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Self righteous, judgemental and hypocritical Nigerians will not see this good side of Big Brother Naija. They will come online to bash the show and secretely put on their TV to watch it 24/7.

These guys met on the show and are now married, enjoying their marriage and all. BBN gave this dude a sweet wife, gave the lady a good husband.

Being arrested and/or interrogated by EFCC is a sign of riches. EFCC no dey carry poor man.

I pray to be in a position where EFCC will arrest me or invite me for questioning.

If na police dey arrest you, my brother, work hard.

I only hope that the ladies among them have not been molested and sexually abused as this could leave a lifetime dent on them and also mess with their mental health.

Theoutsider:
I can tell you by the OP. After she has had her 100 cocks by 15, he is not getting sex from his wife.
If she doesn't have time to talk to him.. that means they are not fucking and she probably has no desire to have kids. YET!

He is there because she is a doctor $$$ and she needs a man that will not cheat (A BETA MALE)

I bet she didn't even take his last name and still using her name because she is a doctor lol

When she is not fucking him any more he will cheat. Just watch..

so if you 100% agree it just means you have no balls and fearful of your relationship.

Getout!

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Bro, I 100% percent subscribe to your line of thought but the people on this forum (Majority of whom are below the age of 30) will call for your head because they don't have enough life's experience to decipher your write up. If care is not taken, they will change you and convert you to their own way of thinking.

Pussywar:
Human beings are not cars.

Not everyone believes in the concept of virginity

Morality is subjective

You cannot be insulting, reducing and objectifying people for having sex while speaking on morality. It’s goes beyond sex and dressing.


Not everyone is religious

You can choose not to be with someone who has had multiple partners, but it’s only basic human decency not to shame them from your own moral perspective. Why is this even an argument?

How do I double Like your comment?

Comedians all over the world are known for marrying beautiful women.

The reason is not far fetched. Women like funny dudes.

Quality20:
abeg o. Is it not disgusting and shameful enough to marry a dirty lady who has naughtingly being sleeping with every Tom, dick and Harry? Only a dirty man will not want a virgin lady

The point is not in marrying a virgin. It is really a thing of pride to marry a virgin. The point here is that marrying one does not guaranty fidelity as opposed to popular beliefs.

Often times on Nairaland when a topic about cheating is discussed, a lot of men are quick to say 'marrying a virgin lady will give you peace of mind 'cos she won't cheat on you.'

Lies!

Why did I say this?

A friend of mine is currently sleeping with a married woman on his street. She got married to her husband as a virgin. In fact during a friendly street football match on a Saturday, my friend confirmed it when the man was boasting to the other men that he indeed met his wife a virgin.

Funnily, it was the woman herself who made several passes at my friend and led him on until coitus started happening between them. Her reason for cheating? She does not know how the d1ck of another man feels like and she feels the need to explore. She needed to experience sex with another person....And of course, she enjoys sex with my friend than she does with her husband.

I had a similar experience, tho mine is a bit different as I did not end up marrying the lady. I deflowered a lady, my ex, we were so much in love and thought we would get married. So as a techy guy, I hacked her WhatsApp via WhatsApp Web and discovered that she was cheating on me with another guy. Wow! I thought she would never cheat since I was the first to do it with her, but she did. And that led to our break up.

So those of you men who got married to a virgin and are excited thinking she would never cheat, don't have hypertension when it finally happens. She might even bring you another man's child.

While chastity is good and virtuous and meeting a lady as a virgin is a thing of pride, it is what every man prays for. But this does not guaranty fidelity. They can sleep with anybody's wife in this life....I mean, anybody.

You can get married to a woman who has had sex with 500 men and she will remain faithful to you forever and might not, and you can marry a virgin and she would cheat on you few years after your wedding and might not. There is no yardstick at all to measure faithfulness.

Women who got married as a virgin might cheat out of curiosity. Women cheat for several reasons, from curiosity, to lack of love and affection from her husband, money and other material things, emotional instability, etc.

If you are broke, bad in bed, or maltreat your wife, she might cheat on you for money or in the course of finding succor due to your lifestyle whether or not you married her as a virgin.

fourboys:
This is one of the reason I advise our men to always marry a virgin, but no dey go find one intergram model , wey dey share her nude pics and video steady,
Let me tell u, if u marry a virgin, 80percent of ur problems are gone, her nude vid no go surfix, her ex no go disturd ur marriage and most importantly DNA is not needed at all. Any girl that doesn't fvck around now and remained a virgin in our world today will surely give u peace of mind.

#teamvirgin#

I laugh at you.

One woman who married as a virgin is currently cheating on her husband with my friend. Her reason? She has not tasted any dick in her life aside her husband's. She feels the need to explore and see how another man tastes like.

You marry woman a virgin no mean say dem no go fvck am.

I think I should create a topic on this seff.

Ticking time bomb....Kabooooom!

Awon weyrey

CSNg:
Oga, the cheapest domain name goes for about $10. SSL which is a basic requirement in e-commerce websites is a minimum of $20 which is like close to the 20k you are talking about.

So you want to wait till you get 5 clients before you put things in order?

You didn't even put up links of your works. Bros I still doubt you.

You can go and die then.

I cant post links on NL for fear of being banned. Fool!

The unlimited VPS hosting I have comes with free SSL. And I have my way of buying godaddy domain for $1. Google "one dollar domain on Godaddy."

Fvck you!

CSNg:
Oga! eCommerce website with both hosting and domain where people can place order and make instant payment (meaning that it would have a payment gateway) for a paltry N20k?


