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Family › Do Divorcees Feel any Guilt Towards Their Children? by ruffhandu(op): 10:01pm On Dec 21, 2013
Hi People,
I was just thinking this through.

For some people, divorce is a no-no. For some others, if it's not working, then let's go our separate ways. For those who believe in divorce, what do you think about this?

I met a lady yesterday who lamented how her mum deprived her of her biological father and abandoned her thereafter to foster parents. She couldn't give me any explanation why her mum behaved in that manner as her mother never offered any explanation for that, but she feels so much indignation towards her mother because of that.
Well, she eventually located her father when she was all grown up (a very wealthy man whom she didn't enjoy his fatherhood for long before the man died). The impact of her parents' separation on her was all negative as she lamented.
Then I read recently of a man who divorced his wife and married a fresh wife recently, and pays some certain amount monthly for the children's upkeep. Then I thought, how will these children feel when they grow up?

Then also I thought, will the divorcees feel any guilt towards their children for not being able to sustain their marriage?

If we have divorcees in the house, please share with us.
What do divorcees or separated partners who disengaged after having offsprings feel towards the children, especially when they are grown?
Politics › Re: Shrine 2: Could This Be True Of "spotless" Orji Kalu by ruffhandu: 4:55pm On Dec 19, 2013
Hmn, which kind question be this one? How many Nigerian politicians are not? Only very few my brother.
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 11:46pm On Dec 18, 2013
Yemlizzy: Marriage is a blissful union cheesy
union bank is getting better
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 8:13pm On Dec 16, 2013
drollster: Experiences are best learnt from vicariously.
vicariously checking on my fiance
Romance › Re: Silly Things Some Girls Do by ruffhandu: 8:04pm On Dec 16, 2013
sandijey: Am tired of seeing the word "ghost ". What's wrong wiv everybody! I opened this thread to read something interesting onlyfor me to read number 4! Am actually scared! Night don come abeg!
lol! wia are you right now? I suggest you go home if you're not yet. You'll be safe at home, trust me.
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s “americanah” Is One Of The New York Times’ 10 Best by ruffhandu: 6:03pm On Dec 16, 2013
Chimamanda is good.
Career › Re: Agricultural Engineers Forum: Lets Meet Here And Share Our Experiences! by ruffhandu: 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2013
designfemi: Thank Bro for that Update
I finished in Lautech as a student member NIAE, A Graduate member NSE, i intent to join NIAE as a graduate member and also ASABE, how do i go about it, Please. My number is 08068494462
For ASABE, u just need a referal from a member, then pay ur dues. Check asabe.com
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 6:24pm On Dec 15, 2013
Damex333: scientist are definately not political in Nature
Nature has a lot in store for mankind
Romance › Re: Don't Leave Those Girls In Eatery Again And Abscond!!! by ruffhandu: 6:21pm On Dec 15, 2013
SQURA: If you dont have the money, forget about dating
He didn't say dating.
Besides, me think it's wise you spell out your limits to whoever, if he or she scales it, then he/she shud clean it up.

A Nig top exec was to discuss with a briton who gestured they shud talk over lunch. The nigerian followed, hoping the other man will foot the bill since it was his idea.
But after eating/talking, the oyibo only paid for his meal. The nigerian was so embarrassed. He was lucky and rescued by other nigerians there cos he had no money on him, and he couldn't say a thing to his "host".
Twas funny to other guys but not the victim.
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 4:54pm On Dec 15, 2013
chiefololade: NL writer that I read his work most is Adegwurulez
Adegwurulez may as well be a political scientist
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 12:03am On Dec 15, 2013
deepthougths: people who need to hve their brains examined
examined students read harder.
Literature › Re: MY Police Life (short Story By Faithful Don) by ruffhandu: 3:37pm On Dec 14, 2013
faithfuldon: @ruffhandu
I was in ibro hotel on thursday nt yesterday.
1. My bros and his Gf was in d pool and there are lots of people there then.
2. I was @ d receptionist typing with my laptop and if anybody ask of corporal Tijjani that day I would have know because that is not my name.
3. I won't be so careless to go to day pool when I asked everybody to come.
4. The hotel is own by an igala man(ex gov) and they are lot of igala staff there, so I know all where there CCTV camera is.

