₦airaland Forum

Kai, some of una too harsh, i bet if you get worked up over things like this, i wonder what you will do inface of real things', am not saying it is right that the 'poster was making fun of the girl, ''' but common on now, we are human and we make mistakes, no need to call her names.

^^^^^^^^no mind them oooo, some of the men are sl, eeping with the ''said small girl'', that is too small for house work, but not too small to be toskposed.!!!

i believe that koi-koi thing, only because i have heard that sound before in my school, and i froze on the bed.

jennykadry:
The only part of her story I don't believe is the: buying her stuffs, paying her fees, buying her jewellery e.t.c. You don't do so much for a child and then go behind her and make mockery of her weaknesses.

Am not sure she meant any harm, she was just trying to see if other people had helps that do not just want to learn ( it was a harmless post). I believe to an extent that she did all those things, only because i can do that also for whoever.

yoghurt and a cup of tea.

jennykadry:
Ronke you don't get the argument, we had people living with us back in the day. The problem people have with her is coming here to ridicule the 14 year old. You are a mother, no mother would love to see her child made fun of and laughed at like this.

I gat you, but it is not a lie that the kid put shoes in the fridge, a 14 year old girl is no longer a baby! baby!!!, they are the types, men would be fin.ge.ring outside the house (am sorry to say).

pinkrex:
Arent they professional maids abroad? Can you use kids for your shores there without being jailed?

There are, but who wants to use them, i can do all the chores without extra help, only once in awhile, when am really overwhelmed and tired that i use their services, That is the level of advancement in America, that is why i said if or when Nigeria attains that level, everything would fall into place, things would automatically change.

Da Doctor:
Yes sweery, money isnt ma problem, but can u deliver? and hope u dont snore?

, Oh yes i do, i snore in spanish. but should not come in between me and money.

Orikinla:
Ode poster, God will punish you for not educating her. Your punishment will double for every lie you have posted against the poor house-servant. God will punish the parents who love their own children and maltreat their house girls and house boys. It is your duty and responsibility to educate your housemaid or house boy. May God treat your children as you treat your servants. And no matter who you are, if you want to take me on, DON'T HIDE BEHIND A USERNAME LIKE A COWARD, DO SO WITH YOUR FULL IDENTITY. Most of you who come on Nairaland and other black forums to post nonsense don't even have the balls to do so on Cosmopolitan forums and the black smelling Nigerian big men and big women in particular are second class citizens in the US and the UK and cannot even be invited into the high class in the US and the UK. So, you look for the poor children of your fellow blacks to use as servants you even spend less to feed and clothe than your dogs. But many of you are non-entities in the US and the UK and cannot even have the intellect to interact with the civilized people of this world. Majority of you cannot even contribute much to the nation building of Nigeria. You are the curses plaguing Nigeria. Shio!

why are you so bitter, where you once a houseboy and you were maltreated?

BlueDiva:
Always worked my dear.
Even had my first child while doing my post grad.

Jobs are different from jobs, you can't be working in the bank in Nigeria and not get some kind of help, whether it is from family, friends or house help, that i know for sure.

Da Doctor:
lest i forget i need a second wife. are u game?

Are you rich?? i don't do paupers!!!!!!!

BlueDiva:
It's funny really.
The unthinkable aspect is when you let others raise your kids for you.

I have 3 kids and never for once thought of hiring a maid.

Are you a full time house wife or do you work??

Da Doctor:
MADAM, MIND YOUR LANGUAGE. I AND MY WIFE HAVE LONG BEEN MARRIED WITH CHILDREN, WE DONT TAKE IN ANY 3RD PARTY. SHE IS UP TO THE TASK AND I HELP TOO AS NEED BE. IF U ARE LAZY NOT ALL WOEMN ARE LAZY. THE ODDS OF OMO ODO OUT WEIGHS THE GAINS . MY OPINION. NOTE THAT NOT ALL HOME USE OMO ODO. YOU AND your HUBBY MAY BE SPECIALISTS. NOT OTHERS

Da doctor, you mind your language, thank God for you, at least you help your wife, how about those that do not, especially for those that are pregnant and heavy, don't they need some kind of help, In America, life is easier, we have light 24/7, water, good roads, for the fact that we do not have to fetch water, sit down and wash pile of clothes is a big help if you don't know. When Nigeria, becomes better, naturally everything would fall into place, there is no need preaching what you cannot do.

