so ask her when her last period was.

OyeofIkoTuN:
False...same reason why your mother is still married to your dad despite the fact all men are trash..! Is she not enjoying the benefits now? Nothing like a man in the house..Why do you think some husbands fit get accident and dey wheel chair but the woman go dey with the man for life, is it because she can't take care of kids, won't they grow and be independent ?oga stop this thing abeg ..Source of income or not,if that woman goes alone, mehn body go tell am..even with her billions...Ikeji couldn't stand it na..she must call a man that junior is sick, junior is this,junior is thaf despite her billions..Guy you no fit understand why God create woman from man..it's permanent, once you live,it can never be the same again. Those that remarried, very wise move. Men dey needed

You could have said anything you wanted and still made sense without the first sentence you made.

Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

MODIFIED

Y'all can quote me till thy kingdom come.

There's of course a few exception to the rule but most women who left cheating me had their own source of income and could do well without the man.

Check out the "I'm staying for the kids" crew,na because them no fit take care of the children and themselves.

Ekugbeh:
200k for a month. That na money?

Find out how much teachers are paid, at least, you can live a decent life with it.

And the price I put there is an average.

She's myopic in her reasoning.

Here in Abuja, high end schools pay their teachers more than administrative staff.

I know teachers who earn well above 200k in private secondary schools.

BRATISLAVA:
Irritating is seeing girls of 17-25 referring to themselves as that. Maybe they're trying to normalize the usual insult they get from men by devaluing its "power". Even on this forum, you'll notice that angry involuntary celibates refer to every perceived female as a bitch.

It is disgusting.

This one can also rape his 5 year old daughter if he has one.

You just have to be honest with the person.

Most people don't know how to brush well, they use less than a minute to brush and don't even brush the inner teeth properly.

Some don't wash their tongue or don't even know how to wash it.

Some use the excuse of having a poor gag reflex to avoid washing their tongue.

All these can cause mouth odour.

First ensure your friend brushes well, of he or she does, then they should see a dentist for proper management of Halitosis (Mouth odour).

E done reach when people wey get belle and their spouses go dey fast and pray not to born this type.

I was living opposite a C and S church, once 11:30pm meet me on Friday night and I never sleep, high BP go start to worry me cause when they start their weekly vigils by 12.00am, no sleep for me niyen till 5am.

Their Sunday services that don't end till 2pm nko?

Baba no just send anybody papa.

Burgerlomo:
But I thought Kwara and Kogi are northern States nau because ayam not understanding, I don't get it and I don't wanna forget it

They are geographically placed in the north but Kwara is predominantly yoruba speaking and the Okun (Kabba) people of Kogi are Yorubas.

umuerri1:
Lol the one I just called said 20k for consultation I don’t mind though.. I heard endoscopy can detect a vast majority of problems not only stomach issues

Very true.

This is the devil at work.

blaise26abj:
I find it degrading so much it makes me cringe whenever they say it . Damn . No self respect at all . You will never find sensible people and people raised in good homes say such a thing .

It is cringe worthy now.

Uptheante:
But thats what they really are

Your sisters and mum too?

Cause this generalization doesn't exclude them, shey you know.

It's so distasteful when women call themselves "bitches".