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Ebonyi seems to be the most pretty to me.

As soon as they both agreed they are dating. Na American lottery visa that needs time to prepare their paperwork before heading to the US embassy abi na oil contracts that one needs all the relevant signatures before receiving funding to execute the contracts? Ordinary fvck kwa

Lol, methink this would have an adverse effect. Once divorce becomes a funfair people won't feel ashamed or fear stigmatisation as divorcee, they will just divorce more quicker. I really think it may be worse off.

layla129:
lol. maybe true but i doubt it

You seem to know this guy quite well. Are you the one involve or a friend? Coz most stories here are always about friend even when the posters have deep details of the 'person' involve. How about you give him more green light lol.

Cutehector:




Ronald 4lif come and read this

Lol. Funny question, don't even know how to address her stupídity so I'll pass jare.

iAmCharis:
What crime exactly did this Tompolo guy commit?

Bros, there's a case of him acquiring a federal government land worth billions of naira without following due purchasing process and it's being believed that the figure was highly inflated. There are other cases of him involving in shady oil contracts but I don't know the exact details.

Maybe relationships is a drainage pipe of his scarce resources and he's realised the best way to save more is to avoid them? Have you thought of the fact that some guys prioritise money and savings more than relationship especially if most of the women they encounters will some way or the other expect them to take over some of their financial responsibility? Of which they can't afford? Hello?

wristbangle:
Excellent view ronald4 lif. I feel when it comes to companionship with old friends, one should not neglect them totally. Even though they keep bothering you unnecessary for money and all that, just be blunt to them about how tough things are and the best you can do is take them out to a joint and spend what you can afford.

Bros, it's not about going to joints or say parting away with few thousands, no that amounts to nothing. Some of these friends don't even need those few thousands or drinks etc. They want and expect you to assist in stabilising them up with a business, which could run into a hundreds of thousands or million(s). That's the problem.

And even if you've got a few millions as a hustler you have other priorities than shortchanging yourself of such amount of money. Maybe you're saving to construct your own house even if it's a 3bed bungalow or planning to get married and need to prepare yourself with the challenges that comes with the union. No one will distance themselves from an old friend just coz of drinks or little stuff like that, it's more deeper than those stuff.

Who British/American accent epp.

While you've got some of your points aptly articulated some aren't exactly true. The thing is people always reads meaning to whatever thing an abroad returnee does or say. Everything you do and say is misconstrue by many as a display of flatulence and gasconade.

About the issue of restaurant, the food maybe delicious and yummy but the environment was untidy or the seller wasn't neat or the dishes on which the food were served. Some people take into cognisance the overall hygiene and neatness of an eatery before patronising one. When a bourgeoise of Nigeria refuses to patronise such eateries we find it normal but once it's someone resident abroad we perceive it as pomposity. It's not always so.

On the accent thing, I think Nigerians who have never been to the West are the ones who brandishes accent about more than abroad returnees. On personal observation, most ladies I interact with or accost at a public place all want to sound British/American in a bid to appear túsh. For their friends they are being impressive but for someone who can differentiate British accent from the fake ones they appear silly. True some from abroad also wants everyone who cares to know that they have got some British/American accent but residents of Nigeria are more culpable in such act.

Unless you've a place where you live and personally built, hotels are the most convenient for someone coming to spend few weeks. You want your privacy and don't want to live in your family abode coz you've got your own paroles to run. Nothing wrong with that.

One very sad thing most people abroad faces is the difficulty in putting up with old friends. This is so coz most of the time all they want from you is money and if you've got non to spare you tend to avoid them. And when you distance yourself from these old friends they think you're being proud coz life is treating you fine. No, you just think it's better to maintain a distance since you both can't gist and laugh over funny stuff like before without anyone being expectant or thinking you're obliged to help them.

This is diversionary tactics and the military shouldn't carve into it. The clown Tompolo is still taking refuge in the creeks and the military shouldn't stop the hunt for him there.

They seemed very happy and had lots of fun, could be students unwinding the stress of school work.

Even with all the hardship and economic challenges we face in Nigeria we still appear very happy more than netizens of developed countries with all their wealth.

Till date, one of my happiest moments was when I was an undergraduate, there's nothing more fun than being a student in a Nigerian university. The jonsin, laughter, disses and of course girlfriend runs is nonpareil.

martineverest:
from the amount listed above, it shows that the rich will have more blessings and the poor people blessings will be lower... If u can't afford the minimum sacrifice no blessings for you

Exactly. It means the poor will be left out in these blessings. Doesn't make sense. As a redeemer, I'm glad you can see the anomaly in this sacrificial sacrifice or whatever it's called.

martineverest:
This is segregation sacrifice

What does segregation sacrifice means, bro?

Ginaz:
That's it, sex is the first thing that comes to mind whenever a guy wanna be in a relationship. Like what's wrong if he doesn't have sex!

What's wrong if he want sex?

BoiledHead:
Bros.. I don't want girl on the street. I would really like from social media

Okay na, good luck on that. Stopped at badoo yet?

With the way you lots keeps painting a picture of how desperate Naija girls are after money and hungry one would think for someone who's got some change to spare all they need do is wave down any girl walking down the streets and say hey "how much will it cost me to have your undiluted company tonight"? And viola she's on your bed straffing you till you're exhausted. Or is the noise all a hot air?

Yawns.

DanceVille:
Lmao.. Same here bro.


