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Justanonymous:
won't she just cry and say it's the devil..my brother make I do like say I no no yet and just dey use style check her phone and if by March Next year the love never come back then we go end am

Oh sorry Ur title actually made me not to see that part that u guys are just engaged,bro this is good,the solution is simple,since she is not Ur wife,keep her as a baby mama and move on with Ur life,u deserve a better woman who will not cheat on u bro cos u are a good person..Only take care of ur son..infact u have saved urself from marrying a cheating wife..I know u didn't bargain for this baby mama things but that's the best thing to do,u won't regret it..

Somehow this is good but on a second thought i don't think it is,because Ur peace and mental health will be affected and u are going to become insecured,loosing all ur confidence and mental power as a man,if u continue to be in a marriage where Ur spouse is cheating on u,but from all u said about her,if u can communicate well with her again and get her to be close to u once more and love u again like she did before after u guys must have settled this maybe she can become a better wife,but once a cheater always a cheater,and most times girls who marry as virgins have a lot of unfulfilled fantasy in their head which u might never be able to fulfill but if u want to forgive her and go down that path,is ur chioce,there is going to be a lot of more trauma so be ready for it cos she is only 25 and she has cheated this early in ur marriage,so I doubt if she will ever stop doing that,just do what's best for ur peace that's all I can say..

Justanonymous:
won't she just cry and say it's the devil..my brother make I do like say I no no yet and just dey use style check her phone and if by March Next year the love never come back then we go end am

Don't release Ur sperm for at least one month,eat very well,fruits, vegetables and proteins..u must add garlic and ginger to ur food everyday,take honey and no white sugar and stop drinking surgery substances for now instead bitter things like small stout, Alomo bitter and kola nut..exercise within these one month,Ur weak erection n low sperm count should be corrected if u do all these regularly..

Maybe it is her way of dealing with the death of ur dad and her husle, promiscuity is not an option but in her case it is understandable,all she did was try to put food on the table for u and ur sib,cater for u guys and as u know she is already abandoned by family with no one to help her and she must pay the bills and ur fees.. please let her be,after all she doesn't have a bf and she is an adult who have a right to use her body how she want..Never confront her until u are able to stand on ur own and please don't loose respect for her or treat her wrong..u can only have one mother in this life no matter if she is mad..would u prefer she abandoned u guys when Ur dad died on the street and run off for olosho..Your mum is a fighter maybe she is doing it the wrong way cos she shouldn't have done that around Ur neighborhood...

1Sharon:
Pls , where can I find the hide gallery option?

Hey there is an app called hidex calculator,there u can save all videos and pictures including apps u don't want another person to see and lock it with password,only u can access that calculator on ur phone,anyone who sees it will think is just a normal calculator..thank me later..

Everyone is selfish somehow, for u to date her for 4 years and want to marry her then she must also have some good qualities,all am saying is that there is no perfect girl outside,if u dump this one the next girl u meet might be worse considering all cons and pros,so please u are the one that knows her better and is u that will live with her,u know her good qualities or values..
Do u think u can be able to live with her till u guys get old and die,. Pls only u can answer this, stop seeking for people's opinion in your personal love life...

Been treated differently by this guy compared to what u have been used to from Ur ex made u catch those feelings,it is not lust or infatuation cos if u were after his dick,u already got it except u are after his care and the money,but I would still ignore this part and encourage u to try to build friendship with this guy by communicating with him daily,given him the green light that would make him finally ask u out,don't ask him out yourself cos of Ur self respect but put him in the position where he would ask u out,cos it is the love of a woman that holds every relationship and since u have who u like don't listen to those saying u shouldn't go for it,babe shoot Ur shot,at the end is gonna be u and about ur own happiness, would u rather prefer to settle for someone later whom u have no feelings for?u might be surprised he feels the same way and to be honest with u,guys like us who got a chance of been with a girl whom they see as olosho would Bleep her like 2 to 3 times a day within those four days but according to u this guy did it with u once, Ain't u curious?
Maybe he likes u as much as u like him,so don't ignore those feelings..