It's like a estate developer saying he will build a 6 bedroom duplex with state-of-the-art equipment like CCTV, solar electric, Wifi and POP finishing and electronic gadgets and furnishings for N500k.

I hope you are not trying to scam people!

I am a web developer and I have built such eCommerce website for a lot of clients using WordPress, which means I have a template on ground and a big hosting where I can host multiple websites...So I am technically not paying for hosting...And it is easy for me to build since I will just have to adjust the template on ground to fit into what the new client wants...And that is why I called it a promo.

I only need an urgent 100k to add to some money and sort some things. 5 clients and I am okay.

And yeah, the 6 bedroom duplex comparison is off. Find something more similar to compare it with.

Shalom!

Once they come out of the BBN house, next thing na fans do this, fans bought this, bought that one. Who be those fans?

Abbeggi. We all know as he dey go!

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He has suddenly become Tinubu's sycophant, so this is expected.

In Naija politics, anything is possible...
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Basketball betting is the real deal truly if you know your way...Me don dey use am chop since

But this dude wanting to sell you the secret na him I no know o

You must first be in school before aiming first class.

When I was in SS2, I stood up in front of the class and told my class mates I wouldn't be going to the university but they should watch out for my success story. I stopped right at SS3 and didn't even pass my WAEC.

Whilst my friends were in school, I was busy learning on the streets. I have made money and lost money. I have started businesses and lost businesses. I have been betrayed by business partners; one even sold our office and everything in it. I have learnt several skills including web programming, video editing etc. I have also become a film maker, producer, script writer and story board developer, not to mention I was a professional bricklayer and plumber before learning the digital skills.

I have bought cars and landed properties; even sold some properties to invest in new businesses only to lose all the money, I learnt and moved on.

I believe in learning on the go, learning on the street

First class from the uni? No, I don't have that. But I have have successfully sent my younger one to the uni and she graduated with first class.

I went to the university of the streets and studied hustle and bustle. So I have first class from the University Of The Streets.

Let me guess your age..

Between 19-21

9japride:
Its wrong to do that, it shows pretence. Its just African mentality and mediocrity. It could have been different if you guys weren't in motion first and she joined you guys. But as far as you guys where already in motion, no need to give way. Its when you finally reach your destination that she can then come to the front seat. Its all these yeye pretence that encourages elders in the society to messed up the system for the youths.

Na you get sense pass mi bredda

Three things:

1. You spend two much time on the screen: Watching Big Brother all day long and pressing your phone
2. You have not been sleeping well
3. Caffeine: Mostly found in Energy drinks and Tea bags

Solution: Drink lots of water and have a good sleep. You go dey alright. Nothing serious.

josite:
U are very wrong about the doggy.they are the best

You still have time to save yourself bro. Don't let doggy becloud your sense of judgment

Stop the lies

Oladeleeleniyan:
You said it all

Washerey eleniyan

But you look 50 seff.

One reason I will never be attracted to a fat lady. The 21st century people now call them thick. Fat is fat, stop all the thick sh1t. They look older than their age and will age a lot faster than their partner. They have a puffy face that makes all of them look almost alike. The puffiness removes all the contours that should shape their face which gives them that unique and beautiful look.

The buttocks has too much fat and dorggy doesn't feel good with them due to the extra meet and fats flabbing around the place. Their laps are too big to carry and they are not easy to turn around in bed. Don't even talk about the cowgirl style abi you want make she kill you?

Don't let's talk about the health side. We all know too much fat kills faster than anything else. The more slim you look, the healthier you are.

This is not body shaming. If you are fat, go and trim yourself down. Their are countless YouTube videos to watch.

Mskrisx:
Good evening. Please I read all you wrote. This Mechanic seems incompetent. Can you recommend anyone to me as I am currently in Lagos. Thank you Sir.

The solution to your problem is simple. A friend of mine had exact problem after one idiot Mech finished him. I gave him my Mech who discovered the thermostat was faulty. Thermostat was changed and that was the end. Yours might be something else tho. Which part of Lagos are you?

Lollittaa:
pray about it. God is nearer than you think. He can help you with that shyness.

Stop this nonsense na..

Pray about what? Are you serious at all?

You wey you dey pray, hope all your problems in life have disappeared

Sorry o

77star:
Whether you said the truth or not,
That's not how to correct things

I know how to send her private message, but I ain't do that, I'm always transparent in what I do

Once again, saasala I don't expect this from you

Okay then. I am not sorry at all for talking that way.

I dont expect you to not expect me to say certain things. I don't bloody care.

77star:
I don't like this
Not everyone here is naughty
And if she doesn't send it, how does it affect my life?

I don't expect this nonsense from you considering the fact that I recognize ur monicker

Masturbate u said?
Definitely not me, maybe that's what you do for a living, who knows?

I spit the truth not minding if you know my moniker or not.

The masturrbate part is just me being sarcastic, but what I said about her not sending you a message is raw truth. You dont get a lady with that strategy. Send her a Nairaland PM instead and hope she replies you via email. I have met a lot of Nairaland ladies via this medium, many of them classy, beautiful and rich. Try that.

osazsky:
any guy that shouts money at the slightest mention of girls na prostitute and club girls they suffer for thier hands..I have had Encounter with most of them.its all fake..fake relationships fake sex fake lies..I repeat u dont need a fat account to have a wife..we still have good girls out there the bottomline is...marry ur friend..those assss and breast that have been used and reused since 1999 will fade away..

I feel you bro, but they will never understand.

Sadly, many of them who think they can get any girl with money will still not get them after having the money but they will never come out to say it.

There are a lot of guys with money who cant get their dream girls. Na olosho dem dey pay.