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[quote author=baby_123]

If i was ever to consider such, it will not be with a rotten tomato like you. I like my men innocent. I thank God i will never think of such. .

BTW, keep deceiving yourself that women dont have the urge to cheat. hahaha. Have you ever seen a cat sha*g

A woman is at her sex*ual peak in her 40's. By that time most men are struggling with ED. Do the maths...[/quote]

I know you will not date me. I am way too risky.

But I am sure you will consider a one night experience with me with no strings attached just to satisfy that curiosity and feel that famous plum butt and ............heaven.

I pop it and we kiss and walk away.

BTW, I know women cheat. Afterall I no be Real Man na. I know women.

I am just sure they don't cheat as frequently as men do and not with as many partners on average.

You need to go to a Naija university campus at night to see 40 year old men.

ED is only at home, not at a uni campus.

[quote author=baby_123]What does my comment have to do with your comment?

BTW...in your dreams. [/quote]Nuff said.

I just disproved your yeye assertion.

[quote author=baby_123]If you say cheating is normal for men, then it is also normal for women. Believe it or not, women have just as much drive to cheat as men do. Na society and cultural expectations dey restrain them. If you break your covenant of marriage and blame it on you being the man, accept it when your wife tries to become the woman too.[/quote]Clunking rubbish!

And BTW, if not for the fact I made it a public proposal, I know your answer would have been the opposite.

You know I make you weak.

Orikinla: NO.

Only immature and insecure people cheat.

BETTER QUIT THAN CHEAT.

Yvete: Nicely written. Cheating and normalcy in one sentence is ridiculous. Emotional distress, total disrespect and lack of self-discipline is normal? God forbid! Whilst I may not have control over a person's decisions, I refuse to accept that BS! Its quite pathetic that some women out there are willing to be side-chicks and mistresses like in-your face - They don't give a damn!

I don't even think some of you understand the question.

Let me remind you: "Is cheating normal for men"?

Not: "Is cheating OK for men"?

[quote author=baby_123]If you say cheating is normal for men, then it is also normal for women. Believe it or not, women have just as much drive to cheat as men do. Na society and cultural expectations dey restrain them. If you break your covenant of marriage and blame it on you being the man, accept it when your wife tries to become the woman too.[/quote]Lets meet up and sh-ag.

You down with it?

carujmonella: @OP, it's not normal for ANY gender to cheat. Cheating is bad and should be condemned. All these "men are polygamous in nature" is pure crap. A man or woman that values his or her partner won't cheat her.

I have problem with your 98% deduction. How did you come about your fallacy?. Which research did you or anybody carry out and came to the conclusion that 98% men cheat?. And about your number 2, in as much as cheating is bad, you can't say the fault of her hubby cheating is not her's. It can be her of fault. Some ladies push their hubbies into cheating though not all the times but it doesn't justifying the men cheating nor the women cheating though

YOU are asking someone else what research they did?

Which research did YOU do to come to the conclusion of the bolded above, Professor Researcher?

Queenyprinxex: I trust my G. Hezz not d cheating type.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IV8grkJpNY

By and large, based on the list, it seems I would die without regrets.

Godspikin: . You wouldn’t normally think that a divorced man would give good advice on being a husband, but this man has been through enough hardship to know what is worth fighting for:

1) Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

5) IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

6) TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

7) NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

Allow your woman to JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

9) BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

10) FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

11) BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

12) BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

13) DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

14) GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

15) BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

16) BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don't know i she will like what she finds... Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

17) NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.

18) DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

19) FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

20) ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.

In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.

Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

These are lessons I learned the hard way. These are lessons I learned too late.

But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

If you are reading this and find wisdom in my pain, share it those those young husbands whose hearts are still full of hope, and with those couples you may know who may have forgotten how to love. One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.

The woman that told him 'I do', and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up.

If you are reading this and your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

MEN- THIS IS YOUR CHARGE : Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you.

Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.


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Can someone please convince me why this requirement for success in marriage makes marriage a worthwhile and attractive endeavour?

