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PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole Flown Abroad Over Severe Injuries gotten From Auto Crash by ruffhandu: 8:41am On Dec 31, 2013
Ah! I thought they said no one was injured in the crash that involved a peugeot J5 or so.

Sorry bro, you'll be fine.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 7:44pm On Dec 30, 2013
harlos: yemlizzy isn't coming back anytime from now, until next year sha, she might show up to break the news
News of what if I may ask?
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 2:26pm On Dec 30, 2013
Emmyk: See me see wahala ehhh. Oga nathandrake, I was only thinkingoutloud jor o. cheesycheesy


It's very cold this Morning. I'll survive cool
survive not alone please. Do not leave us out.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 9:21am On Dec 30, 2013
harlos: Yes is the reply he expected from her before you make it known to him she is engaged....sad ending for him, I feel your pain bro
Bro, I hope you are enjoying the holidays this season.
CareerRe: 5 Steps To Enhancing Valuable Job Connections In 2014 by ruffhandu: 12:45pm On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=Omni_Sparrow]Nonsense. dis is naija[/quote]Who says it doesn't work in naija?
This piece is a plus to me, positioning myself these days and I know it'll pay off soon.

Thanks OP
CareerRe: Why So Much Hatred For Nigerian Medical Doctors by ruffhandu: 11:05pm On Dec 27, 2013
Because:
they form too much.
They swore to save lives but they gamble with these lives
By law they are not to own private hospitals if under govt employment, but what happens? They flaunt this law, yet always going on strike with so much feeling of importance.
I can go on. there are lots of reasons people dislike them.
CareerRe: Help!!!! Globacom Is Being Messed Up... by ruffhandu: 10:45pm On Dec 27, 2013
Three things to say to you bro:
1. More than 90% of those on paid employment, especially in Nigeria, complain. The solution is, package yourself and get yourself another if you feel you are under-priced.
2. If you work with glo as you sound, you should know how to whistle-blow
3. You were just referring to 70-30 as though we all work for glo, don't know what you're talking about.

In all, add value to yourself and seek better employers
CareerRe: Oil & Gas Opportunities In Canada(for Petroleum Engrs, Geologists,mining Engrs) by ruffhandu: 10:22pm On Dec 27, 2013
Don't charge any money, the employer should bear all costs.
PoliticsRe: Banker Arrested For Withdrawing N50m From Customers’ Accounts by ruffhandu: 5:51pm On Dec 27, 2013
Aktor365: The Special Fraud Unit, Ikoyi, Lagos State, has arrested an account officer with Guaranty Trust Homes, Adeola Olokojobi, in connection with a N50m fraud at the financial institution.
Prior to his arrest, Olokojobi was said to be working at the GT Homes, Saka Tinubu branch, Victoria Island.
It was gathered that the SFU had received a petition in October 2013, from a customer of the branch where Olokojobi worked. The customer had alleged that Olokojobi, who was his account officer, had “not been forthcoming with his account balances.”
A statement by the SFU Commissioner of Police, Mr. Tunde Ogunsakin, said, “The petitioner also alleged that the balance given to him was at variance with his actual balance in the account.
“An internal investigation conducted by GT Homes into the account revealed that Olokojobi in April 2013, forged an instruction, transferring N15m from the petitioner’s account, to an unknown account.
“The bank also discovered other various fraudulent withdrawals made by the account officer from other customers’ accounts in his care through fake transfer instructions. It amounted to over N50m.
“He said the funds were used to finance his political campaign, a proposed pure water company and purchase of an uncompleted building at Sango-Ota, Ogun State.
“Olokojobi in his confessional statement said he had fraudulently withdrawn monies amounting to N50,640,748 from the account of the customers by transferring funds into the accounts of fictitious customers and subsequently withdrawing same.”
A banking and finance graduate, Olokojobi told newsmen that he joined GT Homes in 2009.
He, however, denied that he had fraudulently transferred over N50m, insisting that instead, it was N27m.
He said, “I didn’t have to forge the instructions from GT homes customers. All I did was manipulate them. What happens is that they usually send instructions to the account officers by email, requesting that some money be transferred to an account of their choice. All I simply do is add another million or two to the sum the customer requested.
“It went unnoticed all this while because after using the money to do some business transactions, I always paid it back. I was into several businesses; I would buy land and resell for profit.
“I got into trouble with this one because I withdrew N15m at once from a customer’s account; I didn’t take it bit by bit, but I meant to pay it back. In fact, I had already started doing so before I was caught and arrested. But the police are not right in saying that the money I had withdrawn from customers amounted to N50m; it is N27m.”
Ogunsakin, however, said the suspect would soon be charged to court, where he could defend himself.
Source: http://www.whonaija.com/2013/12/banker-arrested-for-withdrawing-n50m-from-customers-accounts/
I found those bolded conflicting each other.
PoliticsRe: APC Members Angry Over Leaders’ Visit To OBJ by ruffhandu: 5:41pm On Dec 27, 2013
I hope Obasanjo will not be a tool for the dispersing of APC.
PoliticsRe: Man Killed Over Disagreement On Chickens by ruffhandu: 5:32pm On Dec 27, 2013
O God, should I associate this to poverty or what?
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 3:28pm On Dec 27, 2013
@ byvan et Ewuro707,