Bro fix the bus and use it for urself to make money,give her the money u only want to give her so she won't have enough to waste on her family, besides once she begins to make money,ur authority as the head will no more be intact..

U never know the value of what u have until u loose it,here u see someone that loves u for real and u are scared,Bro as it is now,God is steering u both to the right direction with his blessings too so do the needful and kill those fears,that woman is yours, remember there will never be any perfect woman out there, except u just want to go and play around..

Seems to me this girl genuinely cares about u sha,but I understand u..

They are doing reharsal and midnight prayers on her bed lol...stop disturbing them..

Cry very well,get on your knees and beg her to love u instead of the guy she slept with..cry very well ooo,if possible all night okay

Happy birthday great man..may God give u more grace, wealth and all ur heart desires..u are loved dear..

Karma is a bitch,
Karma is real,
If u bleap another man's wife be sure that what goes around will come around,it will surely happen to u,infact u have automatically attracted a curse if u do so,even if the curse doesn't work against u directly,it will follow ur children to your 4th generation that's what u people don't understand,anyways is ur chioce,is ur decision,u are an adult so do what u think u want to do cos we know finally u will still bang her cos u have already decided to do that..good luck!!

Afostev11:
Perfect adjective to use and ladies hate weaker men....

Bro I don't think this is true,In my opinion,ladies love weaker men cos that is the only way they can use those men..The ladies capitalize on their weakness and softness for them which those guy's call love and dorminate them, intimidate them and exhort them drastically in every way possible everyday, both physically,emotionally and otherwise..No lady in reality want a man she can't control to some extent,but as we can see this girl is already over doing it, because the guy has not set boundaries for her,he has not learnt to say no to her or stop her from over riding him simply because he is scared of loosing her for her beauty,and thats the problem cos the girl already knows the guy can't do without her and so she is exhibiting her prowess..it will be hard for him to change but I pray he finds the strength to with stand her and make things right..

Jamesb87:
Thanks very much..

Just be strong and less caring to her,women are funny creatures,they seem to prefer guys who use strong hands for them,if u start been harsh and brutal to her,she will start been subjected and submissive to u,but if u loose out or give out your power to her or any other woman for that,u are the one who is going to suffer it, because when u give a woman power,or control, she will always misuse it,or use it to her benefit or advantage which means total manipulation towards u,which will make her treat u like shit or a nobody,and trust me u don't need that in ur life not at this age or even when u get older,cos every man need peace of mind and happiness..Don't stay with any girl who cannot celebrate u or submit to u,the worst thing a girl can do to u is bruise ur ego..

Put her in her place,
Let her learn to respect u,
Man up man be a man..
U should be in control of not only her but Ur emotions too,
Don't give anyone the right to treat u how u don't deserve..and if u see u can't take her and make her respect u and be as u want,just walk away,birds of a feather flocks alike..u will meet the right girl with better character and attitude for u,and please forget about facial appearance when dealing with a girl,deal with her based on her attitude and not her looks,if she want it hot,give it to her hot,if she don't respect u,u don't have to respect her,if she control u,teach her that u can control her too..stop been weak ,scared and be confident..Get ur self worth back bro!!

Kukuma give am the whole 80k,
let me remind u bro,
any money u give to a girl is a waste of money,invest..
this same girl will kick ur ass someday..
continue in ur foolishness..

Sonnobax15:


like I do tell my real dudes..That I'd rather spend my sub and precious time watching xvideos than see myself wasting my time on any Nigerian girl matter..
Two days ago,I sent my gf a dm on fb...I see say the banny read my message on messenger but she no gree reply me... infact,I resent her another message just to make sure she sees it..She saw it and again snubbed me for the second time....I just lock up like say nothing happen..

yesterday,the same banny messaged me on fb,I equally read her message and snubbed her as well..She noticed it and tried calling me but I kept ignoring her calls till now..

my guy,let your peace of mind be your utmost priority.

u get oil for head bro..