So what are u saying.
I know security procedure more than a lot of officers
No prob bro, no harm intended. Be encouraged.
Literature › Re: MY Police Life (short Story By Faithful Don) by ruffhandu: 3:03pm On Dec 14, 2013
faithfuldon: Thanks for reading anyway but if it is even true dat u will produce a movie out of it then be prepared u won't live aftter the release because ppl involve are bigger than u. They will know u but can neva neva neva know me because I might be the one they will ask 2 catch and kill you. Which I will be honored to. Am telling this story in a way that u might neva know me except I tell u! I won't be so stupid to let myself out.
What if he was @ Ibro hotel, pool side yesterday? Or was is fake like d case of fone number and the fulani girl? lol!
Literature › Re: The Diary by ruffhandu:
Slickest: Yess boss....workin seriously on dat...we av 2 put an end 2 mediocrity in "NollyWOOD"
so you're still alive, perhap Mama Sunday has struck and paralysed one of your arms, just for a start and hence your not being able to continue your story here.

Nice job bro, keep it up. You're good and creative.
Literature › Re: MY Police Life (short Story By Faithful Don) by ruffhandu: 2:03pm On Dec 14, 2013
faithfuldon: My kid bro is calling me for 500k for a new car after I spent more than 100k for him and his gf just this thursday(on his birthday).he sold the car I gave him this march without me knowing.he now need 500k to buy a new one.


Pls guys, could it be his our zealous gf that is pushing him into spending?. My bros is even calling me his ATM even in my presence. I luv him and he knows it. I will break his leg if he ask me again because he told he will cease my toyotal highlander jeep if I refuse. I luv this boy but hw can I handle his spending rate!
Pls advice.
Get him a job and advise him to learn to fend for himself. Let him know you won't remain his ATM forever. Even if you do, "cash jam", "unable to dispense cash", "service unavailable" n "card retracted" are some error messages you may display at anytime.

Also, tell him your wife and children now have their debit cards too.

You should not let him go wayward cos you love him.

Cheers:
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 1:51pm On Dec 14, 2013
deepthougths: me no really send u, me go just let d whole album offend u - in illbliss voice
voice of an Angel wakes my spirit
Phones › Re: Glo New Data Plans For Mobile Phones And Tablets by ruffhandu: 1:44pm On Dec 14, 2013
bluerange: for their mind, it is a mind-blowing offer! airtel kenya gives me 100MB and 20 SMS to all network for 20 Kenya shillings (38 Naira) daily
that's more like it. N38x30days=N1,140 n 100mbx30days=3GB.

but dats not better than etibaba which is N1,100 for 3GB for 30 days as at now.

Airtel gives 3.9GB for N2,500.

If they don't wake up, a major competition will come, perhaps companies like google, and sell unlimited data for 5k or less.
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 12:37am On Dec 14, 2013
Flakesyblaze: Colourless?... an example z water
water takes the shape of its container.
Phones › Re: Glo New Data Plans For Mobile Phones And Tablets by ruffhandu: 8:37pm On Dec 13, 2013
ROMENOUN: get cheap glo subscription from glo anywhere....glo 15g=6k, 3gb=3500, 1.5gb=1800.....glo unlimited....c-a-l-l 0-8-0-3-7-4-4-2-7-9-5. enjoy...glo rule your world
Is this cheap? we don suffer!
For a start, make it 3k for 10GB, then some ppl might listen to u. Nobody will call dat number up there, a promise
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 8:16pm On Dec 13, 2013
Yemlizzy: Birds are creature of the air
air is colourless
Christianity Etc › Re: Bizzare! Unclad Bath In ‘pool Of Bethesda WARNING: VIEWER'S DISCRETION IS ADV ’ by ruffhandu: 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2013
where is this, Israel or Nigeria?
Politics › Re: Rivers To Get 24-hour Power Supply By December by ruffhandu: 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2013
Impact456: guys I have uninterrupted power supply for over 2months in Elelenwo. To be honest, I'm surprise. I guess it will get to all axis soon
I was in Elelenwo (the road you enter through sterling junction) on wednesday (11th dec), and right before me, the power coy did their thing.
I stay in Oginigba, nathing! No be for PH again? If uninterrupted power supply will happen here, we're still waiting. In fact, power supply has been worse in the last 2 months or so. I only feel the new coys are still trying to settle down. Amaechi fire!
Na 2day?
Romance › Re: Prostitute Turned Into A Python , Nearly Swallowed The Man by ruffhandu: 7:41pm On Dec 13, 2013
Please you guys should free the guy. He wrote it to keep himself from all d daughters of eve.

