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coogar: there might be some iota of truth in the article! a girl born n bred in the same environment with a boy is usually smarter than the boy! girls are generally smarter than the boys of the same age!

true dat!!!!

davidylan: Anyone want to take a guess as to the gender of the 2 supporters above?

Na you sabi...."the truth is in the post"...

kitty kat: Pls take into account that women have been repressed socially until recently. Women were previuosly supposed to be seen alone and not heard.

Education was not given to female kids freely and their place was in the kitchen. Even the intelligent ones who showed interested were not encouraged.

Its not a hidden fact that women liberations movements are kicked at by a lot of ppl. I remember that one of the guys I dated said his mom hated me cos I was an engineer and had to work offshore.anothers sister told me that successful women will never get married. I was just 24 and someone was proclaiming that on me just cos I dared to make a differnce.

If ppl still think like this in this age and time, imagine how they wld hv thot 2 or 3 hundred yrs ago. But I am glad that more and more ppl are beginning in to believe and work hard for women empowerment. That's the reason for the IQ rise. Women are being given the same opportunities as their male counter-parts.

True dat!!!!

SiSi kill, has started another war!!! me likey

I agree that women have higher IQ than men.

@Omotodun....just because men are at the forefront of producing stuffs or so we are meant to believe, does not mean women did not contribute to the success of whatever was created or produced. But the family and the role women play in the society at large have limited them.

What will men be doing with their extra time, if not creating and producing stuffs

babs2011: ^^ love this part of weight loss well done babe!

Thanks babes, my goal is either a size 6 or 4 (hopefully.

Logs for yesterday, 40 mins total cardio, toal everything, jumping rope, mountain climber, jumping jack , did a 10 minutes weight lifing...with an 8 pounds dumbell each, i have two of those and i use both together, i want to increase it's weight. i am used to that weight now.

pleep: You really need to wake up. Did you know women are just as intelligent as men, and are capable of being just as responsible?

No one forced these women to get pregnant by unstable men, society has also provided them numerous methods of preventing pregnancy; birth control, condoms and even abortions. This is why their parents told them not to have children until they are married... And they are not innocent because they are ruining their childrens lives, people like u need to stop making excuses for single mothers because you are enabling the problem.

Exactly what i was about posting.....i only pity women that were raped at a very young age, and did not have an idea of what to do...But for a grown arse woman ...you gat to be kidding me!!!!

You guys gat to be kidding me!!!!

omamokta: From personal experience, i had this type of problem with my wife and there is nothing intimate between me and my wife's best friend. Its just that my wife always look up to her as a mentor. It all started when i met my wife, i noticed that my wife's best friend ideologies about life is very different from mine. My wife prefers dancing to the tune of her friend more than mine, i tried stopping my wife from seeing her for a while and noticed the difference in my wife. Only for her to appear during our wedding, she was even the chief bridesmaid to my wife during our wedding. Troubles started erupting immediately she appeared and i did not take it lightly with my wife, she had to choose between me and her best friend. It baffles me that women accuse their husbands of having a crush on their best friend cos the man does not want their best friend around. Am comfortable with every of her friends except this her "bestfriend".

WHICH MAKES ALOT OF SENSE. I had a friend too my hubby did not want me to associate with, though she was not my best friend, but a good talking buddy. My hubby so much loathe this lady that i had to just cut it off with her. to make matters worst, she did not like my hubby too, only because she could read all over him that he does not like her one bit. The only valid reason my hubby gave was that she sleeps around with everything "running a race in men pants"..lol,that associating with her will also give me a bad image. So i just kawa!!! instanta.

hhmmmmmm hia!!!!!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]LOL don't worry. I know how to distract sagamite

Na to just the shake breasts anytime he tries to question me about some missing funds [/quote]Yeeepaaa!!! the B- word, na for him to start to stutter....

Sagamite: Married woman, no come spoil my market o.

Lol.....no worry...i gat your back naa....

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]As long as I can go in and out of your acct anytime. [/quote]For where be ready to see a big padlock on the checking and savings account. (agadangodo) for sure.

Sagamite cannot be robbed.

Hmmmmm!!!!

Hey guys.....

@ Babs2011 your post got me laughing...don't mind the other friend jare....she is not seeing well, when i started exercising, there was this particular babe i was expecting that she would tell me i had lost so much weight, infact they are 3 (three ladies), so i kept on doing my thing and going to church, for where?, none of them told me anything oooo, i used to be angry anytime i saw them because not only do we talk about loosing weight, we discuss other stuff too...i guess it was "sawa-belle". Anyways so about 4 weeks ago, that was when one of dem ladies, came to me and was asking me to give her tips on how i lost my weight, she was like "you have lost so much weight oooo, OMG!!!!" (as if she did not see me the week before) ....so as long as your pants are falling off, and you can button-up or zip-up, you are doing great.

I actually went shopping last weekend, i had to buy 2 sizes down, because the ones i presently have are annoying falling off my waist .

Log for yesterday, 35 minutes kickboxing cardio....very nice, i am doing it again today BGG.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Isn't body wrap the body shaper that women wear?[/quote]No, unless they have the shaper and call it body wrap....the one i am talking about is done in the spas. it is really called a 'seaweed body wrap" or it could be a "mud body wrap"...they say it is very good for the skin, one should be doing it at least 2wice a month...who get that money? i do it once in 3 months and beginning to change my mind about it, although it makes the skin so soft....

