I have gotten to the point of submission but my middle name is not reflecting. I have gone back severally to add it. is this a cause for concern? or I should just submit it like that.

ethicallyright:
kneel and beg him. Pacify his damn ego if you love him. Submit to him.

submit to who? is he her husband? she has a choice to walk away

PrimadonnaO:


Do you understand? Hahahahahah. In my mind, I was like... "look at this one...what kind of story is he narrating there?"

MY sister, na them
Opportunists, they will not spend one kobo on your head but would be expecting you to spend on them, they will manipulate you with an imaginary nonexistent lady who spends on her guy....
You don't need to talk to much, his comment has shown and proven the kind of person he is.
That's why they look for independent girls.

PrimadonnaO:


LOL!

Make I follow you laugh.
That one dy find woman money to chop.

Married life oooo
If you marry your best friend.
Even while single without bf/gf, you must feel it.
That feeling when there is someone to talk to, someone that loves and care about you.

Having kids is a different ball game. Even if you're a single parents, the responsibility of taking care of children is same as been married.

Is it not better to get married earlier? because las las, you will still get married and perform those responsibilities.

This Family sef, I see them to be so ungrateful. They always want more. Democracy day was shifted to June 12, this alone is a very big deal. Places are named in honour of MKO. very soon, they will say Nigeria should be changed to MKO or Abiola country.

Confusedgirl869:
Hmmm bae, what about my parents? Especially mum after all the home trainings she gave, wouldn't she think I disgraced her? Being the first daughter, you know how our parents think na.

You're the only one to suffer the stigma of being a baby mama not him.
dont let him coerce you because of love. dont deliberately become a baby mama to please a man.
indeed, if you try it, you will disgrace your family.
Its not about now but future. in future, he might marry someone else while leaving you his baby mama and ofcourse give excuses.
love yourself first.... sheybi its love? most of us have at one Time loved someone so much but today, we have no iota of feelings for them as we broke up with them. Leave the confused young man, soon you would meet someone else you would love as much, who loves you in return and ready to walk down the aisle with you.

My major concern about Jehovah witness people is that they feel like they are the only true worshippers of God and following biblical teachings while other churches are not.
they also dont believe in prophecy etc

Most of the time, women are always painted as the victims of failed marriages when in some cases, its always the men that are victims. The woman would come out with her own side of the story of how she fed, clothed you and how you were lazy.�

your major issue here is that your wife felt you were lazy and wanted her money, that's what led to all that as she got fed up.

But the both of you lack understanding, understand and support your partner. *Know the difference between a lazy husband who just wants to live off his wife money and a husband that is just so unfortunate who needs support* that's what a lot of this women fail to understand. There is a huge difference.

Not everyone end up been lucky to be blessed with money. Some people try and try but it doesn't come.

In your case, thank God you had the last laugh finally.

ayusco85:


You made a whole lot of sense but I disagree with your last statement of it being a norm in the university.
I don't know which school u went to or ur kind of cycle of friends, people that engage in such IMO have low self esteem and don't know what they came to school for, most people that Co habit are naive especially the girls.

dont get me wrong
no matter how we paint it, it has gradually become a norm in the University where certain students cohabit together which is very wrong. I saw it happen 1st hand especially when the girl lives in school hostel while the guy resides offcampus. It happens in all tertiary institutions

Btw the point is, her past is her past

stormborn28:
is the norm normal?


no lady will see anything wrong with this. Because they know the implications yet they don't mind living such life. While guys takes advantage of the lady(chop and clean mouth)

Its 100% inappropriate.
but now the deed has been done, lesson has been learnt...... The only solution is to forget the past.
others will still keep doing it no matter how you talk to them about its implications, till they realise its implications themselves..

stormborn28:
is the norm normal?


no lady will see anything wrong with this. Because they know the implications yet they don't mind living such life. While guys takes advantage of the lady(chop and clean mouth)

Its 100% inappropriate.
but now the deed has been done, lesson has been learnt...... The only solution is to forget the past.
others will still keep doing it no matter how you talk to them about its implications, till they realise its implications themselves.

I dont know what most of you are talking about, Jasonjay101 She getting moody hearing that her EX was getting married is very normal, it doesn't mean that she still loves him. Ordinarily, a guy bulging me for marriage, no iota of love from my part sef, the day I heard he was getting married, I got a little moody, then snapped back to my normal self in few mins. Its completely normal, we are all human beings. Even if I hear that my EX is getting married today especially as I am not married yet, it must touch me, likewise for most of us. The most important thing is that you would snap out of that mood in no distant time. This person was once in her life, so its expected, especially as the memories keep flooding in her mind.
so its 100% normal
besides, living with a guy in school, it's a norm in the university tho a bad norm..... it's her past and not something you should worry yourself over.

Liposure:
hi

hi

murphyibiam15:
NOP...research again

I know I must see your comment on this thread nwaAfikpo

Help2020:
Bro,I love her deeply.. She has every quality I need in a woman..I know deep within me my friend feel somehow jealous...my friend just don't want me to marry her for selfish reasons.. Sincerely the thought of breaking up with her is hurting me already.She is not perfect just like me,but we understands each other.

ask her if your friend has ever made a pass at her, that's trying to sleep with her.
I think the answer lies there.

looking forward to reading comments

Humanoid01:
Lol.

