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Mandelaguy: This is one of the reason for privatisation and unbundling of power in his country,there will no longe be monopoly and unnecessary control by a single body...get it? You guys should protest,and write to your governor to intervene,or any political office holder you people elected,shey na ACN state?

Please educate me more on how this breaks monopoly, I have not been able to figure. Will a consumer have choice of power supplier?

God bless you.

Eagle eye,
Different coys offer different electric power services; some generate, some distribute etc. The old PHCN staff were disengaged but the new companies have to absord the old staff for smoother transition, I believe most of them may be dropped with time. But for now, they work for the new companies. But they are all on the edge, they know that the slightest mess-up from them will attract severe sanctions from their new employers.

I was even wondering:
The advent of mobile comm coys sent NITEL to the backyard and the coys made access to comm affordable.
How does this privatisation of PCHN forster competition that'll break the monopoly of PHCN?

satowind: Funny as hell
but the naked reality.

Really funny

You mean alsatian dog?

My brother, God will help rivers state. That's how best they understand "political games'.
Funny when it is taken out on them they cry 'foul'.

@ Op, Is there a reason for re-posting same info three times here?

The word of God must be preached to the uttermost part of the earth. That's his faith and there's no place the Bible he reads encourages same-sex union, infact, the Bible condemns it.
•Lev. 18:22,
•Lev. 20:13,
•1 Cor. 6:9-10,
•Rom. 1:26-28,

able D: she is 20 nd am 23

First question: DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED OR YOU JUST NEED EACH OTHER FOR FORNICATION?

boll2010 advised above, take heed. It's good you get your parents' blessings. Am sorry to advise that you didn't do well by telling the girl about your parents' opinion, you should have managed it without telling her. Trust me, women's thought pattern run wild. If you eventually get married, the girl will likely ever hate your parents and may even do the unthinkable.
If you think you really love the girl, get to know other reasons apart from (her past) promiscuity your parents have against her (I hope she has stopped the sleeping around).

I have someone whose father vehemently refused his marrying a girl (just because he's Mbaise and the girl is Owerri or so). The guy went and bribed his father's best friend (who has some influence over the man) just by buying the man some traditional outfits. When the man saw his father's reason was flimsy, he went and harrased his best friend and advised him to let the boy marry his choice, that whatever ill comes out of the r/ship the boy will bear alone. He went ahead and told the boy not to worry, that if his father doesn't come for the marriage, he'll stand in as the father. They are married today.

You may have to take your father out and talk with him (man-to-man), tell him your feelings, explain to him how much you know about the girl's past (I feel that gal has been displaying her sex life for all to see since she became sexually active). He may understand you after resoning together, and help convince your mum.

You may have to relocate (seems you still live with them) and pretend you're not happy with them if they insist without any better reason.

But whatever you do, if your mum doesn't reverse her words, please leave that girl.

Young man, how old is this girl?

What else will one do? Take care of her joor. When she's fit and discharged from hospital, take good care of her and life continues. She has not committed any sin.

misleading topic

SugaryBelle: Abancheleku or ukogoro

Don't be offended pls, where you from? Abia? Where exactly?

People should just flee sin.
Let her change school. Malpractice will always make you indebted to your impersonator, their is honor in hardwork.

engineerd: He probably realized the girl he wants to marry is a wh*ore!

Most likely.

If you have a reason not to walk into a marriage, it is better you call it off, even if it is 30mins before the priest joins you in matrimony, than think of divorce. It is God that has delivered you from this.
It is honorable you inform her people, if you cannot man that face-to-face, do it over the phone. Better you explain your reason, but if you cannot man up to that too, then say something like "please am too overwhelmed (or look for another grammer according to your mood) to utter this, please ask her, she will be in a better position to explain".
If for any reason you couldn't conclude the talk with them (especially the father), so long as you've registered your intention, you may blank out, let them do the research.
Call your tightest friends and inform them. If you feel responsible for all your contacts you had sent SMS to, send another SMS and say something like "am sory to in4m u dat my wedding has bn shifted, u'll b informed of d new date". Invite them when you're finally getting married.