If the poster is complaining from not having that money and seeing that the wife is spending too much, he has every right to complain.

- If the poster is just complaining out of being stingy since he was complaining that the wife uses too much meat in the soup, well....that is her cross oooo, she should have known the type of man she married....and i will say it again, the man has the right to question why the woman used 450k to buy only shoes, clothes is not part of it ooo, she might have used another 600k to buy clothes who knows.....

unless she is trying to open up a store.

La Parisienne: All these people screaming wasteful spending should give the OP's wife a break!!!

450,000 Naira is roughly $3000, why is this too much to spend if one has the money

She has money, and she's spending it on what gives her joy, I don't see anything wrong with this

On shoes alone?? if the husband does not see anything wrong he wouldn't have conmplained about it.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Thanks mami. How do I got about detoxifying my system? Lemon and ice water?

I'm in the process of changing every "white" food I have for "Brown/wheat" ==> wheat bread, wheat pasta, brown rice (that's going to take a while).As of right now, I'm onto wheat bread.


ahh, you want to turn me into a calories counter? lol omg, I can't stand those ppl, now am one of them? [/quote] ....the time calls for it my dear....i have lost more weight counting my calories than exercising...only because i still burn calories from the 1500-1800 calories i consume a day, sometimes it is not even up to....

Even if you are changing to wheat or brown...just reduce the portions drastically, you will be surprised how a little food can fill you up the same way a full bowl of food would and further make you uncomfortable... .


Some people use lemon and water to detoxify...i can't because of stomach ulcer....i use tea....majority of the time and it is so effective, the last one i tried using (which was a new one for me) was very effective but gave me stomach cramps, so i had to stop it....i eat more of veges'...during that time, drink more water, and eat fruits, because eating those type of food will help you the more in eliminating waste from the system....some of these stores like the GNC ones, recommend complete detoxification, so they have pills for those, i really do not do pills, i am afraid of the side effects; if any shaa, but some people that have used it, love it and says it is very effective.

i have done body wrap like 4 times and it makes my colour glow more than getting rid of toxins, or maybe it works and i am just not seeing it.

Has anybody ever heard of this "tava tea"....i am thinking of buying one, i had it is very effective.

^^^^ Ileke dear, nice of you to join us.....

-the easiest way to loose more weight is to count your calories, if you are consuming upto 2500 calories a day...reduce it to 1500, by incorporating more of vegetables and fruits.

- detoxify at least once a month, it helps cleanse your system.

-since you drink so much water, no sweat...i wish i can drink water like that.

- still reduce your portions, and reduce carbs, have a time-table to eat rice once or twice a week, pounded yam once or twice a week...and very little, i am talking about 8 morsels at most....with lots of fish (since you love that) and vegetable soup or any type you make....Egusi has lots of calories too... ...good luck on your journey to more weight loss

Hello everyone....how are we doing?? hope we had a great weekend.....


Men!!!! love my workout for yesterday...just 45 minutes of cardio, did a combination of all, jumping jacks, jump-rope, mountain climbers, weight lift, kickboxing and it was like, picking three in a section of 15 minutes and doing a repitition of each set 4 times....it was great... i loved it.

Eating....rice and vegetable soup with a big chicken...need to regain all lost nutrients ...

When i started reading the story, i thought it was one of my neighbours story until i got to the part of beating his wife and having him sent back home, made me realise is a different person entirely.

I have a neighbour who actually came here to have their second child though they had won the lottery, but decided to stay here, her hubby loves her "three much" and he left his job back there in Naija for his family....he was literally driving a cab so that they could survive and he went back to school all over again and they are now living fine, at first i was like i would never subject my husband to that type of life, but i thought about it again and realised it is "different strokes for different folks"

@Poster, no gain-say that your wife was selfish....and the only way to protect herself from you before you killed her out of resentment was to call the police...there is nothing wrong in hating your wife because of what she has done to you....but to hate your own "children".. is a NO-NO, those kids are innocent and do not need to suffer for what happened between the both of you. Take care of your children and show them real love. they deserve it.

@ Poster, that is nonsense... the shoes the baby will outgrow.....i am so crazy with dressing my son up....if you go to his room, you will see clothes and shoes every where, majority of the clothes and shoes are no longer his size, i have over 10 shoes, he has not even tried at all, i give some out as gifts and keep the rest for the next child....if i have girls and no boy again...that means those clothes would be given- out...and God knows as i love to "give", i will cry while giving out some.

There should be prudence in spending....that is just too much, you have to save for a rainy day.

I can't spend $1000.00 dollars on shoes oooo, bags yes....but shoes.....abeg give me one "payless" shoe and knack it with a nice coach or LV bag, now we are talking.....even if i have millions, maybe a $200.00 shoe at most...and that is just me personally.

razzberry2: Wen am in my room,am either totally or half naked..clothes dnt work 4 me in d room.
Wen i fart,i luv 2 put my hands on my ass so i can perceive d odour..

Ewwwwwwww, i feel like fainting.......

Naaaa some people are just ****Nasty****......that is why it is called a BAD HABIT....

akereconfi: I love wearing my sister'z panties, am d only BOY in a house of 6 girls....I do steal their new bra n pnaties tu ma room n wear them

Ah taya for maself o

Gay-man...