My mum is a specialist in sending people on errands. She can literally call you all the way from your room or anywhere a bit far from her to help her get something she could just stand up and get. Damn! It pisses the crap out of me.

lol your own is even better.
Just make mistake and pass where my mother is, that's when she would remember one errand to send, you're not even done with that one she will keep sending you on more. Also, she might want to do something, or better still in the process of doing it once she sees you, she will tell you to do it.

mothers would always be mothers and no matter what, they are priceless.

ityP:



Lmao. Even if the guy wants to be a good guy and not ask for sex, she will still ask. How comes some girls are still virgins? Abi you think say virgins don finish? Or you think they've never been in relationships before? They have. Still, they lay down their standards and don't give a Bleep when the Bleep boy leaves. Maybe you lost your virginity to someone who pressured you to, but know this: YOU, AND YOU ALONE DECIDED TO GIVE IT. IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO MAKE. So instead of foaming with anger, accept it. Las las, some dude here says they don't care about virginity. So, make your pick from there

You make it seem like its just exactly how it is.
Do u know what virgin girls are passing through? All because you guys are pressuring them into sex..... saying you can't have a relationship without sex. Some are already so frustrated because of you guys.
You know the truth!
If you've had sex before, did you do it with ghost? Then you have no right to condemn anyone.
The change starts from you all.

Toluwashe778:
Hummmmm
I kept reading comment and I am so amazed
so funny
am not supporting being a virgin or not will help u have a peaceful home
but please guys, can u answer these question with all honesty ?

1.the ones who got disvirgined, who disflowered them

2. can any one of you be in a relationship and not ask for sex?
so what are we saying?
let the change start from u
of course, being a virgin is superb, but u guys are not helping matters.
and u that u are accusing someone of not being a virgin, are u a virgin too
have u forgotten the numbers of ladies u slept with. both the ones that have witch and ogbaje. u think it doesn't tell on men too. no wonder some life's are stagnant
guys why didnt u preserve urself too. it will go along way to help u fulfill God plan for ur life
let every one change their ways and discipline ourselves.
God will help us

Please help me ask and tell them ooo
All of them talking rubbish now, if a thread pops out tomorrow of how a gf denied her bf sex, you will see how they will be insulting the girl Upandan.
May God have mercy on this generation of men.
Most girls were pressurized and some were manipulated into having sex..... it's only a few that gave it willingly.

How will you see Virgin to marry when you lots will be demanding for sex in a relationship?
how is it possible? who disvirgins the girls?
If you all will keep your dicks in check and work on a no-Sex relationship, the world will be a happy place.

Even when she is not a virgin and doesn't want to do the do, you will pressurize her and claim she is doing it with someone else...... afterwards you will still open your rotten mouth to call her borehole and a slut.

SalomonKane:
you should advice to ask the guy what he wants from her instead of all this.

If the guy wants sex and she's not ready to open her legs, she should cut all communication. It's as easy as that.

how many guys open up on their main intention.

mimiey, ignore bad advices. That guy is up to no good. he is after sex and wants to manipulate you thinking he can get you by asking for a relationship.
someone that made attempts just from the first times you met him, you should think.... dont be carried away by what he has. I know this guys very well... after sleeping with you, he leaves.

Toks2008:
But why do female kids usually look like their dads.

female first borns actually

So this boy, over the years you still haven't gotten matured, still behaving childish

I met Queen Nwokoye on set early January this year.
I asked for a shot, she was like ahh, she is tired I should come back tomorrow. I told her I wont be around. that's how she posed for the camera. mehn! not easy been a celebrity because everyone would want to snap with you every minute. But she is a very nice woman finally.

I have met Omotola Ekeinde too but that was when I was little. When she came to pick up her daughter Princess and her siblings. They attended my primary school then

Huncle, talk true....
you're getting married to her so that both of you will be sharing bills equally in the home or probably expect her to contribute more

jendell:
The things that cause problems in marriages ehnnn.
OP, you googled mycoten and its use yet you went to cause trouble, speaks volumes about you. Accusation of infidelity is not something you throw about when upset. It kills more than you imagine. Threatening to kill her is bizarre, I'm sure you must have said more. you seem like a man who lose control of what comes out of his mouth when upset, stop it please or you will destroy your home. To you, you feel it's nothing hence the surprise you felt when you saw her message the next day. She is hurting and she has reasons to be. Get her something nice, go home and apologize for mishandling the situation, ask her to tell you why she feels you nag a lot and address the trust issue. You will be surprise to discover that truly over the years you've been subtly pushing her to the wall with your attitude without your knowledge. Please don't go and start arguing unnecessarily with her, take correction and change. Yeast infection is common among women by the way

so much wisdom
dont mind the OP
he is obviously a terrible husband.

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

This man, truly you're a nag!
give that woman breathing space pls!

Sijo01:
Op's wife was two months pregnant in 2017 and was planning of having her deliver the baby in US and return back home!

Now, his wife is 3 weeks pregnant and he got married to her just a month ago!

Somebody solve the equation above.

fake story

obviously, side chick turned wifey
I dont need to say congrats because your husband was forced on us.

obviously, side chick turned wifey
I dont need to say congrats because your husband was forced on us.