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TechSpecialist:
you wey talk say you get manners, what happened to your wandamaximoff account?
No be mods ban am because you dey insult people papa.
Be like you no sabi say I know you.
I go post your pictures on this forum so everybody go see you and take note of you

Mods no fit bam person account. Na me deactivate am the same way wey I deactivate my Kenny gee account. I no dey insult who no insult me. Unless you're a yahoo boy and you feel triggered.

Else, did I insult you in any way?

I'd have stooped to your level this morning but I won't let you kill my joy this morning.

Now adios.

TechSpecialist:
another illiterate spotted.
If you been gree go school you no for dey reason poorly like this.
even as you old so you fit still Try take jamb then enter university e go help your life make you no go reason like this embarrass yourself for public

As I no go school wey I get manners, e better pass you wey go school wey no get single home training.

Wetin be all your school without manner of approach and single courtesy?

Make I keep my illiteracy, thank you.

And you said yahoo yahoo should not continue?

Where's the reward for excellence and distinction?

Even BBNaija better pass degree nowadays.

ashewoboy:
how you take know? you get yahoo boyfriend.

Na my younger friends dey ja mi si o.

Once you have someone who is always attaching money and grace quotes on whatsapp, na the yahoo boy be that.

freshalien:
You must have heard of Nigerian men abroad who come back to pick wives only for them to be regretting years later because the woman would take advantage of the system’s loop sided favoritism towards women and begin to misbehave even kicking the man out of his house. Some have ended with the men killing their wives and going to jail for life. Na only woman wey struggle for abroad like me, I go marry because she would know what it means to hustle abroad and make you way rather than have things handed to you on a platter of gold.

Yes, I've heard of such stories.

I've also heard many of such end well.
I've also heard of Nigerian wives come back home to relocate their husbands and it ended well.

The sort of things we read on Nairaland these days ehn.

Really.

deeLima86:
I am not exaggerating. Our ppl dey live sodom and Gomorrah lifestyle over there.

I dey hear the gist.

deeLima86:
I tell you, it’s easier for a camel to pass through the eyes of a needle than for guys/babes to find life partner in Canada. Nor be joke oh!
What is trending now over there now, it’s guys looking for 3 some and the babes also enjoy going with their fellow friend to bleep a guy just to have fun. Those people don’t have iota of morals in them anymore. The married people are even worse, they keep searching everywhere for random sexx.

Our people are really loosing it in oversea. They get easily carried away and forget so quick the reason they left Nigeria.

My dear, the stories I've heard about their dating life on Canada is scary.

TheManOfTheYear:
Risky venture.
I wouldn't advise my brother to come back and marry Naija girl

Well, that's you.

truthsayer009:
Okay, let's make a bet. Connect them and allow things to flow. Don't do more than that, just connect and leave them alone. If the relationship work in a year, i go wire you 100 pounds. If not, no wahala.

People leave Lagos to Abuja, Lagos to PH to visit babe, it is now ontario to Toronto that is a problem. Lmao.

And how many of those long distance relationships didn't end in tears?

I actually connected them so one could put the other through on job applications, house rent and certifications.

But I know in my heart of hearts why it will not proceed further than that and it's what I've listed above.

Aguogba:
Toronto is a city inside Ontario province. just as Ikeja is capital of Lagos state.

Who has time to be shuttling work and a relationship like that, and like I said, there are other hindrances.

TheManOfTheYear:
It's only hard to find love there for women. Lol

Like I said, a guy and a girl that I know there.

The best friend of my male friend over there came back to marry his Bayelsan girlfriend.

She done dey Canada with am there.

tydi:
Even divorced she still respectfully has her wedding ring on. If Na Naija girls now she for don fling the ring enter river

Will you throwaway as valueless ring into the river?

truthsayer009:
My sister, age is just a number. Connect them if you really care about them and let love do the rest, to find love for Canada na war oh.

The age is the first hindrance.

Second is they live in separate towns, one in Ontario, another on Toronto.

Then one is a muslim, the other a christian.

Ko le werk noni.

Raalsalghul:
Connect the two together na.

Shuu?

The guy is way younger.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries. She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them. It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

If you've found a decent woman in her, hold her tight and after you've relocated, marry her and work on her relocating with you.

Word on the street, especially canada is that it is hard to find love there, especially amongst Nigerians.

All everyone wants to do there is have fun and move on to the next one.

My friends in Canada for over two years now, none done see relationship, a guy and a lady.

Na so so dating woes I dey hear.

If she not worth it, tell her now and let her go o.

I'll.like to find out how this ended.

Bush baby o.

authority2006:
Still, don't you see sex as doing your husband a favour even in marriage?

I don't wish to discuss my sex life with a stranger.

Thank you.

authority2006:
You meant most of our ladies who traditionally believed that having sex with men means that they are doing the men a favour and always use it as a weapon? I don't really blame them at all, most of them can never enjoy sex because the part of their body that could make them enjoy sex has been cut off.

Did I lie @romanoff

Sex is sacred and outside the bounds of marriage, it is fornication.

Thank you.

And na Mercy remain to marry, abi?

They are both correct depending on the context.

atiku4President:
And you dont think the man could be innocent. A lot of kids these days act wild when on drugs or want to get noticed. Tgey throw caution to the wind

I know of someone whose neighbour in Kubwa locks his children without food and abuses his daughter since their mum died.

No one knew he had kids inside till one of them broke out of the house and the whole gist came out.

The world has become something else. Even what you can't conceive in your head is already happening.

judetov2:
Oh no, I doubt if that man sexually abused that girl.

So the girl will just wake up and accuse her own father?

The meeting cannot hold in Nigeria abi he received intel that they are planning to bomb Nigeria from space ni?

Ayanwukoma:
The first wife he married didn't last a year he fired her, just because he saw her with another man at a restaurant eating.


the second wife, is presently in her father's house, because he says she doesn't listen to instructions, since 2012.



just this evening, a group of elder men from his third wife family came visiting my father to talk to his brother....I knew they must have been another issue...


so this left me asking is he the problem or his wives?
lalasticlala

Your uncle will get tired and will prolly die alone cause even his kids will leave him alone (since he can't fire them).

If you can't tolerate and be accommodating, just no marry.

If you ask his wives about how much they had to put up with, you go give them award.

Your uncle is the problem.

toujurs:
It's girls like you that protect your vagina, like its the only thing you can offer to a guy. Levels pass levels, in lagos there are top class ladies that are doing very well, hard working ladies, business is business and pleasure is pleasure. Its not all these broke ass bitches on this forum, that can't even pay for a drink. Only to open tow tow. And close, ladies loves sex too, and some hard working ladies don't hide it the fact they like it, if you look attractive. Most of them are still unmarried because of their taste for men

You're right, some of us don't just give sex like it's directions we are giving to strangers and it's not a bad thing.

Thank you.

But to me, sleeping with him is unnecessary.

He still got what he wanted and you even helped him to dump you.

DaHrNn0001:
This kayamaya shit just shows how degraded our society is & how bad our girls gone.

This post further buttresses my point that Kayanmata as jazz to get and keep a man doesn't work.

If it does, Jaruma will not go to all these length to do advert, especially, false advert.

Those who have used her products and it worked would be the ones to do free word of mouth advert for her.

WHITELIGHTER:
Yes, blood is thicker than water...haven't u seen the opposite of all you listed above? Like he said, go reconcile with your siblings

And like I said, I am not in conflict with my siblings.

And since you agree that I've seen the opposite of what I put there, it means that blood isn't always thicker than water.

Thank you.