All I see is:

- Compromise
- Suppression of preference
- Hardwork

What makes this a better proposition than the bliss of bachelorhood plus baby-fatherhood?

Not to say that alternative does not have its own downsides. But I am yet to see how the proposition of the typical marriage is better than it.

Matthew briggs: No need. Because I know what's like to be bad, I have a dark side. At link I am alpha male that prefers to be good not for anyone but for me.

I am a Nicejerk

Okay o.

Personally, if a girl does not have close to her best to offer me, I would not be interested in her. At the most generous, I would engage in a few bootycalls.

I am not such a good guy. I am interested in the very best of my best interest just like women are for theirs.

Definitely not interested in a girl who has given her best to some other guy(s) because she was seeking danger and fun and then when it is going south wants me to come and commit the rest of my life to her till death do part. Worse still when she is not that interested in me, she is just looking for someone to love her and take care of her and her future planned offspring with his resources.

That is not in my best interest. Something I care about deeply and try to cater for.

sCun: If our educationists have to be the highest paid in the world, ot has to be secondary and primary school teachers. Majority of our lectureres are just like your average civil servant, they do absolutely nothing!

Cretin and what do the secondary and primary school teachers do?

They teach you how to spell "lectureres"?

Matthew briggs: Nice composition. In addition to your writeup. I believe the freedom of choice is something we are all blessed with. As already pointed out every choice has a consequence.

Moreover personally I really don't care if as highlighted by your post that majority of women prefer to waste their youthful life with jerks and decide to hunt for the nice/good guy to settle down with. I really don't care if they succed in there quest or end up with a jerk turned good guy. It's there choice whatever consequences they end up with good or bad is up to them.

Moreover I would like to correct the notion most good guys have, that because one is a nice/good guy he is therefore entitled or should be rewarded with a good girl. This I think is wrong. I belive good guys should be good not because of his hope of ending up with a good girl. But because life is more fulfiling, more rewarding and less stressfull that way.

Personally all I care about, is finding that one person who will make my world stand still. I careless about her past, her mistakes and errors. She's good thank God, she's been bad turned good who am I to judge.

What matters to me is, who she is presently, is there a connection and does her current life fit perfectly into my plans for the future. We are all a bundle of imperfection a work in progress... remember.

Moreover the only clause is if she was foolish enough not to know my value eairler on and after wasting her life wants to play catch up...she's in for a long thing, reason been that I never go back to my vomit. I hardly give people second chances. When I break a brigde it's broken. It's my principle.

Live your life ihedinobi, let the players play, the jerks keep jerking, let the bad girls keep been bad, just keep been the good guy you are, not for anyone or any reward but for YOU.

I promise you one day, you'll find that one woman, that missing rib, who will make would make everything beautiful again , but never forget to keep an open mind to accept her in whatever shade she comes in.

#Mathew briggs the fire.
#Team Nice Jerk.

Mate, I suggest you try being a bad boy for one year.

Not only would you find life more fulfilling, more rewarding and DEFINITELY less stressful that way, you will find a girl that knows your value and her current life would fit perfectly into your plans for the future (because she would work hard to make it fit).

https://www.nairaland.com/1127016/alpha-male-vs-nice-guy/7#13932900

Ihedinobi: Use it for what na? The only purpose it can serve is one good guys don't care for? Meaningless or "casual" sex means very little to me so what would I be doing with the inadequate quality?

Ah, okay o!

I am definitely not such a good guy then.

Ihedinobi: ...For the right quality to arrive

Use the inadequate quality until the right quality is produced for you.

[quote author=winnie.mark1]I don't believe in this phrase "its in their blood" or d sentence "men r born polygamous" et al! I think it was adopted cos of their chronic infidelity not really cos they were really born dat way! I think they use those stupid phrases and sentences to justify their he-goatism =)) (if english will permit dat word)[/quote]Errr ...........get your facts right!

https://www.nairaland.com/492527/fight-equality-ruining-marriages/14#6545768 (See the bottom half)

It is biology, baby.

