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A cool way for the Nigerian police to extort us.

nazicartel:
If Tinubu wins the court case and becomes Nigerian president, The only person he should work with should be Gbaja. The rest should rest. Maybe he should consider Alake. The rest are just noise makers.

There won't be any court case to begin with

Can someone suggest the best P2P now that Paxful is gone?

Na people like this dey abuse Tinubu

CallmeTrinity:
I have saved this comment to remind you 🤣🤣🤣🤮
You will cry tears tire 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I just saved yours too. Let's see who cried.

Chinedu trying desperately to get pity votes.

This dude and Jandor are working for Sanwo Olu without knowing.

Make I bend if you become governor.

Okay

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Ok

I thought they said they have 1.2m votes in Plateu..lol

Thanks for the 500k vote for BAT, Kano

Vinstel:
Wike stop wasting your time rigging and producing rubbish results. Obi won in Rivers with a very wide margin, you can't subvert the will of the people

Whatever doesnt favour Obi is rigging. Mumu!

The vitcory belongs to BAT

Victory for BAT

Ewefiewele

Google and Youtube are your friends

Winner on Twitter: Obi

Winner in real life: BAT

AbdulMagaji:
The bolded is very scary, Some women get mind Sha!

To be honest this matter hard brother!, But this is a typical[b] American lifestyle[/b].

You go fear Trinidad and Tobago bro

Nazgul:
Dating a comfortable guy isn't the problem most guys have with girls. The problem is lacking the intellect to relate with him on his level.

Most comfortable guys are exposed, so they have vast knowledge about things. They go to places, they keep up with recent happenings in the cooperate world. Now imagine finding an average regular girl who has made up her mind to date rich guys. Obviously you cannot discuss work with her, you cannot discuss happenings in the IT world with her, she basically wouldn't be able to relate with him on his level.

All she would have to commune with him is money, sex and outing... nothing more. Sooner or later, the guy in question would leave her to look for someone whom he can easily relate with on his level.

I can basically tell you that if you meet 50 average Nigerian girls, 30 would have no idea of what LinkedIn is, 18 would have heard it before but don't have a profile there, only 2 would tell you that they have a developed profile on LinkedIn.

The solution to all this is to date someone within your league (whether you're male or female). That way, you two can work towards developing each other and not taking advantage of each other.

Brother, don't be fooled by ladies who can create a profile on LinkedIn or are IT savvy and all that rubbish. Be more concerned about a submissive woman who will give you peace of mind. Dating someone within your league might put you in problem, and most ladies who seems to know about corporate world and IT shit and all are too egoistic to allow a man lead them.

Put character above everything. Have you heard of rich classy men who married a woman with less education? Them know wetin dem dey do o. Look for who can keep a home, who can respect you and raise your kids properly. No be LinkedIn go keep your house o.

I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

I just discovered this post.

A lot of people here will tell you to stay, don't mind them. I have a brother who gambles and I know how crazy it can be. Your hubby won't change and will destroy himself and you together.

Oh, this post was made last year March. How is it going now?

God1000:
Hmm, but why do coaches and players resign or retire after losing matches at football tournaments?

If you've done your best, then there's nothing to be ashamed of.

They know they will definitely be fired, so they resigned to save face

Akpacha:
U are joking, I guess!

Nah, I am not. I have eaten other ones I failed to mention even.

olisaEze:
Over a thousand NL members proudly displayed their foolishness on this day seven years ago. Some have paid for their error with their lives, while some living by God’s grace still persist in their stupidity to elect a worst candidate than the General!

Baba, I still dey regret am o. No vex

I have eaten snake (cobra, puff adder, and python) , grasscutter (You can call it rat), cat, dog, toad (You can call it frog), patas monkey and chimpanzee, tortoise, pig, monitor lizard, duck, antelope, bat, homing pigeon, hawk, and vulture.

There is not a single animal I can't eat.

Anon4509:
I opened this anonymous account because I really need to know how to proceed with this. Before I continue I want to state that every single thing typed here is true and is currently my life story. Please, this is a long read and names have been changed to protect my identity.

I am not from a poor home and the reason why I think it’s necessary to say this is so people can give me a balanced advise without thinking money played a role in my decisions, my parents are middle class and doing well, I’ve never in my life struggled financially and I grew up with the best my parents could provide.

Few years ago I started meeting white foreign men online, I would talk to them, send pictures, chat and just spent time together. This slowly developed into these men sending me some money to take care of myself, this wasn’t a case of yahoo or leading these men on but they just simply provided when I complained about something, I took the money because why not. I would like to note at this point that I wasn’t dating any of those men and we were just friends I was also dating in Nigeria so for me it was just a friendly engagement with these strangers whom I’ll never meet, things also evaporated after a while and when the heat turned cold with these online men we would stop texting.

This was how I met Tom, he is a white man who is a shy guy who was new to dating or meeting women, he is a nerd. I’ve met and dated nerds before so I was used to the personality, to be more specific my type of men are nerds, Tom fell instantly in love with me, he slowly became obsessed with me and thought since I’m African then I have to be poor and struggling, I didn’t correct this assumption but instead fed into it as I considered it funny at the time.