Let me not talk about how you'll recover some recoverables since you only want to know how to cancel for now.
God give you the strength and courage to sail through such difficult times.

Op,
You are absolutely right, the policy is not balanced yet. Let me believe CBN is re-structuring how Nigeians will be able to access foreignt currency.
Nigeria must be better, every inhuman policy shall fail.

If am in a position, I would advise ASUU not to host this meeting in a Boko Haram state. I had a bad feeling yesterday: "what if Boko haram strikes during the meeting?" Boko Haram=Anti western Education. ASUU=teachers of western education.

just my thought.

careytommy: GOOD! cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

you talk am well

I don't know why on earth you'll be engaging in such discussions with him, knowing his position about your relationship. Or, are you still having anything with him?
Stop communicating with him for he'll definitely destroy you and your relationship. If this fails, he'll sure devise another means, he may even go diabolical if you don't cut him off. He is a right hand that can lead you to sin that needs to be cut off. Enough said.

OP,
You don't need anyone explaining any to you, just study and you'll find the answers.

timwezzb: Its my BIRTH DAY today and the Best Text Massage I gat was a BREAK-UP text 4rm my girl...What have I done? Why on dis Special Day?? I feel like the whold World Hates ME

Sorry bro. Happy birthday to u. Feel good like u are a king.
My advice to u n guys, don't invest much in gals, dey ar not worth it. Possible a richer guy just looked her side.
Concentrate on improving yourself so u can have a better life. Draw closer to your creator, He'll help u find a wife.
Happy birthday once again. Enjoy Ursef

5. A perfect man doesn't snore
7. A perfect man doesn't ask for sex at 3am

8. A perfect man doesn't have female contact


you may get your perfect man to do others but the above.

[quote author=Bleble-swag]I want 2 knw why ugly girls ve better, handsome, caring n loving guys n vice-visa but d beautiful/handsome 1s dnt? Am asking cos ve seen many many cases lik dat wher ugly girls always ve d best n d pretty 1s dnt n vice-visa. Has any1 seen such? but WHY??[/quote]Because they think they are more beautiful than they actually are, thus it gets into their head and makes them loose good manners. Guys don't like spending too much resources on such, save if they just want to hit n run. But the other ones are better behaved. Men look out for character first, they manage face more than that.
Also, the behaviour of the 'pretty' gals sometimes make the men believe they'll keep struggling to keep them even after marriage. Some guys specifically go for 'ugly' ones so nobody go follow dem drag their wife.

druid06: Interesting real life experience and very hilarious. Truth be told some girls got no pride or dignity left. It's a shame. As a gentleman and you perchance come across such scenerio, you should be the bigger person and pay for their meals. It's an experience every dude must pass through.

I don't agree with you on the bolded bro. Meeting someone shouldn't be a curse. What if the bill is not what you can foot at the moment, you go borrowing just to satisfy a leech? No! If they laff at you, laff back at them. It's only unhealthy pride that kills some guys. I like those that will give excuses of not coming with ATM card, escaping through the back, and all that once they discover she's a cankerworm with her likes. For me, I'll tell you exactly what I can offer you, if you don't like it, see you somewhere else some other time.

addictiv: If she is the kinda woman I want n she makes me happy...why nt...everyone deserves a chance at happiness.

I would rather you marry someone you will be prepared to make happy, in return, she'll make you happy for that is what marriage is all about.

Women sha. I have been praying to God to give me a wife.
@ topic
The best thing she should do is to REPENT from her sins, CONFESS to her husband and be ready to face the CONSEQUENCES. Later, go for a paternity test. E don happen be say e don happen. Women are always prone to the machinations of the evil one. God give me the grace to live with one I pray.

tobiflink: Errm. 300k X 10 is not 30m now.

I tire o!

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