You will feel chasing that person, especially if it's a guy seating beside her away.

Yes and the most painful one is if you know where she normally sits every Sunday's and go early to secure a sit near hers only for her to come and sit somewhere else. Chai, that one can pain ehh.

That number 3 sha, if I hear say I'm not guilty. And it's very paining when you get to church only to realise that there's no space near where your crush is seated.

Nice one. Hope they maintain it, that's the key.

Nice but not just in Lagos. Should be applicable everywhere in the world safe for the fourth point.

CaptainEColeJr1:
*Yawn*

Is this the best you could dig up?

Insults insults insults..

Probably you have been insulted your entire life that you can't spend a day without doing likewise!

you're so ludicrous, trust me, I'm definitely not willing to tread a bellicose path with you..

If you check your old pendulum clock,you'd realise its just some few minutes to Sunday

But nonetheless!

I have to pay homage to your dumbness.. you lack an incise analysis to mature discussions!

just like a kid..


bye!

They throw invectives at you and when requite in kind they form mature. Dude, you're a joke. Buzz off.

dollyjoy:
WHAT!!!


I have seen you Ronald, I don't have the time to dig out posts. You are guilty of that,everybody is.

You called my fingers leprous Quite laughable, coming from a dude who asked me to post evidence of what i know he is guilty of, post the pics of my leprous fingers or shove your advice than your hypocritical throat.

When you rush to make allegations and when boxed to a corner to provide evidence you should be able to or not make claims you have no prove to buttress. Your fingers shouldn't be itching next time. In a legal context, your retort makes no sense.

CaptainEColeJr1:
Why are you this dumb?


How does "reflection" on a mirror correlate with the topic of discussion?

Do "reflection" take place at night on a mirror?

If you had paid more attention during physics class back in your high school .. you probably wouldn't have erked a folly of yourself

See how dumb you are and gleefully assuming others are as silly as you. You're an apraxiac tool for not assimilating what taking a look at the mirror reflection delineates. You make an unfounded accusation and I told you that not everyone is as you. The only reason you'd assume I'm guilty is coz you're and I'm not a pathetic id1ot like your frustrated self. Now cease from spamming my mentions with drivels.

CaptainEColeJr1:
Nigga... you've definitely been guilty of this somehow ..

there's no point trying to play on a congenial path

Pal, you shouldn't mistake me for the reflection in your mirror. Please desist from quoting me if you have nothing rational to say.

dollyjoy:
Are you kidding me?? I should reproduce a modified comment?? What is the guaranty that you wouldn't deny since i don't have the spacebooked comment??

When you make allegations you must be able to provide evidence. There's no way I can deny an obvious evidence. To know someone modified an original comment after it hits FP, another person must have quoted the previous unmodified one. So, reproduce any or you have to be careful how you flex your lepromatous thumbs next time.

dollyjoy:
Ain't you guilty of that

Reproduce a comment of mine where I modified after the post hit FP?

All true. Some are so petit so much that they drop a comment on a thread and when realised the post hit FP they rush to modify all in a bid to garner likes that doesn't add a kobo in their account. Pathetic.

Mehn the lady on green is chick. Look at those legs.

Myhonor:
Hello landers... I just created the thread because am confused... I started dating dis introvert because I thought dey were d best in relationships... My date is very calm, gentle, a gud cook and very intelligent.. He is actually a medical student in his finals... He is a kul guy but he has some annoying flaws.. He is kinda strange.. There are times he just gets angry for no reason.. This has happened like twice now.... After some time I asked him y he behaves like dat and he told me dat happens to him ever since he was young, dat he just gets angry and won't be in the mood to talk to anyone... He apologized so I 4gave him.. There was a time he dreamt I was pregnant so we both laughed about it den I asked wat if I get pregnant wat is he going to do... All he said was dat he was going to deny the pregnancy. .. I asked if he was serious he said yes and he was being honest with me(don't even know if he was still joking) so I just forgot about that issue... So there was a time we were discussing and I asked him wats going to happen to us after we graduate becus we both stay in different states.. I stay in delta and he stays in ph but we both attend the same sch.. After asking him dat he said he hasn't tot about it but it was gonna be difficult for him to be in a long relationship because we wud barely see each other.. I told him not to worry becus my sis is still around in ph but he was saying he might do his housemanship in lag or abuja and probably be staying with his uncles making it difficult to accommodate me.. I was disappointed with his response tho, so I asked him if he even has future plans for me dat he should tell me now instead of wasting my time... He told me he loves me but he hasn't really tot about dat... He said I was expecting too much from him and he is scared of disappointing me later in d future... He later told me he was going to think about everything and give me a response nextweek....d problem is dat I feel i acted too desperate by asking if he has future plans for me bcus am still young just 21 and he is 24.. . But I just wanted to be sure I wasn't wasting my time with him.... Sometimes I just feel like breaking up with him but I can't bcus I really love him.. I still have mature suitors asking me out but am scared because I think dey just want to have sex and I don't wanna be jumping from one relationship to another .... But dis my bf has not even made future plans for both of us ... So please i need mature advice on what to do dats y I posted it on this section....Thanks all.. .

This is how they keep deceiving themselves, by assuming that any guy who makes love entries towards them is a suitor. What a show of ignorance and false sense of self-worth.

wristbangle:
Prof Ronald, it's being a while. How are u sir?

I'm good, boss. You've been away and more scarce than dollars. Trust everything is fine.