Good story line my guy. The truth is, men mortgage their lives without knowing it most times and they thinking they are having swell time.
Abeg tell us more stories wey go scare us, tell the one wey go scare gals too.
Phones › Re: Glo New Data Plans For Mobile Phones And Tablets by ruffhandu: 11:16am On Dec 13, 2013
enigmatique: So, ladies and gentlemen, JOIN THE 1 GIG FOR 1K CAMPAIGN!!!

Let us go to their Facebook pages, Twitter handles and official websites. All we humbly want is 1gig for 1k!
Friend, we deserve better. 1k for 5gb or more n 3k-5k for unlimited data.

We need not be left behind, whatever it'll take them. I prophesy this shall come to pass soon.
Phones › Re: Glo New Data Plans For Mobile Phones And Tablets by ruffhandu: 10:57am On Dec 13, 2013
mandon: ARANT nonsense! This tantamounts to "Drinking old wine from new bottle"nothing changed. Still prefers etisalat's 650 MB @ 2K
How could you have done that bro?

I use airtel 3.9gb @ N2,500
Phones › Re: Glo New Data Plans For Mobile Phones And Tablets by ruffhandu: 10:52am On Dec 13, 2013
150mb for N500 for one week and 50mb for N200 for 3 day?
chai! Nigerians don suffer! d data has turned to bullets in Nigerian police stations.
Who will deliver us from these people?

Don't we deserve unlimited fast internet @ N3,000 to N5,000 yet?

This is as discouraging as it is wicked and displeasing.

Did I hear google is coming to do internet business in naija?

Someone should come rescue us please for this is unhealthy exploitation
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 10:39am On Dec 13, 2013
Akeem79: (We) favour your proposal .
proposal is a big task for me.
I dont understand this *...* u guys attach to ur comments.
Literature › Re: Double Tragedy. Short Story By Ndipe by ruffhandu: 7:34am On Dec 13, 2013
Chxta: That's a sad tragedy. But the plight of a lot of women at home.

My major disagreement with the story though, Disneyland's not the happiest place on earth. . . grin
it may be to this lady and her daughter
Literature › Re: MY Police Life (short Story By Faithful Don) by ruffhandu: 6:46am On Dec 13, 2013
faithfuldon: I met a girl around 4pm today at the zenith bank ATM near wuse market and she was reading my story while on the line for cash today. I greeted her and we chatted for a while.
@ d girl
I drop u with toyota highlander jeep at zone 5. I told u that today is my bros birthday and you said is also yours today that you are his birthday mate. I ask u abt wat u were reading on nairaland u said is abt one yeye policeman and I told u that I will tell you happy birthday in special way tonight. This is it "Happy Birthday" bt that number I gave u is fake cos am d yeye policeman. U just miss ur handsome dude that you were telling ur friend on fone. Yes I can speak fulani
***surprised**
@Faithfuldon,
I've been following since u started. Be encouraged in ur writing.
Ur encounter with d fulani gal here jus got me laffing. Life is full of surprises.
Keep up with ur writing n don't keep us waiting for ur updates fr too long.

cheers!
Forum Games › Re: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by ruffhandu: 5:34am On Dec 12, 2013
Babe2sure: (The)young boy's behaviour can be excused on youthful exuberance.
exuberance of any sort is no excuse to commit sin

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