1. Good guy
A male who despite being caring and respectful to his female friends and acquaintances will never become anything more than "just a friend" to them. These guys will often pay attention and offer advice to their attractive female friends problems about their arrogant, douche-bag boyfriend only to see her dump that Naughty Person and end up with someone even worse than him. This is because the majority of women, especially in their teenage years want to find muscular, good-looking, fashion conscious, pricks with enough confidence to diminish their insecurities enough so they can sleep at night without cutting themselves or consulting bulimia. Unfortunately this leaves the good guy in the shade, despite him being a better person, and being ten times the man her boyfriend is. Usually when girls say they want a "nice guy" he's usually some pantload with a foreign accent and a weird hairstyle. Luckily not all girls are like this and when the good guy finds these girls, he'll realize good things come to those who wait.

I wanted to say "Fcking Hell! Is there a clone of me that wrote the definition of a Good Guy in the Urban Dictionary" until I saw the bolded.

Wait ko, Kate ni!

If you have a brain, you will be bad for a while while you are young and be good when you get older.

Best of both worlds, a win is always there for you and you will not waste your life 'waiting' like a pure mugu.

Wait for wetin? .........For the goods to be offered to you when it has already expired, is stale or rapidly depreciating in value?

Idowuogbo: Forget which phone? Big boy kini? Earn which yeye bragging rite? Omo make una liv talk joor!

Maga Animashawun aka Mugunyemi,collect ur phone ooo! U mustu collect am! If u no need d phone, sell am con use d money buy ya mama o jabo ko fo bulletproof lomo. U dey hia me so?

s3nn2x:
This what Olamide called Stupid Love.

For goodness sake, why will you buy a Bold 5 for a girl and you are using Nokia Touchlight.

The story does not follow! No be the Op write 2go love again?

Anyway, good luck trying to collect your phone after service tomorrow, because it is not going to happen, except you are ready to create a scene.

But seriously, the phone was a gift na, why will you even collect it? It is so child like.

#following

I really want to know the end of this story



But this your story sha....
That girl na correct runz girl...

Many Naija men are mugufied!

This is one of the guys indoctrinated that a real man would give his world to make a girl happy.

Even if I was to buy an item for a girl, apart from not buying something I cannot afford, there is no way in hell I would give a girl an item that is better than what I am using.

Awon ota ebi mi por ni Sagamu, but epe ti won she fun mi o le to be yen! (There are many enemies of my family in Sagamu, but the curse they placed on my head is not that powerful!)

koonbey: Break up with who? No be Person wey get Girlfriend dey breakup? You,my Friend;are very single

Your head correct!

When I read the title before even reading the OP's post, I smirked to myself that "Ah! A guy that thinks he has a girlfriend".

Simply fcking great bodies.

Literally and metaphorically.

Examples of the complete fucktards that run things in Nigeria.

You are broke to pay people their salary for months but you are wasting money sending NFF members to go and watch a football match in Ethiopia?

Fucktards!

It is only fucktards in places like Nigeria you will see where football officials decide to go and sit on the bench with coaching staff.

See 2.38 and 8.35 here:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WPU-8LIi9Q

gerald09: U Notice that each time the government finds ghost workers nobody seems to get probed for it, the money being "saved" by the government who has been eating it? Or was it actually going to the "ghost workers" in dere graves. Dis is not fighting corruption dis is just patching 1 loop hole just to open another. Some1 has to go to jail!!!

EXACTLY!

When you have a person like Jonathan ruling the country, then obviously they would not see the need to find and arrest those who were stealing the money.

gothrones: ^
But how is that our problem? We need to respect other people's private space, as long as they are hurting no one. Why do you want them cured? Shouldn't they live their lives as they please? As an atheist, I believe that a lot of religious folks are insane, but you don't see me advocating for a "cure."

You are free to do whatever you like in private. But once you bring what you do in private to the public expect public opinion and potentially public enforcement.

gothrones: ^
Probably because I am an American; the concept of private space need not be explained. I will never understand why others are so incensed with a phenomenon that doesn't affect them whatsoever. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean it should be abolished. At the very worst, the gays are hurting themselves, not me. How is that my problem?