You made very valid points there. But we know that most divorce cases, especially in Nig, do not come on any friendly note. Most times, one partner posions the mind of the kinds against the other.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2013
chocopearl: year 2014 loading!!!!
loading!!! is incomplete, please kindly re-load.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 12:40pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=Zona.com]'Time! Time!' Is the response we chorus in primary school whenever someone says; story story!...[/quote]Story Story!... is the opening phrase for folklores
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 8:47pm On Dec 26, 2013
byvan: It is not divorce that maims the kids,its divorcing and using the kids as bargaining chips.Divorced parents doesn't necessarily mean kids ll lack love,if they are concerned about their kids happiness,they will find a way around it.
@ the bolded, I doubt if the children will ever have it balanced if the parents are not together.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 8:38pm On Dec 26, 2013
Yemlizzy: generation? Of course in mine Amen! cheesy
Amen! That's the word I use to end my prayers.
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 2:37pm On Dec 24, 2013
[quote author=tpia@]Serious.[/quote]True. That's to tell you how free people think they are to do as they wish.
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Gives Jonathan A Condition To Come Back To PDP by ruffhandu: 12:27am On Dec 24, 2013
E don do abeg, don't go back to PDP, remain in APC.

Make we hear word abeg.

Condition won't be met, case closed.
PhonesRe: Reason Why The Etisalat Bis Didn't Work On Your Android Device by ruffhandu: 11:45pm On Dec 23, 2013
harmbhrosz: bro....here's my email koolharmbhrosz@yahoo.com

And whatsapp 07033965372

....let's talk please
You won't stay away from such?
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 11:38pm On Dec 23, 2013
TV01: I would think so.



And here's the irony; he now claims to be happier than he has ever been, loves his new woman to bits and says his ex-wife was a log in bed - but he would still have stayed for the kids. Can't really speak for her sha.
What do you expect, he has to also claim he has moved on. I guess that didn't happen in Nigeria.
I heard a shocking stuff recently of a lady in the UK who was getting married to a guy and was displaying the pix of another man she'll marry after two years to her friend.
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 10:08pm On Dec 22, 2013
Sadly, divorce cases are getting more rampant by the day in this part of the world.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 9:29pm On Dec 22, 2013
beyonDskygirl: Jor-is pidgin English allowed?
allowed? perhaps here. But pidgin english was treated as vernacular those days in secondary school.
LiteratureRe: MY Police Life (short Story By Faithful Don) by ruffhandu: 9:22pm On Dec 22, 2013
Don, why did you use Reuben Abati's name directly here?
FamilyRe: I'm Cheating On My Husband And I Feel No Guilt by ruffhandu: 7:33am On Dec 22, 2013
Kanwulia: Being an expert on such matters. . . .Welcome to the club sistah!
Nothing like being married and being able to KYEAT like a man
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Siddon for dia jare. . . anyone that gets tired first should repent. Till then. . . the show must go on!!! cool
Abasi!!!
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 7:18am On Dec 22, 2013
ednut1: I always how lovebirds end in divorce nd most times become enemies causing emotional pains for d kids. sucks mehn
This is where I have issues. Do they really know
what they are making these kids go through?
FamilyRe: Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 7:15am On Dec 22, 2013
The point is not actually the financial status of the parents but the deprivation of that parental care/love. Imagine when a child grows up to realize that one of his/her parents is not accessible to him/her, perhaps the parents couldn't remain together because of one "silly excuse", as it may look to the child.
FamilyDo Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 10:01pm On Dec 21, 2013
Hi People,
I was just thinking this through.

For some people, divorce is a no-no. For some others, if it's not working, then let's go our separate ways. For those who believe in divorce, what do you think about this?

I met a lady yesterday who lamented how her mum deprived her of her biological father and abandoned her thereafter to foster parents. She couldn't give me any explanation why her mum behaved in that manner as her mother never offered any explanation for that, but she feels so much indignation towards her mother because of that.
Well, she eventually located her father when she was all grown up (a very wealthy man whom she didn't enjoy his fatherhood for long before the man died). The impact of her parents' separation on her was all negative as she lamented.
Then I read recently of a man who divorced his wife and married a fresh wife recently, and pays some certain amount monthly for the children's upkeep. Then I thought, how will these children feel when they grow up?

Then also I thought, will the divorcees feel any guilt towards their children for not being able to sustain their marriage?

If we have divorcees in the house, please share with us.
What do divorcees or separated partners who disengaged after having offsprings feel towards the children, especially when they are grown?
PoliticsRe: Shrine 2: Could This Be True Of "spotless" Orji Kalu by ruffhandu: 4:55pm On Dec 19, 2013
Hmn, which kind question be this one? How many Nigerian politicians are not? Only very few my brother.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 11:46pm On Dec 18, 2013
Yemlizzy: Marriage is a blissful union cheesy
union bank is getting better
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 8:13pm On Dec 16, 2013
drollster: Experiences are best learnt from vicariously.
vicariously checking on my fiance
RomanceRe: Silly Things Some Girls Do by ruffhandu: 8:04pm On Dec 16, 2013
sandijey: Am tired of seeing the word "ghost ". What's wrong wiv everybody! I opened this thread to read something interesting onlyfor me to read number 4! Am actually scared! Night don come abeg!
lol! wia are you right now? I suggest you go home if you're not yet. You'll be safe at home, trust me.
LiteratureRe: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s “americanah” Is One Of The New York Times’ 10 Best by ruffhandu: 6:03pm On Dec 16, 2013
Chimamanda is good.

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