Ilekokonit:
True talk.

An older woman (who is over 40 yrs and has already had her kids and is near or past menopause) will always believe you are beneath her and will always look down on you whether she displays it or not and once the honeymoon period ends and she starts to see you finish, she will then bring out all the hatred she has for the world and unleash them on you and you will have to flee from her as the demons in her start revealing themselves to you on a daily basis as most BLACK women who are (over 40) and older than the men they date are psychopaths . Not that the younger Black women are any better anyways.

ofcourse the younger black women are not better,but no one will remove money for u for being with an older lady..but for our own enjoyment,at least younger blood will keep u sound,fresh and young,except ofcourse the older woman has a lot to offer you,I don't see the use cos whether u like it or not everyone will hurt us whether young or old but is all about being with the one who is worth the stress after all..who u can be proud of even after 10-20 years or more..

Marriage is over rated,
He who finds a good wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from God but he who finds a bad wife has found a bad knife that will always cut him and hurt him the rest of his life..Behind every successful man there is a woman and behind every unsuccessfull man and failures there is also a woman..The issue here is the chioce of woman u make,choose wisely...A woman can break u and a woman can also make u,a woman can take u up and a woman can also bring u down,a woman can make u rich and a woman can also make u poor,a woman can make u somebody and a woman can also make u a nobody,a woman can make u something and a woman can also make u nothing,a woman can make u happy and a woman can also make u sad..it goes on and on,it depends on which side of the coin u are!!May God help us all...

Op if she can't give u s..,don't waste your money on her,she feels entitled to all u do for her but she is not offering u anything,dump her now oo before is too late..

Bro forget this she is good and all that,focus on yourself and make it in life first,achieve your goals,make money first!if u need five years to do that,it means u are not yet ready for this kind of entanglement,besides she is older than u,a woman younger with 5 years will manipulate a guy talk more of an older one!!when u will be ready for relationship,go for a girl younger with at least 5 years or more to be on the same mental equality. Note:woman tends to depreciate in value as they get older..Be warned,just let her go..at the right time u will find the woman who is made for u,reason still remains that dating women older than us always leads to much havoc and it does not always end well..

Bro what other thing do u want cos this ur girl is giving u everything and u still complaining,how is her love for sex a problem now?if u can't handle her in every aspect u better let her go now,cos tomorrow u will still be complaining eventually that I love her so much yet she cheats on me hmmm wahala no dey finish!!

Confessing to him will destroy your home and marriage,it will make him not to trust u again or respect u,no need of confessing to him but try hard never to cheat on him again for your conscience sake,he is not God, might decide to go for a divorce,even though he stays with u,what is broken can no more be fixed again..There is happiness in ignorance but sadness in knowledge of the bitter truth..No one need to know this bitter truth.

Guy how can u keep a girl for six years and be knacking her steady, nawa for u oooh, without paying her bride prize,no commitment,no kids and u expect her phone to be assesible by u and her Vagina!! u are very wicked!! Your days with her are numbered and if u don't do sth about it she will leave u,a word is enough for the wise..

