₦airaland Forum

pkv:
any personal xperience?!d way u described it says "it happend 2 me".kpele!

I do not have to go through it, to imagine what it would be like for the woman at that point in time, I reject such a man in Jesus Name, Amen.

Sammiejo:
@yodiyokun thanks. I have thought about a creche close to work, but the idea of taking a three month old out of the house at 5am and returning at possibly 8pm or later is something I am not really comfortable with. Unfortunately my mum and MIL have crossed to the other side of life and my siblings are all in school.
I just hope I make the right decision.

Eeeyah!!! my dear, God will give you wisdom on what to do, i feel for you, would you rather get some one, like a nanny, a matured woman that would be coming home everyday to watch your child, that was what i did, i had a babysitter that would come home everyday when my baby was four months old and we were doing that till he turned 1. now he goes to daycare. You can look into that too.

Richvkunt:
My friend,I am only gonna say this once-Your girlfriend/wife to be/partner or whatever is NOT telling you the truth!
There is a lot of unfinished business between them-although that does not justify the horrible attitude of her ex.
Lots of these girls are sponsored through school by some of these guys,who pay for their tution,and education but at the end of the education these girls ditch them for better educated prospects.Am not saying this is your case but I can bet it is something along these lines.
She obviously OWES this guy big time and until you get him arrested by the police for harassment you are never going to get to the bottom of this matter. I am all for the police because it is glaring this your girl is NEVER going to confess to you what she owes this guy.
As people have said before me -YOU NEED TO MAN UP AND FACE YOUR DEMONS!
Peace!!!

Gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nothing more to add.

[quote author=Omo_ghetto link=topic=786960.msg9391922#msg9391922 date=1319229779]Ore mi atata, ba wo lo ri si. Se on gbadun nkan tun tun ti o wo nairaland.[/quote]infact, i can't stop laughing, what a personality>>>>>>Omo do your thing jare, nothing do you. but not everybody can read yoruba and are yoruba, you know baa

OO ga ju!!!!!!!!!

Cheating simply means, you are not satisfied with what you presently have, you need more.

She should better marry the one she is seeing in Nigeria, na yankyness dey make her fall inlove with the one wey dey America. The one she sees everyday and can attest to character wise, makes more sense to me oooo.

Tell your friend to hold on, she will forgive and forget, relationships always go through one issue or the other, the earlier you learn to handle situations with maturity the better.

@ Poster, from what you posted, it is not the women that are running from you, but it is the husbands that are shielding their wives from you, maybe you are 'hot' and the men see you as a threat. You too look for your own handbag that will shield you from other women.

toba:
i've answered/explained it already. Marriage is a legal institution in the eyes of the law hence this issue of raaappe in marriage hasnt been clearly prohibited or outlawed. but any kind of forceful penetration without the consent of one of the parties in a relationship which is not backed by law attracts a punishment. I think the jail term for rrrappe in Nigeria is not less than 11 years behind the bar. Im yet to see a married man jailed in Nigeria for rrraape

I kind of understand where you are coming from, i feel you!!!!

Missy B, thank you dear for the 411 on how to cook that banga soup, will try it, the problem i have is with palm kernels,

I love that afang soup on the other page, when you have the time, i do not mind the 411 on that too, my hubby is in a very good trouble, he go chop tire.

As long as the woman says NO!!!!!!!! foR whatever reason, and the man; carries her, removes her wrapper/ skirt/shorts by force and by fire, with the WOMAN still resisting, and the man forces her legs open and forces his thing into her,and restains her, pinning her to the ground or bed with all his might, then that is R.APE, whether MARRIED OR NOT.

Because that is the expected thing, to be done, after studies and working.

neyostica:
I meant Bit.ch

In a good or bad way?

, i could not help but laugh


LMSAO,

It is better to avoid trouble oooo, please do not leave me with my ex- anything fit happen

dammizz:
Its not right 2 refuse d man his right, or how will d woman feel if d man refuse her when she needs it? She must have deprived him several times b4 any man cld think of using force. Its high time women stopped developin headache every evening

i do not understand how men would think that sex is their right!!!!!!!! am trying to understand it, sex is the right of both the husdand and the wife. if one person is not up to the task, the otehr should understand and stop giving lame excuses for  bad attitudes.

Afterall the poster has heard other people testifying to God's Miracle, so why hasn't it beefed up his faith??

So?? there are house husband!!!!!!!!! what should we do now Mr Poster,

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=786806.msg9390822#msg9390822 date=1319216884]why would a legal wife deny his husband his constitutional and marital rights ?[/quote]And who says, sex is only for the man??

Why would a man think of r.a.ping his wife at all. What kind of selfishness and disrespect is that??

Slim and curvey, Yes!!!!, slim and slim (nothing to gbamu!!!) Nope!!!!, Men would always go for the pretty/slim/curvy chics as opposed to ugly/slim/slim chics.

funny post.

Not everybody can withstand nonsense or persevere for a long period of time, especially if the person committing the offense is un-repentant, but the fact is, when you eventually go into marraige, be it male /female, you are expected to have unconditional love for your partner, no matter what!.

Gaggi you do not need to see miracles to beef up your faith, why would you want to serve God because of miracles, where did, 'I love you Lord, just because of Who You are'' go?

There is no need asking if the Bible is the word of God, if you want to worship and serve Him, quit asking questions they would only draw you back in your quest to finding the answers to them. If you love God, obey His commandments, allow the liars to keep deceiving themselves, we would find out the truth, that DAy!

NAAAABI!! NOT all of them, there are some that still appreciate such love, the question is, are there men who are ready to do those things you mention in Nigeria?, Noooooooooooo! the generation of such men, don finish tey-tey, everybody they protect imself, or what will you say of a looser that impregnanted two sisters or a mother and her daughter.??

@ Poster, just committ suicide, because if thoSe sisters join forces HMMMMMMMM!!!!!! ENHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

A beautiful person is physically endowed person, whether the perosn would add her beauty with good character or behaviour is another topic, when you see a beautiful one, you are like, OMG!!! SHE/HE IS SO beautiful, that! at that very moment is beauty and not the character.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=622886.msg7911645#msg7911645 date=1300140274]Successfull dark skin Womens in Nigeria usualy sell Bread n Egg [/quote]Your torros needs to be cut and hung for that statement,

silvertuke:
Doing all these for the White Women is better than doing it for the African Women that's the fate.

Did you mean' fact'?, if that is what you mean, Na big effing Lie, woman na woman, any where you go, whether good or bad, dem still be woman. Abi the oyinbo woman get 3 boobies for chest, abi na extra fuku she get for under,

MRbrownJAY:
that we have love/happiness or what not in our lives is irrelevant, if that is what we desire then we will always do (whether we finally get it or not). our desires may evolve with time but it will never change the fact that being loved/happy etc is what we desire. when you finally GET what you desire then most will desire "to keep it" abundantly flowing. . . . . . . .aka when you desire love and happiness.

are you saying that now that you are loved, you wont desire any longer to be loved? the minute a person hasnt got any more desires in their life, it is the beginning of the end.

I have desires, but not for what i already have, i have love, what Love is better than the Love of Christ (had to digress a little) i enjoy giving love and receiving it, Now!!!! my desires!!!!! hmmm though might be/ is futuristic but attainable.