I really do not understand what the insults and accusations are all about. House helps/ omo odos are generally used in Naija,. you people should stop pretending and fronting on a faceless forum, people who can afford it use these helps, infact i am beginning to see organizations that solely deal with these house-help things and they receive their monthly pay. No body should blame the poster for having a house help, you men are opening your mouths and typing 'ridiculous things' as if you help your wives back home with the house chores.  The whole idea of having a help is that, one good turn should deserve another, not just using the girls and throwing them away like a piece of trash, but helping them too to be somebody in life. Do you think that the parents are happy that their kids are helping others, no!!! (though some, do not give a damn oooo, as long as they have their beer and pepper soup). Na money, infact the lack of it, is causing all these palava.

@ Poster, if you are doing all you said you are doing for this girl, then God bless you, and more power to your elbow, how many people can do it,? they are all here preaching the bible, majority of them are fake and liars.

That is so funny, i can just imagine my son mopping the floor, though he walks now, i have to teach him to xclean the house, because he derives pleasure in seeing me bending and picking all the stuffs he scattered all over the place, infact this is a very good idea.

Good to know we have so many people that are willing to donate/give, hope i will find the same faith when i eventually open an orphanage in Nigeria, hope to see people donating things for people/children who do not have any means at all of getting anything.

^^^^^^ wahlai Jenny, if i can have my thing that way, and be counting my money in the bank, as in enough cash flow, that is, why would i want to suffer, working for somebody that is already living large, living off my sweat, there are so many businesses one can establish with the money, so many i cannot start counting, i love to be my own boss and run things on a large scale, no jonsing!!!!! so that when am pinging on my BB, it would be all about what is coming into my store or whatever, and what is going out, talking to contractors, setting up appointments, making business trips.

@ Poster, Me oooooooooooooo, i want to be, not a full time house wife, a part time house wife would be fun, i would have time to do things i love, go clubbing, everly in the spa, and gym, eyeing those young handsome guys with lovely abs and tight buttocks, hmmmmm, would start a charity organization in my spare time, (an orphanage) that should keep me busy, build houses and buy lands every where, ( i will so put my hubby's money to use). Gba beee, then i will officially be ''za bigz gal''!

That would be fun ooooo, am thinking about it,

Am so making jollof rice and shrimp when i get home, seeing those shrimps is making my mouth water.

It was a beautiful experience, that night was a night i would never in my life forget, my hubby was in with me, immediately the baby came out, he ran to the door, crying as in seriously shedding tears, i could not cry, i could not scream, i was just relieved, that i finally did it with God's help. It was not easy oooo, my baby was so handsome, with his little pink lips, very cute little pumpkin, loved him, love him and would always love him, that is little me and my hubby. Having a child is big blessing from God, and i appreciate him for counting me and my family worthy. I love you LOrd.

i do not trust that omo-odo, i think she is naturally wicked. some of them, just like to be wicked, since they know they are not taking care of their own homes or kids. Be careful oooo, this one that she is putting 'shoes in the fridge'. we used to have one, when i was growing up, that put my younger brothers's bum in a hot per-boiled rice water. that, is a big time testimony for my family. Sha!!!! watch her. I don't trust all those omo-odos'.

In as much as i do not agree with outsiders teaching me how to raise my son, but the child deserves it, since his parents cannot teach him. next time, when he sees another person, he would behave himself. But am sure since you saw it on the news, they would probably blow it out of proportion and say, it is child abuse.

Being the first child, is a big blessing from God, and whoever is given should make use of it well. Though most people abuse it, and the blessings are taken away from them and given their younger ones. It is full of responsibilities and compromises. May God help us acheive all our heart desires and fulfill our dreams as 'first borns'. I love being one, i love caring for people and being in-charge.