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pocohantas:
Well, I think a woman should do her best to keep the home, this involves home management and finances too. Except if they agree on something else. If circumstance doesn't allow it, different scenario.

I have a friend who grew up with maids and cooks. The father loves his wife o, I guess there is something else she does for him, something more important than cooking and washing clothes. Different strokes for different folks.

Safiaa, don't stress it jare.

Jupxter:
Listen to yourself. OMG What contorted reasoning

tosyne2much:
Let me correct a notion.. I don't want to talk about washing of clothes but as for cooking of foods, madam, your wife is "legally obligated" to cook for you as far as marriage is concerned. Please avoid uttering this kind of statement in order not to mislead the young and naive ones

Back to the topic

Why is it that each time the issue of chores is discussed, many of you are always try to relate it to slavery?. For God's sake, is a man really demanding too much by expecting his wife to wash his clothes if not that you people are clowns? . Let's even face reality here, isn't a woman supposed to make it a point of duty to ensure her husband's are clean and washed? Yes you heard me right. Yes you can call it slavery because you're bereft of what a woman does to make loving wife.

What many of what the so called feminists see as slavery is what makes a loving wife.

I just hope it will not be too late for you to realize this. Maybe you start going for marriage counseling to see how women manage their homes.

Ginaz:
Suit yourself. All I know it's I'm not safiaa.

Ginaz:
It's you ,safiaa or sofiaa I don't care. I'm not you that's all I want them to clearly understand.

BiafranBushBoy:
Not cool... I thought you got my back mehn...

I know things went wrong, but it was bullshit coming to sing on a thread that has done nothing.

She just wanted to troll with sensitive issues, and it was going Down well with me.

Oya no vex... How you doing?

Ginaz:
Hey hey and hey!!! I'm not sofiaa. I use God beg una. Don't complicate me in things I know nothing about.

BiafranBushBoy:
Jude is gonna say I am you...

So becareful the way you smile at Me...

Just an advice tho.. Lol

BiafranBushBoy:
Smiles...

tosyne2much:
I really want to know the direction you are trying to come from so that I will know the suitable reply to give you.

What's wrong with my comment if I may ask? That a man goes to work and asks his wife to help him wash the clothes he will be wearing to work the next day, only for the woman to start feeling like she's a wife and not a maid. Isn' that what many of you here rant about here?

When a woman is told to learn how to cook delicious delicacies for her husband, you all keep ranting that a woman should never go out of her way to please a man who may still end up cheating on her. Isn't that the mentality of many of you?

I know what I'm saying, so leave matter for LAWMA jawe

BTW, diversity in opinions is what makes up Nairaland, so you shouldn't tell me my comments are ridiculous because you don't subscribe to it

NoFavors:
who are the street talking?

ibkayee:
Lool a lot of them have an embarrassingly shallow understanding of it, someone brought up the man holding the door or something I couldn't stop laughing

Nothing even wrong with disagreeing with it, but let's start with actually knowing what it is first lol

tosyne2much:
I just dey laugh you sef

Just imagine a scenario when you tell your wife to help you wash the clothes you will be wearing to office the next day and you returned home and met the clothes unwashed, only for her to tell you she's your wife and not a maid

Abeg, these ladies are clowns jawe... Forget all these bullcrap wey we dey read for Nairaland. A woman will surely get kicked out of the home if she wants to be acting actually as these ladies are acting

BiafranBushBoy:
Desist from quoting you? Hilarious.

Just shift a bit, I need a better view!

BiafranBushBoy:
Take you serious? Why should I?

Good day Ma'am

BiafranBushBoy:
Can you just read your statement again and listen to yourself...

Smh... Unfortunate tho.

tessygirl:
are you scared that I would open up our history? I won't darling till you provoke me to do it. I wouldn't mind to entertain Romance land with our Drama. No one has seen me except you, but I know you have so much friends and the shame would be on you. #Idiot.

Dhorcas:
i hope you are beautiful more than her. She has four kids already and she's still beautiful. I guess you believe in heavy makeup

teresafaith:
What is he doing with this grandma?

Gush!! He has poor taste in women.

Upon the makeup she still no fine.

NoFavors:
Hahaha you don ask before I jump am pass hahaha. She's fine. Nairaland don tire her lol

She dey beside me dey see your message

Asianguy:
How does he look like a villager?

Kennedy767:
u that knows it then add to the post... don't take anything from the post...the post is just the bitter Truth

Caringguy:
Stop wasting your subs on that broke ass nigga, he think say everybody and he papa na mate.