Op the power a woman has over a man has nothing to do with sex or been addicted to women..
From the bible,we saw a perfect Adam been told to eat a fruit by a woman who was made from one of his rib,meaning she was lesser and more weak than Adam but she had control over him because the happiness of every man lies in a woman,and that is why women use men to their advantage..
We saw from the bible also how a perfect Samson was destroyed by an imperfect Delilah,because ofcourse his happiness lies in Delilah,should I mention David or his son Solomon?..This is the nature of a man whether u are gay or a virgin.. why is it that in the gay society one has to be weaker or feminine just like a woman and the other has to be the man?
Don't forget that behind every successful man there is always a woman,whom he love and she loves him in return that is the propelling force to his success,hence this woman exploit and use him cos he only wants to please her and make her happy because in making her happy he makes himself happy..The reason women are different from us is that they do not find their happiness totally from a man,Let a woman be financially free,u will see that she doesn't need a man to be happy cos it is money that makes women happy and that's why men still keep falling to this trick even till death..Give a woman money and she professes to love u almost immediately cos for many of them money gives them orgasm hehe..what am trying to say is that u find yourself the way u are cos u have not met a woman that u fall in love with so it is easy for u to think this way,besides no man is an island,a tree cannot make a forest,No matter how successful u are without a woman in ur life ur happiness is not complete as a man,this is just my opinion..
whether u are intimidated,
manipulated,dominated, controlled by a woman, sex is not the reason cos u still see women doing this even to a man who has not seen her panties before cos this is the feminine nature of a woman to use men that love them and make them act stupid just to please them...

It is rare to see emancipated intellectual ladies,well I guess u are one of the 10% but that doesn't mean all ladies are,at least u can hold a conversation and even pull through an argument which is common with the enlightened women like journalist, doctors, lawyers and the likes of them,so keep it up but still,most ladies earning more than a man poses a trait in a relationship,as they seem stubborn, arrogant and not likely to support their men financially nor be obedient too, so the average Nigerian men still prefer ladies who does not rub shoulders with them,cos it is the nature of ladies to be ordinary and stupid, parasitic and depending on a man for everything even though they are working and earning their own money. As for we the men we are superior to women,we are super-ordinary for thus is the masculine nature of man to be strong,retain the bread winner and to be a thinking being, anything short of this is a dent to the man in the status quo,as he can not function properly in the family nor the society,so it is not normal for a man not to have a job,the reason u see so many of them loitering the streets now is as a result of high rate of unemployment in Nigeria...

HappyCreative:
If you aren't envious, why would you say I was lying?

You say you're not jobless, so I believe you.

It's not my fault I am educated and have a good job so can afford the things I want. I wasn't bragging, i was merely stating facts.

Mere intuition.
Bravo!! So analytical

Who says i am envious? You,
Who says I am angry? You

Do I have any reason to be angry or envious over what I don't know if its cooked up? No. As a matter of fact am not jobless like you assumed,

Besides only a poor man will be envious of people and am not in that category..U are just a woman and that's all your small mind could come up with,I understand..

No one comes to a faceless forum to brag about his/her achievements ,It only indicates that something is wrong,My father always say " One who dreamt and said he saw a ghost chasing him in his dream" Who are we going to ask

Oooh I did not add most Nigerian girls can lie for Africa...

HappyCreative:
Wow, judgmental.

I actually bought everything myself from my job.

Instead of being angry and envious, why don't you try getting a job too? Maybe then you can also afford these things.

Op Nigerian girls are cheaters,brainless weak,unimaginative and stupid all of them..They are the toxic ones and the ones who bring nothing to the table but expect everything from already made Nigerian men..u bought a house, bought a car because u had to use your body not that u are smart or intelligent like u portray..Maybe one of your sugar daddies got that for you lol..Just imagine your arrogance and rudeness in a public forum!!Gosh..

He will never change,forget about him and move on..

She is not an investment so stop spending heavily on her,remember any money u spend on a woman that is not yet your wife is a waste of money, watch and see how she will react when u stop sending her money like u used to..She is telling u all that to make u feel jealous about her,cos she wants to own u so she can be manipulating u easily,she sees u like her ATM machine that she could easily extort money from,thats why she wants to make u feel she is a hot cake who a lot of guys are flocking around..she is playing that fake game with your heart so u can trust her but "never in your life trust any girl" same game she is playing with u is the same she is playing with other guys that sends her money,so use your head..u must not dump her but just be careful with her and always remember that u are not the only man in her life..