What do you mean that it does not affect you?

Honestly that is a useless argument that has been used and many have fallen for because they lack the ability to query a proposition's logic.

gothrones: I wasn't arguing about homosexual conducts. There is nothing we can do to stop that. Unless of course, we are in the part of the world where it is criminalized. I meant same-sex marriage. If straight people have the right to marry, then since one cannot discriminate based on sèxual orientation, then the gays must also be able to wed. Even your resident country has passed gay rights. Give Nigeria another 500 years, and it will be legal. You know say we like follow follow.

Of course, all I have said absolutely do not apply in non-Western countries. I am not a fool. I will not go to Nigeria and argue about gay marriage, nor will I engage in a debate with members of my deeply religious family about legalizing gay marriage. I only share my real views with people who don't know me and I know will not kill me for having these views.

Fck any country that has legalised it.

The foolish and gullible people have been deceived gradually just like our own gullibles are being deceived that "how does it affect you what people do in private". Most people in the UK and US did not bargain for this, they were deceived into inaction:

https://www.nairaland.com/134573/californias-top-court-legalizes-gay#2269021

So, of course, there is nothing they can do to stop things like homosexual marriage in this country. Let them legalise it all because the people were gullible fucktards.

If it is legal, expect all you can see in your society related to normal and natural relationships to be seen with homosexual relationships and there is nothing the people's daft arsse can do about it.

Legalise homosexual marriage, IVF for homosexuals, homosexuality in school curriculum, homosexual sex on TV, force churches and mosque to carry out homosexual marriage ceremonies or face being sued.

If you are moronic enough to say nothing is wrong with it, then you should be willing to accept all the shyt that comes with its "freedom" and "equality" you agreed with.

500 years in Nigeria? I don't give too much fck what happens then.

Obi1kenobi: Rapists and paedos are harmful criminals who violate "victims". Being gay may be deviant but I'm not sure victimless deviancy should be demonized as criminals. I see them the same way as I see non-violent drug addicts. Deviants, who may or may not be beyond help, not criminals.

I never said they should be demonised as criminal. Their acts should be what is criminalised.

Just like drug addicts' acts are criminalised.

I am still waiting for you to explain to me how lewd sex acts affects minors.

Obi1kenobi: If you can't distinguish between gay people and rapists and paedophiles, I can't be bothered really.

Two are deviant and something is wrong upstairs that needs to be addressed.

A rapist is wicked and a criminal.

Obi1kenobi: It doesn't. It affects others, including minors. You really are one nasty piece of work, aren't you? Any particular reason you visit public forums just to become an agitated mess?

Explain to me, how it affects minors.

Obi1kenobi: So, who should fight for the rights of children if whatever happens to them doesn't affect adults. So if they're subjected to physical or sexual abuse, adults should turn a blind eye? Again, this is no argument about the constitutional and legal acceptance of public lewdness, paedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia, incest etc. They're red herrings that are ALWAYS brought up in these convoluted, long-winded arguments and are irrelevant to the individual merits of the case I'm making for gay tolerance. I have my opinions on each of those and I don't have to write essays on all of them everytime I take on an argument on gay tolerance on it's own merits.

Mooron, explain to me how public lewdness affects your rights? I want your opinion in brief, no need to write an essay.

dasparrow: You people should give this topic a rest. I am not here to advocate for homosexuality because as a bible believing christian, my bible speaks against homosexuality. However, Nigeria is the least country that should speak about public morality. There is nothing moral about the average Nigerian. Many of you worry about what two consenting adults are doing in the privacy of their homes yet many of you are paedophiles who defile the bodies of young female children and mess them up psychologically for life. To me that is worse than what two consenting adults are doing in the privacy of their bedroom.