We started talking everyday and few weeks later (I think a month) Tom asked me to be his girlfriend and we started dating, before we started dating Tom sent me money once or twice, nothing major just about 300 dollars or so.

Immediately we started dating, Tom started sending me money, I was in in uni and Tom began sending me about 1k dollars(sometimes more) every month because he got the idea I needed the money to take care of myself, after uni he rented an apartment for me, bought me a car because he said I’m too pretty to walk under the sun, paid for the furnishing etc I could tell he was in love but with his love came obsession, he wanted to always talk to me and I would give excuses, etc but I still provided balance because the money was quite sweet and I didn’t want to lose it, I do not love Tom in any way, and I believe I was giving him companionship in exchange for money so if he wanted to believe we were dating that was the little I could do.

I met Jerry a few months after uni, he is the sweetest most thoughtful man I’ve met, I instantly fell in love with him and he was the first man I had sex with, I spent a lot of time with him and we were so in love. I was still dating Tom at this point because I mean the extra money I was getting from Tom meant I could live extremely well, at this point I had stopped asking my parents for money and was dependent on Tom and the money I was getting from my job, I was earning about 200k.

I told Tom I was jobless so he wouldn’t stop taking care of me and I managed Tom, Jerry and my job well to ensure everyone was happy. I am also very big on my career, I just love money and living well too much, I like to buy expensive thing and I’ll rather not use my money for it.

Jerry was also taking care of my needs, He was earning extremely well, is a young millionaire so he sends me money monthly and bought anything I needed.

We are boyfriend and girlfriend and have plans to get married in a few years, Jerry has met my parents and knows knows about Tom but doesn’t care because he loves me and the relationship with Tom has been entirely virtual so he doesn’t think there’s anything there (to be fair Jerry doesn’t know the extent of my relationship with Tom or that Tom sends me money regularly) however Tom doesn’t know about Jerry.

I’ve been dating Tom for almost 3 years virtually, we have never seen each other but Tom wants us to see in a year’s time, he sponsored my relocation, paid for every single thing, I only paid for my visa processing myself from money I saved up, Tom also paid for my rent, and still sends me upkeep monthly. He says he loves me and wants to support me I don’t trust anyone so I save all the money he sends me for a rainy day.

I am still dating Jerry who sends me money monthly and we are planning our future, I want to end things with Tom but I do not know how to do it, I am scared he will track me down and kill me because of everything he has sacrificed for me, he’s also obsessed with me and has tried knowing my address multiple times but I’ve been wise enough to never release it.

I’ve thought about disappearing (deactivating the app we communicate on) but he knows my social media accounts and I really don’t want to have to deactivate my accounts as I struggled to build it and currently have a lot of followers. I also think disappearing won’t work.

Please, how can I successfully break up with Tom without losing my life ? I also don’t want Jerry to be aware of the complexities of my relationship with Tom, he might get very angry because Jerry loves me too much and gets jealous easily, He hates other men he perceives have feelings for me being around me.

Paying Tom back the money he has spent which runs into thousands and thousands of dollars IS NOT an option because he willingly gave me every thing and I will not put myself in a negative financial situation because of him, Tom also has my nude pictures and although he’s a sweet person I know will never do anything like leak it I really don’t want to take that risk.

I’ve slowly began fighting with Tom so I can use that as an excuse to end things but so far it’s not working. I also do not want to get arrested, even though I believe I didn’t commit any crime I’ll rather not be arrested and have my parents reputation ruined because they’re fairly popular.

I feel no guilt for this nor do I have any remorse because I did nothing wrong and I provided companionship in exchange for money which isn’t a crime but more of feeling greedy.

Please, I need tips and practical solutions not judgement. I’m not a saint and will never be which is fine.

Go to Google and search "Romance scam"...That sums up everything. You are a scammer; a criminial

tee59:
You're a spoilt little kid. You're with her to learn and she has every right to caution or disciplined you. You even have the gut to report her to her husband? Sit your Bleep ass down with her and apologize for your wrongs. She is your custodian known by your parents.

You took the words out of my mouth. Bless you. He is a stupid child

What

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

You are a very foolish man and your wife has more sense than you. Those spiritualists have destroyed your life. Goat!

I have never had sex physically with any body since I came out from my mother's womb.

@Pray4meJC
Bro, I can tell you with everything in me that this is the source of your problem. Every of your problems will disappear the day you fvck a woman.

A friend of mine had this exact problem. His own might even be worse and I helped him out of it....And guess what? I helped him out easily in just one month.

Your problem is 100 percent psychological and not Spiritual. In fact if it was spiritual, your numerous prayers and fasting would have solved it.

All the porn and masturbation and creeping on people you did in your formative years have piled up and caused some things in your brain. At the age you got exposed to it, your mind was young and fertile and the wrong things were planted on it. Those wrong things started growing and having branches with thick roots.....Baba, things plenty wey I won talk but better if I can speak with you.

Now I am willing to help you. If you want me to help you, reply to this comment and indicate an interest and I will share my phone number with you.

Okay