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Nothing!!! am having my tooth extracted today, so scared.

Me thinks bread!!!!

Once debee!! forever debee!!!

My husband shall not have a female best friend, except me, thus says MOI.

I can see that hausa and ibos are beginning to join forces, the ibos are looking for friendship with the hausas' by all means. Poster pele!! ku-ise.

I do not want a male best friend as a married woman.

Instead of them to break the man's head, they are breaking their own heads, the guy for don dey beer parlor dey enjoy with a third lady, Odes'.

Oh ok!!!!! see me ooo Naija babe wey no know the meaning of GEJ. I am going back to my country tomorrow.

amefi:
I wish u GEJ

What is GEJ hope you are not putting me on barbars chair ooo,

amefi:
No. All the stress has been carefully and wonderfully removed. It is processed and comes in Cans. The brand name of the one i use is TROFAI. Very popular in Indian Convenience shops in d UK.

Thank you Amefi, am so cooking it, i have to look for that Trofai' first. I made Edikaikong for the very first time last week, infact it was so tasty, my hubby was living in the pot, he would eat pounded yam in the morning, amala in the afternoon and eba at night. . So i want to surprise him with this Banga.

did you use the palm kernel i want to cook it too but i really do not want to do all the palm kernel wahala.

My mum is very stubborn, does not listen to people, i love her still.

dayokanu:
In a country where several millions about 50% of youths are unemployed is not one to choose.

Even if you want your wife to stay at home, How do you pay bills or give the children the desired lifestyle ?

Would you rather stay at home and send your children to Ansar-U-deen or Agege grammar school or work till 10pm so they can go to Corona.

Working till late is more of a necesity nowadays

There is no point of being a house wife if the husband can only afford Ansar-u-deen or Agege grammer school or gidankpom college, her working should not stop the woman for being a 'mother' to her children not just having them by birth alone and feeding them.

^^^^^ you are right about the chaeting aspects, some women are wayward, so no matter how you tie them down, on their way to the market to by pepper, they will end up sleeping with the 'nama guy'. Though the bank exposes them because of the numerous customers they interact with on a daily basis. My sister told me about a lady who works with her in GTB bank and who is married, was  given a car by a customer, and she told her hubby that it was a loan she took from the bank that they(bank) would be deducting it from her account monthly.

My joining this forum has really opened my eyes, to still see that majority of Nigerian men especially in our generation are not ready for marraige, and those that (some) are already in one, do not have an idea of what marraige entails. You would see a woman (some women) trying her/ their best to keep her home intact, but some men, no! all they do is cause trouble. They really do not care about the consequences their actions bring. And they would be the first to call you a feminist if you decide to take your life in your hands.

I won't lie oooo, my children are more important, am sorry to say, i Love my hubby but my children (son) is my number one. I used to think my hubby is my one and only, until i met another (my pickin),

I think a husband and wife, should come together and think about the home also while choosing a job. A woman that leaves home 6.00am and gets home 10.00pm, i don't know how that woman wants to train her children. Fine, the kids go to school 7 to 4.00pm, getting back from work 5.00 pm as a mother makes alot of sense, those hours you spend with your kids a day, goes a long way in shapening their lives.

Mine scatters everything and everywhere, as if 'scatterage' is his middle name, , before i used to hala, but now, i have given myself rest of mind, before i will suddenly grow old one afternoon, because i dey complain.

Personally ooooo,I think any person seeking for unneccesary privacy especially when married has something to hide, whether male or female.

Mrs Wifey must have been sleeping!!!! now am sure she is wide awake with the news!!!

Nice, wish i could cook it, but this one would take two days to cook ooo,

Hmmmm, thank God the child was rescued. God would forgive the child's mother.

The igbos are just jealous of the yorubas' that is why you will always see them comparing and contrasting, so if they are more beautiful? do you get a trophy for that??

This generation should be more sensible and face what is on ground than indulging in useless tribal sentiments.

@Poster, what do you want to gain by asking a dumb question

Some people are just naturally bitter and ugly, that is why they see ''everybody's'' contributions as threats. They will be fine.

^^^^^^^ LOL,

How many times the same God he claims he serves, disowned him??

If you love her, then let her satisfy her curiosity, The most important thing is if God says she is going to your wife.

The Bible says, as the heart thinketh so is he. If you have a good heart, good things would flow from it, hence the 10% women doing good to their daughter-inlaw. And if you have a bad heart nko?? bad things would freely flow. No one can hide from their characters.

Come to think of it, Fhemmmy do you have any idea of what to cook apart from ogbono ooooo??

Fhemmmy:
Try and Make Kulikuli and Puffpuff

LOL, so funny, i actually had enough of kulikuli and gari, love it, still love gari though with groundnut and milk,