There is no week that goes by that we don't hear about yet another Nigerian pervert - home or abroad - who has sex.ually molested a young female child or yet another gang r8pe. Why are you people not speaking out viciously against these acts like you speak out against homosexuality? I really need to know. Could it be that it is because most Nigerian-bred men are guilty of child sex.ual molestation, r8pe and other forms of sex.ual harassment, that is why many of you choose to be quiet about it? What are you people doing about the lecturers in many Nigerian universities that have turned your adult daughters into ashawos demanding sex from them in exchange for grades?

Listen, you people should stop being hypocrites. May I remind you that those of you who are having sex with someone you are not legally married to do not stand a chance of making heaven. Funnily enough, that consists of most of you since the average Nigerian-bred male cannot keep his sex.ual urge in check. So don't for a minute think you are better than homosexuals in the eyes of God the Almighty. Keep that in mind.

So because there are paedophiles in Nigeria, we should accept homosexuality?

By accepting homosexuality, it would stop paedophiles?

What is the rubbish point you are making? Only faultless societies should have morals? The minute you have faults, drop all morals?

gothrones: Oga Sagamite, the problem is that the majority does not have the right to withhold or grant civil rights to a minority. You can't vote on others' rights. It is unconstitutional.

Homosexual conducts are not civil rights!

Civil rights are subjective.

Obi1kenobi: Utterly predictable degeneration to crudeness. Calling people disagreeing with you names really doesn't make you appear any more clever. Just makes you appear a juvenile, obnoxious brat. As for claiming people who disagree with you just regurgitate arguments they heard, I can only say if you're incapable of forming your own arguments, you don't have to ascribe the same deficiency to others.

Public lewdness even for heterosexuals is criminalized for reasons ranging from sexual exposure to minors to unsolicited sexual exposure and stimulation. I'm not here to debate it's merits - else, we could be here all day scrutinizing hundreds of laws and contradictions and precedents. The constitution, even in the most advanced democracies, is far from perfect and far from unanimous in public acceptance. Just stick to the one topic under discussion. Which is the effect gay people have on you and why you should get a vote on whether they can have legal unions.

You are a person!

So what does "sexual exposure to minors to unsolicited sexual exposure and stimulation" do to you?

Removes your eyes? Or gives you cancer?

How is that your business?

I thought you said if something does not harm you, it is not your business?

As I said, most of you moorons have no understanding of the concept of the fads you espouse. You just regurgitate the stuff you have heard and think that shows you have a brain.

Obi1kenobi: Nothing moronic about it. Not my fault you don't understand that not everything is up to popular vote in any system of government. People can't be getting to vote on what bears no direct relevance to them other than the fact it unhinges their precious sensibilities. If I live next door to a homosexual couple who have performed no public lewd acts or harrassed me in any way, whatever they get up to should be none of my business and I should get no say on it.

You are a person!

How does their public lewd act affect you apart from "unhinging your precious sensibilities"?

How is that your business?

As I said, most of you moorons have no understanding of the concept of the fads you espouse. You just regurgitate the stuff you have heard and think that shows you have a brain.

Obi1kenobi: Everything isn't put up to public vote even in the oldest, most advanced democracies. Else, slavery in the American South, pre-civil rights movement segregation in the US and apartheird enforcement among the white South Africans and tons of evils in world history would have lived a much longer life. Democracy doesn't have to hand tyrannical power to a dominant majority. It also protects the rights of oppressed minorities.

Not bothered what you think of my brains. If you're bigotted enough to believe everyone who defends the rights of gays has no brains, that's your problem.

What a moronic argument.

So in your democracy, you force the view of the minority on the majority that does not want it?

Most of you are too stewpid to understand the concept of the fads you espouse.

Obi1kenobi: They are RELATIVE trivialities.
I'll never end up running government cos:
1) it doesn't interest me.
2) people like me aren't in the government - or they're pitifully few. That's why the country is the rotten, decadent, corrupt mess it is while some obsess over who is doing it with who and what hole they're doing it in. Trivialities.

Something offends the vast majority of the population and you said it should be ignored as a triviality. You sure don't have a brain to do better than the moorons we have running the country.